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Re: I Lost My Boyfriend And It Was All My Fault by Dukeolumidemans(m): 7:38pm On Mar 30, 2021
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Re: I Lost My Boyfriend And It Was All My Fault by b3llo(m): 7:38pm On Mar 30, 2021
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Re: I Lost My Boyfriend And It Was All My Fault by ipobarecriminals: 7:38pm On Mar 30, 2021
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Re: I Lost My Boyfriend And It Was All My Fault by SmartyPants(m): 7:39pm On Mar 30, 2021
NiRfreak:
And what are we suppose to do

Read and enjoy the tale

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Re: I Lost My Boyfriend And It Was All My Fault by Nobody: 7:40pm On Mar 30, 2021
angry

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Re: I Lost My Boyfriend And It Was All My Fault by NwaIgboBoy(m): 7:40pm On Mar 30, 2021
dont just worry he will come back , cuz if he remembers how u make him cum, trust me he will ask you out again.

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Re: I Lost My Boyfriend And It Was All My Fault by Weedhustler: 7:40pm On Mar 30, 2021
Girls r only gud for fucking....that's why I don't take dem serious!

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Re: I Lost My Boyfriend And It Was All My Fault by kingsleefolli(m): 7:40pm On Mar 30, 2021
My data is not meant for all this trash story.oga moderator.if she lost one post your number,many are waiting.

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Re: I Lost My Boyfriend And It Was All My Fault by BaeMercy(f): 7:41pm On Mar 30, 2021
Maybe if you had told Paul the truth about the money he could had help you raise it
According to you he is an understanding guy

The problem is you, for thinking the other guys really loved you
Sending a guy your nude? what for?
Never make such mistake again


Secondly, The other guy didn't give you the money and care he promised because you were so desperate so he took that advantage to brainwash you

Be very careful

Don't do anything for money

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Re: I Lost My Boyfriend And It Was All My Fault by firstratedcitiz(m): 7:42pm On Mar 30, 2021
People should learn to keep their issues to themselves and stop bothering us with their private matters.

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Re: I Lost My Boyfriend And It Was All My Fault by Lomprico2: 7:42pm On Mar 30, 2021
You hoeism level is very high.

let the poor guy go, you dont deserve him.

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Re: I Lost My Boyfriend And It Was All My Fault by EmmaxKeys: 7:42pm On Mar 30, 2021
This post is unreal. Mere fanciful thinking. But good job, op.

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Re: I Lost My Boyfriend And It Was All My Fault by bluefilm: 7:42pm On Mar 30, 2021
BigCabal:
[b][s]How we met[/b]It took me three years to get admission into the university. During that time, I was attending a tutorial in Ibadan, and that is how I met Paul, a friend of my friend. My friend introduced us and we got really close. After talking for a while, I discovered I like him. The feelings were mutual, so we started dating on my birthday, November 7th. I had just clocked 18, he was 17, and I wasn’t looking for a relationship then, but I just knew I couldn’t let Paul go away.The thing is; I have suffered emotional abuse and have been depressed for a while now. I have been molested twice, and I couldn’t even tell my own mother because she was always so harsh towards me. It got so bad that I even had to leave home to stay with my aunt. I had attempted suicide twice, and I have a lot of insecurities. Paul was there for me anytime I needed someone to talk to. He loved me and I always wondered why. He knows all my flaws, but I still could not understand why he loves me so much.[b]The first mistake[/b]It was the best relationship I ever had. He was understanding, helped with my depression and academics. We never had serious fights, just a few misunderstandings over little things. Everything was going good for a year until I met some guy on Facebook, John. John and I started talking, and the chats progressed to the point where he asked me to send him nudes. I sent some with my face hidden because I was so sure I would never see him in real life. He lived in Lagos, I lived in Ibadan, and I didn’t plan on sleeping with him. Unfortunately for me, he attended the same secondary school as Paul. One day, John posted my picture on his WhatsApp status, and Paul saw it. Paul asked how he knew me, and John told him everything. Paul forgave me, but I knew he was hurt.[b]The second mistake[/b]In 2019, I finally got admission into University, but I somehow got scammed of my acceptance fee. I couldn’t tell my parents or Paul because I felt so stupid. Instead, lied to him that my parents couldn’t pay the acceptance fee, I couldn’t tell him the truth. Covid-19 came, so schools couldn’t resume and the deadline for payment was up. I was planning on running away cause of shame, so I wanted to break up with Paul. I was stressed. One day I went to see a friend, and I ended up drinking with him. We almost had sex, but I was on my period so it didn’t happen. I initially didn’t tell Paul about it, but I eventually told him about how I went drinking and how I almost cheated. He was disappointed but forgave me.[b]The third mistake[/b]The money for the initial acceptance fee was something I eventually raised, but because I was paying late, the price had increased. I was so desperate, and because my parents were having financial issues, I was ready to sleep with anyone for money for my school fees. Then, I met this guy who promised to take care of me, and I slept with him thinking he’ll help. I keep texting and sexting him so he would feel interested, but hasn’t said anything. This led to me breaking up with Paul. I told him it was because I needed time to be alone, but it was really because I couldn’t tell him I cheated on him.[b]The end[/b]Paul and I eventually got back together, but it was because he did not know I cheated. He found out after reading my chats, so he left. I tried explaining to him how I only did it because I was desperate, but he thought I chose the man over him.I feel bad and selfish about what I did. He deserved better than me, and I wish he listened when I told him before we started dating. This is just the kind of person I am. When I think of the fact that the person I slept with didn’t even give me any money, I feel I lost both ways.I will probably sink deeper into depression because I finally lost the only person that ever cared. Paul is a good person that didn’t deserve any of the things I put him through. If I say I love him, it’ll surely look like a lie because you don’t hurt those you love, but I love him. I should just have done better.https://www.zikoko.com/her/i-lost-my-boyfriend-and-it-was-all-my-fault/[/s]

