Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by allandutch: 12:21pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
Shokoloko:
It's called experience. While I don't advocate for this life, these runs ladies have dated several men and gained experience of what men desire. So they are able to easily fill that role, unlike good girls who are new recruits and require training.
Most men are not ready to lead by example. They want a girl who gets married life things right the first time. No mistakes. And this can only be gotten through experience. Well said. |
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by andycom(m): 12:22pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
budaatum: Sounds like sour grapes to me. Someone is doing better than you by their wit and you are wailing instead of doing well yourself.
Hopefully, you'd consider doing well yourself instead of being jealous of someone else doing well.
You just opened your mouth waaaa and the only thing your brain could allow you type na this trash. You seriously have a problem with comprehension. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by Dalil8: 12:22pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
Op that marriage no fit last jare. Once an olosho, always an olosho.
Give it a few years and she'll be back to the streets where she belongs.
I don witness many. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by Nairalandmonika: 12:22pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
wpadmin: You remember that saying “You cannot eat your cake and have it”.
That’s not the case any longer.
Highway Ladies actually eat their cake and have it with icing sugar.
Like how else do you explain this?
A girl that is wayward in school getting married to a guy that is well to do and doesn’t look like someone that can cause trouble (not written on the face though).
This is not the first nor the 10th time I’m seeing this in 2021 alone.
When I say wayward I mean girls that are never in class, friday nights you can’t see them in the school hostels.
These girls are the most connected. They know influential people. After playing dirty in school, they still get married to great guys.
Meanwhile, a high percentage of girls that actually study hard in school stay longer without getting married.
But you see guys here saying they would go for brains over beauty. If that’s the case, then who are the ones marrying these ladies of the highway.
I am a non teaching staff in one of Nigeria’s Polytechnics. I finished from the school and got a programming job at the same school.
Due to my age and kind of Job, I meet a lot of students everyday; both male and female.
I know a runs girl when I see one.
They upload the same kinds of stuffs on their WhatsApp status. Dress the same way to school. Have the same attitude.
I don’t have issues with these people, but i am shocked with the choices men make when taking a life partner.
One of them got engaged today and my head became warm. The bros was just smiling as he was putting on the engagement ring. After some staffs I know have screwed and unscrewed this same lady.
Is it that guys don’t know what’s up or this is what they really want. No be yahoo boy dey Marry runs girl, they know quite alright what the girls do. It's just their way of life. I have seen a many times, yahoo boy orders for runs girl, they agree on price and told her to come over, the girl arrives, probably a pretty girl, he likes her, relationship don start like that. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by andycom(m): 12:23pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
budaatum: Sounds like sour grapes to me. Someone is doing better than you by their wit and you are wailing instead of doing well yourself.
Hopefully, you'd consider doing well yourself instead of being jealous of someone else doing well.
You just opened your mouth waaaa and the only thing your brain could allow you type na this trash. You seriously have a problem with comprehension |
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by TOPCRUISE(m): 12:24pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
A lot of girls that are notable cum depots marry, settle down or either associate with pastors of respected churches. Yet these pastors are the ones that condemn lifestyles of slay queens, and appreciate beauty with brains. But the excuse in their own involvement is; "he who is without sin should cast the first stone". ![embarassed](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/embarassed.png) 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by Refinedbeing(m): 12:26pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
VeeVeeMyLuv: Op u wan join them?
If u are still young and fresh like Erica, it is not too late.
Bankrolling celebrities (artist) is not bad only if a society have been able to meet the most basic needs being food, clothes and shelter of every single individual like is obtained in USA and some EU countries.
Not like Nigeria where a proper complete diet of 1 square meal is now exceedingly difficult to come by for members of the middle class. Not so, the world is the same bro, infrastructure is the dif. |
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by We4all: 12:26pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
Majority of our men give sex a priority. So, they settle for bad chicks cos they believe those types of girls are well experienced to give them what they want. 9 Likes |
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by paulsibility(m): 12:28pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
The right saying is..' You can have your cake and it'. Now back to the discussion. |
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by MIKOLOWISKA: 12:28pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
Sammmyyyy:
OP, that's just the sad reality of the life we live in. Good things, most times, do not come to good people. Serendipity is slippery; it goes more even to those who do not deserve it.
Life is a mystery, who can understand it? are you sure they don't deserve it? They did what the market wanted and got desired result. Sounds to me they got exactly what they deserved while others were doing what they THOUGHT the market wanted and got what they deserved. |
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by Powersurge: 12:29pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
budaatum: Sounds like sour grapes to me. Someone is doing better than you by their wit and you are wailing instead of doing well yourself.
