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Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by Asianjollof007: 1:38pm On Mar 29, 2021
budaatum:
Sounds like sour grapes to me. Someone is doing better than you by their wit and you are wailing instead of doing well yourself.

Hopefully, you'd consider doing well yourself instead of being jealous of someone else doing well.



What's diswan saying bayii.. Wa, sho ti fagbo ni?
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by Eastcoastboy(m): 1:38pm On Mar 29, 2021
habsydiamond:
Such is life oo oga mi..love is blind... It takes the grace of God for the blind to see... B4 such people see ehn e go don too late ooo... Maybe after she don already born dozens of pikins for him... I hail all the slay queens in the home una too much mehn...

cheesy cheesy I hope say you self no go fall mugu or maybe you don fall mugu.
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by UltraSphinx(m): 1:41pm On Mar 29, 2021
budaatum:


Can I not be however I want to be?

I mean, it's not as if you pay for my data nor am I your slave that you get to tell me how I must be, or am I?

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Na soo

even madness is a choice these days.
obviously, OP doesn't know that everyone seems to have an opinion on the internet these days, irrespective of the value such opinions being into the conversation.
***spits*

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Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by spencekat(m): 1:42pm On Mar 29, 2021
Topspring:
When I was in school, someone referred a lady to me to teach some courses.

I didn’t have the time so recommended another friend to her.

The person I recommended her to didn’t also have the time to teach anyone.

One day, the lady came to me and my friend and was asking us to create time to teach her. As we tried to tell her why we couldn’t, one of my friends just picked interest in her instantly.

Benita (not her real name) was fair, moderate ass and good looking. She also had this manipulative look. My friend fell for the good looks.

Unfortunately, my friend was not wise too. He is a smart person but he lacked wisdom.

This Babe show am shegey.

Benita had two other room mate and all of them were a bit close to me. One of her room mate was a talker, anything that happened in the relationship, she told me.

Imagine telling someone that you are dating that you do not drink pure water only bottled water meanwhile the said lady is broke as fu***.

My guy was supplying bottled water to his babe every week ni oo and they will laugh at him. The other room mate was telling me everything but I thought it was just a joke because she talked a lot until I heard it from my guy when he and Benita had issues.

How was wailing that anything she asked for he provided... you be God ni?

He taught her well till she graduated with an upper credit.

Benita proudly told her friends how she was the lady that dis-virgined him.

I stylishly told my guy but he won’t listen. The only time you could talk to him is when they had issues.

After you talk to him, he would settle with Benita and tell her everything you said.

Imagine this, some cult guys that lived close to these ladies called my guy because they knew him and told him that Benita was using him.

They told him somethings Benita told them about him. They told my guy.

You know what my friend did?

After he and Benita settled, he told her about somethings she said and Benita knew who told him.

Benita went to the cult guys and told them they fu***cked up. The cult guys just use style remove themselves from the equation and settled with her.

Since then she and the cult guys became accomplice.

Anytime my guy and Benita had issues, she will tell the cult guys to call my guy that her food stuffs had finished.

“Call me Daniel, my food stuffs have finished”

When she finally broke up with him, the cult guys told us the part they knew about.

My guy cursed with his whole heart.

In 2019, Benita got married to a Nigerian app developer in Dubai.

The amount spent on engagement alone can hold a nice wedding in Nigeria.

Where was Karma?
Karma dey select sometimes.

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Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by spencekat(m): 1:42pm On Mar 29, 2021
Swissheart:
Opposites attract tongue
Life is a mystery.

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Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by Shokoloko(f): 1:43pm On Mar 29, 2021
Verysmart101:

Who told u so? Sometimes the way u guys assume things surprises me.

I don't assume. I see. Women talk to each other. This is not an assumption.
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by spencekat(m): 1:43pm On Mar 29, 2021
orble:
[/b]God Girls Marries Bad Boys
Bad Girls Marries God Boys[b]

And repeat...

