MickzyDonald:
Oga shut up, Marrying a virgin doesn't guarantee you a good marriage, nor what works for A will work for B, Marriage isn't predictable as we are all human being and flesh cannot depart from us, those who will tell you their family is doing good will never give you the full details

PrinxArthur1:
so marrying a hoe guarantee a successful marriage abi ?

MickzyDonald:

Don't quote me wrong,none of them guarantees a successful marriage, everything takes grace

PrinxArthur1:
majority of the time, virginity and low body count, increases successful marriage

amtheone:


Bros forget it.

amtheone:

Bros forget it.

Richy4:
Putting religion when it suits you guys is just annoying... obviously most of you don't read your bibles... What will you say about God Commanding Hosea to Marry a Harlot... Did he do it? was it the will of God? Can you do it even in this modern age?... did it contradict "do not be equally yoked with an unbeliever"? I believe most of you doesn't even know that a scripture like that exists...

You guys should just stop this virgin thing... It's a choice... It's not a guarantee for a happy marriage

ThiagoKid:
He should forget what?

When did men start accepting mediocrity?

Well, I think if you as a man ain't a virgin yourself, then, you have no right getting married to a virgin.

ThePlainTruth:
This is a reminder that this is a research for men who have married a virgin God has chosen for them to share their experience.

efficiencie:


it's been a rewarding experience so far...awaiting the testimony of others though...

efficiencie:


God's command to Hosea to marry a harlot was a sign to those Hosea was sent to just as Isaiah walking naked for 3 years on the streets of Jerusalem was also as a sign to the people Isaiah was sent to prophesy to...God did not anywhere command His children [/b]to marry harlots as a lifestyle. In fact it is written that: [b] Proverbs 22:14  The mouth of strange women is a deep pit: he that is abhorred of the LORD shall fall therein. So If you wind up marrying a hoe you may very well be hated by GOD. The Bible also explains some of the consequences of marrying a hoe. Proverbs 5:8-11  Remove thy way far from her (the strange woman), and come not nigh the door of her house: Lest thou give thine honour unto others, and thy years unto the cruel:  Lest strangers be filled with thy wealth; and thy labours be in the house of a stranger; And thou mourn at the last, when thy flesh and thy body are consumed . The Bible concludes that having any association with harlots and hoes, which the Bible refers to as strange women, will end in premium tears...So don't delude yourself. This was how many young guys claimed they wanted ladies with years of sexual experience only for them to find out after 30 years of marriage that all their children belong to other men...and more often than not suicide becomes the only sensible option for such foolish men!

Richy4:


@ bold are you in any way saying that Hosea was not part of his children of God but a sample of one of God's experiment?.... what did you learn from the story of Hosea?

When the woman that sinned was dragged to Jesus, He was judged and condemned by the holy law of the land but what did Jesus do? Also, the woman that wipe the feet of Jesus with her tears and broke her most expensive perfume probably gotten from her trade, what was her occupation? why did Jesus allowed her to touch him in the first place? why do you think Jesus associates with people like that?....What about when you were in Christ you are a new creature old things have passed away? or do u quote that chapter when it suits you?.... So what you people were insinuating was that non virgins have been damaged for life and they are not marriable and their credibility should be questioned at all times right?...Please all you puritanical humans should leave people to associate with whom they want to associate with and stop judging about virginity and all that...

As for what you said about people experimenting, The bible said one should not swear but let your yes be yes and no be no,... I would have asked you to swear to us that you were a virgin or that you met your spouse as a virgin.... You can only throw a stone when you are not living in a glass house...

Richy4:
Putting religion when it suits you guys is just annoying... obviously most of you don't read your bibles... What will you say about God Commanding Hosea to Marry a Harlot... Did he do it? was it the will of God? Can you do it even in this modern age?... did it contradict "do not be equally yoked with an unbeliever"? I believe most of you doesn't even know that a scripture like that exists...

You guys should just stop this virgin thing... It's a choice... It's not a guarantee for a happy marriage

jantman:


Let me correct this your impression over Hosea and Gomer (Hosea1:2)

God never ask Hosea to marry a prostitute. God only asked Hosea to marry Gomer and for see and fortell to hosea how his wife will become unfaithful to him. God wanted Hosea to feel what God Himself felt as the children of Israel will become unfaithful just like Gomer.

In this way Hosea feel the pain of the unfaithfulness of his wife just as God felt the pain of unfailful and harlot Israel to Idolatry

About his thread, How can a normal man be looking for a virgin to marry?

Can one find a virgin this days?

Unless you will marry underage girls.

Topic like this is insane

jantman:


Let me correct this your impression over Hosea and Gomer (Hosea1:2)

God never ask Hosea to marry a prostitute. God only asked Hosea to marry Gomer and for see and fortell to hosea how his wife will become unfaithful to him. God wanted Hosea to feel what God Himself felt as the children of Israel will become unfaithful just like Gomer.

In this way Hosea feel the pain of the unfaithfulness of his wife just as God felt the pain of unfailful and harlot Israel to Idolatry

About his thread, How can a normal man be looking for a virgin to marry?

Can one find a virgin this days?

Unless you will marry underage girls.

Topic like this is insane

efficiencie:


it's been a rewarding experience so far...awaiting the testimony of others though...

ImaIma1:


Hope you haven't cheated on her.

efficiencie:


once...but I confessed it to her and repented of it and since that last occurrence it has never happened!

