Yes, they complain all the time.
From one form of heartbreak to another.

If the guy don't complain that a lady cheated on him, he would complain that she has stopped replying his texts.

Always asking what to do here and there and crying like babies.

My question is, don't women get heartbroken too? Why are they not always complaining like guys.

Does it mean they are now more mentally matured and stronger than men?
If so, then I'm afraid to say that The Future will definitely be female.

Nigerian girls are useless

DONFRANSKID:
Nigerian girls are useless

The evolutionary purpose of a woman is to give Birth to babies and nurse them.
They don't provide security, neither do they provide food.
The men are wired to provide both food and security for the Women and kids. I don't know what most Men actually need again from a woman.
Personally, I don't give much relevance to women, because I noticed they reason like Babies(No pun intended).

So expecting much from them is just against the plan of nature.

If you are married, care for her and the kids as much as you can, and find happiness wherever you derive it.

If you are dating, there must be something that makes you want to date, maybe sex, attention or whatever.. if you are not getting it then quit.

Enough of the complaints.

I'm really ashamed of my fellow men, later most of them would be claiming Alpha males and red pillers. Alpha of complaints?

The average man is supposed to be emotionally stronger than the average woman.

Aloof:

The evolutionary purpose of a woman is to give Birth to babies and nurse them.
They don't provide security, neither do they provide food.
The men are wired to provide both food and security for the Women and kids. I don't know what most Men actually need again from a woman.
Personally I don't give much relevance to women, because I notice they reason like Babies(No pun intended).

So expecting much from them is just against the plan of nature.

If you are married, care for her and the kids as much as you can, and find happiness wherever you derive it.

If you are dating, there must be something that makes you want to date, maybe sex, attention or whatever.. if you are not getting it then quit.

Enough of the complaints.

I'm really ashamed of my fellow men, later most of them would be claiming Alpha makes and red pillers. Alpha of complaints?

The average man is supposed to be emotionally stronger than the average woman.

U talking about the redpillers

Aloof:
Yes, they complain all the time.
From one form of heartbreak to another.

If the guy don't complain that a lady cheated on him, he would complain that she has stopped replying his texts.

Always asking what to do here and there and crying like babies.

My question is, don't women get heartbroken too? Why are they not always complaining like guys.

Does it mean they are now more mentally matured and stronger than men?
If so, then I'm afraid to say that The Future will definitely be female.

Why would anyone complain if they stay on the receiving end of gifts and money? The Nigerian society has equated being female with having the cultural right to be paid for companionship.

It is not about maturity. It is about fairness and dignity.

If you can equate your beauty or your femininity to money and gifts then you wouldn’t complain.

Chaii

Most of them are children hiding under the anonymity of this platform

The real men here hardly make comments under silly threads..but you see those children, they have a lot of time.

Aloof:

The evolutionary purpose of a woman is to give Birth to babies and nurse them.
They don't provide security, neither do they provide food.
The men are wired to provide both food and security for the Women and kids. I don't know what most Men actually need again from a woman.
Personally I don't give much relevance to women, because I notice they reason like Babies(No pun intended).

So expecting much from them is just against the plan of nature.

If you are married, care for her and the kids as much as you can, and find happiness wherever you derive it.

If you are dating, there must be something that makes you want to date, maybe sex, attention or whatever.. if you are not getting it then quit.

Enough of the complaints.

I'm really ashamed of my fellow men, later most of them would be claiming Alpha makes and red pillers. Alpha of complaints?

The average man is supposed to be emotionally stronger than the average woman.

All I see in your post above are so much generalization with no sound logic to back up your claims. Who told you that the evolutionary responsibility of women is just to birth and nurture If that is the case, then we can as well say that the evolutionary responsibility of men is to impregnate women.

There's no assigned responsibility for any gender outside the natural reproductive roles. It is humans of old that assigned roles based on their limited knowledge at the early times. Now, we advanced humans have seen that some roles that were hitherto considered gender specific can actually be done equally by both genders. So, in order to ensure a better and more egalitarian world, we now encourage gender equality and unlimited exploration of the potentials embedded within the female gender for greater good of society.

AfroKnight:

Why would anyone complain if they stay on the receiving end of gifts and money? The Nigerian society has equated being female with having the cultural right to be paid for companionship.

It is not about maturity. It is about fairness and dignity.

If you can equate your beauty or your femininity to money and gifts then you wouldn’t complain.

I'm not Advocating for women.

But bro, even guys that doesn't have enough to give a lady still complains.

Aloof:


I'm not Advocating for women.

But bro, even guys that doesn't have enough to give a lady still complains.

Are you broke-shaming them? Are they not human? Do they not have a right to date? They have a right to complain because they are being played by girls who think they should be paid for their affection.

