Jashub:
OP, you're not even married and you're giving advice. So how do you expect anyone here to take you seriously....? Go and marry before commenting on what you have no knowledge of.

sichri:


Comprehension! Nothing in the write up suggests that I'm not married.

Assuming I'm not even married, don't I read books? Do I leave in some isolated desert places or other planets? Are the Rev. Fathers that join people in marriages and give advice about successful marriages themselves married?

Man, this is 21st century, wake up.

Jashub:
[s][/s] Still bickering. When you get married, come back and give the experience

anthonyuncle:
it is not everyone that went to school that is educated o

Jashub:
OP, you're not even married and you're giving advice. So how do you expect anyone here to take you seriously....? Go and marry before commenting on what you have no knowledge of.

ZIMDRILL:


dont be too blind

not being married doesnt mean, one
can not seee the wrongs/mistakes done by married

remember you either learn from your mistakes or learn from others mistakes

Jashub:
[s][/s]Bros experience remains the best teacher. So keep silent while we wait for other meaningful people to talk

ZIMDRILL:


not always

not everything is black and white

look at your parents most likely your parents have the same age as Dangote but are they rich like him using Age ?

Jashub:
[s][/s] Your analogy is off-point. And mind you, Dangote got rich through corruption, not hardwork. Now before you open your mouth to start vomiting rubbish, try and see how many commodites Dangote group is holding in Nigeria

ZIMDRILL:


Open your mind some got married simply becoz the girl pregnant, some actually married becoz they agreed and planned so when we say married people we are not looking at how you got married but those are said to be married

if married people are so exprienced am sure problems in marriage or divorce wouldnt be a thing

there in no general rule on has better advice

Jashub:
It seems you're not following me on this issue because your sense of reasoning defies logic.


Let me give an example : two men are trying to know how it feels like to shoot a gun. So Mr A watches a video of a man shooting a gun, while Mr B goes to a shop and buys a gun and tells a soldier to teach him how to fire. Now who amongst this two men will have a better experience at shooting?

ZIMDRILL:


you are twisting things it doesnt mean married people have universal problem and solutions comes
from married people Nope

being married doesnt make you a better solver of problem than some who is not married

Jashub:
There is no twist here because there is nothing to twist. Experience still remains the best teacher and until you've experienced something, you don't have the right to talk about it.

ZIMDRILL:


ok the main point raise here is would you marry someone who has a basic interlectual or someone who is at the same
level interlectually.

Have seen that when someone gets rich or well enough they find their wife basic educated boring, WHY its simply becoz the new ladies they now meet they talk to them on an interlectual level of their business or social status hence they excite them becoz they speak the same
langauge whereas with your wife if she is not part of daily running of your business or social status you might start finding her boring

so by this scenario the hubby is likely to cheap and abuse the wife saying you are uneducated

so basically the thread is asking would marry someone on the same
intectual level as you or lower

Jashub:
It seems you're interpreting intelligence for education. And this is not so. You can have a wife whose intelligent but not educate and s she'll still be able to contribute to your life in more ways that you could imagine.