Hopefully, you'd consider doing well yourself instead of being jealous of someone else doing well.
Too much children on this platform. No reasoning before typing. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by ednut1(m): 12:29pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
Some not all |
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by KingBosco(m): 12:29pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
Use Kayamata or you fit use juju
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Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 12:29pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
Refinedbeing: Not so, the world is the same bro, infrastructure is the dif. Lols ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) Are u sure about that? |
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by jeff1607(m): 12:29pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
wpadmin: You remember that saying “You cannot eat your cake and have it”.
That’s not the case any longer.
Highway Ladies actually eat their cake and have it with icing sugar.
Like how else do you explain this?
A girl that is wayward in school getting married to a guy that is well to do and doesn’t look like someone that can cause trouble (not written on the face though).
This is not the first nor the 10th time I’m seeing this in 2021 alone.
When I say wayward I mean girls that are never in class, friday nights you can’t see them in the school hostels.
These girls are the most connected. They know influential people. After playing dirty in school, they still get married to great guys.
Meanwhile, a high percentage of girls that actually study hard in school stay longer without getting married.
But you see guys here saying they would go for brains over beauty. If that’s the case, then who are the ones marrying these ladies of the highway.
I am a non teaching staff in one of Nigeria’s Polytechnics. I finished from the school and got a programming job at the same school.
Due to my age and kind of Job, I meet a lot of students everyday; both male and female.
I know a runs girl when I see one.
They upload the same kinds of stuffs on their WhatsApp status. Dress the same way to school. Have the same attitude.
I don’t have issues with these people, but i am shocked with the choices men make when taking a life partner.
One of them got engaged today and my head became warm. The bros was just smiling as he was putting on the engagement ring. After some staffs I know have screwed and unscrewed this same lady.
Is it that guys don’t know what’s up or this is what they really want. You only hear them get married, take 3 or more years the said ladies aren't happy or their homes are shambles. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by Tundelagos: 12:29pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
wpadmin: You remember that saying “You cannot eat your cake and have it”.
That’s not the case any longer.
Highway Ladies actually eat their cake and have it with icing sugar.
Like how else do you explain this?
A girl that is wayward in school getting married to a guy that is well to do and doesn’t look like someone that can cause trouble (not written on the face though).
This is not the first nor the 10th time I’m seeing this in 2021 alone.
When I say wayward I mean girls that are never in class, friday nights you can’t see them in the school hostels.
These girls are the most connected. They know influential people. After playing dirty in school, they still get married to great guys.
Meanwhile, a high percentage of girls that actually study hard in school stay longer without getting married.
But you see guys here saying they would go for brains over beauty. If that’s the case, then who are the ones marrying these ladies of the highway.
I am a non teaching staff in one of Nigeria’s Polytechnics. I finished from the school and got a programming job at the same school.
Due to my age and kind of Job, I meet a lot of students everyday; both male and female.
I know a runs girl when I see one.
They upload the same kinds of stuffs on their WhatsApp status. Dress the same way to school. Have the same attitude.
I don’t have issues with these people, but i am shocked with the choices men make when taking a life partner.
One of them got engaged today and my head became warm. The bros was just smiling as he was putting on the engagement ring. After some staffs I know have screwed and unscrewed this same lady.
Is it that guys don’t know what’s up or this is what they really want. you are just seeing engagements and a smiling face of the young man but trust me such unions don't last because she can never run away from her dark shadows , it will surely manifest. Yes I used to ask such questions but if you follow up and make it a case study which is not necessary it always end up badly . 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by streamsofjoy(f): 12:31pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
Marriage is not and has never been a reward. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by Sincinnati: 12:31pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
Kenneth4u205: Men want happiness in life. Most wayward girls are not pretenders. The show you their true colour.so you are 100% sure of what you walking into . While the non wayward ones pretend alot .you might start seeing a total stranger in her after marriage . unless she's a holy spirit born again lady .