ImaIma1:




This life no balance.

Almighty virginity didn't curb your cheating. After the first night, she's no longer a virgin and there's no spark...lol.

If she cheats on you and confesses, will you forgive her that easily without bringing in the calvary?

efficiencie:


I am not judging non-virgins. I am simply stating the obvious. You did not counter the verses I posted and neither did you refute the fact that the case of Hosea was not necessarily a standard for life. Yes I might come across as being unfair for the things I posted but they are true. Check every marriage that ends as a result of the unfaithfulness of wives. More often than not those wives have had multiple sex partners before the marriage. Such women hardly get fixated on their husbands and at the slightest provocation will be itching to be with another man...what I did not state in my earlier post is that such ladies who have had extensive sexual activity before marriage need to heal from all that sexual damage if they are to sustain a long and happy marriage. The same applies to men who have had extensive sexual activity before marriage. Such people need to be cleansed, healed and purified for their past to remain past...I don't have to swear at all. I have been in relationships with ladies with easy virtues and though at some point I naively felt I could groom them and make them change but soon enough I learned that that was a futile endeavor. If GOD could not directly change Jezebel then is it me that will now change a lady that wants to flex her life to the fullest? I learned the hard way and decided to let GOD lead me to the woman that can support me instead of choosing based on very foolish criteria...and by GOD's grace I got the best, an unspoiled and pure lady that is fixated on me and seeks my best interest all the time!

efficiencie:


You were literally waiting for this moment, lol...The event I mentioned happened in the first few weeks of me knowing her and I did not have intercourse with the said lady...rather I flirted with her and I called myself out on that. As far as I am concerned flirting is cheating. In the end, I am not saying I am a saint and I deserve a virgin. I, in my previous posts, said even men who have had extensive sexual damage from their past also need healing. I knew this and was deliberate about breaking off from my past and healing all the damage I did to myself...and it paid off because since I started with my wife I have never had intercourse with another woman (particularly my EXs) even though we were in a long distance relationship 70% of the time. I have heard men say they cannot have a long distance relationship with their girlfriend or wife because they are very sure she will cheat but in my case after leaving my woman in one state to further my studies and look for job in another state (more than 800km away), I still returned to her, after spending several months, to find her intact... it was such a great honor to have such a woman.

I do not deserve her but I realize the importance of marrying a virgin for the sake of a sustainable marriage and avoiding stories that end in suicide...this is why I say again ladies should stop spreading their legs before marriage, they should remember that what they call fun leads to sexual damage and a sexually damaged person can only bring sorrow and pain even though they don't mean to. If more ladies closed their legs, fewer men will find the opportunity to cheat but today many men are so confident that with a slice of pizza and a glass of juice he can get almost any lady to spread her legs up to 180 degrees and allow him vaccinate her until her body starts to drip with vaccine...

efficiencie:


Oh yes there are tons and tons of virgins...the problem with most guys is that they have set in their heart all kinds of criteria. Some guys are so driven by physical attributes. Some others are driven by economic conditions...Some are even foolishly driven by vague religious conditions. I believe If you put yourself on the path of destiny and purpose, make up your mind not to deceive or use and dump ladies, ask GOD for guidance and pay rapt attention to the leading of GOD in every environment you find yourself you will easily find an unspoiled lady who can help you, be loyal, be submissive and be worthy of all the love that you have to give...the trouble with most guys is that when their god-sent is around them that is when they are in the mood to use and dump. I believe many guys have used and dumped their very own wives in the name of boyfriend-girlfriend...May GOD help us.

ImaIma1:


It's not just abour the ladies closing their legs. What about the men? It takes two to tango.

And not only ladies who married as virgins stay faithful even when their husbands are away. There are other ladies who respect vows.

Plus, it's not all ladies who married as virgins thst stau faithful. Some of them after a while want to explore and try new things.

That's why I say this life is not balanced. Things don't always follow the samw pattern. Just thank God for your wife that she's the loyal type. It has little to do with marrying as a virgin.

That's my opinion.

efficiencie:


Yes, cheating requires the cooperation of two people and both parties should bear the responsibility of curbing the spate of infidelity...Ladies should learn to close their legs until they are married irrespective of the pressure from men and men should desist from illicit relationships irrespective of the pressure from the ladies. Yes anyone can make a conscious effort to respect their marital vows but not everyone faces the same intensity of the temptation to cheat. A lady that has had extensive sexual activity before marriage will obviously face a more intense temptation to cheat compared to a virgin. You cannot dispute this truism. This does not imply that all ladies who married as virgins will never cheat but it implies that ladies who got married as virgins face a lower tendency to fall for infidelity than ladies who have years upon years of sexual experience. Our world is full of statistical regularities and this means that a rule may not apply to everyone but it can apply to a statistical majority...and I am very confident that if we were to conduct a randomized controlled trial where we subject groups of women who married as virgins and those who did not to the same stimulus - men asking them out and requesting a clandestine meeting - you will likely find that more women who had extensive sexual experience before marriage will likely heed the invitation...

GOD did not put the hymen in a woman's body for nothing. It is there for a reason. You can discount it all you want but it doesn't change the fact that virgins are almost always better to marry than hoes...virgins have private part, hoes have public part, Lol. You can privatize and monopolize what is already private but attempting to privatize and monopolize what is already in public domain is just plain foolish!