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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by flokii: 10:10pm On Apr 19, 2021
@OP you kept the bro code quite alright but some guys are damn too f00lish to be pitied.

The guy obviously told the girl everything you told him about her, reason she got your contact to lay 'powerless' curses on you.

On a second thought, everyone has a past and some girls can't just say no to an erect preek, leaving the simp to go ahead with marriage will likely end in tears for him. Free your mind, no harm will come your way.

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by hdrifter11: 10:10pm On Apr 19, 2021
Thanks for saving that nigga from that höé man
you have done well
Nothing like curses on your head
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by AreaFada2: 10:11pm On Apr 19, 2021
We already know how the story go go. Women will condemn this guy 99%, because many know they are not better than the said lady knackaton wise. About 30% of woman wrapper men will join the women.

70% of men will support the OP. grin cheesy

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Biafranboys: 10:11pm On Apr 19, 2021
always good to mind your business
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by SweetCunt97(f): 10:11pm On Apr 19, 2021
This Op is a sensational writer hired by Seeun. Bloody liar

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Trimjos: 10:11pm On Apr 19, 2021
Rhodaogunpeju:





I pray someone does this exact thing to your daughter ..so u know how it feels .. how are you so sure everything they said about her was true..

Some men are known for giving a woman a bad image just to spite her for refusing thier advances

Shut up. Let me tell u about curses. If hedge is not opened no matter how little, curses won't work. If the girl flirted in the past and now wants to curse someone for exposing her waywardness, the curse will backfire to her brother. Go and read deep about curses and it's implications
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by DrFunmisticGlow: 10:11pm On Apr 19, 2021
BLOODYSPERM:




Men take sexual history of ladies very seriously not because we are judgemental or immature but because we want to be sure whether the lady would have our offspring and not carry another man's seed for us to raise, these is our Biological imperative that makes us distrust girls that are sexually active when we want to settle down

It's not our fault
why, because the penis of other men including himself is a dirty thing? The hypocrisy.

Dear men andwomen, never tell your partner about your sexual past, unless it has results like a pregnancy, STD, rape. Your sexual past is in the past and not thier business. It will only give them heartbreaks.

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by braunny(m): 10:13pm On Apr 19, 2021
U were very very wrong to have done that....the best u should have done is tell ur guy to actually study the girl n if he loves everything about her he should go ahead....what if the girl changed just to be with the guy?? now u have broken 3 hearts......
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Coldie(m): 10:13pm On Apr 19, 2021
Nothing will happen bro u did the right thing
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Elsueno: 10:13pm On Apr 19, 2021
Lovethaa:
There's this neighbor of ....

Nothing will happen to you. YOU DID THE RIGHT THING. Na her past dey catch up with her, if this makes her change for the better, u go even get extra blessings from the Lord Almighty. She lied to ur friend, she's evil & a lier. Enjoy ur life jare

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by tribalmall: 10:13pm On Apr 19, 2021
Guy forget if you mother was a harlot in her previous life I will tell your father in this life. It is now left 4 your father to marry olosho as a wife. Na that one no concern me but that I won't tell forget it, I must Sha ni especially if we are friends.
AllenSpencer:
Let me tell you the truth.

Those curses will forever follow and be upon you. Its beyond what any pastor or prophet can get you out of.

Wish I can add more to those curses without being banned.

You wrecked someone`s life cos of her past and think your own life wont get wrecked?

Bro! Karma is a bitch, It will screw you from the anus and cum in your mouth

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by KallmemrB0: 10:13pm On Apr 19, 2021
Lovethaa:
There's this neighbor of mine , He used to be an Abuja based but work made him relocate to Lagos

To cut the Long story short we became friends after a while and we do chilli and Go out together . Although he is 5 years older than me .

He told me of his intentions to settle down as soon as possible which is right considering the fact that he is financially stable plus not getting younger ,

He recently met this babe around where we both stay and they started going out , I didn't think it was something serious until he revealed to me that he wants to marry her .


Now the issue here is that I used to know a guy that once dated the babe and after they broke up the guy revealed to me the crazy things they did and he also mentioned some of his friends that have tasted the babe in the same area too , I almost toasted her myself back then just to get a piece of the cookie but I later ignored the thought ,

So when my friend told me he wants to marry her ,It broke my heart because I felt he deserved more than a lady who had been used many times especially where he lives , Although at first I didn't want to tell him but I later opened up to him and the guy felt bad because he loves the babe but he thanked me , (Unknown to me that he had gone far as meeting the babe parents).


Long story short My friend broke up with her and the babe called me up ,laying curses on my head, Strong curses saying I won't know peace for destroying her relationship..

How she got to know I was the one who told her boyfriend I didn't know.

I blocked her numbers and warned her not to call me again because the curses were too much and she was actually crying why cursing me

Those curses and tears got me feeling uncomfortable and I have been wondering if I did anything wrong.

