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Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by Lostchild(m): 3:48pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
My married and single brothers of Nairaland. I was wondering if I should share this on romance or family section. What I am about to write here has nothing to do with race, black or white, and I may look weird but I just want to see your opinion over my insanity. Even my own mother marvel at me sometimes and she keep wondering what type of person she gave birth to. About me I am a chronic introvert and everyday I need alone time to stay healthy. I am lover of peace and I can only dwell in a place where there is peace and harmony. I just can't underatand why people quarrel and fight. I prefare dialogue to do what is right and just. I am financially OK I am old enough to get married but I have too many problem with my personality that is preventing me from falling in love with any Nigerian woman. I have dated pretty and hotties, but I always see that Nigeria women cannot handle me at all. I feel so depressed as I strongly feel that I have a western soul since child-hood and I feel so alone and completely LOST. MY PROBLEM No (1) I need a woman with a complete western (mindset) mentality I need a woman who will watch western movies with me. I need a woman who love western music, rock, pops, acoustic, country and hip hop. I love nature - and I like to expand my horizon but most Nigeria women don't even know what nature Is. PROBLEM No (2) All the beautiful ladies and girls I see all around me, they are just too Nigerian or too traditional. I have travel to different cities and town and I still see the Nigeria genes in them. I cannot stand a woman that listen and dance over Nigeria music because Nigeria music are crazy, the music irritate me and always makes me feel so depressed. I cannot stand a woman that watch Nigeria movies because I feel very depressed over Nigeria juju movies. I cannot stand a woman that watches zee world as India culture is much more crazy with idolatry than Nigeria. I cannot stand a woman that has tribal mindset or always speak her native tongue. Anytime I see and find a lady/girl attractive, immediately I noticed she has tribal mentality, and can speak her native language apart from English. I will instantly loss interest in her because I see Nigeria language as the number one evil in Nigeria soil and I dont want this evil languages to be transfer into the life of my unborn children. MY PROBLEM No (3) I cannot trust today's women that has fvck too many dick I see marriage/wedding ceremony as useless. I see that the love many Nigeria women confess to men are fake. To the typical Nigeria woman, money comes as the first priority I have seen too many people divorce in marriage, there are just too many. I have seen genuine men of God even divorce and their wives became the devil in their life.(shocking) Me and all my childhood friends, our parent all went through bitter divorce and our parent hated each other. MY PLAN. I am planning to do baby mama plus. I mean, no wedding/marriage ceremony, no marriage certificate until she has proven her loyalty to me for many years. I am planning baby mama plus because I just can't trust a woman and marriage of today. I have this mindset that if I do baby mama plus, if she troubles me so much I can easily flee and left the house for her just to save my peace as I cannot stand conflict and heavy nagging women. If she get tired of me or she start cheating, I can easily move out of our conjugal relationship and still take care of our children. My western personality is really tomenting me with depression. Guys; What do you think? Brothers; Your opinion is highly welcome. EDIT. I was born in Delta and I cannot speak any native language apart from english. I have come to hate all the Nigeria languages because it brings so much problems and division. Like i said I love peace and harmony I have seen men who are heavily suffering emotionaly because they married the wrong women, this are one of my worries because any mistake in marriage cannot be corrected. It is not a sin for a person like me to desire to find someone like myself, a compatible lover and a friend. For me, a long lasting relationship is base on mutual compatibility. If I can even find a lady with half of my personality trait in her, I will even thank God, but I have not not met any of my personality type at all. Even in america, there are black women there and they mostly have many of the qualities I seek for in a woman. I am not concern with race or color, but I am more concern with culture and traditions. There is more harmony when birds of the same feather fly together. And I must say that all the comment I received here are just making me laugh and I keep laughing EDIT 2 My personality is very weird and I must say that I so much hate all native names Nigerians gives to their children. Even our surname is so horrible. I once told my mother that she is very lucky she didn't give me a native name. Only God knows that I will not tolerate their stupid native names. I also do not intend to used my strange personality to attack Nigeria women. I am very sure that Ethiopia has the most beautiful women in the world but Nigeria has lot and tons of beauties when it comes to women. Like I said before, i do not focuse on being black men or white, race or color but my issues is with the personality and culture of Nigerians and Nigeria women. Many of you reading this may say that I am suffering from personality syndrome. See, God did not create me a black man, he did not create me a white man. God created me in his own image and likeness and in his image he created all men in different shades of personalities. I am just the western type of the black race Thank You for reading UPDATE MY QUESTION TO ALL NIGERIANS You are a Nigeria person with a Nigerian personality You traveled to America yet you still have a Nigeria personality You in america, you find america culture very strange You started looking for egusi soup and banga soup, you could not find any in america You downloaded Nigeria music to listen to You downloaded Nigeria movie to watch Now You are looking for Nigeria wife but you haven't found any You are looking for a Nigerian wife because you are a Nigeria person You want a Nigeria wife who can watch Nigeria movies with you You want a Nigeria wife who will play and listen to Nigeria songs with you Why? Because you are a Nigerian personel Will Americans see you as a psychopath? Will the Americana says that you have a mental disorder just because you have a Nigeria personalities? Would the Americans say to you that you have a personality disorder? Can a genuine Nigerian answer my question? Can any nairalander answer this my question and prove me wrong? 2 Likes |
Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by Bornsinner7: 3:50pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Damn Brah I understand how difficult it is dealing with a typical bush Nigerian babe but at some point I thought you got more than your share of life problems.. I was thinking you need a skin surgery so you can change your skin to white and find the country that best suits you to reside.. I'm not here to advice you to marry or not but in as much as there are a lot of used girls.. there are still very very few brand new tear leather babes.. Truth is.. No love in the city just make money and pray not to die young 8 Likes |
Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by Xenry: 3:52pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
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Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by Anigreat: 3:52pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Brother introvert you can create any woman you want by yourself. 6 Likes |
Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by Pmedia7787: 3:55pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Some of the issues you discussed are very personal and there are many people out there who are Nigerians that have what you look for But one thing...you are still more of a baby than a grown man...just read up yourself allover..again There is more to live than your raving thoughts 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by Righteousness2(m): 3:56pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Brother, the Truth of your Matter is that you are CONFUSED! You Don't know what u want! You don't know what u need! You are Neither here nor there, which is Confusion! The Relationship you need now is a Genuie relationship with JESUS. You need to release yourself to JESUS so He will work on you and repair you to be the Man you are meant to be. After that is Done , you will Understand and see Clearly what is for you. 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by lilvicky68(m): 4:00pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Oga your own case na special case..for your own deliverance cane or belt must be involved.. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by woleabayo(f): 4:01pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
You are getting insane brother, you are selfish and self centred,.......not all the alegation are right thats if the story is true.........and sorry you are basterd of your tribe for being ashame of speaking your native language and see that as irritating thing ......why not die and reborn in the USA so you can get all your western life............lastly please visit a therapist of phychologist for more 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by daddytime(m): 4:02pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Tell mummy to carry you go back where she carry you from. 3 Likes |
Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by Lostchild(m): 4:07pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Righteousness2: The Lord Jesus Created me the way I am. I just cannot change who I am. I just cannot find a better half of me 1 Like |
Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by Lostchild(m): 4:09pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Righteousness2: The Lord Jesus Created me the way I am and I cannot change who I am. Yes I am a little bit confuse as I just cannot find a better half of me |
Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by Righteousness2(m): 4:10pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Lostchild:That's the Greatest lie and Deceit the devil has used to Deceive you. Let no one Deceive you, You are Fully Responsible for your choices and Decisions you take. "I call heaven and earth to record this day against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing: therefore choose life, that both thou and thy seed may live" 2 Likes |
Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by Lostchild(m): 4:11pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Pmedia7787: Mr grown up man I see that your brain is inside your eyes. |
Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by Pmedia7787: 4:14pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Lostchild: When fools speaks We know Everyone here knows the thoughts of a kid Exibit them the more 4 Likes |
Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by Ishilove: 4:20pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Lostchild:Yes, stark, raving insane. 2 Likes |
Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by Cerebellum: 4:20pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Nah soapy you go dey do till una payin 1 Like |
Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by Nobody: 4:24pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Pmedia7787:Can't you see his moniker? Lost child Imagine, he said he hates the Nigerianess of Nigerian women, he prefers them to act like westerners. Iranu OP 1 Like |
Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by dake40(m): 4:31pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
On a more serious note You need to see a therapist 1 Like |
Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by DaddyRochie1642: 4:32pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Oga this your case is too strong 2 Likes |
Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by Vyolet(f): 5:06pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
You asked if you are insane? Yes you are! |
Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by Lostchild(m): 5:20pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Bornsinner7: You are very right. There is no love, it is just for me to make money and immigrate to the place that suit me. Enjoy my life |
Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by Lostchild(m): 5:29pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Anigreat: This my personality issues has been in my life since childhood. I thought I will grow out of it but it has gotten worse. I cannot change myself what makes you think I can conform any woman to be as myself? I mourn in silence |
Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by Lostchild(m): 5:32pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
woleabayo: Mr Yoruba man Are we fighting? Nigeria tribes they are all useless. I don't even know why God brought me here in this stupid land |
Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by Lostchild(m): 5:34pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
lilvicky68: Haha. I remember years back, one babe tell me say I need deliverance. |
Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by Lostchild(m): 5:35pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
daddytime: Lol 1 Like |
Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by Lostchild(m): 5:36pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Righteousness2: Mr Preacher |
Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by danietohbadt(m): 5:37pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Look for a lady with similar personal problems. You two will be great together 1 Like |
Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by iRepNaija1: 5:38pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Lostchild: OP, you're not insane but you definitely hate yourself. How can you not stand women, Nigerian women who are just as Nigerian as you are, when they speak their native tongue, when they want Nigerian movies, when they act too "traditional," whatever that means. Moreover, you tie a woman's value as a person to how many people she has slept with. That's another problem. Why does it matter? What is the benefit of you knowing how many people she has been with? OP, you need to work on yourself. If you are this distrustful of women--and have an apparent aversion to Nigerian culture--then you don't need to be in a relationship or be seeking someone who is compatible with you. |
Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by Lostchild(m): 5:41pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Pmedia7787: You are just too foolish to understand personality traits If I shared something like this on quora. I will receive a lot of encouragement because white people are not as foolish as Africans like you And foolish people like you can only be found on Nairaland. 1 Like |
Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by Lostchild(m): 5:44pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by SILENTandSMART2: 5:54pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
You don't know anything as if you think you're the perfect man every girl out there is looking for , Yes it is good to have spec because I have my own spec also but some certain things will be corrected along the line Most of the points you stated above is secondary and can be changed but it seems you're inexperienced and you know little about life , This life you can never get everything you wanted and need , even the richest man will always say "how i wish I have this " Hmmmm I'm shaking my head in spanish way for you |
Re: Married Guys: I Need Your Opinion by Lostchild(m): 5:56pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
iRepNaija1: 1) I am not a Nigerian by personality that is why I find Nigeria culture and women very strange 2) Too many dick on a woman is very bad even though I will accept it as part of life. I just cannot trust my heart and re-ally on someone that is capable to change. 3) I just don't fit into Nigeria society, that is why I find it hard to merge with a typical Nigeria woman. 4) I must say that You are very right in your words I keep laughing 1 Like |
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