Acecards:
Exactly, if I were a girl I would be stupid not to want to see where this will lead to... After all, they are not married yet.

But how will you explain her accepting to go on a date the first time/day they started chatting?
If she was free that day she would have gone. That was when I lost everything I had for her.
People are just talking, see it can happen to anyone and it’s good to learn from this

AishaYesufu:

You better man up and move on rather than seeking attention through the backdoor from someone that doesn't give a damn about you

I’ve moved on already, thanks.

The part I liked most I'm all these, was how you answered the question "where do you get my contact from?"

Jerrick:
But how will you explain her accepting to go on a date the first time/day they started chatting?
If she was free that day she would have gone. That was when I lost everything I had for her.
People are just talking, see it can happen to anyone and it’s good to learn from this

Baba forget that thing oh... Make person no go because of boyfriend ignore or pursue husband go

culf:
you get time ooo, why all these? if you're not feeling her, tell her, if she refuses to make amend, move, its simple.
it's wrong of you to do this.

Lol. What's wrong in catching a thief red-handed?

Relationship is stressful especially in Nigeria.

Even You Will Fall For This bro.

What You Are Doing There Is No Sense In It. Its Childish


Creating The Personality Of A Rich Person Is Something Many will Fall For Because People Are In Need Of Money and Coupled With The Fact That Majority Of Nigerians Are Living In Poverty or Struggling

Even You Will Fall For This trash so Cut The Bullshit. If Your Girl Is Not Interested In You Again Is probably Because You Are Insecured and This Your Stalking her Will Make Her Hate You




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=98GlKQHmDoA

Jerrick:
But how will you explain her accepting to go on a date the first time/day they started chatting?
If she was free that day she would have gone. That was when I lost everything I had for her.
People are just talking, see it can happen to anyone and it’s good to learn from this

Dont be silly. It's not like your relationship is rosy with her. She's probably bored of you and needs another male attention. I'd play along too sef to see where it leads too

IamPlato:
Even You Will Fall For This bro.

What You Are Doing There Is No Sense In It. Its Childish


Creating The Personality Of A Rich Person Is Something Many will Fall For Because People Are In Need Of Money and Coupled With The Fact That Majority Of Nigerians Are Living In Poverty or Struggling

Even You Will Fall For This trash so Cut The Bullshit. If Your Girl Is Not Interested In You Again Is probably Because You Are Insecured and This Your Stalking her Will Make Her Hate You

Dont mind the op as if he will not fall for this if he were in his girlfriend shoe... Even his sister will fall for this.

Jack005:
Relationship is stressful especially in Nigeria.

Unless you are just lucky to meet your dream girl, I can relate to your statement. Our eyes saw 20 and 30 when we were looking for wify

SweetCunt97:
Dont be silly. It's not like your relationship is rosy with her. She's probably bored of you and needs another male attention. I'd play along too sef to see where it leads too

And end up being drugged, raped and killed? It looks like human beings don't learn anything from history. Cynthia comes to mind.

maasoap:


Unless you are just lucky to meet your dream girl, I can relate to your statement. Our eyes saw 20 and 30 when we were looking for wify

Lol, bro I've been there and it's really not easy getting a good lady nowadays.. We know nobody is perfect but it just keeps getting more complex as the days goes bye.

Sonnobax15:


like I do tell my real dudes..That I'd rather spend my sub and precious time watching xvideos than see myself wasting my time on any Nigerian girl matter..
Two days ago,I sent my gf a dm on fb...I see say the banny read my message on messenger but she no gree reply me... infact,I resent her another message just to make sure she sees it..She saw it and again snubbed me for the second time....I just lock up like say nothing happen..

yesterday,the same banny messaged me on fb,I equally read her message and snubbed her as well..She noticed it and tried calling me but I kept ignoring her calls till now..

my guy,let your peace of mind be your it utmost priority.

You are wise brother.

OP too day talk and it looks like his clingy.

OP if you are reading this, try and give ur next lady space, it's obvious this one likes you but has tendencies to cheat or equally may be playing your game while knowing it's you! You know just saying, bkos you've established a pattern, wise girl suppose don see you a kilometer away.

Beware you sowed seed of deception to "catch" her, now you have second thoughts, no start watin you no want the answer should in case e no click for your direction.

@jerrick give us the concluding part pls

Yusufisraelj:



You are wise brother.

OP too day talk and it looks like his clingy.

OP if you are reading this, try and give ur next lady space, it's obvious this one likes you but has tendencies to cheat or equally may be playing your game while knowing it's you! You know just saying, bkos you've established a pattern, wise girl suppose don see you a kilometer away.

Beware you sowed seed of deception to "catch" her, now you have second thoughts, no start watin you no want the answer should in case e no click for your direction.

Lmao, said I had second thought
I broke up with her before even coming here. Only want people to view in and see if I was too mean with my decision or not. Nothing any of you say here can change my ground. So?

