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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Starcrest1: 12:11am On Apr 13, 2021
All these people supporting the girl should get out.!
Go about taking bad decisions and later you feel you shouldn't be judged. Thunder fire person.

Anybody that wants to marry the lady should go ahead but please don't guilt trip the guy for jakpaing. That's a very good decision.

If I discover a lady I want to marry has an unusually high body count, I don jakpa be that; not to talk of using abortions to do breakfast.

Mtccchhhheeeeeewwwwww!

This is not about not handling the truth by the way. It's about being wise with the truth.

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by phazotron(m): 12:13am On Apr 13, 2021
Lordbinsmar:


I find it very disappointing that a lot of people on this forum see nothing wrong with having 4 different abortions at tender age of 24.

Instead they are shifting the blame on OP for having a doubtful mind about an ex olosho. grin grin

should He be the one to suffer for another man's misfortune embarassed embarassed embarassed

My brother.....zero brains I'm sorry to say

People will justify and say na poverty

What about those Wey poor Wey blow Normal way?

Most of them born from around 1995 downwards have no hope I'm sorry to say

Dem don dey open leg at barely 20 when dem never enter university

At the crucial age when dem suppose dey strategize how to arrange your future dem don dey open leg

It is finished

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by karkinase(m): 12:13am On Apr 13, 2021
I keep saying this, Simps will end this world. See em attacking the OP, one basic law of life is for every actions there are consequences. If this is not checkmated, many ladies will continue having multiple abortions and know fully well they will be saved by simps; afterall I told him my past n we shuldnt judge bullshit. .
It's all a ploy by ladies to eat their cake and have it.
Guys be wise!

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by ImaIma1(f): 12:13am On Apr 13, 2021
It would have been better if she just kept most of thr details to herself and only sieved what she told you.

Many people can't handle the truth. Sometimes it is better to be economical with the truth.
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by anyimpro(m): 12:14am On Apr 13, 2021
she might be lying to test you, if she is from a wealthy family what business does she have with one neighbor uncle.

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by phazotron(m): 12:15am On Apr 13, 2021
ImaIma1:
It would have been better if she just kept most of thr details to herself and only sieve what she tells you.

Many people can't handle the truth. Sometimes it is better to be economical with the truth.

Yes some people can't handle the truth and they should be proud of if

See them......devil senior sister at work

Master manipulator that's what you are

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Dalil8: 12:16am On Apr 13, 2021
karkinase:
I keep saying this, Simps will end this world. See em attacking the OP, one basic law of life is for every actions there are consequences. If this is not checkmated, many ladies will continue having multiple abortions and know fully well they will be saved by simps; afterall I told him my past n we shuldnt judge bullshit. .
It's all a ploy by ladies to eat their cake and have it.
Guys be wise!


"Consequences that they must be prepared to live with".

Thank you!

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Magnoliaa(f): 12:16am On Apr 13, 2021
jclassiq:


Why this woman dey provoke like this? Seems you also have a dark secret like the lady in question.

Not to worry now; you will certainly find someone who would accept you with your flaws and all.

Just don't try to blackmail someone Into accepting what they don't want.

I know the reason the Op asked for her past in the place, is to make an informed decision.. So you guys shld understand with him.

Nope. Being judgemental (different from making informed opinions) and castigating someone as the lowliest of lows, as the vilest, everything is what the op is doing here. No one is blackmailing him into taking what he doesn't want. Yes. Everyone has their preferences and standards and can go for them... it is not so in the OP's case, if you're discerning to pick that. He's using it to jdge women, to paint them as loose, saying they should keep their past to themselves...
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by safarigirl(f): 12:19am On Apr 13, 2021
Lovethaa:




She is not even up to 4 months at our workplace and we already kissed and cuddle. although no crime in that but heating all that made me conclude she might never change..



You don't have sense and she certainly deserves better than an insensitive fellow like you

Someone divulged to you that she was molested as a child, and this thread is the rubbish you could come up with? Are you educated at all? Have you bothered to make research on the impact such abuse can have on an adult? Do you know that victims of rape as minors, can suffer from anything from repulsion by sex or an excessive love of it?

Honestly, did you go to school at all? Because clearly, your words betray you as ignorant and incapable of starting a family.

