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Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by Duplexxx: 7:29am On Apr 11, 2021 |
To borrow money sweet pass even sugar it self Payback na he dem take pull 4 teeths from my friend mount with heavy pouch like mike Tyson own Since dem he just be like say na me he happened to I immediately picked up correction not to dey borrow money is better i dash you o 2 Likes |
Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by pocohantas(f): 7:31am On Apr 11, 2021 |
There are amounts you lend to people that are plain ridiculous and questions the sensibility of you, the lender. If you don’t have sense, then it is quite normal that a fool and his money are parted. I will give you an example; A guy I knew who works in a hotel as a porter once came to me for a loan. He said his mum was sick and he showed evidence. How much did he ask for? N30,000. This was a guy earning 25k. He said he would pay back in two installments. I would have been very stupid to believe a guy who earns 25k would pay me 15k each month and survive on 10k. He might have the CHARACTER (willingness to pay), but the CAPACITY is lacking. I simply gave him the money to go pay her hospital bills. If I went on to lend him that money, na me be mumu. I have no recovery stories. Currently, I only lend to colleagues, we fix ourselves internally. Also if I have given you once and you paid back on time, don’t bother coming a second time, I won’t give. The second time is the trap. 50 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by tayo60(f): 7:32am On Apr 11, 2021 |
Mine are my customers that buy things from me and refuse to pay. When I now ask them to pay, they start misbehaving, making me look bad for asking them my money. Some people are so bad, they don't have human feeling. At times they make me regret selling things for them. 4 Likes |
Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by aminusodiq(m): 7:32am On Apr 11, 2021 |
One still dey owe me like dis... About 30k and he ddnt say anything about it... Lend another some money. He has been telling me stories upon stories since 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by ArticleBeast: 7:33am On Apr 11, 2021 |
Akasammyoka:I gats take the approach when the guy tell me say even Nigeria dey owe make I allow am rest 5 Likes |
Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by gbemishile: 7:33am On Apr 11, 2021 |
one of my very awful flaws. I borrow people money and feel too ashamed to request for the money back.thats y some times I usually borrow people the money I can afford to give away.i don't like confrontations,making that person feel ashamed for requesting money from me. another worse flaw I have is If someone is lying to me,I usually act like I accept the lies Hook line and sinker and would desperately want the person to believe I don't know he is lying cus I don't want the person to feel ashamed when he realises that I know he is lying. 8 Likes |
Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by 5Gbabe: 7:34am On Apr 11, 2021 |
Lovethaa:oil dey ur head too 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by Nobody: 7:34am On Apr 11, 2021 |
People borrow money and just assume you don't need it anymore. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by 5Gbabe: 7:36am On Apr 11, 2021 |
ArticleBeast:if them no day plan to pay back na watin u go hear be that 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by keypha1: 7:38am On Apr 11, 2021 |
My guy came back from abroad, after he spent his money finish, he came my place and beg me to borrow him 100k, in next 3 days he will give me, I gave him and he travel back to Malaysia without giving me my money, I called and beg him to pay me my money I wan add m pay my house rent, this guy tell me so if I did not pay you back u can't find money and pay for ur house, I was mad, I trust my side village, umueri or aguleri, you can't shop somebody money and go free, I called him that I will sue him in alunsi, and that alunsi no dey Mercy, he kills instantly, he will start killing from your love ones , I went home and they call him that they give him 4 market days, on the last 4 days they will shoot gun for him in the air, am surprised within 2 days he called me to send my account number, few minit I received alert of 100k gbagam, I was so happy and I settled them and go back, I just wan put fear for him and he pay me my money, sometimes people will take addvantage that you don't want problem, they will take u as fool when you borrow them money. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by 5Gbabe: 7:39am On Apr 11, 2021 |
tayo60:na for nnwi na u go see those kind of customers if u ask them for ur money them go change am for u |
Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by crafteck(m): 7:39am On Apr 11, 2021 |
Dont lend anyone money, you will regret it 4 Likes |
Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by peacettw: 7:43am On Apr 11, 2021 |
gbemishile: Wow. Quick tip. If you arent married yet, seek for a gal that is the complete opposite of you. Otherwise, I fear for your future 9 Likes |
Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by lasheez(m): 7:44am On Apr 11, 2021 |
To lend money out to some people is a sin. They will make you turn into a beast just to get back your money. For 6years and counting I initially lend money out to my old Secondary school class mate the sum of 500k. Fast foward he initially paid back 50k at the end of 40 days and that's how we dragged on. I initially brought in police after 1 and a half years b4 he paid 200k and pleaded he will pay the balance of 250k that year. Nothing happened for 6 months and then he now refused to pick my calls. I took him to court and that was how I was now spending extra money just to win the case. Finally, the case was in my favour and was agreed that he will pay instalments of 50k for 5 months. He paid the first one.....and that was all. I currently leave in Abuja while he leaves in Jos where I took him to court. I noticed I spent more travelling to Jos and pay my lawyer each time I go to court. So I decided I will remain in Abuja . Now he defaulted and the court has given power to sell any of his property to retrieve my money back. I decided to hold on and thought how bad it will be for him and his family since lockdown started last year. Fast foward to 2021, I decided I will involve his pastor in church and just tell him how his church member was behaving which the pastor intervened and now I am promised to get back my money by the end of April. *Never burrow huge amount of money to people struggling in life, they will give you high BP * Never burrow money out of pity, you will regret it * Never burrow money out for biz purpose, you are not a financial institution. The court will throw out your case * Make sure there is a written agreement stating you are lending out money to be paid at a particular period. * Give out money you can afford and forget it. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by Nobody: 7:47am On Apr 11, 2021 |
