Aloof:


This discussion can take a whole thread.
Gender equality or not, men should stop expecting too much from women and stop the continues Lamentations.

How can a woman one claims to be dating be giving them so much headache that they can't even think on their own. Rather, they would come online and start seeking cheap sympathy.

Bashing women doesn't make one an Alpha male, if you can't handle the heat, then leave the kitchen.

How many women are even coming online complaining like that? We should stop encouraging sisi men by following them to bash ladies.

OGA U ARE THE REAL SISI HERE.

DONFRANSKID:
Nigerian girls are useless

including every women around you

Frustrated idiot, always coming here to talk rubbish, it is people like you that are licking women feet, mumu and senseless fool, women now provide food, women work, and women are emotionally balance than men.

Beremx:
God created man and woman for companionship, but some male nairalanders have turned women to their enemies. Look atwthe idiot up there saying Nigerian girls are useless as if he doesn’t have a mother and sisters

VICE VERSA

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PreetyAngel4U:



Yeah right.

Raise the kids alone with no mama to give them proper home training, which evidently, you seem to be lacking. Did you grow up with your mom? Were you morally brought up by your parents? Did your father teach you to respect your mom by his behaviour?

Raise the kids alone,
raising emotionally imbalanced kids who cannot function properly in the society. The males end up becoming rapists, womanizers, greedy perverts that don't understand what it means to be loving and sacrificial. Who can teach these to a child? Is it the society or a father with a demented mind?

Then your girls, wow. With low self esteem, sleeping with your friends and that of their brothers for material gain as they were taught by their father, to only use people to get what they want. How you used their mom to get kids then kicked her out. Every1 with entitlement mentality.

I believe 90% of men won't want to pass through the rigours of childbirth with this childlike mentality creeping into the society. Most would remove their womb because the burden is unbearable. Let her just take in, give you children, then leave the fruits of her labour for you? To use them and do what? If the lady is independent type, then i pity you, cause she'll leave with them. If you like go give another woman belle and start afresh.

Then the cycle continues. Creating more demented members of the society.

Weldone sir. What a fantastic idea you've got there.

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You made no sense whatsoever

Go to the kitchen and cook me dinner , know your place and be silent

Only speak when spoken to

All the comments I've read, their reason for the constant complaints on women is because of money, yet none has refuse to accept the basic fact that they are foolishly stupid and dumb to willingly give a lady/gf their hard earned money when not at gun point,

Look at one above writing epistles upon epistles in front page giving excuses for complaints, one even said they prefer to complain online than offline, as per dem dey scared to face their gf or na shame dey catch them smh, nothing we nor go see for the forum sha

Fact still remains that ladies are emotionally mature 100% than males, period, case in point una papa Adam, see the way e run tell God say na Eve give am apple chop, so that God go pity am make e nor chop blame, just like awon man boys always running here to wail and wail portraying themselves as blameless

Y'all will be fine las las

ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
including every women around you

I don't know

Bluffly:
My friend both sexes complain about each other.

Leave that pant of a man

Is complaining a crime?

If people don't complain, they ll consider abnormal as normal.

If complain becomes much, it means there is an issue with a system and as reasonable human beings, we analyze it and fix it.

Trying to blackmail people not to complain, is not in order. However too much of it is bad. But then it shows, something is wrong in our present society and we should fix it.


You think the issues the others complain about, doesn't affect you? Wait until a wrong becomes entrenched in a society. Your children will face it and may not be able to overcome.

My point is, the society is evolving and we should start thinking of how to help ourselves.


The female folks will be at the receiving end if we just insult the male folks and laugh over it.

There's something wrong happening and the "MAN THING" in our boys is being attacked.

We need to think and act fast.

AfroKnight:

Why would anyone complain if they stay on the receiving end of gifts and money? The Nigerian society has equated being female with having the cultural right to be paid for companionship.

It is not about maturity. It is about fairness and dignity.

If you can equate your beauty or your femininity to money and gifts then you wouldn’t complain.

abeg let's hear word, did anybody force you to give them money, the society has placed more burden on women than men, women are at the receiving end of everything while men get away with anything, u guys have taken advantage of that emotional spot in women for too long, now this generation of women have become so strong that their strength is making u guys weak, they've learnt to bottle up their emotions making u the emotional ones wailing like women of owu and calling them useless and olosho....hehehe, but we on care!!!

Bluffly:

Unfortunately home roles can never be the same. A lot of physical required jobs that women can't do at home, how do you share that. When you tell women to buckle up on such jobs, they say you are not caring. Some roles are still gender specific and there's nothing anyone can do about it.

Even when i workd at the wig and weavon company. NA MEN THE DO ALL THE HARD AND RISK WORKS, EVEN WHILE WOMEN CAN DO SUCH BUT THEY AREN'T ASSIGNED TO DO SUCH. BUT LAS LAS WE ARE PAID EQUALLY, EVEN SOME GET BETTER SALARY THAN US .

FORWARDEVERLY:



You are obsessed with Red pillers shows that you are a weak effeminate boy without spine..
Funny enough, na the SIMPs like una dey cry for women coz una never understand game...

Oh mehn, me cry for woman matter when my account balance dey make me vex every seconds

Cousin9999:
Most men who complain have mental problems, or they have the misfortune of being born into challenging circumstances that make them very angry and bitter. But it's mostly men with mental problems, specifically, they're delusional/m0rons. They don't have the mental health or capacity to understand and accept anything from women, but servitude. They ideally want to control and abuse women whenever/however they please.

These people shouldn't be taken seriously. They're the bottom of society. If anything, they need to be managed, so they cause less trouble. The terrorists in the north are an example of what happens when you don't control stup1d people.

Hahahaha, they will come for your head real soon

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Aloof:
Yes, they complain all the time.
From one form of heartbreak to another.

