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EVERYTHING IS A SCAM, RELIGION, NIGERIA, RELATIONSHIP ETC

Love issa scam

Money taken over

Yes Op undisputed facts, Accurate to perfection,But i have a question for you.



WHO BROKE UR HEART MAH!!!

Wuna say wahala be like wetyn again?���

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I like the picture you posted. Met those couple and they fit this description like a glove


By the way, I somewhat agree with you.

Relation or marriage is a serious business. We that understand the business knows how to carry out our transactions and will never be left disappointed. People that have more problem are those that refuse to accept relationships as something transactional. Behind every ''I love you'' hides a reason. Inside that reason is where you get the selfish interest.

Especially Anambra girls..... Scammer

I couldn't help but agree to this. We're all selfish, just that the victim always act as if the other one cheated him/her, forgetting that he/she would also do the same when the opportunity arises.

Rightly said i have made this acertion on my Facebook in 2014

Women generally benefit more from this 'scam'.

Wisdom

Exactly

E nr work for u, nr mean say e nr go work for others... u beta go find beta gfrnd b4 u dey shout relationships na scam....


Abeg mk nobody quote me oo... I dey para like dis, dem nr gree pay salary

nigeriagospel:
You're wise OP, nothing like love, selfish interest is the order of the day.

If it's does not favour us, we don't love it.

The OP never said there is nothing like love read it again

Exactly!
This is the reason a lot of relationships today hit the rocks even before they start. The moment you fall short of the high expectations, the "love" dwindles drastically without warnings and you begin to wonder what happened to the initial professions of love for each other. Where did things go wrong? Meanwhile, our selfish Interests all along have blinded us from seeing that there was really no genuineness in our intentions from the onset.

I've said it, no son of man will come with deception to woo me. The spirit of God will expose and disgrace him by fire!

NaijaMutant:
Greetings y'all,

Just making my debut in the romance section.

Why relationship is a scam.

Human beings are selfish by nature and everyone is only looking out for himself/herself. This is an undeniable fact. This fact also applies to relationships.

He is rich and she's beautiful; he wants a beautiful lady to match his wealth while she wants a rich guy to complement her beauty. Both of them reach a compromise to enter into a relationship since their selfish interest has been met.

When you also consider other various qualities such as Intelligence, education, complexion, character, height, sense of humor amongst other biases that shapes our selfish interest; both parties reach a compromise when their interest is met.

Both parties profess love and a relationship is established which is usually expected to lead to marriage. This is usually the case of some beautiful marriages around us.

Things usually fall apart the moment a partner meets another person who is higher in the scale of preference to satisfy his/her interest.

Then, the losing party feels cheated, betrayed and eventually turns into a feminist or misogynist.

We usually pretend our relationships are born out of true love forgetting that true love is not usually conditional or selfish.

If you have this understanding, you'll no longer kill yourself when your partner finds a better partner that will fulfill his/her dreams (selfish interest)

Know this and know peace.

P.S: This narrative does not negate the existence of true love which accounts for less than 5% of marriages today.

I like your write up , it accurately captures the situation when both parties place materialism as their ideology.

Now when both parties are mature physically emotionally and spiritually they come to understand what true love is and this scenario is as the creator willed it

That's not true, relationship is not a scam I found love in my trophy and cigar. So my relationship is good....

[quote author=saphiere post=100794278][/quote] I'm really disappointed about what you did back then, I even thought you are an innocent girl, totally disappointed in you.

NaijaMutant:
Agreed or disagreed ?

I'd like to hear what a dissenting opinion has to say about this.

Well I think the internet and civilization in nigeria has opened our eyes so much , we hardly even have experience in so many situations but we believe we know so much due to the things we see online.

Well years ago , youths don’t have this harsh mentality towards relationship and love issue , regardless , I do not think relationship is a scam . It’s just hard to find someone with similar interest as you .

But it’s not a scam . If everyone carries this mentality

I wonder if anyone would ever have a happy home or relationship

Because this opinion seems like you are generalizing

Insightful but seriously am among d 5percent u mentioned up dere...

Please make this thread shaperly reach and pass page 5 so as to come to fulfilment falseprophet's prediction,this I have to say!















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Since I started dating my weed.. No more heart breaks. Choose who you know won't disappoint you. For now,my weed has never disappointed me. Op you might wanna try some.. LiteMyKpoli

prince2pac:
I don't even know what relationship feels like.. life killed my emotions and I don't really know how to show love... no sexual feelings... just live my life tryna be happy, make everyone around happy...

maybe one day I will have to experience it

It's crazy bruv

Partly agreed

If everything is a SCAM then what is REAL? There can't be any relationship except there is interest and benefits to be derived from it, that does not mean that relationships are scams.

My appeal is that this generation of young people should stop dwelling on the negative on every single issue. This epidemic of excessive pessimism will not take us anywhere.

lkillbrokehoes:
I'm really disappointed about what you did back then, I even thought you are an innocent girl, totally disappointed in you.

What did I do?

NaijaMutant:
Greetings y'all,

Just making my debut in the romance section.

Why relationship is a scam.

Human beings are selfish by nature and everyone is only looking out for himself/herself. This is an undeniable fact. This fact also applies to relationships.

He is rich and she's beautiful; he wants a beautiful lady to match his wealth while she wants a rich guy to complement her beauty. Both of them reach a compromise to enter into a relationship since their selfish interest has been met.

When you also consider other various qualities such as Intelligence, education, complexion, character, height, sense of humor amongst other biases that shapes our selfish interest; both parties reach a compromise when their interest is met.

Both parties profess love and a relationship is established which is usually expected to lead to marriage. This is usually the case of some beautiful marriages around us.

Things usually fall apart the moment a partner meets another person who is higher in the scale of preference to satisfy his/her interest.

Then, the losing party feels cheated, betrayed and eventually turns into a feminist or misogynist.

We usually pretend our relationships are born out of true love forgetting that true love is not usually conditional or selfish.

If you have this understanding, you'll no longer kill yourself when your partner finds a better partner that will fulfill his/her dreams (selfish interest)

Know this and know peace.

P.S: This narrative does not negate the existence of true love which accounts for less than 5% of marriages today.

Lady do ur name start with a B