Was I wrong for interfering ?..Truth is I would have felt betrayed if my friend knows some secrets about my fiancee and he didn't tell,I was only putting myself in his shoes

P.s I need you honest opinion ....
you didn't do anything wrong but could have presented it in a way that the guy would make findings himself and decide if he was comfortable with what he found out ..who knows what kinda lies she must have told him.....
From experience once dated a liar who was busy sleeping around
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by seyz91(m): 10:15pm On Apr 19, 2021
Birds of a feather spotted!
BeautyO:
Wow . you are really heartless and you deserve those curses .. what if the guy that told he slept with her was lying?... and who are you to judge her .. so sad

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by dammysnow(m): 10:15pm On Apr 19, 2021
You did nothing wrong, you care for your friend. If she live a better life her past won't hunt her
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by seyz91(m): 10:15pm On Apr 19, 2021
Another Birds of a feather spotted!
AllenSpencer:
Let me tell you the truth.

Those curses will forever follow and be upon you. Its beyond what any pastor or prophet can get you out of.

Wish I can add more to those curses without being banned.

You wrecked someone`s life cos of her past and think your own life wont get wrecked?

Bro! Karma is a bitch, It will screw you from the anus and cum in your mouth

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by tribalmall: 10:15pm On Apr 19, 2021
Being a changed person does not mean she does not deserve the consequences of her past deed. Make we hear word abeg.

yanabasee1:
Learn to mind your business....


It's fellow men like you that deceived her and have their ways with her... The curse will follow those guys in your area that slept with her with wrong intentions...


Did you ever feel that she could be a changed person? or must have learned from her mistakes?

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Pimine: 10:16pm On Apr 19, 2021
Lovethaa:
.

Was I wrong for interfering ?..Truth is I would have felt betrayed if my friend knows some secrets about my fiancee and he didn't tell,I was only putting myself in his shoes

P.s I need you honest opinion ....

Aswearugaaad

Bro you're a real brother. Forget all those id!ots talking shit. Those curses are fake and won't work.

Imagine allowing your friend marry a public property - a girl that has been tasted by everyone in the hood - that woulda been heartless of you.

She don taya to hoe around now she wan use your friend redeem herself. Tell her back to sender! I hate nonsense!

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by chucklesclothin(m): 10:16pm On Apr 19, 2021
Michelle55:
It's well.. Lemme coman be going because if I say what's on my mind now, some people will tag me a bitter person


make I join you comam be going
If I know that girl I go tell her to locate your village people

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by DrFunmisticGlow: 10:16pm On Apr 19, 2021
BLOODYSPERM:




Men take sexual history of ladies very seriously not because we are judgemental or immature but because we want to be sure whether the lady would have our offspring and not carry another man's seed for us to raise, these is our Biological imperative that makes us distrust girls that are sexually active when we want to settle down

It's not our fault
but men can actually be judgemental and immature. Look at nairaland.

If a virgin can commit adultery, what's stopping her from paternity fraud.

You know what. Virgins are angels, they poop rainbows and deliver saints.

Y'all should continue to use hymen to judge character, and soak garri.

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Reelmii: 10:17pm On Apr 19, 2021
BeautyO:



As in.. how can a man gossip like a woman .. this is something women should be doing.. he deserves more curses
so women are free to gossip and break other people's relationships abi... that is why we have so many single old ladies because they have also been caused

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Rubbiish(m): 10:17pm On Apr 19, 2021
BeautyO:




He without sin should cast the first stone. What if she had repented?

By the way my quatar2022 are you a saint yourself?.. what happens to all the girls u ditched too , who would wife them if everyone wants to start checking history
Stop making noise please!
Op only played the role of a good & honest friend!
He did nothing wrong!

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by tribalmall: 10:17pm On Apr 19, 2021
If my daughter lived a wayward life she must suffer the consequences. Say another prayer this one is easy.

Rhodaogunpeju:

I pray someone does this exact thing to your daughter ..so u know how it feels .. how are you so sure everything they said about her was true..

Some men are known for giving a woman a bad image just to spite her for refusing thier advances

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by DrFunmisticGlow: 10:18pm On Apr 19, 2021
tribalmall:
Being a changed person does not mean she does not deserve the consequences of her past deed. Make we hear word abeg.

will men like to suffer for the consequences of thier past deed too?

Oh wait!!

Dead beat dad's will get thier just desserts when they become old and grumpy and die alone in hospital beds.
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Nobody: 10:18pm On Apr 19, 2021
DrFunmisticGlow:
why, because the penis of other men including himself is a dirty thing? The hypocrisy.

Dear men andwomen, never tell your partner about your sexual past, unless it has results like a pregnancy, STD, rape. Your sexual past is in the past and not thier business. It will only give them heartbreaks.


There is no hypocrisy
Life is not fair for both sexes
Women's hypergamy make them not to look at struggling men until such men have attained success
Men don't want a lady with a promiscuous past because such ladies are poor bets for having their offsprings


Men and women are fundamentally
different

Even the immutable wisdom of God word proves my point in Prov11:16

A gracious woman retaineth her honour and strong men retain riches

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by tunapawizzy: 10:19pm On Apr 19, 2021
AllenSpencer:
Let me tell you the truth.

