Wittyglam:
Approach the said teacher and discuss things with him, let him know how you feel and if he doesn't listen to you report to the Headteacher. Just be careful

thanks but what and what can say bcs I don't want to appear bad or as if am harbouring something negative against him that's actually my fear

aroundtheearth:
As a Teacher, you're there to teach and be your best to ALL the students in your classes, not play favorites nor be paying attention to how handsome or beautiful a student is. Secondly, both of y'all are acting like paedophiles, especially the other Teacher who has also taken a liking your "favourite boy" (smh) and keeps calling him to his classroom when no one is there. I hope he's not doing anything inappropriate with him.

I think the op, is the biggest pedophile here judging from her jealousy and with the way she's describing these children lay more emphasis on their looks... damn... there's a lot she not saying.

aroundtheearth:
As a Teacher, you're there to teach and be your best to ALL the students in your classes, not play favorites nor be paying attention to how handsome or beautiful a student is. Secondly, both of y'all are acting like paedophiles, especially the other Teacher who has also taken a liking your "favourite boy" (smh) and keeps calling him to his classroom when no one is there. I hope he's not doing anything inappropriate with him.

pls the description of how handsome or beautiful they are is not a yardstick to think one is a paedophile am a teacher to all and fair to them
just that those ones I mentioned was based on the fact that their intelligence and moral upbringing is what anyone can appreciate or like

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I think the op, is the biggest pedophile here judging from her jealousy and with the way she's describing these children lay more emphasis on their looks... damn... there's a lot she not saying.[/quote

Athemisia:

I think the op, is the biggest pedophile here judging from her jealousy and with the way she's describing these children lay more emphasis on their looks... damn... there's a lot she not saying.

this is the least of my expectation from you
even if I should agree that I shouldn't have describe their facial nature doesn't give you room to say anything you want

First and foremost. Are you a male or female?

Secondly, why get so personal with your pupils to the point of obsession? That is exactly what is playing out here... I mean the way you feel insecured about the other teacher getting close. Also from your description of their beauty and handsomeness, this whole thing doesn't seem right.

Please, the both of you should keep your distance from them to avoid trouble. It is not right by any standard to have such relationship or closeness with your pupils.
Respect yourselves. I'm also a teacher and though I'm a bit friendly, I never let any child get so close, to avoid " see finish".

I think you guys have broken the codes of ethics as Teachers.

Home94:

sorry for that don't mind my write up the phone am using is having touchpad or screen problem and auto correct is really messing me up

I’m not judging you ooo but you know some people may question your competence as a teacher without giving consideration to your reason ...

Home94:

never mind my write up and expression I was writing fast and auto correct was messing me up
I think you understand me to an extent when you said he has no right over my pupils even if he do it Should be minimal and under my approval or permission
thanks for understanding me

There's no excuse here Madam. You're not fit to be a teacher. Did you actually attend a higher institution? I will be damned if you answer in the affirmative.

Jeez!!

CheedyJ:

I’m not judging you ooo but you know some people may question your competence as a teacher without giving consideration to your reason ...

Don't mince words and tell her how bad she writes for a teacher. Like, WTF!

If you're told to give your children to a teacher that writes like her, what will you if not to 'japa'?

davjos:


less than 2yrs ur student wic are some1 children will leave ur class n move on in life
I don't seen y dey do this as 4me u over do.
as a father if i notice my children teacher behave like urs on my children I'll not think twice b4 I will change their school

u quoted some1 else cos I'm not d op

AsherAmari:
First and foremost. Are you a male or female?

Secondly, why get so personal with your pupils to the point of obsession? That is exactly what is playing out here... I mean the way you feel insecured about the other teacher getting close. Also from your description of their beauty and handsomeness, this whole thing doesn't seem right.

Please, the both of you should keep your distance from them to avoid trouble. It is not right by any standard to have such relationship or closeness with your pupils.
Respect yourselves. I'm also a teacher and though I'm a bit friendly, I never let any child get so close, to avoid " see finish".