Soon, the complaints will turn into resentment then you will also come to tell us men are no longer affectionate but are calculative unemotional heartbreakers.

Jman06:
All I see in your post above are so much generalization with no sound logic to back up your claims. Who told you that the evolutionary responsibility of women is just to birth and nurture If that is the case, then we can as well say that the evolutionary responsibility of men is to impregnate women.

There's no assigned responsibility for any gender outside the natural reproductive roles. It is humans of old that assigned roles based on their limited knowledge at the early times. Now, we advanced humans have seen that some roles that were hitherto considered gender specific can actually be done equally by both genders. So, in order to ensure a better and more egalitarian world, we now encourage gender equality and unlimited exploration of the potentials embedded within the female gender for greater good of society.

This discussion can take a whole thread.
Gender equality or not, men should stop expecting too much from women and stop the continues Lamentations.

How can a woman one claims to be dating be giving them so much headache that they can't even think on their own. Rather, they would come online and start seeking cheap sympathy.

Bashing women doesn't make one an Alpha male, if you can't handle the heat, then leave the kitchen.

How many women are even coming online complaining like that? We should stop encouraging sisi men by following them to bash ladies.

Aloof:


This discussion can take a whole thread.
Gender equality or not, men should stop expecting too much from women and stop the continues Lamentations.

How can a woman one claims to be dating be giving them so much headache that they can't even think on their own. Rather, they would come online and start seeking cheap sympathy.

Bashing women doesn't make one an Alpha male, if you can't handle the heat, then leave the kitchen.

How many women are even coming online complaining like that? We should stop encouraging sisi men by following them to bash ladies.

Life is not a straight road. There are bends and corners here and there. So, all men cannot act alike likewise women. Talk from today till eternity, you'll continue to see threads of men and women lamentations. The world will be soooo boring if all of us act the same way!

AfroKnight:


Are you broke-shaming them? Are they not human? Do they not have a right to date? They have a right to complain because they are being played by girls who think they should be paid for their affection.

Soon, the complaints will turn into resentment then you will also come to tell us men are no longer affectionate but are calculative unemotional heartbreakers.

Broke shaming? If what I just said is what is considered as broke shaming, then I didn't intend to.

Bro,
I don't know for other guys, but I think it's the way you relate with a lady would determine how she relates with you too.

If a girl feels you need to pay for her affection, why no just move on.

By the way, do girls not have something to complain of? How many girls have came online to complain that their boyfriend cheated on them or that he beats them.


Why always guys complaining most of the time like sisi?

Jman06:
Life is not a straight road. There are bends and corners here and there. So, all men cannot act alike likewise women. Talk from today till eternity, you'll continue to see threads of men and women lamentations. The world will be soooo boring if all of us act the same way!

It's men threads I see regularly that makes me wonder what's happening.
Before, it's used to be women that complains of how all men are the same, and how men are dogs.
But now, it's Nigerian ladies did this, Nigerian ladies did that.
Is it a case of the hunter being hunted or what?

As for me, I see it as a thing of shame to be complaining about women.
Men are supposed to be on top of their game with women. So if a woman beats you on it, it's just to keep calm and nurse your wounds and come out as a better gamer

DONFRANSKID:
Nigerian girls are useless

my guy shut up ,you got a female in your family tree so respect the females in general as well ,you met wrong people Bec of who you choose to roll with ,don't blame it on all of them

Aloof:


Broke shaming? If what I just said is what is considered as broke shaming, then I didn't intend to.

Bro,
I don't know for other guys, but I think it's the way you relate with a lady would determine how she relates with you too.

If a girl feels you need to pay for her affection, why no just move on.

By the way, do girls not have something to complain of? How many girls have came online to complain that their boyfriend cheated on them or that he beats them.


Why always guys complaining most of the time like sisi?

They way she relates with you is not solely dependent on how you treat her. If so, then men would not complain cos it would be about cause and effect. The complaints arise from undeserved betrayal.

Why do you think women perpetuate the excuse that they are generally attracted to “bad boys” as an excuse for betraying the trust of guys who treat them well? Have you seen bad boys come online to complain?

Those men have every right to decry the disloyalty. They should not be stifled or mocked because they are broke. They expected honour and dignity from the women who disappointed them. Simple.

Besides, why would you expect women to come out and complain when they have multiple partners, and receive gifts, trips, money and affection from all of them?

You don’t talk when your mouth is full.

AfroKnight:


They way she relates with you is not solely dependent on how you treat her. If so, then men would not complain cos it would be about cause and effect. The complaints arise from undeserved betrayal.

Why do you think women perpetuate the excuse that they are generally attracted to “bad boys” as an excuse for betraying the trust of guys who treat them well? Have you seen bad boys come online to complain?