Nothing much to read here.

Just another one of all these made up nonsense stories that are found on zikoko.

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Re: I Lost My Boyfriend And It Was All My Fault by Kelvinhunta: 7:43pm On Mar 30, 2021
I was thinking she is an upcoming olosho but after rereading this, I can certify that she is a professional olosho
Elliot2:
Circumstances help unvail our real colors. My dear, na olosho u be.

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Re: I Lost My Boyfriend And It Was All My Fault by madukka(m): 7:44pm On Mar 30, 2021
but you did a big mistake of cheating the only one you love, well you are
nw knows as a kidnapper-

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Re: I Lost My Boyfriend And It Was All My Fault by AK481(m): 7:45pm On Mar 30, 2021
BigCabal:
How we met
It took me three years to get admission into the university. During that time, I was attending a tutorial in Ibadan, and that is how I met Paul, a friend of my friend. My friend introduced us and we got really close. After talking for a while, I discovered I like him. The feelings were mutual, so we started dating on my birthday, November 7th. I had just clocked 18, he was 17, and I wasn’t looking for a relationship then, but I just knew I couldn’t let Paul go away.

The thing is; I have suffered emotional abuse and have been depressed for a while now. I have been molested twice, and I couldn’t even tell my own mother because she was always so harsh towards me. It got so bad that I even had to leave home to stay with my aunt. I had attempted suicide twice, and I have a lot of insecurities. Paul was there for me anytime I needed someone to talk to. He loved me and I always wondered why. He knows all my flaws, but I still could not understand why he loves me so much.

The first mistake
It was the best relationship I ever had. He was understanding, helped with my depression and academics. We never had serious fights, just a few misunderstandings over little things. Everything was going good for a year until I met some guy on Facebook, John. John and I started talking, and the chats progressed to the point where he asked me to send him nudes. I sent some with my face hidden because I was so sure I would never see him in real life. He lived in Lagos, I lived in Ibadan, and I didn’t plan on sleeping with him. Unfortunately for me, he attended the same secondary school as Paul. One day, John posted my picture on his WhatsApp status, and Paul saw it. Paul asked how he knew me, and John told him everything. Paul forgave me, but I knew he was hurt.

The second mistake
In 2019, I finally got admission into University, but I somehow got scammed of my acceptance fee. I couldn’t tell my parents or Paul because I felt so stupid. Instead, lied to him that my parents couldn’t pay the acceptance fee, I couldn’t tell him the truth. Covid-19 came, so schools couldn’t resume and the deadline for payment was up. I was planning on running away cause of shame, so I wanted to break up with Paul. I was stressed. One day I went to see a friend, and I ended up drinking with him. We almost had sex, but I was on my period so it didn’t happen. I initially didn’t tell Paul about it, but I eventually told him about how I went drinking and how I almost cheated. He was disappointed but forgave me.

The third mistake
The money for the initial acceptance fee was something I eventually raised, but because I was paying late, the price had increased. I was so desperate, and because my parents were having financial issues, I was ready to sleep with anyone for money for my school fees. Then, I met this guy who promised to take care of me, and I slept with him thinking he’ll help. I keep texting and sexting him so he would feel interested, but hasn’t said anything. This led to me breaking up with Paul. I told him it was because I needed time to be alone, but it was really because I couldn’t tell him I cheated on him.