The lady surely deserves something better than you, I cannot imagine someone going through such trauma as a child, only to end up with someone like you.

May you never have a child that is subjected to sexual abuse, so that another person will not be repulsed by her as you are now repulsed by a victim.

Once again, you're an insensitive and ignorant fellow.

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by olabrinks(f): 12:26am On Apr 13, 2021
I remember my ex mother told me she had 13 arbortions in her young days. Abortion did not start today, and that woman has been married for 20 years plus. I feel like this site is just full of people who are out of touch, people who don’t meet people outside of a small bubble. Very closed minded people. When you live life, meet people, travel..you learn a lot of things.
Lordbinsmar:
Nigerians will always celebrate mediocrity embarassed embarassed see how people are justifying someone who had 4 abortions at age 24. shocked shocked shocked

How on earth would you have 4 abortions at age 24 if you are not a prostitute.

Any body blaming the OP for not liking the girl again is wicked and evil. angry angry

Can you allow your male child to marry a lady with 4 different abortions?
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by ImaIma1(f): 12:28am On Apr 13, 2021
phazotron:


Yes some people can't handle the truth and they should be proud of if

See them......devil senior sister at work

Master manipulator that's what you are


I don't know what you are on about. But, you will be fine.
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Brush1: 12:30am On Apr 13, 2021
Lovethaa:



Lol. ... I'm no gold digging ... I'm from a wealthy family and apart from my own personal money I have inheritances ad a firstborn ... but I have decided not to marry from a broke family ........


yes I can't deal with such silly history... that is why u should be careful with every silly thing you do

I hope you don't end up marrying a snake from the sea pretending to be an angel with even a visible wing. After marriage, she says hello hello dear husband meet your wife the snake... How's that sound?. Be very careful and learn to appreciate honest people.
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by phazotron(m): 12:32am On Apr 13, 2021
ImaIma1:


I don't know what you are on about. But, you will be fine.


Before nko? I will be very fine na!
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by 46arcadez(m): 12:34am On Apr 13, 2021
Lovethaa:
Have been friends with a babe at my workplace and from her frequent visit to my office plus the way she calls me to check on me . you could easily tell that she likes me .

One thing led to another and we ended up kissing , after the kiss I told her to tell me about her past relationships plus her sexual life .

She opened up to me that she was introduced to sex at 8years old by one neighbor uncle ,
she told me how the uncle take her to his room and ask her to play with his Prick and sometimes would make her suck it ,she claim she couldn't tell her mom because she will beat her mercilessly

She said she officially started having sex at 10 ,she disclosed that she had done 4 abortions so far although the abortions were for the same guy . mind you she is just 24 years old

She claimed she's telling me all this because she loves me and wants to be honest with me .

But hearing all that I was weak.. this babe is from a wealthy family , she travels to yankee like someone going to a neighboring state plus she is an MSC Holder , unknown to her I have decided that I would marry her because she's educated and wealthy family is like a bonus but now she actually disgust me and I wish she didn't tell me all that ..

Ladies are doing shit behind forget all that pretty gentle face.. if I was to judge with the face I could have bet with my life that this babe was a virgin or atleast not that experienced in sex ...


and pls ladies if you have such dirty past ,I think u should keep it to yourself...



I'm just lost for words , wish I could unhear everything
Tell us about your past relationships plus your sexual life .
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Liposure: 12:37am On Apr 13, 2021
Kebbiprince:

That's why I laugh when people insult older ladies, most ladies in their 30s are far purer than the so called Ladies in early 20s who have been damaged beyond repair
i concur

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by BinamRex: 12:41am On Apr 13, 2021
Lovethaa:




She is not even up to 4 months at our workplace and we already kissed and cuddle. although no crime in that but heating all that made me conclude she might never change..



Guy, shut up, will you? People are trying to make you see reason, but you are hellbent on being judgemental and perfect.
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by OyinO: 12:43am On Apr 13, 2021
OP bleeped up!
If you knew you don't want heartbreak, why did you ask her to open up to you? If she didn't tell you the truth, you will still call her a pretender who deceived you. Maybe you're a gold-digger who wanted to get a virgin pusssy plus lots of golden opportunities to wealth.
That lady just want to see if you truly loved her. And now you bleeped up. What she did at only 8 years of age is not her own doing but an adult taking advantage of her. Now you gonna punish her for that? That's immaturity.
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Mayalaya1: 12:46am On Apr 13, 2021
I'm in this same shoe and I've decided not to ask any girl about their past again... We all get out past.