Those curses will forever follow and be upon you. Its beyond what any pastor or prophet can get you out of.

Wish I can add more to those curses without being banned.

You wrecked someone`s life cos of her past and think your own life wont get wrecked?

Bro! Karma is a bitch, It will screw you from the anus and cum in your mouth

op because u wan enter front page see am now, u dun go lie manufacture story, dem dun dey give u better ijebu curse
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Pimine: 10:19pm On Apr 19, 2021
dammysnow:
You did nothing wrong, you care for your friend. If she live a better life her past won't hunt her
Aswearugaaad

Exactly! I taya for the kind evil and heartless people who parade themselves as friends nowadays.

People who call themselves your friends but will see your girl with another nicca and lock up.

You're an enemy if you see what would hurt me and keep shut. I thank God for the kinda friends I have sha.

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Nobody: 10:19pm On Apr 19, 2021
All of you cursing the op are wasting your time because he did what was best for his friend.

Would any of you allow your brothers to marry a public property?

Instead of you to learn from her ordeal, and stop now if you're too are messing around, youre busy taking sides with her and attacking the op.

When they say keep yourself as a girl, don't keep yourself o. Be jumping from Peter to Paul. A day of reckoning is coming. Mtchew.

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Kenturkey048(m): 10:19pm On Apr 19, 2021
Rhodaogunpeju:





I pray someone does this exact thing to your daughter ..so u know how it feels .. how are you so sure everything they said about her was true..

Some men are known for giving a woman a bad image just to spite her for refusing thier advances
Why you carry this matter for head like this??

So you expect him not to tell his fellow guy the danger in front of him..You want them to marry and divorce right?? If my daughter share kpekus let Same thing befall her...Be good, so good thing go follow...

To the OP , you deserve every good things of life.
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by DrFunmisticGlow: 10:20pm On Apr 19, 2021
BLOODYSPERM:



There is no hypocrisy
Life is not fair for both sexes
Women's hypergamy make them not to look at struggling men until such men have attained success
Men don't want a lady with a promiscuous past because such ladies are poor bets for having their offsprings


Men and women are fundamentally
different

Even the immutable wisdom of God word proves my point in Prov11:16

A gracious woman retaineth her honour and strong men retain riches
you just made your argument irrelevant by quoting that bible. It's a tool for mass manipulation, nothing more.
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by tribalmall: 10:20pm On Apr 19, 2021
Is repentance an avenue to dodge the consequences of your past deed ? E be like say na 15 years old de this romance sections.

BeautyO:




He without sin should cast the first stone. What if she had repented?

By the way my quatar2022 are you a saint yourself?.. what happens to all the girls u ditched too , who would wife them if everyone wants to start checking history

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Reelmii: 10:20pm On Apr 19, 2021
gfon:
Nothing go do you,don't mind all those muntula's running their mouth up there.What did she expect as a community puxxy holder.My only problem is that friend of urs that snitched by mentioning your name.Now you know he can't keep a secret,so next time don't tell him.
see ladies talking as if they love themselves...if the guy had not told his Friend am sure one of the girl's friends out of jealousy would have told him, so why the noise

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by COOL10(m): 10:20pm On Apr 19, 2021
Lovethaa:
There's this neighbor of mine , He used to be an Abuja based but work made him relocate to Lagos

To cut the Long story short we became friends after a while and we do chilli and Go out together . Although he is 5 years older than me .

He told me of his intentions to settle down as soon as possible which is right considering the fact that he is financially stable plus not getting younger ,

He recently met this babe around where we both stay and they started going out , I didn't think it was something serious until he revealed to me that he wants to marry her .


Now the issue here is that I used to know a guy that once dated the babe and after they broke up the guy revealed to me the crazy things they did and he also mentioned some of his friends that have tasted the babe in the same area too , I almost toasted her myself back then just to get a piece of the cookie but I later ignored the thought ,

So when my friend told me he wants to marry her ,It broke my heart because I felt he deserved more than a lady who had been used many times especially where he lives , Although at first I didn't want to tell him but I later opened up to him and the guy felt bad because he loves the babe but he thanked me , (Unknown to me that he had gone far as meeting the babe parents).


Long story short My friend broke up with her and the babe called me up ,laying curses on my head, Strong curses saying I won't know peace for destroying her relationship..

How she got to know I was the one who told her boyfriend I didn't know.

I blocked her numbers and warned her not to call me again because the curses were too much and she was actually crying why cursing me

Those curses and tears got me feeling uncomfortable and I have been wondering if I did anything wrong.

Was I wrong for interfering ?..Truth is I would have felt betrayed if my friend knows some secrets about my fiancee and he didn't tell,I was only putting myself in his shoes

P.s I need you honest opinion ....

The Jezebels are pained cos their member couldn't hook God's son. Their plans failed. Trust me, OP, you are an angel to that your friend. It's just a pity he paid you back by snitching on you.

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