Lovethaa:
Have been friends with a babe at my workplace and from her frequent visit to my office plus the way she calls me to check on me . you could easily tell that she likes me .

One thing led to another and we ended up kissing , after the kiss I told her to tell me about her past relationships plus her sexual life .

She opened up to me that she was introduced to sex at 8years old by one neighbor uncle ,
she told me how the uncle take her to his room and ask her to play with his Prick and sometimes would make her suck it ,she claim she couldn't tell her mom because she will beat her mercilessly

She said she officially started having sex at 10 ,she disclosed that she had done 4 abortions so far although the abortions were for the same guy . mind you she is just 24 years old

She claimed she's telling me all this because she loves me and wants to be honest with me .

But hearing all that I was weak.. this babe is from a wealthy family , she travels to yankee like someone going to a neighboring state plus she is an MSC Holder , unknown to her I have decided that I would marry her because she's educated and wealthy family is like a bonus but now she actually disgust me and I wish she didn't tell me all that ..

Ladies are doing shit behind forget all that pretty gentle face.. if I was to judge with the face I could have bet with my life that this babe was a virgin or atleast not that experienced in sex ...


and pls ladies if you have such dirty past ,I think u should keep it to yourself...



I'm just lost for words , wish I could unhear everything

Magnoliaa:


Is this really necessary, though? He's just one man, babe. See almost all the men on this thread (surprisingly) have spoken against the OP. There are tens of thousands of men that'll vibe with that babe. People will find their tribe. You said she's her authentic self. Nobody knows, but that's the point. To be authentic. Women are sexual creatures. Women like sex. How you choose to express that solely rests with you. That people will criticize you shouldn't stop you from doing what you want - if you have the mind.

I agree that we should all be sensible, though, in the latter part of your comment. Don't do things because a man 'induced' you and 'cajoled' you and whatever. That is not wokeness. Wokeness is another entirely valid thing that people misunderstand.

If women divest from marriages and men, a lot of these issues wouldn't be at all...

Kingcalls:


All those men u think are supporting her will still treat her like trash after the sex... u women are not smart enough to understand men... the way a woman gets frustrated with a broke bf or husband with time is the way a guys frustration will grow because of her past...keep getting deceived....

Lovethaa:
Have been friends with a babe at my workplace and from her frequent visit to my office plus the way she calls me to check on me . you could easily tell that she likes me .

One thing led to another and we ended up kissing , after the kiss I told her to tell me about her past relationships plus her sexual life .

She opened up to me that she was introduced to sex at 8years old by one neighbor uncle ,
she told me how the uncle take her to his room and ask her to play with his Prick and sometimes would make her suck it ,she claim she couldn't tell her mom because she will beat her mercilessly

She said she officially started having sex at 10 ,she disclosed that she had done 4 abortions so far although the abortions were for the same guy . mind you she is just 24 years old

She claimed she's telling me all this because she loves me and wants to be honest with me .

But hearing all that I was weak.. this babe is from a wealthy family , she travels to yankee like someone going to a neighboring state plus she is an MSC Holder , unknown to her I have decided that I would marry her because she's educated and wealthy family is like a bonus but now she actually disgust me and I wish she didn't tell me all that ..

Ladies are doing shit behind forget all that pretty gentle face.. if I was to judge with the face I could have bet with my life that this babe was a virgin or atleast not that experienced in sex ...


and pls ladies if you have such dirty past ,I think u should keep it to yourself...



I'm just lost for words , wish I could unhear everything

Lovethaa:
Have been friends with a babe at my workplace and from her frequent visit to my office plus the way she calls me to check on me . you could easily tell that she likes me .

One thing led to another and we ended up kissing , after the kiss I told her to tell me about her past relationships plus her sexual life .

She opened up to me that she was introduced to sex at 8years old by one neighbor uncle ,
she told me how the uncle take her to his room and ask her to play with his Prick and sometimes would make her suck it ,she claim she couldn't tell her mom because she will beat her mercilessly

She said she officially started having sex at 10 ,she disclosed that she had done 4 abortions so far although the abortions were for the same guy . mind you she is just 24 years old

She claimed she's telling me all this because she loves me and wants to be honest with me .

But hearing all that I was weak.. this babe is from a wealthy family , she travels to yankee like someone going to a neighboring state plus she is an MSC Holder , unknown to her I have decided that I would marry her because she's educated and wealthy family is like a bonus but now she actually disgust me and I wish she didn't tell me all that ..

Ladies are doing shit behind forget all that pretty gentle face.. if I was to judge with the face I could have bet with my life that this babe was a virgin or atleast not that experienced in sex ...


and pls ladies if you have such dirty past ,I think u should keep it to yourself...



I'm just lost for words , wish I could unhear everything

IamPlato:
any Woman Who Has Lived Such Fvcked Up Life Doesnt Deserve To Marry A Noble Man.

She Should Go Marry The Man She Aborted For Or Marry Men Like Her Stupid Ex.


She Is Mad. When She Was Fvcking And Abortin she Didnt Remember There Would Be A Future To Regret

IamPlato:
so Women Have Become Robots That Cant Talk Or Take Actions.


What Makes You Believe She Was Saying The Truth

seanwilliam:


This is actually one the most sensible comments under this topic.


Imagine some simps okoto mew mew.
Arrant nonsense! U don’t expect me to clean up another man’s mess. You already had four abortions at age 24.. this is totally disgusting and I will curse any brother that marries a public toilet like that ..


Y’all falling for a woman’s story , nawa o, no wonder most girls claim being raped after u discover they are not virgin , dem go sha get one uncle Wey rape dem when they are young..

Rubbish !


