qtguru:
I think people with good marriages need to start promoting the institution because in the future its going to be baby mama and father approach

No need to promote marriage. As one gets older, their matured eyes are opened and they see things not from a boy's point of view but a man's.

When op gets to that stage, he will remember this thread as part of the excesses of immaturity.

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cococandy:


I hope you don’t get married ever

Your hope means nothing to me and the universe. Your hope is as useless as uselessness.

We are in the age of equality.

Thanks to feminism men too are beginning to ask questions and refusing to accept some certain things they where accepting before.

DEMZEE:


That is why poor and average men should not even think about women or having serious relationships with women. Those men should Rather focus on increasing their value and understanding women's sexual mating strategy and womens nature and know game.

Poor and average men don't deserve the pussy man

It’s your fellow men that will revolt against you when this your unrealistic internet-incel-redpill-hogwash or whatever it is actually happens in real life.

“HiGh vAluE mEn yen yen yen. All pooR men don’T thinK about woMen unTil you beCome rICh thEN yOu caN haVe as manY as yoU wanT becausE wOmen are obJects bla bla bla.”

yet millions of you are dead rat poor. The remaining few millions are barely getting by and will remain that way until death calls in their ripe old age. when will they ever get a chance to have the harem of women sex objects that they deserve?

But what do I know? If I point out how it’s rooted in the imagination of an egotistical foolish male perspective,
You’ll say I’m emotional and you’re the logical one

FemalePunter:
Family is the ultimate.
that's what he gain

So Davido,Timaya and Flavor,with their children from baby Mamas,don't have family?

Marriage is like Religion..

S C A M !

Emotionss:
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Your hope means nothing to me and the universe. Your hope is as useless as uselessness.

We are in the age of equality.

Thanks to feminism men too are beginning to ask questions and refusing to accept some certain things they where accepting before.

You’re starting to sound scared

I’m merely saying I hope you make the decision to not get married so that someone’s daughter won’t have to put up with a spouse who never wanted marriage in the first place. I didn’t say it in the form of a curse or something.

But it’s interesting to see how you quickly got worried there. One would have thunk the thought of not ever getting married would be exciting to you. Hmm

you are speaking from a perspective but there is more to that the responsibility of a man is different from that of a woman and everybody must impute theirs to make the family work. if that of man is to shoulder the financial burden and not get praise also the part of a woman is to keep the home and help the kid grow and be nurture verywell, in either of the way if a woman help you to share ur responsibility that does not mean the kid will not still look after them before you no matter what this is backed by the spiritual sanctity. so, better upheld your responsibility so you can have mouth to defend yourself when e happen.

BRATISLAVA:


No wonder you came up with a perfect question. Initially, I thought it was a joke.

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Lols.yeah

Kestolove:
all those men supporting d op are loosers who don't have the means to get marry so they tend to discourage those that want to marry...May God count us among those that will marry

I am already discouraged after reading these comments.

You sure say I no go just go get baby mama like this cos I no want wahala for my life

Cutehector:
He who marries a good woman obtains favour from the lord.


Men who are wailing married bad wives. Sorry

Marriage and Religion has one thing in common..


They are institutions designed to control and manipulate men..


All na SCAM.

YelloweWest:

And u think a nanny will take care of your child better than a natural mother? Lol...

Na so ur mama do u?

Even if there's a nanny, a child needs a mother.

CR7 first son was through IVF and he's happy with life.

Kestolove:
all those men supporting d op are loosers who don't have the means to get marry so they tend to discourage those that want to marry...May God count us among those that will marry

Which means to marry?

Some men get dashed their wives..

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cococandy:


You’re starting to sound scared

I’m merely saying I hope you make the decision to not get married so that someone’s daughter won’t have to put up with a spouse who never wanted marriage in the first place. I didn’t say it in the form of a curse or something.

But it’s interesting to see how you quickly got worried there. One would have thunk the thought of not ever getting married would be exciting to you. Hmm

Ha so your sense of comprehension is this low ?

Your hope doesn't matter to me because you're inconsequential to me and here you are mustabating over that statement. Wow.

As for getting married don't worry about that the woman that will make me change my mind is not yet in existence.