The end
Paul and I eventually got back together, but it was because he did not know I cheated. He found out after reading my chats, so he left. I tried explaining to him how I only did it because I was desperate, but he thought I chose the man over him.

I feel bad and selfish about what I did. He deserved better than me, and I wish he listened when I told him before we started dating. This is just the kind of person I am. When I think of the fact that the person I slept with didn’t even give me any money, I feel I lost both ways.

I will probably sink deeper into depression because I finally lost the only person that ever cared. Paul is a good person that didn’t deserve any of the things I put him through. If I say I love him, it’ll surely look like a lie because you don’t hurt those you love, but I love him. I should just have done better.

https://www.zikoko.com/her/i-lost-my-boyfriend-and-it-was-all-my-fault/
You met Paul, met John , I guess the guy you had sex with should be Peter or James .

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Re: I Lost My Boyfriend And It Was All My Fault by Mykelhendriz: 7:46pm On Mar 30, 2021
A hoe will always be a hoe

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Re: I Lost My Boyfriend And It Was All My Fault by tit(f): 7:46pm On Mar 30, 2021
Sorry ooo
Re: I Lost My Boyfriend And It Was All My Fault by osazsky(m): 7:47pm On Mar 30, 2021
Pls tzzor did u change ur monika.na only u fit live this kind life..a hole will always remain a hole.even if u put the hole in an air conditioner. Heat must surely come every 4 hrs then the hole starts jumping looking for satisfaction.the future is female

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Re: I Lost My Boyfriend And It Was All My Fault by legba1(m): 7:47pm On Mar 30, 2021
Elliot2:
Circumstances help unvail our real colors. My dear, na olosho u be.

SAVAGERY IS IN YOUR Blood, brother. Are you tiwas brother?

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Re: I Lost My Boyfriend And It Was All My Fault by jaxxy(m): 7:47pm On Mar 30, 2021
U made stupid mistakes bt they are correctable. Don’t get depressed rather work on urself to be a better person and partner.

Learn from ur experience.
Re: I Lost My Boyfriend And It Was All My Fault by Omoluabiii(m): 7:47pm On Mar 30, 2021
Why do i feel that the whole thing was all drafted up by a good writer?

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Re: I Lost My Boyfriend And It Was All My Fault by sunnytitilayi: 7:48pm On Mar 30, 2021
Great
Re: I Lost My Boyfriend And It Was All My Fault by Nobody: 7:49pm On Mar 30, 2021
NiRfreak:
And what are we suppose to do
Try and help her with the acceptance fee na. She really needs it now that Paul has gone. And she will include you in the next episode if you come through for her because she seems to be a good girl.
Re: I Lost My Boyfriend And It Was All My Fault by osazsky(m): 7:49pm On Mar 30, 2021
So u slept with john and paul and yet u still went after barnabas that outsmart u..bananas was smart..u dont need to pay for these kind of girls..deceive them and move on..the future is female.banabas I remove my cap o bad guy

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Re: I Lost My Boyfriend And It Was All My Fault by NiRfreak(m): 7:50pm On Mar 30, 2021
PenName55:

Try and help her with the acceptance fee na. She really needs it now that Paul has gone. And she will include you in the next episode if you come through for her because she seems to be a good girl.

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Re: I Lost My Boyfriend And It Was All My Fault by Nobody: 7:50pm On Mar 30, 2021
Omoluabiii:
Why do i feel that the whole thing was all drafted up by a good writer?

Chapter two will be more interesting. He or she must be taking a short break for the next episode.
Re: I Lost My Boyfriend And It Was All My Fault by froshdhayveed(m): 7:51pm On Mar 30, 2021
Elliot2:
Circumstances help unvail our real colors. My dear, na olosho u be.
gbam! u talk Watin dey my mind

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Re: I Lost My Boyfriend And It Was All My Fault by cuber86: 7:51pm On Mar 30, 2021
Elliot2:
Circumstances help unvail our real colors. My dear, na olosho u be.

grin grin grin
Re: I Lost My Boyfriend And It Was All My Fault by Nobody: 7:55pm On Mar 30, 2021
osazsky:
So u slept with john and paul and yet u still went after barnabas that outsmart u..bananas was smart..u dont need to pay for these kind of girls..deceive them and move on..the future is female.banabas I remove my cap o bad guy

She forgot to mention Peter who came after she left Banabas. Peter was a very cool headed guy. Tall and very articulate. His father was the one who eventually promised to pay the acceptance fee, only if she remains faithful this time around.

Will she?

We will know in the next episode.

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