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Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by GoodFaith: 5:59pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
Lafrresh: If there are 500 relationship Please tell me the numbers that are true love? Relationship and marriages are conditional love-- most time we all find a common ground |
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by vanvino(m): 6:00pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
FalseProphet1:ofcouse it will exceed 5 pages: Our fathers don't know how to play politics hence its difficult for a common man or a youth to personalise it so to have meaningful discussion, we see our Religeous Leaders as gods so we follow as them as sheep, only yes and amen is allowed. any personaliz issue stire up discussion. As for the matter on ground: Love exist, Relationship is not a scam, if she love you cus of money and you love her cus of her attractiveness its still love and relationship. am using attractiveness not beauty cus beauty is a combination of qualities character included. Nigerian problem is that we can't stand the truth hence we live in assumtion mood. if she say she love u, u assume she will love u without money, question: is that what she said? if she tell u the truth will u still treat her right? for her honesty? |
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by Wittyglam(f): 6:03pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
That is why all relationship will never lead to marriage. People just have different opinions about relationship. Some people see it as the highest bidder get me or the most handsome. We all go into relationship for different reasons that is where attraction comes into place. That is why I will never saying this, love is never enough, you need discipline, commitment and respect. 1 Like |
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by Abdanny2000(m): 6:07pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
Abeg abeg, i don tire for relationship talk |
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by Nobody: 6:11pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
Dalil8:I believe it's a borrowed nature, else we shall never experience any progress, selfishness is anti progress and i hate it with passion. |
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by Didismart11(m): 6:11pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
Yes! I agree. Relationship today is nothing but scam. Everything looks out to his benefit. And money is the decisive factor. Do you blame them? No. Hunger and greed are two terrible infections. 1 Like |
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by jaxxy(m): 6:14pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
GoodFaith: I agree with u on this. Not everybody wants true love and that’s fine. It is only a problem when is mislabel ur relationship. U shud know the exact kind of relationship Ure into and work with it accordingly. True love isn’t even easy to find these days bt it exists and No relationship is perfect so it depends on what works for u bt know u are responsible for ur choices. |
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by NaijaMutant(f): 6:15pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
Playermayweda: Nobody o |
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by Hugo7(m): 6:18pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
@OP you just said my mind. In fact I don't plan going into all this 6 month 2 years relationship before marriage.once I am ready if it is within 1 week I will tell the lady without hesitation. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by Ishilove: 6:25pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
NaijaMutant:Mabinu |
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by walkingshadow911: 6:25pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
punisha: matured! u barely even know me. Agreed not all are scam but majority are if u know what time it is if u have no stars to thank, maybe u aren't aware of the serpent most men are dealing with in their marriages which was all sweet in the beginning and the cat was let outta the bag after marriage. what we see is what we get. Just be thankful for what u see. 1 Like |
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by BlackFlamefromP: 6:29pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
Please don't insult animals. Animals are far superior to human when it comes to a capacity for pure, unconditional and non-judgemental love. If you have ever had a dog you will understand what I am talking about. IceDune: 1 Like |
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by xynerise: 6:30pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
Love is not enough in a successful marriage 1 Like |
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by saphiere(f): 6:30pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
lkillbrokehoes:Hmmm Saint Obi thanks |
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by walkingshadow911: 6:35pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
GoodFaith: oil dey head no unconditional love anywhere, even God gave us conditions to make heaven make I sip my Heineken in peace jare 2 Likes |
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by masks(m): 6:35pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
torn in between.... |
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by PrimadonnaO(f): 6:37pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
I don't subscribe to this thought process, though. The points you made are logical but very debatable. Yes, humans are by nature, selfish, but that's why people need to be in love for a relationship to be fulfilling. Love conquers our innate selfish nature - it sees you making sacrifices and putting the other person's interest above yours. See, love grows, a relationship matures. But you have to first give it a chance right? We mostly give chances to our preferences. My preference in men includes; being a Christian, being literate, being responsible, older than I am, hygienic, etc. This means that I consciously give only people with those qualities a chance. And that's where love starts. But that in no way means I love them because of their religion or age or hygiene. If I were to have no parameters and gave everyone a chance, I'd probably fall in love with people I never imagined I could love. That's just it. So relationships aren't a scam, neither is love necessarily conditional. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by DEMZEE(m): 6:40pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
GoodFaith: I don't believe so Behind a successful man isn't a woman but his shadow |
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by Eastcaostboy: 6:40pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
NaijaMutant:Because you keep spending without returns...who does that |
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by Goldbw122(m): 6:59pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
if a relationship is a scam, then what will you do to lead to marriage, what will be the substance for marriage? |
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by Mypeople2(m): 7:01pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
IceDune:My guy most of them are parasitic .She is beautiful and the guy is a millionaire...must you leave him a thousandnaire ? Did he reduce your beauty? |
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by IceDune: 7:11pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
BlackFlamefromP: If you've ever heard of probiotics you will understand what I'm talking about |
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by IceDune: 7:12pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
Mypeople2: Atleast she stroked his ego. If he didn't need her for something he wouldn't go for her. Just saying |
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by MightySparrow: 7:15pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
I don't agree that true love can have a choice.Love itself is like a living organism:born, grows healthy or sick, dies if need be. 1 Like |
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by lkillbrokehoes: 7:15pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
saphiere:I have to be honest Sapphiere, I'm really really disappointed in what you did, I even thought you were still a virgin but you proved me wrong. I know we all have our own mistakes but repeating the same mistake twice is totally wrong. |
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by fineboynl(m): 7:29pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
it's was a beautiful piece but ended up spoiling with the last line because there is absolutely no love in relationships. marriage is not for everybody. the earlier young people knows it's a business investment that need alot of focast because it's evolved the unseen future the better it's is for all. 1 Like |
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by Chykes4micheal: 8:10pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
See the people that call themselves matured people opening their dirty mouth to say that relationship is a scam.... For all of you who agreed that it is a scam, you guys are the main problem in your relationship and and that is why you believe it is a scam. Let those who are enjoying their relationship continue to enjoy it abeg... Don't listen to this scrap that the writer put up here. Nonsense After getting into wrong relationships, having wrong motives of entering the relationship in the first instance, una no begin talk rubbish. You will not ask God for direction on who you should start a relationship and settle down with. You will use your ordinary eyes and be choosing forgetting that anything at the realm of sight is temporal. Annoying post 1 Like |
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by OLRAYS(m): 8:23pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
I hate that thing called love� |
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by GoodFaith: 8:23pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
Chykes4micheal:how u think Chykes4micheal: Out of 100 people 5 people making out of the 5 people 3 are stealing the people's money -------------------------------------------------------------------------- Mature--------"See the people that call themselves matured people opening their dirty mouth to say that relationship is a scam.." unreality Somebody like you will say Nigeria have a future lie to yourself Today relationship and marriage are full of BS |
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by Coolbadguy: 8:29pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
Abeg relationship na scam that's all. |
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by doris4u(f): 8:36pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
I won't say relationship is a scam totally, it becomes scam wen people date each for the wrong reasons. Las Las it still backfires |
Re: Why Relationship Is A Scam by wonder233: 8:43pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
I agree with you 100% NaijaMutant: |
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