I wonder why men mostly fall for women trick.. see them calling the op a gold digger as if him no come from a wealthy background too ( according to him )..

Imagine a foôl up there comparing a women with countless dickering with a virgin .. na wao .. four abortions? I can’t even believe that .


If a naija girl tells u that she has 2 body count , pls. Multiply it by 3 atleast!


Radarada



And besides don’t even test me with such a disgusting story to see my reaction .. u fit tell your daddy such story as a lady to see his reaction ?

Nonsense , make we condemn nonsense attitude , una Dey here Dey form captain save the hoe . A sensible woman should be very careful of her sexual life...

@op the lady in question get problem , na tie she one tie u . Japa

delpee:
Why ask a question without being prepared for whatever the answer will be?

If you don't have the maturity and a strong heart to accept a person's filthy past, It's better to deal with him/her as seen than to fish out old stuff which you can't handle.

Unified07:

the consequences of her sins will always befall her in the future, this girls are doing terrible things Men also need to be careful

2elliot:
But we just called a hoe a hoe, and you are offended na.

SenecaTheYonger:


why would someone who is underage ask her uncle to give her dick to suck?

Why would a girl get pregnant without a boy fucking her?

Yes, there are dangerous women, but why would you defend men like there are not dangerous men out there that just want to destroy a woman and brag to their friends about it?

Acidosis:
What no one has said here is that not everyone who tells the truth are actually truthful about the truth they claim to share. Don't be fooled. Just believe whatever you have heard and make your decision based on the level of info you have.

The fact that she told you she had done 4 abortions doesn't mean she's truthful. She may have done about 10. No be everybody dey tell absolute truth. Most of the truths we claim we share are actually half-truth.

Kingcalls:



Don't mind those mofos... do not judge they say , but will judge and abandon u the moment u open up to them about ur finance.... is a a broke guy u open ur mouth and tell ur gf that u are struggling and that u used to have alot of money in the past but ur ex gfs finished ur money, how many of them will remain with u... only simps are attacking the op

Emperorlanky:



What are you saying? Like he doesn't have a choice just because the lady is honest? Pls cut the crap? There are consequences for every action we take. No matter how honest you are, I will decide who I'll spend the rest of my life with.

larryjonze:




Unfortunately life is not like that, Good & bad is what keeps the world rotating.
if good only attract good, and if bad only attract bad then the world would av ended long before the invention of trumpet.
Everyone wants the "good" .. is it feasible, are we being realistic ... naturally i think gurls are bad so i am usually unsettled around the ones formin saint.

1Sharon:

Wishful thinking.

Lovethaa:




She is not even up to 4 months at our workplace and we already kissed and cuddle. although no crime in that but heating all that made me conclude she might never change..

IamPlato:
naturally Life Is Not Fair but Some Of Us Have Learn How To throw The Bullshit back At Life.

I Cant Marry such Kind Of Lady Over My Dead Body

I Cant Marry A Non-virgin Because I Have No Idea What The Hell She has Done With Her Past

Will Never Marry A Baby Mama, cant Have and Raise Another Man's Child while The Idiot Is Out There Fvcking Other Girls, she Should Go Marry Her Baby Dad

IamPlato:
i am not defending dangerous men i am speaking the reality of things


will you marry such woman i ask you?


if a woman tells you such will you just smile and embrace her? answer me bros


remove sentiments from your eyes bro.

am not even talking about the thing that happened when she was a child. i am talking about her sex life and multiple abortions. basically she has created four lives and murdered them

PrimadonnaO:



Chai. Lessons to all the ladies out there o. Ndi wokeism! Ndi sex-on-the-first-date, Ndi sexually-liberated. They will use it against you!

Oga is not criticising himself for making out with the lady... instead he's criticising the lady. What a life!

As for the things she told you, I hope it doesn't make her feel worthless. I understand her kind of person. When she likes a person, she doesn't want secrets. She wants to bare it all and be seen for who she really is.

I applaud her and I hope she doesn't change because that's what it means to be authentic. If this gist had come out in marriage, the man would have felt defrauded.

OP, you have to handle this with tact and utmost sensibility. Since you said you don't want to marry her, no wahala... your intentions weren't even pure. You were considering her because she's from a wealthy background.

What I'll advise you do is that you sustain the tempo of your interactions for a while so that when you begin to disconnect, she won't trace it to the revelations she made.

And biko, don't sleep with her whether or not she initiates it.


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That being said, please my dears, try not to make too many mistakes in life so you don't have secrets that you'll be advised to take to the grave. Isn't that too burdensome?

Try not to do things that you can't boldly come out to admit you did.

One abortion may be a mistake, but two, three four. Haba nau! Why? These men you're having sex with and aborting babies for are walking away unscathed. Can't you see it? Don't cover it up with wokeness or whatever. You're doing yourself such an injustice.

A man who may have made other girls in the past to abort his babies will still come out tomorrow and dump another girl who tells him she's had an abortion.

GALAXY11:
jeez.,am surprise abt the way u guys see tinz..if dis young man happens to b ur brother,wil u ask him to go ahead wit the marriage?..brother make we reason am na...atimes tinz are easier said than done...past are past but there're past life that can affect ur future negatively..we shud b care4u in selecting life partner.tanks

Kebbiprince:

That's why I laugh when people insult older ladies, most ladies in their 30s are far purer than the so called Ladies in early 20s who have been damaged beyond repair

Ishilove:

Don't be unfortunate. You asked her to open up and she did, now you are coming here to yarn dust. It shows you are not emotionally mature enough to handle a relationship and I hope she kicks your goldigging ass to the dustbin

Lovethaa:



What are you even saying... Countless sex 4 abortions.. just 24.... o wrong nau

Unified07:

you don't really know the world you are living in