If you try it, it will hunt you I must be sincere with you.
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Kingcalls: 12:47am On Apr 13, 2021
BinamRex:


Guy, shut up, will you? People are trying to make you see reason, but you are hellbent on being judgemental and perfect.

Na by force...he has set his standards...u cant force him to accept what he doesn't want
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by ShenTeh(m): 12:48am On Apr 13, 2021
Lovethaa:
Have been friends with a babe at my workplace and from her frequent visit to my office plus the way she calls me to check on me . you could easily tell that she likes me .

One thing led to another and we ended up kissing , after the kiss I told her to tell me about her past relationships plus her sexual life .

She opened up to me ...

Darling op, how old are you sir?
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by LegalWolf: 12:50am On Apr 13, 2021
booscy:


The simple answer should have been Yes I'm perfect or No I'm not perfect

I’m feeling you as you’re giving them hot hot. Bunch of hypocrites!!!!!!!!!
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by chuddyforlife(m): 12:57am On Apr 13, 2021
safarigirl:


You don't have sense and she certainly deserves better than an insensitive fellow like you

Someone divulged to you that she was molested as a child, and this thread is the rubbish you could come up with? Are you educated at all? Have you bothered to make research on the impact such abuse can have on an adult? Do you know that victims of rape as minors, can suffer from anything from repulsion by sex or an excessive love of it?

Honestly, did you go to school at all? Because clearly, your words betray you as ignorant and incapable of starting a family.

The lady surely deserves something better than you, I cannot imagine someone going through such trauma as a child, only to end up with someone like you.

May you never have a child that is subjected to sexual abuse, so that another person will not be repulsed by her as you are now repulsed by a victim.

Once again, you're an insensitive and ignorant fellow.


i have been holding my self since from commenting on this particular issue but you have trigger me to

what kind of rubbish are you talking about the op being insensitive and ignorant

for having qualities and standards......

he asked for the truth from a woman he intended to spend the rest of his life with

which is a normal pros for every well being man.....

and to god be the glory the girl opened up without hiding anything from him
i commend her for that

and you here talking about ignorance and not been man enough---------not been educated

smh for woman of this days...

will you allow your brother to marry that kind of woman......i need an honest answer cause if you lie God will jugde you

i know you would have applauded him if he say o yeah thee come to me for i have forgiving and forgetting about your wayward and stinking past.....

cant you see or realize the emotional trauma the op will go through in that marriage if it finally hold......

waking up from bed to see your lovely wife only for you to remember she has did 4 abortions.......GOD FORBID BAD THING

yes the lady in talk was abused when she was @ tender age 8 to 10 years

what stops her from having regular sex with the same man or what stops her from reporting him to her parents or guidance even police nor church members.......

sister reason with your head and you girls should stop playing the victim card always

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by ezewealth(m): 1:01am On Apr 13, 2021
AsherAmari:


**Laughs @bolded**

Well .. I've come to realize that men don't like being told the truth. It's just that I can't lie about myself.

nobody likes hearing the truth oga
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by seanwilliam(m): 1:06am On Apr 13, 2021
Yusufisraelj:


Thank God you are not my brother grin grin grin
lol funny man. U sound like a pastor
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by OgbeniSamm(m): 1:08am On Apr 13, 2021
Magnoliaa:
I don't believe this story, but I like that kinda babe. And I wish she'd kick your gold-digging ass to the curb if it was true.

Yeah, right. We should keep our sexual histories to ourselves and then you get mad about the deception?? So if she lied she was a virgin, that's better? And what's to stop a woman from doing anything she wants? Pretty face? Like, I don't understand what the deal is, like it's new.

"You don't know the shitty things women do behind..." Pelee. Discoverer of the century.

If you can't deal with any lady's history, vamoose and move on. C'est fini.