Miracood2:
@jerrick give us the concluding part pls

That is premium subscription oo, it’s $50 for that

Someone should summarize abeg

AishaYesufu:
What exactly do you intend to achieve? A woman doesn't give you attention, rather than take the honorable path by ignoring her, you elected to waste your time over what is unprofitable to you nor her simply because of your desperation for her attention.

Beside, you talk too much and boring

Not only is he boring and talks too much, he is needy, insecure and immature. Can't deal, gosh!!!

Acecards:
Guy the bait you used to set her up is very enticing...

1. You are a medical doctor
2. You are based in Belgium
3. You want to send her 25k for tfare
4. You are from a wealthy home
5. You are willing to give her iphone6 before even meeting her

Haba, like someone said only like 4 girls in Nigeria will not fall for this. Even your sister go fall for this kind guy.

As long as you and the girl is not married her trying to see where this will lead to is not out of place oh... My 2 cents

If na me be the girl I go fall anyhow

You don talk my mind finish.. Even if it was him, won't he fall? Haba

Jerrick:
Lmao, said I had second thought
I broke up with her before even coming here. Only want people to view in and see if I was too mean with my decision or not. Nothing any of you say here can change my ground. So?

Sure, relationship has always been a thing of choice. As you lay the bed so you lie on it.

theNOISEmaker:

You don talk my mind finish.. Even if it was him, won't he fall? Haba

No mind Oga OP... Lol

maasoap:


And end up being drugged, raped and killed? It looks like human beings don't learn anything from history. Cynthia comes to mind.

Who said anything abi meeting him? Besides, you meet such in public places naw

Jack005:
Lol, bro I've been there and it's really not easy getting a good lady nowadays.. We know nobody is perfect but it just keeps getting more complex as the days goes bye.

Good lady, hahaha! Never, I've never met a good girl in Nigeria maybe they do exist but are currently in international space station!

You're indeed a clown lol..

While I'll agree with you that any form of breach in communication between two or more parties who are in a mutual relationship, sows seeds of doubt, a cause for concern.. The right thing to do is to call the attention of the party(parties) involved, as the case may be.. In this context, you did the right thing by expressing your displeasure, you went way overboard though.. It shouldn't have gotten up to that(your attempt to fool her, consistently chatting her up & what not), that consistency shows that you really do love her, you're hurt but then you just want some form of closure before breaking up with her..

She does love you though but I can't say I know why she ignores your chats or her late replies(not just minutes, many hours later).. You both should've really talked about it yh cos if she can reply a "random stranger" relatively faster than she does to you(her supposed boyfriend), there is something wrong..

Oh well, if you feel the breakup will make you feel better, then by all means go for it.

Jack005:
Relationship is stressful especially in Nigeria.

I tell you.

Genetic modification is the way forward.

1F30M4:
You're indeed a clown lol..

While I'll agree with you that any form of breach in communication between two or more parties who are in a mutual relationship, sows seeds of doubt, a cause for concern.. The right thing to do is to call the attention of the party(parties) involved, as the case may be.. In this context, you did the right thing by expressing your displeasure, you went way overboard though.. It shouldn't have gotten up to that(your attempt to fool her, consistently chatting her up & what not), that consistency shows that you really do love her, you're hurt but then you just want some form of closure before breaking up with her..

She does love you though but I can't say I know why she ignores your chats or her late replies(not just minutes, many hours later).. You both should've really talked about it yh cos if she can reply a "random stranger" relatively faster than she does to you(her supposed boyfriend), there is something wrong..

Oh well, if you feel the breakup will make you feel better, then by all means go for it.

God! You talk like you knew what really happened. Your comment is spot on and I’ve never read a comment on this topic as close to what really happened between us as yours. Sorry but are you a psychologist?

Jerrick:
God! You talk like you knew what really happened. Your comment is spot on and I’ve never read a comment on this topic as close to what really happened between us as yours. Sorry but are you a psychologist?

Well, I didn't study it in sch.. Safe to say, it's inborn then

maasoap:


Lol. What's wrong in catching a thief red-handed?

if I know my partner did what you posted above, we are done.
The truth is, you guys don't trust each other and as such, you shouldn't go this far to prove anything, just walk away, relationship without trust is not a relationship.

1F30M4:


Well, I didn't study it in sch.. Safe to say, it's inborn then

Nice! I’m sure you must have heard that before. E remain small make I call you witch

If I'm a lady I would know it was a setup, who sends 25k for transport he will rather book an Uber to come to pick her. Secondly, the promises are too much for iPhone 6 and all. Ladies live in a fantasy world who believe this shit.

BiggyB242:
If I'm a lady I would know it was a setup, who sends 25k for transport he will rather book an Uber to come to pick her. Secondly, the promises are too much for iPhone 6 and all. Ladies live in a fantasy world who believe this shit.

most ladies can't stand the truth.... They would rather you lie to them. Na lie dey sweet for their ear.