I think you guys have broken the codes of ethics as Teachers.

pls am friendly and have a good working relationship with them the obsession quoted is actually what I can't understand from you
secondly their facial look I mentioned here is to give a possible reason for the new intrusion from the teacher if that's the case and nothing more

I see obsession cos what if it was another pupil,(not the finest of them & not one of your Best 4 either), would you be as worried as you are now or will it be no cause for alarm?

Anyways, as Wittyglam suggested, you can approach the teacher if you so wish.. Tell him that you noticed some of your pupils do come by his class pretty often and they don't really give explanations as to why they go there & what they do esp during lesson hours so as their class teacher, you thought it wise to meet with him and ask, perhaps he tutors them in some subjects, you sincerely want to know so you could help adjust their timetable to suit them better cos you want nothing but the best for them(fullstop).. He'll tell you, just don't make it seem like you're a monitoring spirit or overly obsessed cos you already sound like it.

Home94:

pls am friendly and have a good working relationship with them the obsession quoted is actually what I can't understand from you
secondly their facial look I mentioned here is to give a possible reason for the new intrusion from the teacher if that's the case and nothing more

By obsession Im refering to the way you're suddenly insecured and worried about the other teachers' intrusion.

What makes you think your colleague is fater them because of their beauty if you're not having the same feelings too? Did he mention anything about their beauty to you? Mehnn... This is serious.

Anyways, just drop this whole idea because it's somehow to the ears. Face your work and take your eyes off your pupils privacy. You're crossing boundaries, Sir.

Home94. Your command of English need to be looked into. I am sorry ooo... But for heaven sake you teach basic six and you can't write well. Please the future of the pupils you take is at stake. Kindly resign and go into business. Teaching is not your calling. How can you write like this and expect your pupils to write well?

Samakus:


There's no excuse here Madam. You're not fit to be a teacher. Did you actually attend a higher institution? I will be damned if you answer in the affirmative.

Jeez!!

Whats your own?

If its by grammar then your oga at the top won't and shouldn't be there ruling us. Or dont you hear him and some oga in the Police force dishing out grammatical blunders every now and then? Yet they are ruling us. Biko, free my colleague.

AsherAmari:


By obsession Im refering to the way you're suddenly insecured and worried about the other teachers' intrusion.

What makes you think your colleague is fater them because of their beauty if you're not having the same feelings too? Did he mention anything about their beauty to you? Mehnn... This is serious.

Anyways, just drop this whole idea because it's somehow to the ears. Face your work and take your eyes off your pupils privacy. You're crossing boundaries, Sir.

ok understand me this teacher call them without my consent sometimes especially when I needed absolute tranquility from then in the class he does this whenever am not inside the class thereby making my class to be noisy sometimes when I asked what happened they will tell me the teacher said this or that
so I don't want to be rude to him by telling him am not that ok with the way he is doing
I was only trying to get the best way of going about it not knowing the topic will be hijack by passerbys

Home94:

ok understand me this teacher call them without my consent sometimes especially when I needed absolute tranquility from then in the class he does this whenever am not inside the class thereby making my class to be noisy sometimes when I asked what happened they will tell me the teacher said this or that
so I don't want to be rude to him by telling him am not that ok with the way he is doing
I was only trying to get the best way of going about it not knowing the topic will be hijack by passerbys

If that is the case, then go and tell him outrightly without sentiments to stop disrupting your class.

I do it sometimes too and don't give a damn what the person thinks. If they don't want to be cautioned they should respect boundaries. Period!

boom99:
Home94. Your command of English need to be looked into. I am sorry ooo... But for heaven sake you teach basic six and you can't write well. Please the future of the pupils you take is at stake. Kindly resign and go into business. Teaching is not your calling. How can you write like this and expect your pupils to write well?

is like you are not following the topic that well sir
I command good grammatical expression or morpho_ syntax of English language
I simplified the writing for all to understand

AsherAmari:


If that is the case, then go and tell him outrightly without sentiments to stop disrupting your class.

