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She Forfeited Her Medical School Admission For Love, Now She's Treated Unfairly. by Nobody: 6:36pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
This is a true story!! I have a female acquaintance who got an admission to study Medicine in the prestigious University of Nigeria Nsukka but forfeited it because she overheard her man telling someone that he would never marry a graduate because of the too many sex that students have in school. Apparently, the guy felt any lady who passes through school always graduated with too many body counts. This lady went ahead to forfeit that admission because she felt she loved this guy so much and would do anything to keep him. Well, the guy went on to marry her traditionally, and at present they have 3 kids. But that's not all, for over 2 Years, this guy has not had any sexual contact with his wife. Not only that, he has gone ahead to have 2 kids outside his marriage, and by 2 different women. Now the women are insisting he must marry them. He is not even hiding it from her or anyone. The worst part of it is that this lady can't control her husband; the man has told her clearly that he is no longer interested in marrying her again. But for the intervention of her in laws, she would have been pushed out of the marriage. The lady does a meager 30k job to keep her family going. I think it was insane for this lady to forfeit her admission for anyone, but then, was it worth it? She is 33 years old now. What would you advise her if you happen to come across her? Lalasticlala 1 Like |
Re: She Forfeited Her Medical School Admission For Love, Now She's Treated Unfairly. by Nobody: 6:38pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
You see this thing called "LOVE" nah one kain mumu thing. I won't condemn her totally, most of us here have love foolishly at one point. I will advise she leaves that illiterate with Community pennis she's married to and start all over again. 8 Likes |
Re: She Forfeited Her Medical School Admission For Love, Now She's Treated Unfairly. by Bornsinner7: 6:40pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
Things we do for love.. She made a great mistake and it has cost her but like the old saying "never say never".. she can still find an alternative to fetch a degree, if she's willing and able.. you have weekend programs and NOUN.. My friend was escorting me when I visited him some time ago.. he stopped by a shop to greet a girl, this girl was having a baby.. amazed! I asked him na she get the pikin?.. he said yes and started explaining that her parents are trying to make the guy who impregnated her marry her.. I then told him to please sit her down advice her and if possible see her parent.. the deed has been done.. they should take care of the child while she pursue a career for herself.. she is too young to forget about school and get married thereby being a burden to the young guy who himself is still looking for a compass for his way forward Many mistake would be avoided if people had person or persons who had adviced them strongly.. some make decisions out of ignorance and emotions.. 5 Likes |
Re: She Forfeited Her Medical School Admission For Love, Now She's Treated Unfairly. by johnkey: 6:49pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
advise and gold I have not, but my 7inch deep inside her poosay |
Re: She Forfeited Her Medical School Admission For Love, Now She's Treated Unfairly. by Klass99(f): 6:53pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
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Re: She Forfeited Her Medical School Admission For Love, Now She's Treated Unfairly. by DontBullshitMe: 6:54pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
F.I.C.T.I.O.N 1 Like |
Re: She Forfeited Her Medical School Admission For Love, Now She's Treated Unfairly. by descarado: 6:59pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
The moment she overheard her man saying he won't marry a graduate, she would have ran for her dear life. Problem with women is that thing they assume is love. Signs are always glaring yet the so called love will make women not use their senses. Not still too late. She can still be a medical Dr if she so desire. Time to move on. No regret but lesson learnt. 6 Likes |
Re: She Forfeited Her Medical School Admission For Love, Now She's Treated Unfairly. by descarado: 6:59pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
DontBullshitMe:I know ![]() |
Re: She Forfeited Her Medical School Admission For Love, Now She's Treated Unfairly. by Karlifate: 7:00pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
She gambled & she lost, that's life. Sometimes, you win. Sometimes, you learn. If she is keen on schooling, she can consider part-time OR better still opt for distance learning in any higher institution that offers it. That being said, let's be guided with the way we act on any information we obtain directly and/or indirectly. 1 Like |
Re: She Forfeited Her Medical School Admission For Love, Now She's Treated Unfairly. by Goldbw122(m): 7:01pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
Life is not fair |
Re: She Forfeited Her Medical School Admission For Love, Now She's Treated Unfairly. by LilMissFavvy(f): 7:01pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
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Re: She Forfeited Her Medical School Admission For Love, Now She's Treated Unfairly. by Nobody: 7:02pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
Klass99:Great advise. Do you think it's necessary she still tries to salvage her marriage 1 Like |
Re: She Forfeited Her Medical School Admission For Love, Now She's Treated Unfairly. by Nobody: 7:03pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
