Lostchild:


JeffSiberstein
Sometimes is good to be selfish for once in a while. You talk about DR DRE enstrange wife.

I guess you and I know the meaning of enstange wife?

A woman becomes you enemy the day you stop loving them.

How am I being selfish? Just because I state what I want?

Even my bible tells me that we should ask our heart desire and it shall be given unto us.

If Nigeria women/ mariage is more better than westerners why is there s much divorce?

I am not being selfish. I only state what I desire even though I don't know if I will find it.

A therapist has nothing to offer me just has Nigerian women has nothing to offer

Western women is my best bet

Traveling is cure to my problem

You already know the cure, just stay focus. You will achieve everything you seek

Lostchild:


I must say that you have a great sense of judgment

Thank You

Am a psychologist

Ishilove:

Yes, stark, raving insane.

I wanted typing something but mere looking at his profile name, I decided to save my breathe against someone who is soooo self centered and thinks everything should revolve around him

The only problem i figured out from your post is that you really have a problem

SoundOsonic

You are a Nigeria person with a Nigerian personality

You traveled to America yet you still have a Nigeria personality

You in america, you find america culture very strange

You started looking for egusi soup and banga soup, you could not find any in america

You downloaded Nigeria music to listen to

You downloaded Nigeria movie to watch

Now You are looking for Nigeria wife but you haven't found any yet

You are looking for a Nigerian wife because you are a Nigeria person.

You want a Nigeria wife who can watch Nigeria movies with you.

You want a Nigeria wife who will play and listen to Nigeria songs with you

Why? Because you are a Nigerian personel

Will Americans see you as a phycopath?

Will the Americana says that you have a mental disorder just because you have a Nigeria personalities?

Would the Americans say to you that you have a personality disorder?

Can you see that I am in the right and not wrong?

JeffSiberstein:


You already know the cure, just stay focus. You will achieve everything you seek

Thank you

viosky:
The only problem i figured out from your post is that you really have a problem

You are a Nigeria person with a Nigerian personality

You traveled to America yet you still have a Nigeria personality.

You in america, you find america culture very strange.

You started looking for egusi soup and banga soup, but you could not find any in america

You downloaded Nigeria music to listen to

You downloaded Nigeria movie to watch

Now You are looking for Nigeria wife but you haven't found any

You are looking for a Nigerian wife because you are a Nigeria person

You want a Nigeria wife who can watch Nigeria movies with you

You want a Nigeria wife who will play and listen to Nigeria songs with you

Why? Because you are a Nigerian personel

Will the Americans says you really have a problem?

Can you please answer my question?

Can this my question and prove me wrong?

Whoknowsme:
I wanted typing something but mere looking at his profile name, I decided to save my breathe against someone who is soooo self centered and thinks everything should revolve around him

About my profile name(Lostchild)

I see myself as a western person who is lost in this jungle of a country (Nigeria)

MY QUESTION TO YOU

You are a Nigeria person with a Nigerian personality

You traveled to America yet you still have a Nigeria personality.

You in america, you find america culture very strange.

You started looking for egusi soup and banga soup, but you could not find any in america

You downloaded Nigeria music to listen to

You downloaded Nigeria movie to watch

Now You are looking for Nigeria wife but you haven't found any

You are looking for a Nigerian wife because you are a Nigeria person

You want a Nigeria wife who can watch Nigeria movies with you

You want a Nigeria wife who will play and listen to Nigeria songs with you

Why? Because you are a Nigerian personel

Will the Americans says you are self centered?

Can you please answer my question?

Op your problem no even Carry weight self, if i tell you my own, you go just pity me right now

Op if all this things you just listed here are your problem,i swear you no even get any problem.
I guess you should go mould the desired woman of your choice by yourself.
farfar simple

Villagedude:
Am a psychologist

Very nice

Let me be blunt with you...in the next 5 to 10 years...all these stuffs will not matter again...

You need to relax your grip on some stuffs...that's where peace is...and you will get to live long...

Hmmmn. OP This your matter tie wrapper o.

Lostchild:


You are just too foolish to understand personality traits

If I shared something like this on quora. I will receive a lot of encouragement because white people are not as foolish as Africans like you

And foolish people like you can only be found on Nairaland.

mehn! this says it all

OP Nigeria Women are the Best every where (Very Fine and Unique)But I also found out that the ones living abroad are way too complicated to Date.
I spent Years in Canada and never succeeded in Dating any 9ja babe....I just stopped trying and started dating other African babes(Like Kenyan's, Sudanese, Ghanaians, Liberians,Southy and Zims).
After I met too many Psycho American babes with Mood Swings Disorder then I finally decided to come back to 9ja and find me that sweet 9ja Bride...It was too Dangerous out there bro.

I know mixed race girl who is just like you.

Thinks she's too pretty for Nigerian boys.

AmancalledGod:
Op your problem no even Carry weight self, if i tell you my own, you go just pity me right now

I for like know your own before oh, so that I can have more inspiration.

Hintona:
I know mixed race girl who is just like you.

Thinks she's too pretty for Nigerian boys.

I feel she is being too egotistical because she focused on her beauty.

Most beauty and drama queen thinks they will stay beautiful forever and don't see the need of character build-up

As for me, I know that Nigeria women are beautiful in my sight, but to me they are too Nigerian and some are traditional.

I have had this western personality trait since childhood at age 7

As I grew older, it get worsen to the point that it has become my demise

Sanctecosma:
Hmmmn. OP This your matter tie wrapper o.

