ibedun:


How old are you?

Are you aware that African people have critical thinking issues?

Bornsinner7:
Nothing! Nothing!!

The woman gains everything.. her title changes from Miss to Mrs.. the man remain Mr before and after marriage..

If anything should happen in the marriage.. the law favours the woman for the kids to be with her while the man goes back to bachelorhood

It is finance? you hear ratio like 90/10.. 70/10.. 80/20 where the man takes the bigger responsibility..

It is sex?? the ladies just lay there and the man does the work like an unpaid slave.. no pleasure just thrust thrust then cum.. sometimes he has to beg the entire family and even the king of her village before he can even taste it

omonnakoda:
Not necessarily
You already have observation bias and are seeing what you want to see
Everyone here is opinionated .

Where is your marriage certificate?

Ishilove:

My conclusions are not based entirely on the fuckery on this thread. Nota bene.


Why do you ask and what do you need it for?

richie240:

I love and concur with wt u said......in as much as its 'wife', not 'slay queens'.
majority of modern day women fall into d 2nd category.
Most modern day women just want the 'mrs' title but not d accountabilities and responsibilities that go with it.
sorry.

ogbonti:




you are obviously a very worthless person, Honesty I never memorized your username because I care less about you - trolling in a faceless forum. I only care about getting information and debating ideas here - and I try to contribute to threads than petty quarrels with people I don’t know and most likely will never meet in life - But for you to memorize my username and use it to stalk me in a faceless forum shows how useless your life is- you have an unpaid full time job on your hands stalking me on nairaland and good luck doing it as I perpetually live in your head rent free.

Edusouls:
Shut up � stupid girl, see things have changed men are now wiser, that’s why men don’t marry nowadays as they do back then, because we have realised that the we gain nothing from marriage but suffering till death, that’s why women pray and crave to get married cos they are the parasites

ibedun:


...I will give you a room to sleep.
You can wash my cars for a living while you narrate your US stories to my mai-guard, my driver and cook. Ogbontiiiiii!

ibedun:


Stop ranting, professor green card.

You made some interesting but valid points on this subject, well done.

Don’t worry I have a full serviced self contained duplex boys quarters (back houses as we call them in England) at the back of my house in lekki.

House1411:


Hello sir. I plan to come down to Lagos to job hunt, I wouldn't mind the boys quarters sir. If it's available for free sir

ibedun:


Stop ranting, professor green card.

You made some interesting but valid points on this subject, well done.

Don’t worry I have a full serviced self contained duplex boys quarters (back houses as we call them in England) at the back of my house in lekki. When your wife finally kicks you out, aged 61 and collect your pension and leave you with the shirt on your back........and you start thinking of topping yourself......and frustration sends you back to Naija ...I will give you a room to sleep.
You can wash my cars for a living while you narrate your US stories to my mai-guard, my driver and cook. Ogbontiiiiii!

House1411:


Hello sir. I plan to come down to Lagos to job hunt, I wouldn't mind the boys quarters sir. If it's available for free sir

ibedun:


Stop ranting, professor green card.

You made some interesting but valid points on this subject, well done.

Don’t worry I have a full serviced self contained duplex boys quarters (back houses as we call them in England) at the back of my house in lekki. When your wife finally kicks you out, aged 61 and collect your pension and leave you with the shirt on your back........and you start thinking of topping yourself......and frustration sends you back to Naija ...I will give you a room to sleep.
You can wash my cars for a living while you narrate your US stories to my mai-guard, my driver and cook. Ogbontiiiiii!

ogbonti:




Gbozah, the boldes parts - you sold your fathers house and travelled to America and you flopped big time as your as s was sent back home and you have successfully told us what you do now at lekki, washing cars and being a mai guard and talking about your endless stories of woes and bad luck when you travelled to America with your fellow poverty stricken mai guard and house helps in Lekki - This is exactly what happened to you, that is why you can explain it flawlessly and that’s why you are unnecessarily angry and stalking me on nairaland


ndo, sorry oooo my story can never ever be your story because you are cursed and I am blessed.

And na that driver work you go die put - bastard deportee that is intimidated by ordinary Green card - green card wey some of my relatives don get through me almost 10 years ago

yeye fawo

ibedun:


Mumu! Celebrating green card

A whole professor of business studies

Escabado:
If you say s. ex : currently s.ex is the cheapest commodity you can buy now as low as N500 to N1000

If you say a child : how can a woman have sex with a man give birth , and she seats back waiting for the man to bring money for feeding, clothing , house bills . Which is called financial slavery

If you say been responsible : how can only a man be responsible for the children, and a woman who is a grown up adult . We're as both of them are supposed to be responsible for there family expenses.

Have u noticed when a man takes up all the financial responsibility of his home till the kids grow they only buy gift and cars for there mom.

Have you also noticed when a woman bear financial cost for raising her child , she will spoil there minds towards there father and make them see him as evil .have u ever seen a single mother that speaks good of his baby dady ? We need to use our head here .think very well men



So tell me exactly what a man stand to gain in marriage .

Bornsinner7:
Nothing! Nothing!!

The woman gains everything.. her title changes from Miss to Mrs.. the man remain Mr before and after marriage..

If anything should happen in the marriage.. the law favours the woman for the kids to be with her while the man goes back to bachelorhood

It is finance? you hear ratio like 90/10.. 70/10.. 80/20 where the man takes the bigger responsibility..

It is sex?? the ladies just lay there and the man does the work like an unpaid slave.. no pleasure just thrust thrust then cum.. sometimes he has to beg the entire family and even the king of her village before he can even taste it

popweezy:
question for people who will eventually end up getting trapped in marriage.. not me

FuckThaMod:
Absolutely no gain i swear...
I could use IVF if i need a child..

Infact these women would take your peace instead, i pity married men of this generation.

fergie001:

Jesuuu

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
Na only toto meanwhile you don't even need to be married to have access to unlimited supply of fresh toto

itsRhamzy:
Nothing much..

You marry her and foot almost all bills including hers.

Both of you get children.

The responsibility of those children rests on your laps from school bills to feeding for at least 2 decades while your wife contributes almost nothing in those bills. she'll tell you it's your responsibility.

A man can survive alone but a woman can't.

She wants your commitment in raising her children in the best possible ways as you're the disposable gender.

You're just a workhorse tool to fulfil her most desired needs -money, commitment, children etc.


So when you look at these factors as a man, you figure the only thing you gain is kids.. feel free to delude yourself.

seyz91:
NOTHING

xynerise:


Culture didn't change. People changed.

tiredoflife:


lies
if u no buy that wig no toto
if u no take her to that trip no toto
if u no open shop for her no toto
if u no buy that car no toto
their toto is metered
its pay as u go even in marriage

Akuruoulo:
Lies... They whole world will knw it if the woman becums the breadwinner. She is likely turn the children against. U CN ONLY GIVE INSTANCE WHERE WE CNT REACH.

yeman1:
I enjoyed my marriage for one year when we just married. Then my mother in law came to visit, then things changed. As I'm telling u now, marriage is nothing to me. I cook myself, wash my clothes myself, doing house chores myself, even fuvckin set,, she go dey deprived me . Sometimes two months nothing nothing... So tell me .. na like this I go dey look till I die ?

I bought everything full for house , food and drinks and other miscellaneous.

DEMZEE:


Trash

So u will stop ur lineage and ancestry line all because u cant find a unicorn

Do u even understand women's sexual mating strategy and Women's nature

Hassanmaye:

Do you mean you will not get married? If I slap you, who will inherit all what you have