thebosstrevor1:
Anyway, if you don't want your wife to get old fast, help her or atleast employ a househelp to support.

Your wife is not your machine, she is your wife, she needs help sometimes.

I was just watching a street interview done in Australia in 1961.

Should husbands help with the weekend housework?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZhfnLoEOTyk

wonder233:
One lady's response captures my view: it depends on the structure of the home - if it is the one where only the man goes out to work and the woman is a full time housewife, then the man should get some rest on weekends that are his only rest days. But if both of them work, then they should both do the chores.
This is true in 1961 as it is today.

EvolvedPisces:
That girl's reply shows the father has beat Ozo Of BBN to the *master simp* of Naija... Can you imagine.. what's your take.. yes or nay

soundOsonic:
It is the man duty to bring food to the table, that is how a man is wired. If he fails at his duty he will get lots of bashing from his wife, children and outsiders this is so simple.
It is the wife duty to be a caregiver and caretaker of her home. She is in charge of managing the home as the husband is in charge of bringing resources to the home.
Mothers are wired naturally to show love and affection to her family. Mothers are programmed to manage the finances of a family. Mothers are programmed to raise children. So she can manage her home by teaching the children how to do domestic works to ease her burden.

If the woman is bringing resources to the home instead of the man then the man will be left with no choice than to take the job of a wife. the man have lost the scepter of been the provider and protector. Even at this, this has nothing to do with the happiness of the home.

If both are bringing resources to the home, the woman is still expected to do her duties and if or not the husband insist to help, it is left to him.

Ladies here that are saying the man should do this work, I bet they can't stay with a man who does all the domestic work at home while they go out to bring resources to the home. It just won't seem right to them. This is fact.

There is no domestic work that is so tasking seriously. Is it not to sweep and clean the house (highest 15min), wash dishes (highest 5 minutes) each time you eat, and cook. Cooking is not even something serious. Just cook your stew, soup, for the week and refrigerate. And warm anytime you want to eat in the week. Clothes you can pay poor widows or people every Saturday.
Seriously what is the domestic work you people are always complaining about, I have been doing this work since when I was 7. Cleaning the house before leaving for school. Coming back from school around 3pm. Cooking for my siblings every afternoon, washing plates, and warming soup and serving family every night, and still wash my uniform. I will still have enough time to play video game and do my assignment and still sleep by 9pm.
So what is all this noise about, lf you are too lazy get an house help and leave your husband out of it.

Randy100:
I will never wash plate or cook food while I have a wife. It doesn't mean that I don't love my wife, it means I can't

lasisi69:
lol..... We plenty

EvolvedPisces:
That girl's reply shows the father has beat Ozo Of BBN to the *master simp* of Naija... Can you imagine.. what's your take.. yes or nay

MansoryMX:



I don’t know who you are, You might be a grown man but your are still thinking like a kid and you better stay off marriage if you know you are about going into one. I cook for my wife, do the dishes and wash her clothes sometimes when I am less busy because I am self employed and I have people working for me. Not that she doesn’t have the time to do these things herself but i love doing it because it makes her happy, fulfilled that she got married to her bestie and not just a man. Things like this makes marriage work bro, not money or children but little things like this you do for your spouse. You better prepare yourself well or else go be like them Davido and Wizkid. Community preek niggas and I can bet you even those dude still cook for their Osheres! There is nothing wrong in doing these things for your wife. You did be amazed how happy your wife will be to know you ain’t just a husband but a caring and romantic one to the core. Women love shit like this!

EvolvedPisces:
Dem don wash put for this one... Your wife need to cut small soap give me... Ode

MansoryMX:


Someday you will have kids and do all this and many more. Bath your kids, clean their poop, feed them, rock them to sleep, assist your wife in the kitchen when the kids are giving her one hell of a headache, put y’all clothes in the washing machine and wash and dry them with dryer or hand. Then you will remember you once called someone Ode. Then you will realize you are not just an Ode but a mumu man

EvolvedPisces:
e pain am.. go and make money... Houseband... Ezi.. Ewure