You don vex. Oya no vex
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Zenithpeak(m): 1:09am On Apr 13, 2021
jclassiq:


You pl shouldn't just be commenting for commenting sake abeg.

Who tricked who?
"Tell me about your past?", how is that a trick question pls?

Nawao.

That is my own view of the issue and there is absolutely nothing you can do about it.... The case isn't yours yours, so, why crying more than the bereaved?

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by sheriffindy(m): 1:16am On Apr 13, 2021
[even if you're not gold digger...youre just good at digging..digging up anythingquote author=Lovethaa post=100706474]


Lol. ... I'm no gold digging ... I'm from a wealthy family and apart from my own personal money I have inheritances ad a firstborn ... but I have decided not to marry from a broke family ........


yes I can't deal with such silly history... that is why u should be careful with every silly thing you do [/quote]
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Magnoliaa(f): 1:17am On Apr 13, 2021
OgbeniSamm:



You don vex. Oya no vex

grin Buy me diamond shoes and emerald-encrusted bags and I won't be hangry again.
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Dalil8: 1:21am On Apr 13, 2021
safarigirl:


You don't have sense and she certainly deserves better than an insensitive fellow like you

Someone divulged to you that she was molested as a child, and this thread is the rubbish you could come up with? Are you educated at all? Have you bothered to make research on the impact such abuse can have on an adult? Do you know that victims of rape as minors, can suffer from anything from repulsion by sex or an excessive love of it?

Honestly, did you go to school at all? Because clearly, your words betray you as ignorant and incapable of starting a family.

The lady surely deserves something better than you, I cannot imagine someone going through such trauma as a child, only to end up with someone like you.

May you never have a child that is subjected to sexual abuse, so that another person will not be repulsed by her as you are now repulsed by a victim.

Once again, you're an insensitive and ignorant fellow.

Fine! She should go find someone better deserving of her if there's any. Cuz no man including your brother would want to marry a serial abortionist.

She made her choices, now she must live with the consequences!

He deserves the best woman, a woman with zero abortions and yes there are hundreds of millions of them out there.

Trauma this trauma that. Blame everything and everyone but yourselves. Daughters of eve.

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by jamesfield: 1:21am On Apr 13, 2021
shocked
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Powersurge: 1:25am On Apr 13, 2021
Lovethaa:
Have been friends with a babe at my workplace and from her frequent visit to my office plus the way she calls me to check on me . you could easily tell that she likes me .

One thing led to another and we ended up kissing , after the kiss I told her to tell me about her past relationships plus her sexual life .

She opened up to me that she was introduced to sex at 8years old by one neighbor uncle ,
she told me how the uncle take her to his room and ask her to play with his Prick and sometimes would make her suck it ,she claim she couldn't tell her mom because she will beat her mercilessly

She said she officially started having sex at 10 ,she disclosed that she had done 4 abortions so far although the abortions were for the same guy . mind you she is just 24 years old

She claimed she's telling me all this because she loves me and wants to be honest with me .

But hearing all that I was weak.. this babe is from a wealthy family , she travels to yankee like someone going to a neighboring state plus she is an MSC Holder , unknown to her I have decided that I would marry her because she's educated and wealthy family is like a bonus but now she actually disgust me and I wish she didn't tell me all that ..

Ladies are doing shit behind forget all that pretty gentle face.. if I was to judge with the face I could have bet with my life that this babe was a virgin or atleast not that experienced in sex ...


and pls ladies if you have such dirty past ,I think u should keep it to yourself...



I'm just lost for words , wish I could unhear everything

Hmm. make I no talk. Yenyenyenyen!
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by ibkonekt(m): 1:29am On Apr 13, 2021
ImaIma1:
It would have been better if she just kept most of thr details to herself and only sieved what she told you.

Many people can't handle the truth. Sometimes it is better to be economical with the truth.
It would have been better if she did not sleep around in her past like a worthless wh0re in the name of freedom feminism and my body my choice. That way you wont have to lie or be economical with the truth. But ladies want to have their cake and eat it too. Men are disgusted by high body count. It signifies impulsiveness stupidity and lack of ability to discern the lies of society and feminism. No matter the amount of commercial and indoctrination that media tries to push about accepting wh0res as wives, men of value will not do so. They belong to the street

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