My advice to non wayward girls: men desire happiness the most .you can make your man happy without being wayward .pet him ,play with him like kid, there should be no borring seconds .he will always find himself day dreaming about you and smiling to himself when ever you are not there .you can accomplish all this without even engaging in sex with him . because most ladies wrongly think that sex is the only thing that makes a man happy . If they try to accomplish that without sex, then some of these men will now start thinking that she's giving it to a wayward guy out there. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by Refinedbeing(m): 12:31pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
It's the good guys. They are mostly just after the beauty of a woman. Just for praises. The bad guys know just how terrible the bad gals are and never would they settle for them, they prefer the good brainy gals but these bad guys hardly settle down these days. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by simhosting: 12:32pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
I see |
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by Tundelagos: 12:33pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
Nairalandmonika:
No be yahoo boy dey Marry runs girl, they know quite alright what the girls do. It's just their way of life. I have seen a many times, yahoo boy orders for runs girl, they agree on price and told her to come over, the girl arrives, probably a pretty girl, he likes her, relationship don start like that. na fake |
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by faithfull18(f): 12:34pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
Reality is different from what happens online. Simply put. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by Refinedbeing(m): 12:35pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
VeeVeeMyLuv:
Lols ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) Are u sure about that? Yea bro. There are hungry and poor people all over the world. The numbers only vary. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by tiswell(m): 12:37pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
PrimadonnaO: It's only online that men wail. In real life, they're desperately chasing babes, and looking for the one that will stay. In real life, one babe is pressing their mumu button.
The difference between those babes you call wayward, and those "good" girls is that the former has more experience in relating with men. They know what to do to get what they want, how to press the buttons.
The "good" girls simply let things happen...
So when the men see the babes that are very amenable, willing to stay, and doing the things they like, they marry.
And, really, y'all need to understand that not everyone who got married, married right...or are happy in that marriage.
So all these talks about "bad" girls getting the best men, I don't know where y'all get that from. Do you live with them in their homes? ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png)
And this is what I know, too... most people ultimately end up with who they deserve. Like attracts like. It's not everything you see outwardly. likes do not attract, rather opposite does 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by Nobody: 12:37pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
wpadmin: You remember that saying “You cannot eat your cake and have it”.
That’s not the case any longer.
Highway Ladies actually eat their cake and have it with icing sugar.
Like how else do you explain this?
A girl that is wayward in school getting married to a guy that is well to do and doesn’t look like someone that can cause trouble (not written on the face though).
This is not the first nor the 10th time I’m seeing this in 2021 alone.
When I say wayward I mean girls that are never in class, friday nights you can’t see them in the school hostels.
These girls are the most connected. They know influential people. After playing dirty in school, they still get married to great guys.
Meanwhile, a high percentage of girls that actually study hard in school stay longer without getting married.
But you see guys here saying they would go for brains over beauty. If that’s the case, then who are the ones marrying these ladies of the highway.
I am a non teaching staff in one of Nigeria’s Polytechnics. I finished from the school and got a programming job at the same school.
Due to my age and kind of Job, I meet a lot of students everyday; both male and female.
I know a runs girl when I see one.
They upload the same kinds of stuffs on their WhatsApp status. Dress the same way to school. Have the same attitude.
I don’t have issues with these people, but i am shocked with the choices men make when taking a life partner.
One of them got engaged today and my head became warm. The bros was just smiling as he was putting on the engagement ring. After some staffs I know have screwed and unscrewed this same lady.
Is it that guys don’t know what’s up or this is what they really want. You're being a bad sport.. that's good for her. Focus on urself and leave them alone. Na only u want win ? So when as an older guy u will have a wife and two/four/five young gfs on the side, what would we call that ? Triple cake ? Baba pls allow the babes live � 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by Alexaonfleek: 12:38pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
Kenneth4u205: Men want happiness in life. Most wayward girls are not pretenders. The show you their true colour.so you are 100% sure of what you walking into . While the non wayward ones pretend alot .you might start seeing a total stranger in her after marriage . unless she's a holy spirit born again lady .
[s][/s]My advice to non wayward girls: men desire happiness the most .you can make your man happy without being wayward .pet him ,play with him like kid ,there should be no borring seconds .he will always find himself day dreaming about you and smiling to himself when ever you are not there .you can accomplish all this without even engaging in sex with him . because most ladies wrongly think that sex is the only thing that makes a man happy[s][/s] . some of una go just open mouth waaaaa E get any man wey dey date these days without sex |
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 12:38pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
Refinedbeing: Yea bro. There are hungry and poor people all over the world. The numbers only vary. okay totally agree But the numbers here are staggering |
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by dharmie135: 12:39pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
One rule of thumb don't date a girl that knows too many guys If you looking for relationship ![lipsrsealed](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/lipsrsealed.png) 9 Likes |
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by alizma: 12:39pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
wpadmin: You remember that saying “You cannot eat your cake and have it”.
That’s not the case any longer.
Highway Ladies actually eat their cake and have it with icing sugar.