Those men have every right to decry the disloyalty. They should not be stifled or mocked because they are broke. They expected honour and dignity from the women who disappointed them. Simple.

Besides, why would you expect women to come out and complain when they have multiple partners, and receive gifts, trips, money and affection from all of them?

You don’t talk when your mouth is full.

That's where the problem is, "Overtrust".

When we talk about betrayal, we talk about a breach of trust we have for someone.

Men should realize that life itself is a game, not to talk of Romance. And in every game, their would be time to win and time to lose.

Once a guy enters a relationship, he should always expect the cons of it just like he's enjoying the pros of it.

When you trust a lady so much that you forget the cons, believing it would never go south, then you are living in denial.

When you don't trust a lady overly, even when problem comes up, you will handle it without lamenting because you already know it's a possibility.

What I'm saying is that Men need to be woke, women have beaten them on this game.

If being a nice guy makes you to lament, then become a bad boy.

Wouldn't it be better to be a bad boy that to be in Lamentations.

larryking540:

my guy shut up ,you got a female in your family tree so respect the females in general as well ,you met wrong people Bec of who you choose to roll with ,don't blame it on all of them

shut up brother I got none in my life
they are useless

DONFRANSKID:

shut up brother I got none in my life
they are useless

It depends on what you call uselessness.

A correct guy that wants a lady just for sex won't say she's useless, because she's being of use for him to satisfy his Sexual urge.
If he doesn't want her Money, love, affection or whatever, then she's of use to him.

It's like you are looking for too much from women that makes you say they are useless.

What I mean is that, somebody that's satisfying your sexual urge is useful enough, unless you are gay or Vaseline geng

Aloof:

The evolutionary purpose of a woman is to give Birth to babies and nurse them.
They don't provide security, neither do they provide food.
The men are wired to provide both food and security for the Women and kids. I don't know what most Men actually need again from a woman.
Personally, I don't give much relevance to women, because I noticed they reason like Babies(No pun intended).

So expecting much from them is just against the plan of nature.

If you are married, care for her and the kids as much as you can, and find happiness wherever you derive it.

If you are dating, there must be something that makes you want to date, maybe sex, attention or whatever.. if you are not getting it then quit.

Enough of the complaints.

I'm really ashamed of my fellow men, later most of them would be claiming Alpha males and red pillers. Alpha of complaints?

The average man is supposed to be emotionally stronger than the average woman.

oga thats not all women are meant for na. Haba, give em some props

Chai

Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright

Although wailing and crying is a character typical of pussy ass niggarr but the truth is women are emotionally stronger than us....

Fear anything way dey bleed for up to about five days every month and still it won't die

DONFRANSKID:
Nigerian girls are useless

idiot!

Make i reserve sit

.. And yet the guys marry the girls and vice versa, and every weekend gan. Lori iiiiro niiii!

Why won't ppl complain. I don't bash women online. I think this is my first time commenting on these kind of topics.

But...

When you try to advise an average woman on the right thing to do they will nag and say things like it's their body, live and let live. And they end up getting into troubles and all manner of distresses. And still advise them, mbah, they won't accept.

It's a self perpetuating problem.

In fact I was just chatting with a girl who is complaining of other girls. And why she prefers male friendships. And I told her she ain't the only one to tell me that.

I wish they could just separate their emotions and be much more logical in handling daily issues.

I was watching a podcast "The roomate" recently on how some man where tryna advise some girls in the studio on their lifestyles...they ended up being offended and walked out. Claiming men are just jealous blabla they can use their bodies to make money easily.

It was an eyesore.

Now I also have complaints for many men out there on their simp and cheating disgusting nature..and lack of self control for anything under a skirt. But this is a thread on women.

P.S There are good women out there with sense. Just that they are few.

Lol

The complaining about women is the first step of initiation into the Redpill circle.

We are not mad.. We know wetin we dey see

Its entitlement and inability to reason objectively.

Nairaland males always complain about how girls took their money or cheated on them or refused to give them sex. All of which are silly and petty relationship issues.

Females also get cheated on, deceived, used both for sex and money, get their time wasted by unserious guys untill they are almost or above 30years, they get raped, they get molested, in buses and cars they get groped by men, they get robbed, scammed, their houses are burgled by males, women and girls have a lot more reason to complain about males but because they have more emotional maturity they suck it up and move on, unlike crybaby men and boys

The reverse is also the case, stop acting aloof about it

Inexperienced guys complain. I don’t know what they were expecting. They think trust is that simple, easy ot automatic? Or love is by saying “I love u” Lmao.

The only annoying thing is self entitled gals. It’s the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever seen. And many of them don’t know it’s abnormal.

Also guys complain because after having interaction with foreign or the few decent gals they believe they have been scammed.