Papertrails:


Sometimes she used to say that she feels I might leave her for another girl.

Papertrails:
Please nairalanders I need your advice on something that has been bothering me for sometime now.

I am a young graduate who graduated from the university almost two years ago and am done with my youth service too but am still trying to get a job or put up something maybe a business that will be fetching me money considering the situation of our country in terms of availability of jobs.

Then there's is this girl I have been dating for three years and everything has been going well but recently she has been really disturbing me to come and see her people or get her pregnant, am someone that will do everything within my power to make sure my kids don't pass through the hardship I have passed through being someone that wasn't born with a silver spoon, and another thing is that I really love this girl.
Am really confused and don't know what to do.

shege45:
its a trap bro

bigpicture001:
Wish it was me and my ex.... Would have gladly obliged... But d gal is still in a fantasy world

Papertrails:
Please nairalanders I need your advice on something that has been bothering me for sometime now.

I am a young graduate who graduated from the university almost two years ago and am done with my youth service too but am still trying to get a job or put up something maybe a business that will be fetching me money considering the situation of our country in terms of availability of jobs.

Then there's is this girl I have been dating for three years and everything has been going well but recently she has been really disturbing me to come and see her people or get her pregnant, am someone that will do everything within my power to make sure my kids don't pass through the hardship I have passed through being someone that wasn't born with a silver spoon, and another thing is that I really love this girl.
Am really confused and don't know what to do.

ogashman:
get her preggy only if you have the resources to cater for the baby.



most times what these girls say in the morning is not usually what they say in the afternoon.



mouth don dey sweet her as she dey tell u to get her pregnant as if she has everything figured out.. but na same girl no go allow u rest when she finally get the belle.

SweetCunt97:
You simply wanna die before ur time. That her yeye love will turn into hatred when u cant provide. Better wait for the appropriate time.

Muhylonaire007:
O boy... I don't know mhen.
I'm in your shoes, I know how it feels bro.
As for me, she's not a parasite, doesn't depend on me coz she has her own business and myself on the other hand, I'm just a small entrepreneur. But when I think it back and forth, all die na die, person fit run after all the money and end up not finding that type of lady anymore.

Lemme add that, she has all I want in a woman, that alone always want me to go extra extra for her and she does the same.

Where the fear dey be the pregnancy and/or marriage. I've met with her parents tho, and I was gladly accepted.

Papertrails:
Please nairalanders I need your advice on something that has been bothering me for sometime now.

I am a young graduate who graduated from the university almost two years ago and am done with my youth service too but am still trying to get a job or put up something maybe a business that will be fetching me money considering the situation of our country in terms of availability of jobs.

Then there's is this girl I have been dating for three years and everything has been going well but recently she has been really disturbing me to come and see her people or get her pregnant, am someone that will do everything within my power to make sure my kids don't pass through the hardship I have passed through being someone that wasn't born with a silver spoon, and another thing is that I really love this girl.
Am really confused and don't know what to do.

SILENTandSMART2:
Shebi she know how to drink garri very well ?

If yes , let's us welcome the baby please

Papertrails:
Please nairalanders I need your advice on something that has been bothering me for sometime now.

I am a young graduate who graduated from the university almost two years ago and am done with my youth service too but am still trying to get a job or put up something maybe a business that will be fetching me money considering the situation of our country in terms of availability of jobs.

Then there's is this girl I have been dating for three years and everything has been going well but recently she has been really disturbing me to come and see her people or get her pregnant, am someone that will do everything within my power to make sure my kids don't pass through the hardship I have passed through being someone that wasn't born with a silver spoon, and another thing is that I really love this girl.
Am really confused and don't know what to do.

cayorday89:
She has given you two options, if you truly love her and she does same, sit her down ask her why she is taking that decision and if you are convinced enough, meet her parents, but no do pass yourself if marriage rites enter, do the little you can and hold on with childbirth for now... Goodluck boss.

Kebbiprince:

Well said, once she's pregnant she will start nagging the poor boy to provide for her. Women only set you up with stuffs like that and leave u to your fate. Be smart

seanwilliam:
shey your eyes blind u no see where the op say he can’t even afford baby food ( which means op can’t feed himself yet u Dey advise him to go ahead ) na wa o

cayorday89:

You don't need to add insult, it's a bad way of communicating, did you see where I said he should not do pass himself, and is he going to be forever jobless?
Read in between the lines and you will see where I told him to sit her down and discuss, so many factors could come in which they could work on, parents could also help in a little way..
Next time if you can't quote without insult in your comment stay off quoting people's comments.

Judybash93:


The thing is, i don't think she can be the only lady that'd have everything you need in a woman considering the huge population of the country as well as the continent.

Papertrails:


Lol... actually am more concerned about the baby because I don't want to be responsible for an innocent child's suffering.

Papertrails:
Please nairalanders I need your advice on something that has been bothering me for sometime now.

I am a young graduate who graduated from the university almost two years ago and am done with my youth service too but am still trying to get a job or put up something maybe a business that will be fetching me money considering the situation of our country in terms of availability of jobs.

Then there's is this girl I have been dating for three years and everything has been going well but recently she has been really disturbing me to come and see her people or get her pregnant, am someone that will do everything within my power to make sure my kids don't pass through the hardship I have passed through being someone that wasn't born with a silver spoon, and another thing is that I really love this girl.
Am really confused and don't know what to do.

marvel2011:
You know there is no money and you are not working yet you were busy doing press up on top of a lady. Now the result has shown. You better pick up your responsibility pls