Like how else do you explain this?
A girl that is wayward in school getting married to a guy that is well to do and doesn’t look like someone that can cause trouble (not written on the face though).
This is not the first nor the 10th time I’m seeing this in 2021 alone.
When I say wayward I mean girls that are never in class, friday nights you can’t see them in the school hostels.
These girls are the most connected. They know influential people. After playing dirty in school, they still get married to great guys.
Meanwhile, a high percentage of girls that actually study hard in school stay longer without getting married.
But you see guys here saying they would go for brains over beauty. If that’s the case, then who are the ones marrying these ladies of the highway.
I am a non teaching staff in one of Nigeria’s Polytechnics. I finished from the school and got a programming job at the same school.
Due to my age and kind of Job, I meet a lot of students everyday; both male and female.
I know a runs girl when I see one.
They upload the same kinds of stuffs on their WhatsApp status. Dress the same way to school. Have the same attitude.
I don’t have issues with these people, but i am shocked with the choices men make when taking a life partner.
One of them got engaged today and my head became warm. The bros was just smiling as he was putting on the engagement ring. After some staffs I know have screwed and unscrewed this same lady.
Is it that guys don’t know what’s up or this is what they really want. Beautiful or not, guys who are made need lifely girls who will not give them troubles, an understanding girl who is less and picky. The high way girls have seen it all, they know 80% of certain things that men will do whether you like it or not. e.g a good number of guys will hang out with friends after work, drink one or two bottles for the road etc. But most of the good girls you mentioned want men to come straight home after work, they don't want to hear that you take one bottle out there, talk more of two. they want a man who work from Monday till Friday or even Saturday as the case may be to attend all the programs at church, attend house fellowship with them etc. The truth is that a lot of guys will prefer marriage with the first set of girls. 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by SimeonOTC(m): 12:39pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
PrimadonnaO: It's only online that men wail. In real life, they're desperately chasing babes, and looking for the one that will stay. In real life, one babe is pressing their mumu button.
The difference between those babes you call wayward, and those "good" girls is that the former has more experience in relating with men. They know what to do to get what they want, how to press the buttons.
The "good" girls simply let things happen...
So when the men see the babes that are very amenable, willing to stay, and doing the things they like, they marry.
And, really, y'all need to understand that not everyone who got married, married right...or are happy in that marriage.
So all these talks about "bad" girls getting the best men, I don't know where y'all get that from. Do you live with them in their homes? ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png)
And this is what I know, too... most people ultimately end up with who they deserve. Like attracts like. It's not everything you see outwardly. I like the way you comment from different point/view 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by rahztafari(m): 12:39pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
wpadmin: You remember that saying “You cannot eat your cake and have it”.
That’s not the case any longer.
Highway Ladies actually eat their cake and have it with icing sugar.
Like how else do you explain this?
A girl that is wayward in school getting married to a guy that is well to do and doesn’t look like someone that can cause trouble (not written on the face though).
This is not the first nor the 10th time I’m seeing this in 2021 alone.
When I say wayward I mean girls that are never in class, friday nights you can’t see them in the school hostels.
These girls are the most connected. They know influential people. After playing dirty in school, they still get married to great guys.
Meanwhile, a high percentage of girls that actually study hard in school stay longer without getting married.
But you see guys here saying they would go for brains over beauty. If that’s the case, then who are the ones marrying these ladies of the highway.
I am a non teaching staff in one of Nigeria’s Polytechnics. I finished from the school and got a programming job at the same school.
Due to my age and kind of Job, I meet a lot of students everyday; both male and female.
I know a runs girl when I see one.
They upload the same kinds of stuffs on their WhatsApp status. Dress the same way to school. Have the same attitude.
I don’t have issues with these people, but i am shocked with the choices men make when taking a life partner.
One of them got engaged today and my head became warm. The bros was just smiling as he was putting on the engagement ring. After some staffs I know have screwed and unscrewed this same lady.
Is it that guys don’t know what’s up or this is what they really want. Bro, I understand all you saying but life is not a movie Karma always catch up with everyone. Don't pray bad on bad people. Just do your thing and keep moving. You only saw a phase in someone's life but you don't know the whole story. You can't use a phase to judge someone. So stay happy for everyone 6 Likes |
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by dharmie135: 12:46pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
Refinedbeing: It's the good guys. They are mostly just after the beauty of a woman. Just for praises. The bad guys know just how terrible the bad gals are and never would they settle for them, they prefer the good brainy gals but these bad guys hardly settle down these days. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |