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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by DEMZEE(m): 11:07pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
AwesomeStormy00: Just triggering some foolish feminists ��� |
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by DEMZEE(m): 11:08pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
AwesomeStormy00: She's a pseudo masculine hybrid beast woman 1 Like |
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Kebbiprince: 11:16pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
kowalsky:Good observation |
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by ibedun: 11:17pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Eastcoastboy: How old are you? Are you aware that African people have critical thinking issues? |
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by AwesomeStormy00(m): 11:18pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Yus2020: 11:20pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Apart from children nothing 2 Likes |
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Pickieox(m): 11:26pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Escabado: |
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Ayo2004: 11:34pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Cutie09:I have read an article in which a black woman did it to her husband,it was after the man committed suicide the truth was revealed 1 Like |
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by phazotron(m): 11:35pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Men don't gain anything from a marriage save a little intimacy. 2 Likes |
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by ibedun: 11:54pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
ogbonti: Professor of business studies Your WIFE don seize your green card? ![]() ![]() |
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by JustforMen: 11:58pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
Funkybabee:mtcheew... why would one assume that 'ask google' is such a super intelligent statement that trumps all logic? Talking when one has nothing intelligent to say is not by force na!! 3 Likes |
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by cococandy(f): 12:27am On Apr 01, 2021 |
DEMZEE:okay. E pass like that? 2 Likes |
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by MrIcredible: 12:32am On Apr 01, 2021 |
Freestainworld:What's this frustrated man saying? Must EVERYONE accept bondage, frustration and unwanted predicaments like you? Guy shift abeg 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by MrIcredible: 12:34am On Apr 01, 2021 |
FalseProphet1:Is this one normal at all? 2 Likes |
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by DEMZEE(m): 12:34am On Apr 01, 2021 |
cococandy: Just saying 1 Like |
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by MrIcredible: 12:35am On Apr 01, 2021 |
Cerebrocrust:Why are you scared? 1 Like |
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by meobizy(f): 12:35am On Apr 01, 2021 |
He gains respect from society. If the female is beautiful, he garners the praise of males who wonder how he caught the woman. Being married strikes a lot of people as a sign of responsibility, this ensures quick consideration for loans in cases. 1 Like |
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by cococandy(f): 12:38am On Apr 01, 2021 |
DEMZEE:I know. |
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by DEMZEE(m): 12:39am On Apr 01, 2021 |
cococandy: Good |
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by cococandy(f): 12:42am On Apr 01, 2021 |
DEMZEE:should we change the topic of the thread to my damaged womb? ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by MrIcredible: 12:46am On Apr 01, 2021 |
FemalePunter:Is everything about family? Your analogy doesn't make sense. 1 Like |
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by nick50(m): 2:04am On Apr 01, 2021 |
Children |
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Happy2020: 2:33am On Apr 01, 2021 |
If a man has the RIGHT women, he has A LOT to gain from marriage. The right women will love and nurture him to heights that he never thought he could reach. Problem is, most men don’t marry the right one and end up angry and miserable and feeling hopeless. When you find that RIGHT woman, you will know immediately that this is the one. |
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Deoboss(m): 3:52am On Apr 01, 2021 |
Escabado: Nothing except paying bills till he gets old & die. Even the sex diminishes in marriage as his wife will always feign am tired or is sex food. So marriage is only enjoyed by the wife & kids, period 3 Likes |
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by JustforMen: 4:35am On Apr 01, 2021 |
maureensylvia: More money = nothing drags a an backwards like the financial baggage of ungrateful wives in a marriage. Women in marriage become totally entitled Better sex = mtchewww... nonsense, your wife doesn't even fvck whole heartedly like olosho na so so complain. She self na ashawo wey get one customer... it is almost do quick mek i wear cloth. Good health = how is hypertension and depression that wives give people now good health. when you get married to most women, you have to make conscious effort to keep your sanity or else you will fulfill her wish and die early. Less depression = what is more depressing than a supposed partner on a long journey who selfishly keeps their own resources to themselves and feel entitled to your own? Madam, marriage has its good side, sometimes, but it has always been to the advantage of women and children at the detriment of the man. Should I continue? 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by JustforMen: 4:37am On Apr 01, 2021 |