If the guy don't complain that a lady cheated on him, he would complain that she has stopped replying his texts.

Always asking what to do here and there and crying like babies.

My question is, don't women get heartbroken too? Why are they not always complaining like guys.

Does it mean they are now more mentally matured and stronger than men?
If so, then I'm afraid to say that The Future will definitely be female.

Gone are those days women cry about heartbreaks. With the amount of mentally and emotionally weak men we have this days, it is indeed sad to say the future is Gmail.

But again the reality on ground is different than what we read on social media.

JovialJune:



Hahahaha, they will come for your head real soon

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Queenlovely:
according to my pastor, God gave man work before woman.

but if you want to be unhappy, chase woman before work.

Your work is why you exist, your purpose,

The job of a woman is to assist you in your work.
but if you bring a woman and you have no work, what will she do.

Eve was to help Adam in his job of taking care of Eden.

Don't bring someone's daughter to come and suffer, make money first, discover yourself first, make life comfortable for her and she will help you multiply your success.

if you have no job for a woman she will give you hell.

SO NA WAITN U TALK BE THIS ?

Emotionss:
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Gone are those days women cry about heartbreaks. With the amount of mentally and emotionally weak men we have this days, it is indeed sad to say the future is Gmail.

But again the reality on ground is different than what we read on social media.

G-mail ke I don't want it to be, that's why guys need to wake up. They are more heartbroken guys nowadays than ladies.

Lovelyn451:
abeg let's hear word, did anybody force you to give them money, the society has placed more burden on women than men, women are at the receiving end of everything while men get away with anything, u guys have taken advantage of that emotional spot in women for too long, now this generation of women have become so strong that their strength is making u guys weak, they've learnt to bottle up their emotions making u the emotional ones wailing like women of owu and calling them useless and olosho....hehehe, but we on care!!!

See who is calling other people emotional.



No vex.

Originalsly:


I do not agree guys here complain too much. They be straight up bitching. Women are wired different from men.... gasoline engine... diesel engine... both engines... different fuel... different output. Men.... fueled by testosterone.... women by estrogen and a little testosterone. Same way a diesel engine is wired to make wayy more noise than a gasoline engine.... same way a woman is wired to complain wayyy more than a man. A certain level of complaint by women should expected and tolerated by men.....but when it gets too much... it's no longer complaining.... it's bitching. Maybe the result of too much estrogen. Now when a man is complaining for simple stuff... we need to wonder how he is wired.... and when he be bitching.... we can conclude he is fueled by estrogen .... the kind of men we suspect.... men ... but not really men. Is a whole lot of this kind men .....sissy men. They try dating babes... babes discover they be sissy .... dump them .... they start bitching to the world... not knowing they just be exposing themselves. Nairaland need a section for these male bitchers......they too many now.

you made a valid point .

A lot of sisi men have found their voice online, calling all girls useless. That's the height of childishness

Anything you are doing with a woman,be it longterm or short-term just know ur in for it simple .

BigBashiru:


What of men's true nature?? Male = the violence, murderous crime infested gender. Home many boko harem insurgents are female??

Women dont come out in any violence situation. They are simps and weaklings

Akuruoulo:
U ARE A WOMAN JOOR

Gee forget matter, I no like as men dey complain anyhow, e dey pain me for body. Na these girls supposed dey complain.

Akuruoulo:
Stfu there. WOMEN ARE INTO EVERY RELATIONSHIP TO STEAL, AND WHEN U ARE DONE WITH THEM , THEY WILL GO WITH THE GOODY BAG THE HAVE STOLEN. MEN TEND TO LOSE ALWAYS, AND THATS WHY THEY COMPLAIN. WOMEN ONLY COMPLAIN WHEN THE MAN DIDN'T SPEND MUCH ON HER, AND STILL KICK HER ASS OUT.

Guy you funny. Make I obey you shut up Sha.

Lovelyn451:
abeg let's hear word, did anybody force you to give them money, the society has placed more burden on women than men, women are at the receiving end of everything while men get away with anything, u guys have taken advantage of that emotional spot in women for too long, now this generation of women have become so strong that their strength is making u guys weak, they've learnt to bottle up their emotions making u the emotional ones wailing like women of owu and calling them useless and olosho....hehehe, but we on care!!!

This is the kind of woman Chimamanda called nasty. They continue hiding under “strong woman” and using victim mentality to justify their natural wickedness.

No vex.

Frontail:
... You no get Sisters ni

HE DIDN'T EXCLUDE HIS SIBLINGS

The relationship between woman and men is like cat and dog...men bring money and women bring toto and breast and yansh....so...each one just has to be wise up...

Aloof:


Guy you funny. Make I obey you shut up Sha.

no vex say i tell u shut up oh

GUNITGuy:

Get ready to bail this generations women out in later future when they begin to reap the rewards of their evils towards men ....I guess you are the saviour of Nigeria ladies .
Just start your ministry for their sake

guy if you understand my stance, you will notice that I'm not even siding the ladies.

I don't like as guys dey complain pass

Akuruoulo:
HE DIDN'T EXCLUDE HIS SIBLINGS

.. I am not talking about inclusion or exclusion of his family in general ! Its just a question of why thinking all Nigerian girls are Useless
Useless in what sense ?
They don't help there parents at home ?
They don't contribute anything in life at all ?
Or what ?

Aloof:


Gee forget matter, I no like as men dey complain anyhow, e dey pain me for body. Na these girls supposed dey complain.

Okay but women the complain too . Bt na still their fault for enriching them

Frontail:
.. I am not talking about inclusion or exclusion of his family in general ! Its just a question of why thinking all Nigerian girls are Useless

OKAY THEN. MAKE IT A DIRECT QUESTION