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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Polchiz(m): 12:45am On Apr 20, 2021
BeautyO:





If truly the guy loved her , he wouldn't have dumped her tho.. he should ask questions and if she's changed , then he should proceed . everyone deserves a second chance
Why do young ladies always believe that a guy who loves them will marry them no matter what?

Please nobody loves and wants to marry rubbish.

Even God who loves us unconditionally will still not allow everybody to go to heaven.

And talking about repentance, apart from spiritual transformation, it is always difficult to repent from a habit.

A girl who sleeps around today is conditioning her body system for adultery.

Adaptation is powerful. It leads to addiction and once your body gets addicted to a habit, only Holy Spirit can save you.

Why do you think celebrities do not last in marriage?

Why do you think married people do engage in adultery even if the wife is pretty and ready and the husband is sexually active?

So my dear, stay away from any habit that will destroy your destiny.

God is wiser than us!

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by pennywys(m): 12:45am On Apr 20, 2021
Rhodaogunpeju:





I pray someone does this exact thing to your daughter ..so u know how it feels .. how are you so sure everything they said about her was true..

Some men are known for giving a woman a bad image just to spite her for refusing thier advances
shut up and go to hell, no one wish to born a hoe like you and co who spread legs here and there like nursing mother spreading babies clothes under the sun. Who the heck are you?

I may prefer marrying a prostitute from a brothel than marrying all these pretending hoe out there. Once I declare interest on a particular bitch I didn't know she was, I took her out spent a little on her boom we reach and the relationship start as a child of God I am the bitch phone got spoiled and I was planning to buy a new phone for her and before I knew she started using my own phone to browse her Facebook and that's how God save my life and future, the idiot logout thought she was done little did she know my phone automatically save the login info at night my spirit tells me to cross-check somethings what I saw on her inbox shock the hell out of me. I was deceived of who I thought she was, I would have bet my balls for her in the past. Necked pictures, porn videos. She almost fuccck everyone on her Facebook page, share numbers to everyone who ask for her numbers, travel far distance to meet them, infact I no fit shout. After I noticed this I withdraw myself jejeeely given a long distance and when she found out am pushing her away and no longer given her attention she lift up her face, no longer response to my greetings, though I have not opened up my findings and will never opened up to her. And if any of my friends ever go close to her I will wishper to his ears.

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Jayrow08: 12:46am On Apr 20, 2021
Abeg make d curses go to dis bastard girl, her name is Lovette Her number: 08160817065, 08121828607

Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by 9jaRealist: 12:47am On Apr 20, 2021
Lovethaa:
There's this neighbor of mine , He used to be an Abuja based but work made him relocate to Lagos

To cut the Long story short we became friends after a while and we do chilli and Go out together . Although he is 5 years older than me .

He told me of his intentions to settle down as soon as possible which is right considering the fact that he is financially stable plus not getting younger ,

He recently met this babe around where we both stay and they started going out , I didn't think it was something serious until he revealed to me that he wants to marry her .

Now the issue here is that I used to know a guy that once dated the babe and after they broke up the guy revealed to me the crazy things they did and he also mentioned some of his friends that have tasted the babe in the same area too , I almost toasted her myself back then just to get a piece of the cookie but I later ignored the thought ,

So when my friend told me he wants to marry her ,It broke my heart because I felt he deserved more than a lady who had been used many times especially where he lives , Although at first I didn't want to tell him but I later opened up to him and the guy felt bad because he loves the babe but he thanked me , (Unknown to me that he had gone far as meeting the babe parents).

Long story short My friend broke up with her and the babe called me up ,laying curses on my head, Strong curses saying I won't know peace for destroying her relationship..

How she got to know I was the one who told her boyfriend I didn't know.

I blocked her numbers and warned her not to call me again because the curses were too much and she was actually crying why cursing me

Those curses and tears got me feeling uncomfortable and I have been wondering if I did anything wrong.

Was I wrong for interfering ?..Truth is I would have felt betrayed if my friend knows some secrets about my fiancee and he didn't tell,I was only putting myself in his shoes

P.s I need you honest opinion ....

SUPERSTITIOUS RUBBISH... angry

However, if any evil befalls you, it is well-deserved...
Btw, reading between the lines sounds like you resent the girl (perhaps for not giving it up to you).

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by ugoekon: 12:50am On Apr 20, 2021
notin go happen, nonsense and stupid curse
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Jayrow08: 12:53am On Apr 20, 2021
pennywys:
shut up and go to hell, no one wish to born a hoe like you and co who spread legs here and there like nursing mother spreading babies clothes under the sun. Who the heck are you?