Excesslove222:
What a man gains? Let me list a few:

He gains coming back home everyday to a well prepared meal.
He gains children that bear his ancestral name.
He gains a prayer warrior.
He gains a listening ear to all his life problems.
He gains someone to brainstorm and plans his future with.
He gains someone to help him raise his children.
He gains a “home”

Even if you insist children are a woman’s gain...they still bear the man’s name, if they become someone in the future, nobody would remember their mothers surname.

I can go on and on...

these can be gotten even outside of marriage.
In the end the man gains nothing

Freestainworld:
your Logic's doesn't make any sense, since sex is cheap, go and start sleeping with prostitutes so you can be happy, as for children, I don't expect you to get married not to talk of having babies so you won't be in financial slavery since you are Island, if they hadn't given birth to you, would you have been here reasoning like a toddler.

He doesn't need marriage for any of the things you mentioned. He doesn't even need a prostitute to have sex regularly. As long as you have money, you can have anything marriage has to offer.

weddingchannels:
Poverty is What's making a lot of People think this way, Who takes care of your seed(Children)? Who nutures and care for them?
The reason why we have alot of Children that lacks home training is because there are no parents to train, both parents are in the labour field。 The Man and woman gain companionship that you can never find outside marriage, there is God's blessing and It's God's institution.
The woman usually stay back so the man attains great heights for the family. Please see a responsible elderly person That can council you in the right way.

Story..

Old wives tales..

We have heard it all before..

All na SCAM!!

Cool. We are on the same page.

Don’t ever get married.

Emotionss:
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Ha so your sense of comprehension is this low ?

Your hope doesn't matter to me because you're inconsequential to me and here you are mustabating over that statement. Wow.

As for getting married don't worry about that the woman that will make me change my mind is not yet in existence.

Walkee:
what's special about giving birth to anyone? Believe me, those that were never born aren't missing out on anything. You are here now, some time in the future you'd be dead and rotten in the ground. All your achievement and suffering won't mean shiit to you anymore. So what's the point?

Help me ask him. The sooner people realize that life itself is meaningless, the better for humanity.

Obakoolex:
The Bible says a man that found a wife has found a good thing and OBTAIN FAVOUR FROM THE LORD...things you kids will never understand @ poster no offense please maybe your upbringing or family background makes you see a woman and marriage as trouble but believe me if a man has found the right woman, he has gotten something precious than gold and silver.

same thing you people always say that lock men in serious suffer.
Abeg, marriage is stressful, men are just suffering and smiling in it.

I will get kids out of wedlock and continue my lineage.

xynerise:


Culture didn't change. People changed.

Who created culture? It's people. So if people change, then culture will change.

only chronic simps still entertain the idea of marriage,why would a king want to get married?.

ImaIma1:


No need to promote marriage. As one gets older, their matured eyes are opened and they see things not from a boy's point of view but a man's.

When op gets to that stage, he will remember this thread as part of the excesses of immaturity.

Your emotional blackmail won’t work.
There’s nothing special about marriage, it’s a social construct and continuity can happen without it.
Abeg no lock us

mayberry1:
You are giving yourself excuses not to get married, if your Dad had thought this way I bet you wouldn't be here writing trash.

His dad doesn't need to marry his mum to impregnate her. Sad, but it's true.

God bless you my dear some men are so bias .

gudvibz:
Truth be told same can be asked of some women. I mean if u truly are honest you'll see that there are homes where women are the financial backbone yet you don't hear them crying or screaming for the world to hear.

I have seen homes where the men where just figure heads ,the women do everything yet the man takes the glory and they aren't dead.WHAT DO U SUPPOSE THE WOMAN IS GAINING FROM SUCH OGA POSTER

mayberry1:
You are giving yourself excuses not to get married, if your Dad had thought this way I bet you wouldn't be here writing trash.

Why not focus on the topic and tell us the benefits of marriage to men

That's a ridiculous question.

FatherOfJesus:
Your emotional blackmail won’t work.
There’s nothing special about marriage, it’s a social construct and continuity can happen without it.
Abeg no lock us

Emotional blackmail indeed.

Come back when you are 45 and still single and with this same mindset.

ImaIma1:


Emotional blackmail indeed.

Come back when you are 45 and still single and with this same mindset.

how did you know I’m not above 45?

Not everyone wants to be in that cage of a women frustrating ones life.