Trust me, those guys dont know the stuff those girls are made of. They dont care to ask around.
As someone said, those bad girls know how to press mumu button of good (stupid) guys, but wont try that on perpertual womannizers who know the inside out of every woman. What baffle me the most wayward girls know know to to make men loyal including top religious ones. They know to playout thier wit.
Sometime womanising helps. Its helps discover hidden good girls around us.
I grow up among many older young girls in the compound. I know what I am saying. Some of the wayward girls are abroad maried to white men who visited and work in our place.
Some runs girls are really smart. Even my uncle wife is one of them. But.. what can we do?
wpadmin or Wordpress Admin I hope you get it.
Not true.There is always an exception.
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by djon78(m): 1:45pm On Mar 29, 2021
chinchonglee:
This statement is fallacy of hasty generalisation!
You are not in the marriage with them,. You dnt know what the marriage is passing through.. u are jst concluding based on mere pictures/social where everyone pretends to be happy....

Have u reasoned the case of tonto dike vs olakunle churchill
Nigerian needs to be real in their dealings... Not because of social media pics you generalise they are happy...
My brother too is wealthy got married to a somehow retired olosho. He literally calls home everyday crying... The divorce process is still delaying cos the girl and her family are still begging..

Do you also know the rate of known paternity scams in the country An olosho(at least 90%) never retires, they end ip fvcking out and getting pregnant for their outside lovers right under their rich husbands roof and trust me those rich husbands do DNA test in secret. Come to SYNLAB in lekki and see for yourself...

Nobody woman will tell you are marriage is crashing hence we judge marriage based on social media pictures where everyone is faking smile... Face fact bro, ur statement is fallacy of hasty generalisation.
cool


Also reason the case of fani kayode vs snowwhite!



Exactly
Oloshos rarely retire
They still do coded runs while married
That's why they prefer marrying unexposed men
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by budaatum: 1:45pm On Mar 29, 2021
UltraSphinx:


Na soo

even madness is a choice these days.
obviously, OP doesn't know that everyone seems to have an opinion on the internet these days, irrespective of the value such opinions being into the conversation.
***spits*

Not everyone is born of Aten.
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by Eastcoastboy(m): 1:46pm On Mar 29, 2021
PrimadonnaO:
It's only online that men wail. In real life, they're desperately chasing babes, and looking for the one that will stay. In real life, one babe is pressing their mumu button.

The difference between those babes you call wayward, and those "good" girls is that the former has more experience in relating with men. They know what to do to get what they want, how to press the buttons.

The "good" girls simply let things happen...

So when the men see the babes that are very amenable, willing to stay, and doing the things they like, they marry.

And, really, y'all need to understand that not everyone who got married, married right...or are happy in that marriage.

So all these talks about "bad" girls getting the best men, I don't know where y'all get that from. Do you live with them in their homes? undecided

And this is what I know, too... most people ultimately end up with who they deserve. Like attracts like. It's not everything you see outwardly.

Karma is on exile cheesy cheesy
A friend usually tells me that "A gentleman is a cheated man." Sorry for your friend. O ye! Kings be wise you're the price. Don't sell your birth right for some piece of cunt.

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Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by membranus: 1:47pm On Mar 29, 2021
purples25:
But who are you to determine who deserves what? You have a high opinion of yourself.

A highway baby sighted.

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Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by UltraSphinx(m): 1:50pm On Mar 29, 2021
Topspring:
.

After you talk to him, he would settle with Benita and tell her everything you said.

This is what scares me the most whenever I think about settling issues between so called "lovers".
An activated Mumu button is hard to erase grin

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Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by buzorcharles(m): 1:51pm On Mar 29, 2021
budaatum:
Sounds like sour grapes to me. Someone is doing better than you by their wit and you are wailing instead of doing well yourself.