I may prefer marrying a prostitute from a brothel than marrying all these pretending hoe out there. Once I declare interest on a particular bitch I didn't know she was, I took her out spent a little on her boom we reach and the relationship start as a child of God I am the bitch phone got spoiled and I was planning to buy a new phone for her and before I knew she started using my own phone to browse her Facebook and that's how God save my life and future, the idiot logout thought she was done little did she know my phone automatically save the login info at night my spirit tells me to cross-check somethings what I saw on her inbox shock the hell out of me. I was deceived of who I thought she was, I would have bet my balls for her in the past. Necked pictures, porn videos. She almost fuccck everyone on her Facebook page, share numbers to everyone who ask for her numbers, travel far distance to meet them, infact I no fit shout. After I noticed this I withdraw myself jejeeely given a long distance and when she found out am pushing her away and no longer given her attention she lift up her face, no longer response to my greetings, though I have not opened up my findings and will never opened up to her. And if any of my friends ever go close to her I will wishper to his ears.
Baba ur head dey there jor
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by 9jaRealist: 12:54am On Apr 20, 2021
Jayrow08:
Abeg make d curses go to dis bastard girl, her name is Lovette
Her number: 08160817065, 08121828607

It’s WRONG to put someone’s private personal details on a public forum without their permission...
In a civilized country, you would be in legal bother (and Nairaland should really SUSPEND your account).

Whatever the girl did to you (real or imagined)...
GROW UP, GROW A PAIR AND QUIT ACTING CHILDISHLY AND CHURLISHLY! Little wonder you probably got DUMPED!

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by DedeNkem: 12:55am On Apr 20, 2021
Lovethaa:
There's this neighbor of mine , He used to be an Abuja based but work made him relocate to Lagos

To cut the Long story short we became friends after a while and we do chilli and Go out together . Although he is 5 years older than me .

He told me of his intentions to settle down as soon as possible which is right considering the fact that he is financially stable plus not getting younger ,

He recently met this babe around where we both stay and they started going out , I didn't think it was something serious until he revealed to me that he wants to marry her .


Now the issue here is that I used to know a guy that once dated the babe and after they broke up the guy revealed to me the crazy things they did and he also mentioned some of his friends that have tasted the babe in the same area too , I almost toasted her myself back then just to get a piece of the cookie but I later ignored the thought ,

So when my friend told me he wants to marry her ,It broke my heart because I felt he deserved more than a lady who had been used many times especially where he lives , Although at first I didn't want to tell him but I later opened up to him and the guy felt bad because he loves the babe but he thanked me , (Unknown to me that he had gone far as meeting the babe parents).


Long story short My friend broke up with her and the babe called me up ,laying curses on my head, Strong curses saying I won't know peace for destroying her relationship..

How she got to know I was the one who told her boyfriend I didn't know.

I blocked her numbers and warned her not to call me again because the curses were too much and she was actually crying why cursing me

Those curses and tears got me feeling uncomfortable and I have been wondering if I did anything wrong.

Was I wrong for interfering ?..Truth is I would have felt betrayed if my friend knows some secrets about my fiancee and he didn't tell,I was only putting myself in his shoes

P.s I need you honest opinion ....


You didn't do anything wrong. In fact, you did great for your friend! You helped your friend dodge a bullet.

Her curse is bullshit, don't worry about it. After all, curse doesn't work.
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Jayrow08: 1:06am On Apr 20, 2021
9jaRealist:


It’s WRONG to put someone’s private personal details on a public forum without their permission...
In a civilized country, you would be in legal bother (and Nairaland should really SUSPEND your account).

Whatever the girl did to you (real or imagined)...
GROW UP, GROW A PAIR AND QUIT ACTING CHILDISHLY AND CHURLISHLY! Little wonder you probably got DUMPED!

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Go sit down! call it childish or whatever, permission my foot, for thief! I say dis girl na thief
she will knw no peace until she returns what she has stolen 4 me
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Jayrow08: 1:13am On Apr 20, 2021
9jaRealist:


It’s WRONG to put someone’s private personal details on a public forum without their permission...
In a civilized country, you would be in legal bother (and Nairaland should really SUSPEND your account).

Whatever the girl did to you (real or imagined)...
GROW UP, GROW A PAIR AND QUIT ACTING CHILDISHLY AND CHURLISHLY! Little wonder you probably got DUMPED!