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Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by NiceMen: 7:47am On Apr 11, 2021 |
alllivesmatter:no problem bro but I must teach him a lesson not to take peoples gentility for granted. I don't mind spending any amount to get that money from him. |
Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by DJperdurabo: 7:52am On Apr 11, 2021 |
Experience would fill an encyclopaedia. Let's leave it at that. Sigh... 2 Likes |
Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by andre45: 7:52am On Apr 11, 2021 |
mine happened when I was still a fresher in university. I have a family friend who do take money from LAPO. so he told me he needs money to pay up his LAPO loan so that he can collect another one. that he needs 50k to balance up the payment. that imediately he collect the loan he will give me back my 50k. that was way back in 2006. I was just too naive and gave him my school fees. this guy refuse to pay me my money after collecting the loan for over two months and exam was already approaching. I told a friend of mine who was a cultist. they picked him up and he paid times two. so since then If you like be dying, I won't lend you money. I can only dash you o... if I have at that moment 11 Likes |
Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by Nobody: 7:53am On Apr 11, 2021 |
I never succeeded. Bottomline: I don't lend money again. If have, I give. If I don't have na "sorry o" |
Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by Didi2d(m): 7:55am On Apr 11, 2021 |
The man (debtor) still dey assure me say him go pay me back. Well, make we dey see |
Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by Alzawahiri: 7:59am On Apr 11, 2021 |
inoki247:. I stop to borrow money to anyone, since I realized that each of my friends i ever borrow money.i often end up loosing my money and their friendship back. |
Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by 15ssDRIVE(m): 7:59am On Apr 11, 2021 |
There are many sets of borrowers The one that will never get,since he don’t want to pay. The one that will get and say, Walahi I never get. And one that will say, if anything happen he happen. The one that is also praying say,make him papa die so the money goes. I gave Jamiu 7K$ yo add to his cash and buy a new brand Car. He paid 960$ Jamiu The day we meet for lasgidi........ you go pay oh !!!!!! Na Jamiu don make self ....... to give people wey dey even go school for him town money,no possible again. Once you start, begging process or borrow process and say you are from ..... IL**** I go just remember the ingrate and close that door...... |
Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by Exodora: 8:00am On Apr 11, 2021 |
Samsimple:Why do you hate women so much? Men too borrow without paying back ! |
Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by chatinent: 8:02am On Apr 11, 2021 |
I'll rather dash when I have than lend. They come with sweet mouth only to see you as a fool later. |
Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by alezzy13: 8:02am On Apr 11, 2021 |
The simple fact is once you lend to someone far lower than you socioeconomically, you are unlikely to get the money back, even if they promised heaven and all they will pay. .. In fact some will see it as wickedness when you start requesting for it: "you wet get all plenty money just dey disturb. . .na becos I ask you sef" ![]() Bottom line, just give what you can, and forget. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by CheedyJ(m): 8:03am On Apr 11, 2021 |
ArticleBeast:This is creative but risky ooo, just imagine something bad happened to him by a way of coincidence after your fake incantations, na prison straight ooo 3 Likes |
Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by chatinent: 8:04am On Apr 11, 2021 |
Exodora: But there are elements of truth; most ladies will never think of paying back. |
Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by Athemisia: 8:06am On Apr 11, 2021 |
heartleboy:worse of all a family member. They will never pay and the other members will tell you to forget... 5 Likes
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Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by EyezofGod120: 8:07am On Apr 11, 2021 |
Lovethaa:. Lols,u serve a living God |
Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by Athemisia: 8:09am On Apr 11, 2021 |
ArticleBeast:That's what we need for even our politicians to do the right thing....
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Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by MrCuteking(m): 8:10am On Apr 11, 2021 |
My case is similar. I loaned my best friend #250k. As in childhood friend from the same secondary school. He works as a fullstack senior web developer. Stays on his own. He said he needed to change his apartment to a better place that he would pay by month end once salary enters. Out of pity, I sent him the money, since February till date oga told me that his work is presently unstable that he is combing for other jobs. He's not called for a month now. I know it's his girlfriend that is making him act stupid but I know what to do. 3 Likes |
Re: Share Your Experience Collecting Your Money Back From Your Debtors by Athemisia: 8:11am On Apr 11, 2021 |
Pavore9:They'll always come with a cat's face to ask but a tiger's when you want it back. 2 Likes
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