Hopefully, you'd consider doing well yourself instead of being jealous of someone else doing well.



and OLOSHO Speaks
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by Eastcoastboy(m): 1:51pm On Mar 29, 2021
chinchonglee:
This statement is fallacy of hasty generalisation!
You are not in the marriage with them,. You dnt know what the marriage is passing through.. u are jst concluding based on mere pictures/social where everyone pretends to be happy....

Have u reasoned the case of tonto dike vs olakunle churchill
Nigerian needs to be real in their dealings... Not because of social media pics you generalise they are happy...
My brother too is wealthy got married to a somehow retired olosho. He literally calls home everyday crying... The divorce process is still delaying cos the girl and her family are still begging..

Do you also know the rate of known paternity scams in the country An olosho(at least 90%) never retires, they end ip fvcking out and getting pregnant for their outside lovers right under their rich husbands roof and trust me those rich husbands do DNA test in secret. Come to SYNLAB in lekki and see for yourself...

Nobody woman will tell you are marriage is crashing hence we judge marriage based on social media pictures where everyone is faking smile... Face fact bro, ur statement is fallacy of hasty generalisation.
cool


Also reason the case of fani kayode vs snowwhite!

Which side are you?
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by djon78(m): 1:51pm On Mar 29, 2021
wpadmin:


They just got engaged so I wasn't talking about how their married life is.

The thing is why do men have such taste in the first place.

Marriage alone is a responsibility.

Why give yourself an unnecessary headache?

On your wedding day, people wey don bang your wife go come spray both of una money and both of you will be dancing. lipsrsealed

This majorly happens to unexposed men who don't know the ways of women

But guys that knows the way of women
Carefully search and end up with wife's material ladies

But the irony is that many of those ones that end up with good women will still be playing the field even after marriage

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Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by budaatum: 1:51pm On Mar 29, 2021
buzorcharles:


and OLOSHO Speaks

And poor you wails.
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by buzorcharles(m): 1:53pm On Mar 29, 2021
budaatum:


And poor you wails.

PR OLOSHO GROUPS
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by kyrianken(m): 1:55pm On Mar 29, 2021
@Poster it is not about getting married or acquiring stuff only, how about truly been happily married. Lot of folks lack peace at home forget pictures they paint for us (when you get close, u will grasp better).
As much as our society seems to celebrate riches or some achievement irrespective of how it came, truth remains the best way remains the right way.
God no go shame us

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Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by budaatum: 1:55pm On Mar 29, 2021
buzorcharles:


PR OLOSHO GROUPS

You are hired. Just do a good job please, as I will not pay you for shoddy work.

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Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by spencekat(m): 1:56pm On Mar 29, 2021
tiswell:
likes do not attract, rather opposite does
In human existence, it is not always like that.
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by membranus: 1:56pm On Mar 29, 2021
Topspring:
When I was in school, someone referred a lady to me to teach some courses.

I didn’t have the time so recommended another friend to her.

The person I recommended her to didn’t also have the time to teach anyone.

One day, the lady came to me and my friend and was asking us to create time to teach her. As we tried to tell her why we couldn’t, one of my friends just picked interest in her instantly.

Benita (not her real name) was fair, moderate ass and good looking. She also had this manipulative look. My friend fell for the good looks.

Unfortunately, my friend was not wise too. He is a smart person but he lacked wisdom.

This Babe show am shegey.

Benita had two other room mate and all of them were a bit close to me. One of her room mate was a talker, anything that happened in the relationship, she told me.

Imagine telling someone that you are dating that you do not drink pure water only bottled water meanwhile the said lady is broke as fu***.

My guy was supplying bottled water to his babe every week ni oo and they will laugh at him. The other room mate was telling me everything but I thought it was just a joke because she talked a lot until I heard it from my guy when he and Benita had issues.

How was wailing that anything she asked for he provided... you be God ni?

He taught her well till she graduated with an upper credit.

Benita proudly told her friends how she was the lady that dis-virgined him.

I stylishly told my guy but he won’t listen. The only time you could talk to him is when they had issues.

After you talk to him, he would settle with Benita and tell her everything you said.

