Young lady laments about her boyfriend’s financial state and his low hustling spirit for a side business as he relies only on his salary.

Through the popular relationship adviser, Joro Olumofin, the lady who claims to earn three times his boyfriend’s salary cries out of being sick of seeing him broke.

Read her full write up below …




“Hello Joro. Please my boyfriend is very average for my liking. He’s a good guy and he loves me alot But I dont like his financial state. He earns 75k month and I earn almost 3 times that amount.

I love him but I still want him to have a side hustle, another source of income at least. He doesn’t talk about any business opportunity, he’s relying on his job alone.. I always suggest business ideas for him that he can at least develop and be more financially stable but he never take them serious.




He’s always scared of risks/loses. No hustling spirit at all and it’s very discouraging. I dont know what to do. I am very industrious and I just want someone that has the zeal for success especially since he’s a man. I want us to be comfortable but he’s not putting in enough work.

This is the 21st century and 75k is quite small. I always wonder what will happen if he loses his job (Godforid) there’s really no back up plan. Please what do I do? I know he loves me but is love enough? I’m worried.”


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https://woloaded.com.ng/my-boyfriend-has-zero-hustling-spirit-relies-on-salary-lady-earning-3x-more-than-her-man-says/

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Pls want me..give me ya salary so i can turn it into billions of naira.

What does one say to this sort of contentious woman...?

Na person wey una go kill una go Dey find

It's in our best interest to always look at the "Bigger Picture" and always have it in mind.

That lady means well for the boyfriend, he should look at the "Bigger Picture" for future purposes to avoid Weeping and gnashing of teeth in the near future.

I love the guy, he can't kill himself.
75k per month, what do I need in life again?

Make she kuku ma kill the guy because she loves him, Love & Hustle no be by force oooo.

Offpoint1:
I love the guy, he can't kill himself.
75k per month, what do I need in life again?

This is a one sided story in my opinion, yeah bros loves you but no hustling skills beside you are earjing x3 of his salary meaning what he earns in 3 months you earn in a month. My question is aunty do you love your boyfriend the way he loves you?

Yeah he loves you then help him to invest in a side business while he manages it or you help him to manage it most people find it hard to start because the risk involved do cloud their judgement.......

I wish you and your boo well x

If he is healing now... They will start again.... My bad is not doing white collar jobs. I still love him oo.. But I day like the status of his job... Am worried plz advice.....

Abet my ladies go sit down

Well, lots of things comes to play here. Have you tried suggesting the kind of side hustle he should do that will be suitable for him? Or you are just getting angry at him for not earning up to your expected amount.
Encourage him on good side hustlles that pays n not comparing him with one scammer fronting bitcoin and forex!
Girls like u will never be satisfied, so please leave him alone and don't poison his life with your toxic nature. He's slow n focused he'll get there at his own pace.

When he is ready to marry I hope he looks for a better job and elevate his spirit for hustling because men ought to work and not faint.. abi na woman..lol

HONESTFACT101:
The thrice you are earning is it via business or salary cos I can't fathom which company or business that pays 225k per month......signing out

Stop reflecting your lowlife mentality on others. People earn 5 million a month excluding bonuses.

Even if the man is earning 1million, she go still complain, the marriage is not compatible , two of you should not marry each other.

the future is female

The lady is right,but she needs to understand that not everybody is business minded. In most cases its due to upbringing and background of the person.

If she truly love the guy as she said,then she should continue hustling and make more efforts to make him business oriented.

If the hustling is the only wahala the guy has then she no get much problem, because with time he will tag a long.

Some are hustlers, but are big time Squanderers.

ArticleBeast:

Stop reflecting your lowlife mentality on others. People earn 5 million a month excluding bonuses.

[b]Funny thing is that you didn't even contribute to the topic......signing out[/b]

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It’s women nature to worry, that’s why they age four times faster than men. If he makes more than her she will worry he may be cheating. There’s always a reason to worry with women. Afishe ni.

It's only God that knows what you guys here on nairaland really want from a woman.
After reading some ridiculous comments here from guys that the babe is pushing the guy too much, she's stressing the guy and she should leave the guy alone with 75k salary in this present Nigeria
If a girl is not doing anything to support financially you guys will say she's lazy and not adding anything to the relationship, if she's not motivating you or supporting with word of encouragement you will say she's not wife material. Now you have a girl who earns her own money and also trying to push her guy to also try to do better next you guys are saying she's pushing too much. Nawa!!!

Too much asslicking in one post from the nigga above

HONESTFACT101:
The thrice you are earning is it via business or salary cos I can't fathom which company or business that pays 225k per month......signing out

Did you really just say you can't fathom a company/business that pay 225k per month?

Are you only asking or you just don't know any? Pls kindly answer let's know where to direct your illiterate comment.

talk2hb1:
Make she kuku ma kill the guy because she loves him, Love & Hustle no be by force oooo.

And this comment above is coming from a guy,

Lmao nl and slow males sha

Theboy21:
Too much asslicking in one post from the nigga above

Because he said the obvious truth? Are most guys here naturally dumbbells? A gf advises her bf to have a side hustle, and all your brain could comprehend is that, someone else is asslicking?

What are you, a five year old

Will the man be complaining if reverse was the case, what happened to moving at your own pace, no one is scared of risk, but things are more riskier dear, you want him to put his life savings into an investment is not sure about so that you'll come here and bash him about how he squandered his money and he's now relying heavily on you,na we be your best plug for everything sexual enhancement no forget tho

JovialJune:



Because he said the obvious truth? Are most guys here naturally dumbbells? A gf advises her bf to have a side hustle, and all your brain could comprehend is that, someone else is asslicking?

What are you, a five year old

OK seen, now get the fvck off my mention

This thread shows nl has got a huge enclave of naturally dull, immature, stupid fools with the (m) moniker, sad....

Theboy21:
OK seen, now get the fvck off my mention