I do it sometimes too and don't give a damn what the person thinks. If they don't want to be cautioned they should respect boundaries. Period!

at least you understand me now bcs you are a teacher and you probably understand the situation now
We should be constructive with the way we do things here
you were very fast in your judgement without without proper assessment

You are a teacher and you can't even compose a simple sentence


I am still trying to understand the rubbish you typed up there


Nigeria educational system is Dead

Samueltemi337:
You are a teacher and you can't even compose a simple sentence


I am still trying to understand the rubbish you typed up there


Nigeria educational system is Dead

my phone is having serious issue that's why
your inability to understand even a single sentence is no more my making rather your poor understanding of English

Home94:

at least you understand me now bcs you are a teacher and you probably understand the situation now
We should be constructive with the way we do things here
you were very fast in your judgement without without proper assessment

That was because your initial post was riddled with so much emotions. Anyways it's ok.

AsherAmari:


Whats your own?

If its by grammar then your oga at the top won't and shouldn't be there ruling us. Or dont you hear him and some oga in the Police force dishing out grammatical blunders every now and then? Yet they are ruling us. Biko, free my colleague.

That's a typical Nigerian. Shifting blames in the face of his or her incompetence. A teacher should not be found wanting in writing and speaking skills. It is non negotiable and you comparing the all important role teachers play with a politician is a no brainer.

I give you no further comments. One advice... Take corrections and upgrade yourself. A better Nigeria starts with a qualified and capacity-driven teacher. OK bye

AsherAmari:


That was because your initial post was riddled with so much emotions. Anyways it's ok.

thank you for your contribution then

Samakus:


That's a typical Nigerian. Shifting blames in the face of his or her incompetence. A teacher should not be found wanting in writing and speaking skills. It is non negotiable and you comparing the all important role teachers play with a politician is a no brainer.

I give you no further comments. One advice... Take corrections and upgrade yourself. A better Nigeria starts with a qualified and capacity-driven teacher. OK bye

Huh?
*Shrugs and moves on to the next comment**

Home94:

thank you for your contribution then

You're welcome.

Samakus:


That's a typical Nigerian. Shifting blames in the face of his or her incompetence. A teacher should not be found wanting in writing and speaking skills. It is non negotiable and you comparing the all important role teachers play with a politician is a no brainer.

I give you no further comments. One advice... Take corrections and upgrade yourself. A better Nigeria starts with a qualified and capacity-driven teacher. OK bye

what do you Know is competence
is it by leaving the contents of the topic and it's driven theme to engage in worthless argument that can't fetch you nothing
my dear upgrade your thinking and the way you understand English

Home94:

what do you Know is competence
is it by leaving the contents of the topic and it's driven theme to engage in worthless argument that can't fetch you nothing
my dear upgrade your thinking and the way you understand English

Aunty teacher, when you finally learn proper punctuation of sentences, we will talk. In the meantime, adios.

Samueltemi337:
You are a teacher and you can't even compose a simple sentence


I am still trying to understand the rubbish you typed up there


Nigeria educational system is Dead

No need labouring it bro. She doesn't even see the errors. That's the most unfortunate thing

Samakus:


Aunty teacher, when you finally learn proper punctuation of sentences, we will talk. In the meantime, adios.

must you display your ingnorance at all times.
I created a topic and the least you could do is to display your poor understanding of English.If you claim to be good in English you would have been able to use your ability or how prowess you are in the language to make a meaningful contribution.
I made you to understand that my phone is faulty but your poor reasoning wouldn't allow you to comprehend.

Samakus:


No need labouring it bro. She doesn't even see the errors. That's the most unfortunate thing

must you open a thread and start writing gibberish.
I made you understand that my phone is faulty,yet you fail to comprehend.
Your comment is needlessly obscure and is overly technical to English language

Tell him how you feel and you notice your kids are always in his class even when they should be reading

Home94:

thanks but what and what can say bcs I don't want to appear bad or as if am harbouring something negative against him that's actually my fear