Yes O

enter123:
Let me be blunt with you...in the next 5 to 10 years...all these stuffs will not matter again...

You need to relax your grip on some stuffs...that's where peace is...and you will get to live long...

You speak the truth
Many times I see lot of guys and I say to myself I wish I am like these guys

I wish I could feel at home here just like them.

I wish I could enjoy my life here just like them

I have had this problem since I was 7 years of age. People who experience my attitude in persons wonders.

I also think you are very right in your words

DemonInvoker:
OP Nigeria Women are the Best every where (Very Fine and Unique)But I also found out that the ones living abroad are way too complicated to Date.
I spent Years in Canada and never succeeded in Dating any 9ja babe....I just stopped trying and started dating other African babes(Like Kenyan's, Sudanese, Ghanaians, Liberians,Southy and Zims).
After I met too many Psycho American babes with Mood Swings Disorder then I finally decided to come back to 9ja and find me that sweet 9ja Bride...It was too Dangerous out there bro.

You speak from real experience and I believe all you said

You married a nice woman and she is making you to feel that Nigeria women are the best.

NOTE; Your Nigerian wife is a good woman. She will remain grateful and loyal to you because you rescued her from hell to paradise, you know what I mean.

Another thing I must say to you is that Nigeria women are more mellow than western women in general as western culture promote equality which is also something to be worry about.

No Nigeria woman who has gone through so much and manage to escape from nigeria to america will ever wants to have another Nigeria palaver in their life. This is why nigeria women abroad will never want to date a Nigerian man.

I, myself can manage to live and marry a Nigeria woman but I will never feel complete, nor will I ever love her.

I pray: May a western woman forever be my portion

What you need is emancipation

SMBH:
What you need is emancipation

Emancipation is good

HolySword:
This is to remind 'Christians' that fornication is a sin

-- HolySword --

Does this thread has anything to do with fornication?

I'm not Nigerian, I'm a Black American middle-aged female. I feel you in a lot of ways. I'm an outcast to most Black American people. I'm introvert. I have a decent job. But I can't find a "decent" man because "Decent men" only pay for Slay Queens that they cry about later. They don't invest in women that will be there for the long run. They only use decent women to support their slay queens. I been married and divorced. I never had kids because I can never find a decent Black man and I'm not attracted to white men. In fact, I feel like I am a white man. People only pursue me in order to see what they can get from me. Ultimately, I know my worth. I no longer hope to find a decent man. I look for men to have fun with when I'm on holiday. Then I get rid of them when they become a problem!! Just do you and f#uck everyone else!!

Lostchild:



The Lord Jesus
Created me the way I am. I just cannot change who I am.

I just cannot find a better half of me

There is very little love on this side either by both blacks and whites. But at least over here, it is money that makes a difference. As long as you you keep mofos from stealing your money, you're golden.

Lostchild:


You are very right. There is no love, it is just for me to make money and immigrate to the place that suit me. Enjoy my life

Blacks Everywhere are their own worst enemies.

Lostchild:


You are just too foolish to understand personality traits

If I shared something like this on quora. I will receive a lot of encouragement because white people are not as foolish as Africans like you

And foolish people like you can only be found on Nairaland.

By Therapist, do you mean someone that will help him or brainwash him to like what he doesn't like?

Boss13:
You need a therapist and not a wife.

As an American women, this is 100% correct. Don't come for us if you are not 100% real men!!

NaBanga:
Seun and these fake writers... Let me pretend.

I am not sure what a "caucasian" heart is, but you haven't seen the level a white woman will go to finish you in the so called Western countries. One mistake and you will quickly land in divorce court. From there you may end up on 18 years of child support and possible alimony. It doesn't matter if she took on a lover and gave him doggy style, there is very little you can do.

If you are an introvert in Nigeria, you will be an introvert in Germany or America. Western women do not "endure' marriage. Marriage is about happiness. The moment the happiness leaves be assured she will give her happiness to another man. Your heart would burst into flames if you know the things I know.

Nigerian men should stick with Nigerian women, since they are too lazy for love. Always remember money=love, no matter if the woman is Chinese, Brazilian, Australian or Scottish. If your money is not coming forward, you will end up as a doormat for your Western wife or she will give her all to another man. Once a Western woman knows her man won't behave as a husband, it's called alienation of affection. She can use it mentally to justify getting it from the front, back and side form the man of her choice with no shame or guilt.

MarjieJ57:
I'm not Nigerian, I'm a Black American middle-aged female. I feel you in a lot of ways. I'm an outcast to most Black American people. I'm introvert. I have a decent job. But I can't find a "decent" man because "Decent men" only pay for Slay Queens that they cry about later. They don't invest in women that will be there for the long run. They only use decent women to support their slay queens. I been married and divorced. I never had kids because I can never find a decent Black man and I'm not attracted to white men. In fact, I feel like I am a white man. People only pursue me in order to see what they can get from me. Ultimately, I know my worth. I no longer hope to find a decent man. I look for men to have fun with when I'm on holiday. Then I get rid of them when they become a problem!! Just do you and f#uck everyone else!!

MarjieJ
Everywhere I go, I see lot and lot of beautiful ladies here but they are all Nigerian personel. My own personality has become my demise. I can never embrace Nigeria culture because I am different

I am glad that you can feel me in lot of ways but the question that strike my imagination is why do americans see you as an outcast?

MarjieJ57:
Blacks Everywhere are their own worst enemies.

Nigeria/Africans will be much more better only if they can see and act beyond their tribal and traditional mentality.