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Re: She Forfeited Her Medical School Admission For Love, Now She's Treated Unfairly. by Nobody: 7:04pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
johnkey:You don't have sense |
Re: She Forfeited Her Medical School Admission For Love, Now She's Treated Unfairly. by Nobody: 7:07pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
JidennaJason:You mean she should quit the marriage? |
Re: She Forfeited Her Medical School Admission For Love, Now She's Treated Unfairly. by Nobody: 7:08pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
descarado:You mean she can start her medical degree at 33? |
Re: She Forfeited Her Medical School Admission For Love, Now She's Treated Unfairly. by Nobody: 7:10pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
johnkey:I asked for good inputs not the kind of thing you said |
Re: She Forfeited Her Medical School Admission For Love, Now She's Treated Unfairly. by DaddyRochie1642: 7:10pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
There are some things I hear and I see and I honestly have no Pity for the individuals involved. I Feel no Pity for that woman in your story up there... She made her decision with her eyes wide open, and chose to follow her heart in that situation, so as she has followed her heart by throwing her education away, she should also bear the consequences of her action and decision. Simple!,.... Every irrational decision and action we take and engage ourselves in has consequences, there's no two ways about it. |
Re: She Forfeited Her Medical School Admission For Love, Now She's Treated Unfairly. by Nobody: 7:12pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
FortifiedCity:If she can forfeit her dream for a notorious impregnating machine, I will endorse and appreciate it if she forfeit this embarrassment called marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: She Forfeited Her Medical School Admission For Love, Now She's Treated Unfairly. by Matheusmartin: 7:14pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
That your friend should be flogged 200 strokes of the cane.. |
Re: She Forfeited Her Medical School Admission For Love, Now She's Treated Unfairly. by Nobody: 7:16pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
DaddyRochie1642:It's actually easy to cast such people away but then everyone deserves a second chance. Where does she start from? |
Re: She Forfeited Her Medical School Admission For Love, Now She's Treated Unfairly. by Nobody: 7:16pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
Matheusmartin:she messed up 1 Like |
Re: She Forfeited Her Medical School Admission For Love, Now She's Treated Unfairly. by Nobody: 7:18pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
JidennaJason:She has 3 kids and makes just 30k monthly which she uses to support herself and the kids. The husband seemed to have been swayed by the other 2 ladies. You still think quitting is a viable option |
Re: She Forfeited Her Medical School Admission For Love, Now She's Treated Unfairly. by cococandy(f): 7:18pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
She can still go back to school or something else that would be fulfilling to her asides school . Her marriage is dead. I don’t know what’s she would be trying to salvage out of it. But her own life she can still get back together 3 Likes |
Re: She Forfeited Her Medical School Admission For Love, Now She's Treated Unfairly. by Nobody: 7:19pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
Dear FortifiedCity, Are you here to look for advice for your friend or to join others and condemn her? |
Re: She Forfeited Her Medical School Admission For Love, Now She's Treated Unfairly. by Nobody: 7:22pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
FortifiedCity:Would you advise her to remain in such an embarrassing marriage if she was your sister? The husband does not respect her as wife and mother of his kids, he sees her as a trash.... Is that the type of marriage you want her to "Salvage"? 2 Likes |
Re: She Forfeited Her Medical School Admission For Love, Now She's Treated Unfairly. by cococandy(f): 7:23pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
DaddyRochie1642: It’s easy to say this now that this has happened. But if this young lady had come for advice before the marriage, anyone who told her to focus on building herself as a priority instead of throwing her future away to please a man would be an evil feminist. People need to read the atmosphere. To note how those kinds of words and condemnation influence women into making negatively life altering decisions. She did what she thought a good traditional woman (based on what people actually say) ought to do. I don’t know if I 100% blame her per se. 7 Likes |
Re: She Forfeited Her Medical School Admission For Love, Now She's Treated Unfairly. by Nobody: 7:23pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
JidennaJason:She's an acquaintance but we talk and I'm not condemning her |
Re: She Forfeited Her Medical School Admission For Love, Now She's Treated Unfairly. by Nobody: 7:25pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
JidennaJason:What about the kids? What's the best way to handle them if she decides to quit the marriage |
Re: She Forfeited Her Medical School Admission For Love, Now She's Treated Unfairly. by Klass99(f): 7:25pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
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Re: She Forfeited Her Medical School Admission For Love, Now She's Treated Unfairly. by Nobody: 7:27pm On Apr 14, 2021 |
FortifiedCity:I believe she's not disabled... She can handle them the best way a mother will handle her kids. |
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