Nijagogetsense:
Nairalanders, I need your piece of advice. Please, don't mind my grammar. Just focus on the message. I won't come and bore you with a long story though but here is my story:

there was a girl I fell in love with when we were a little young, I really loved her as a lover but she loved me as a friend (like a plan B) owing to the reason that she was in a serious relationship then. During those time, I was pursuing my first degree in Sociology which she knew. After I knew that we couldn't be together, we parted ways. But unfortunately, I had to drop out of school after some series of carry-overs.


Some years later after my drop-out saga, I later find my way into the university system studying another course that goes in line with my passion with no support at home (My dropping-out decision cause a lot of misunderstanding between my parents and I. I'm the one solely sponsoring myself in school. Though presently, I'm in 200 level at the moment).


Few years later, we met in a shopping mall, we exchange contacts and I did the follow-up as per the guys' thing. I later heard from her that she is not in relationship at the moment. She is single and not at the moment ready to mingle. I was persistent to spend the rest of my life with her. This babe is already through with school and NYSC sef and she has started working but I'm still in my second year in school which I didn't tell her. I told her I've resigned from work but looking forward to start something on my own so that we can get married (I must confess, I've never seen any babe to make me feel in a great mood in my entire life. Should I talk about the way we are great friends? her deposits i.e. her facial and inner beauty compared with something upstairs?). She later agree to date me but this time for serious sake now. I've met with her parents, her siblings and even her pastor sef. BUT HERE IS WHERE THE PROBLEM LIES: I had lied to her and everyone of them. I had lied to them all that I finished from school and observed the compulsory NYSC sef. I never told them my dropping-out of school episode, I didn't because I don't want to lose my face but I really love this babe. Now the thing is this, I'm being pricked by my conscience to tell her everything. Even though, I don't want to lose my face, at the same time, I don't want to lose her. What are the chances for me house?

P. S: I'm in my late 20s

Lilpen3758:
Call me

BadRadio:
Do not neglect or compromise the bro-code because of vain sentiments. You have to do more of critical logical analysis of your position right now without drawing excerpts of her with u in the past. learn move beyond feelings of yesteryear. Dont be a sissy

Nijagogetsense:

Tell me more, be explicit please

BadRadio:
Do not neglect or compromise the bro-code because of vain sentiments. You have to do more of critical logical analysis of your position right now without drawing excerpts of her with u from the past. learn to move beyond feelings of yesteryears. Dont be a sissy and an asslicking love-drunk vegetable.

yeah... I said vegetable

because that thing called love turns a big man into a vegetable and much worse a nincompoop... love paralyses the brain cells that's responsible for rational reasoning... it pulvarizes u, it maims u... it attacks your financial intelligence.


You can never find true love... the best u will get is an intact hymen that wants to be torn apart for $1000




NB: Nairaland will help u with broken pieces of 1 kobo advice that will add more kerosene and fuel to the fire burning u

Durentt:
Are you working while schooling?


They always say the truth costs nothing but a lie could cost you everything. Tell her the truth and in the future avoid entangling yourself in lies

Nijagogetsense:


Thank you, I think I get your stance and position now.

BadRadio:
yeah bro... never forget the bro-code

incase u dont know what the bro-code is... ask ilegendd, Bigcowhorn, Offpoint1, zheeko or deepfeel... I would have added Ubunja, but Ubunja is dead.


Ask them...

Deepfeel:


I'm dead too, why did you mentioning me in the land of the living? I thought I sent you back to China?

Nijagogetsense:

I will do that. Is your number on Whatsapp?

BadRadio:
u did good for sending me to china... but I cant forget the Simps I left in Nigeria... I am only trying to empathize with them... they are all in pains right now


Sorry for disturbing your sleep in the grave... u are really enjoying your diamond casket.

Deepfeel:

you dey crazy lol

BadRadio:
yeah bro... never forget the bro-code

incase u dont know what the bro-code is... ask ilegendd, Bigcowhorn, Offpoint1, zheeko or deepfeel... I would have added Ubunja, but Ubunja is dead.


Ask them...

PlsBanMe:
Any relationship based on false foundations will eventually have problems.

If you tell her the truth, you will lose her. If you don't tell her the truth, you will have to keep inventing lies to keep up with your lies and you will never have peace of mind.

You have to a make sacrifice. Tell her the truth.

There are so many wonderful women you will still meet and there is still time on your part.

Its your choice to either set yourself free or to set her free.