Happy2020: Bros, RIGHT women no dey again ooo, na... LEFT women full everywhere! 4 Likes |
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by darediamond(m): 4:54am On Apr 01, 2021 |
Escabado:In a Similar Thread ( https://www.nairaland.com/6475890/wifes-salary-mystery-until-discovered/12#100219200 ) , I post: this: The Mistake We Men Make from the beginning is that We Never Think About Why the Feminine name of a female is woMAN. She is just a wombWOMAN which means she is A MAN too who MUST Shoulder MARITAL RESPONSIBILITIES IN ALL RAMIFICATIONS ESPECIALLY IN AFFIARS THAT PERTAINS TO M O N E Y. IN Yoruba language we say "OkunIRIN" as for Male, and For Female it is "ObiIRIN". Irin in Yoruba means Iron in English and Iron is always hard. This means both the Male and Female must bear RESPOSIBILITIES IN ALL RAMIFICATIONS when it comes to Marital Settings. But the Male being created Naturally Stronger than the female is made to bear ONLY 60% and the Female 40% load or " BUKATA". Besides, children are first Manufactured the male Body and later subjected to developmental stages in the female body. So both the Male and Female have work to do over there would be child(ren). One of those works is the mutual financially contributions of both parties which MUST BE 60/40 . This means: 1) A MAN who Marries a woman who can not or is not upto complementing his 60% with her 40% provision of needs of the Family is actually an IRRESPONSIBLE MAN take it or Leave it. 2) A Woman Must herself be Financially Stable Be Considering Herself as Marriage Worthy. Of she consider herself marriage worthy because of her age and physical attributes, she is not Matured yet and does not differ from PROFESSIONAL PROSTITUTE!!!!! 3). Only when your wife is Severely Sick, must you take full responsibilitkes of your Family. The Sperm and Ovary meet before the child came to be. So you both must financially constantly contribute towards the upkeep of the family. 4) A resposible Lady is not just one that has a job and good character, she must show some meaningful and notable level of Financial Commitment towards her Husband to Be while dating. This applies to the Male too. 5) If A Lady does not want to become a Widow untimely, she must respect the manliness in the name of her gender woMAN and make sure she is Financially Stable before ever saying "I do" to a Man on the alter by having a Reasonable Job to keep and Support her Family. Men who do not get the facts above right will always be used before and inside Matrimony by there wrongly Trained and Irresponsible matrimonial Partners. O.P sorry. It is your sole decision to forgive or not forgive your wife. MAKE SURE YOU INCULCATE THE RULES ABOVE IN YOUR CHILDREN. It's shall constantly be well with you. Amen" THE SOLUTION IS: NEVER SETTLE DOWN WITH A wombMAN WHO DOES NOT AGREE TO 60/40 PERCENT RULE. 1 Like |
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by DedeNkem: 5:36am On Apr 01, 2021 |
Escabado:Patronizing prostitutes doesn't count. You get a good p*unani (kept for you only) from a good wife and no risk of contracting STDs If you say a child : how can a woman have sex with a man give birth , and she seats back waiting for the man to bring money for feeding, clothing , house bills . Which is called financial slaveryIf you marry a deadbeat woman or a gold-digger, you only have yourself to blame. That's why a long courtship is recommended, as it gives you an ample time and life-saving opportunity to know if the person is right for you. If you say been responsible : how can only a man be responsible for the children, and a woman who is a grown up adult . We're as both of them are supposed to be responsible for there family expenses.If you marry a true PARTNER (not a parasite) then the family burden won't be left on your shoulder only. Again, if you marry bad, you get bad. If you marry good, you get good. Have u noticed when a man takes up all the financial responsibility of his home till the kids grow they only buy gift and cars for there mom.It only happens when you're an abusive husband or you lack fatherly bond with your kids. If you're a good parent, kids do know. Treat them well and they will treat you the same Have you also noticed when a woman bear financial cost for raising her child , she will spoil there minds towards there father and make them see him as evil .have u ever seen a single mother that speaks good of his baby dady ? We need to use our head here .think very well menWhen you have a bitter divorce or separation, it's bound to happen. But if you treat your wife and kids well even after divorce/separation, she won't make your kids hate you. Also it depends on the type of woman you married. So tell me exactly what a man stand to gain in marriage .Since I married my wonderful wife, I've never looked back at my miserable bachelor days! I've absolutely no regret whatsoever. Marriage is a beautiful thing when you marry the right person. Don't be scared, go for it! 1 Like |
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by TainyLite(m): 5:48am On Apr 01, 2021 |
pappilo:Don't ever forsake ur parent nd siblings nd u are absolutely correct cos dis hoes will definitely Bleep up 1 Like |
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by seunmsg(m): 6:12am On Apr 01, 2021 |
FatherOfJesus: It is a real cage future generation must avoid. Men lose their freedom to do things that make them happy to these ladies all in the name of marriage. Sadly, they get very little or nothing from the marriage. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by seunmsg(m): 6:18am On Apr 01, 2021 |
ogbonti: Every young man out there should read this post! 3 Likes |
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by ogbonti: 7:06am On Apr 01, 2021 |
seunmsg: Thanks 2 Likes |
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