>
If I was dumped I swear I 4 go do Thanksgiving for church but for her to steal my thing, She shall know no peace.
I for say u no get sense ooo u no even ask wetin she do u jst jump enter my matter.
E b lyk Say u self na thief
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by sfinkzslot(m): 1:17am On Apr 20, 2021
Lovethaa:
There's always a price to pay for our deeds good or bad ....
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by victorazy(m): 1:24am On Apr 20, 2021
Lovethaa:
There's this neighbor of mine , He used to be an Abuja based but work made him relocate to Lagos

To cut the Long story short we became friends after a while and we do chilli and Go out together . Although he is 5 years older than me .

He told me of his intentions to settle down as soon as possible which is right considering the fact that he is financially stable plus not getting younger ,

He recently met this babe around where we both stay and they started going out , I didn't think it was something serious until he revealed to me that he wants to marry her .


Now the issue here is that I used to know a guy that once dated the babe and after they broke up the guy revealed to me the crazy things they did and he also mentioned some of his friends that have tasted the babe in the same area too , I almost toasted her myself back then just to get a piece of the cookie but I later ignored the thought ,

So when my friend told me he wants to marry her ,It broke my heart because I felt he deserved more than a lady who had been used many times especially where he lives , Although at first I didn't want to tell him but I later opened up to him and the guy felt bad because he loves the babe but he thanked me , (Unknown to me that he had gone far as meeting the babe parents).


Long story short My friend broke up with her and the babe called me up ,laying curses on my head, Strong curses saying I won't know peace for destroying her relationship..

How she got to know I was the one who told her boyfriend I didn't know.

I blocked her numbers and warned her not to call me again because the curses were too much and she was actually crying why cursing me

Those curses and tears got me feeling uncomfortable and I have been wondering if I did anything wrong.

Was I wrong for interfering ?..Truth is I would have felt betrayed if my friend knows some secrets about my fiancee and he didn't tell,I was only putting myself in his shoes

P.s I need you honest opinion ....

No curse without cause.
You didn't lie against her, so the curse shall not stand. She is only reaping what she sow.

But if na lie u lied against her, my brother ur own don finish.

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Nobody: 1:25am On Apr 20, 2021
BeautyO:





If truly the guy loved her , he wouldn't have dumped her tho.. he should ask questions and if she's changed , then he should proceed . everyone deserves a second chance
You cannot save a hoe.
Once a hoe,always a hoe
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Venlony: 1:36am On Apr 20, 2021
Op. How are you sure your future wife is not a town service operator at the moment. Next time mind your business.
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by DarkCaesar(m): 2:11am On Apr 20, 2021
DrFunmisticGlow:
you destroying a relationship is strong enough cause.
He destroyed nothing, he simply saved his friend and any sane man would pick his friend over any hoe that already wasted her life!
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Nobody: 2:12am On Apr 20, 2021
Lovethaa:
There's this neighbor of mine , He used to be an Abuja based but work made him relocate to Lagos

To cut the Long story short we became friends after a while and we do chilli and Go out together . Although he is 5 years older than me .

He told me of his intentions to settle down as soon as possible which is right considering the fact that he is financially stable plus not getting younger ,

He recently met this babe around where we both stay and they started going out , I didn't think it was something serious until he revealed to me that he wants to marry her .


Now the issue here is that I used to know a guy that once dated the babe and after they broke up the guy revealed to me the crazy things they did and he also mentioned some of his friends that have tasted the babe in the same area too , I almost toasted her myself back then just to get a piece of the cookie but I later ignored the thought ,

So when my friend told me he wants to marry her ,It broke my heart because I felt he deserved more than a lady who had been used many times especially where he lives , Although at first I didn't want to tell him but I later opened up to him and the guy felt bad because he loves the babe but he thanked me , (Unknown to me that he had gone far as meeting the babe parents).


Long story short My friend broke up with her and the babe called me up ,laying curses on my head, Strong curses saying I won't know peace for destroying her relationship..

How she got to know I was the one who told her boyfriend I didn't know.

I blocked her numbers and warned her not to call me again because the curses were too much and she was actually crying why cursing me

Those curses and tears got me feeling uncomfortable and I have been wondering if I did anything wrong.

Was I wrong for interfering ?..Truth is I would have felt betrayed if my friend knows some secrets about my fiancee and he didn't tell,I was only putting myself in his shoes

P.s I need you honest opinion ....