Imagine this, some cult guys that lived close to these ladies called my guy because they knew him and told him that Benita was using him.

They told him somethings Benita told them about him. They told my guy.

You know what my friend did?

After he and Benita settled, he told her about somethings she said and Benita knew who told him.

Benita went to the cult guys and told them they fu***cked up. The cult guys just use style remove themselves from the equation and settled with her.

Since then she and the cult guys became accomplice.

Anytime my guy and Benita had issues, she will tell the cult guys to call my guy that her food stuffs had finished.

“Call me Daniel, my food stuffs have finished”

When she finally broke up with him, the cult guys told us the part they knew about.

My guy cursed with his whole heart.

In 2019, Benita got married to a Nigerian app developer in Dubai.

The amount spent on engagement alone can hold a nice wedding in Nigeria.

Where was Karma?

Karma is still sleeping.

When he wakes up he will serve her the due recompense.
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by Akuruoulo(m): 2:01pm On Mar 29, 2021
budaatum:


Can I not be however I want to be?

I mean, it's not as if you pay for my data nor am I your slave that you get to tell me how I must be, or am I?

www.nairaland.com/attachments/11334164_notablestrongwoman7_jpeg6a2e8ee6cdb91b11ee5138aad8838ff0

SELFISH WOMAN'S QUOTE, AND NT A STRONG WOMANS QUOTE.
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by Akuruoulo(m): 2:02pm On Mar 29, 2021
SUCKCESSFUL:
That's because most Nigerian men are hypocrites.
They'll tell you they want a well-behaved lady whereas they crave for cardi b type of girls.
Ur namf must be brainy
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by pussyphilia(m): 2:03pm On Mar 29, 2021
The is because most men are pretenders.
Men are sexual beings and crave sex every time.

A man would be condemning a wayward girl just to appear decent in the eyes of the hypocritical judgemental public, but deep down he is yearning for that same girl. Men prefer those kind of girls because they know how to handle men sexually.

Men want girls who would drag them to the bedroom every now and then to fuckkk them without being shy or naive.

A man want a girl who would initiate the sex, kiss them and touch them romantically without shyness.

Cut the long story short, the mind of an average man craves women who are sexually dominant and open. They may not accept this when asked, but na the koko be that.

Those wayward girls understand this fact and take advantage of it.

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Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by Akuruoulo(m): 2:03pm On Mar 29, 2021
gfon:
still read this statement again,does it make sense to you?
U be shawcross ? Must u gve am injury ?
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by Stellaify1: 2:12pm On Mar 29, 2021
I've actually asked this same question too this seems to be the reality then in school I almost said to hell with bin a good girl
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by budaatum: 2:13pm On Mar 29, 2021
Akuruoulo:
SELFISH WOMAN'S QUOTE, AND NT A STRONG WOMANS QUOTE.

Selfish is to be free from control? Interesting. I wonder if you'd say the same about a running away slave?

"Hey, slave! You are selfish and not strong for running away from captivity".

Does that sound about right to you?

Tell me you would rather be enslaved in the Garden of Eden Adam instead of Very Wise Use the Senses Scientist Eve who plucked and ate the fruit of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil to test if it is true that on the day that she eats it she will surely die, and finding it was good for gaining wisdom, her eyes opened, she invented clothes, she and her stupid Adam became free and self employed and they both lived for 900 or so years and populated the earth with people you and some others who are now on the way to far away Mars. At least according to scripture.

Some will after all rather be slaves.
Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by chinchonglee(m): 2:21pm On Mar 29, 2021
Eastcoastboy:


Which side are you?
He said women eat their cake and have it because most of them hoe around in school and end up marrying a wealthy husband...

I was try to explain to him how much of a fallacy his statement is.

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Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by chinchonglee(m): 2:25pm On Mar 29, 2021
Oyiboman69:
he's not talking about the condition of the marriage...it is the ratio of bad girls to good men he's talking about....
It has everything to do with the condition of the marriage.

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