I've read this story here before today. Nansense
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by TOPCRUISE(m): 2:13am On Apr 20, 2021
BeautyO:




He without sin should cast the first stone. What if she had repented?

By the way my quatar2022 are you a saint yourself?.. what happens to all the girls u ditched too , who would wife them if everyone wants to start checking history
If she had repented she won't be laying curses. She is as guilty as a dirty bitch

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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by kalu61(m): 2:29am On Apr 20, 2021
AsherAmari:
All of you cursing the op are wasting your time because he did what was best for his friend.

Would any of you allow your brothers to marry a public property?

Instead of you to learn from her ordeal, and stop now if you're too are messing around, youre busy taking sides with her and attacking the op.

When they say keep yourself as a girl, don't keep yourself o. Be jumping from Peter to Paul. A day of reckoning is coming. Mtchew.
Wow, from a female?

Every of our action has consequences: blessing or curse. Even the scriptures warn that the body is the temple of the holy spirit. Old things are passed away and all things are become new, no bi everybody go de lucky.

This is you being logical than emotional. Kudo
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by kalu61(m): 2:35am On Apr 20, 2021
Polchiz:

Why do young ladies always believe that a guy who loves them will marry them no matter what?

Please nobody loves and wants to marry rubbish.

Even God who loves us unconditionally will still not allow everybody to go to heaven.

And talking about repentance, apart from spiritual transformation, it is always difficult to repent from a habit.

A girl who sleeps around today is conditioning her body system for adultery.

Adaptation is powerful. It leads to addiction and once your body gets addicted to a habit, only Holy Spirit can save you.

Why do you think celebrities do not last in marriage?

Why do you think married people do engage in adultery even if the wife is pretty and ready and the husband is sexually active?

So my dear, stay away from any habit that will destroy your destiny.

God is wiser than us!
You said it all. Everybody should be mindful of the type of life they live.

When your past comes knocking, absorb it. Curses only work when you are innocent in this case but in general curses barely works because if God should answer all curses, no man will be alife.
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by candygist: 2:47am On Apr 20, 2021
Kingcalls:


Always trying to use " do not cast the first stone" to leverage ur past hoe life...well, no one is casting a stone on any hoe, we only choose to avoid them ... live ur life, I live my life but no come my side abeg

Live your life, but you dey gossip another person life still spoil relationship way nothing concern you. Hypocrite
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Emperor88(m): 2:53am On Apr 20, 2021
BeautyO:
Wow . you are really heartless and you deserve those curses .. what if the guy that told he slept with her was lying?... and who are you to judge her .. so sad
The only reasonable point you made was/is what if the guys were lying... If it is true they really slept with her, then the guy did no wrong and as for the curses, the ones you have been raining on politicians, how long as it gone?
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by iampeterben(m): 2:56am On Apr 20, 2021
Baba you don do your findings before you begin cast the babe? If no, heaven will not forgive you oh! At some point na you wan make the lady miserable.
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Emperor88(m): 2:57am On Apr 20, 2021
kalu61:
You said it all. Everybody should be mindful of the type of life they live.

When your past comes knocking, absorb it. Curses only work when you are innocent in this case but in general curses barely works because if God should answer all curses, no man will be alife.
God bless you guys...only a hoe like the girl will blame the guy. Fornication is not like alcohol abuse or gambling that can be managed in a relationship. No matter. A cheat is a cheat
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by bpalace(m): 3:27am On Apr 20, 2021
I keep reading
.. the big curves she laid on my head
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Gofwane(m): 3:28am On Apr 20, 2021
Trey195:
Another tales by moonlight?
I dey tell you. The op na confirm big liar. He just sits down, imagine things then come to nairaland and post.

The otondo mods go just push am to front page.
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by vickydevoka(m): 3:39am On Apr 20, 2021
BeautyO:



As in.. how can a man gossip like a woman .. this is something women should be doing.. he deserves more curses
Lol. Gossip is gossip, whether women or men
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by Derawiz(m): 3:51am On Apr 20, 2021
yanabasee1:
Learn to mind your business....


It's fellow men like you that deceived her and have their ways with her... The curse will follow those guys in your area that slept with her with wrong intentions...


Did you ever feel that she could be a changed person? or must have learned from her mistakes?

It's been long I commented here on nairaland but I just can't ignore this.
WTH do you mean by "your fellow men deceived her" ?? Why can't ladies take responsibility for their actions for once in life? So she was naive or coerced by men and she told you this abi??
Wehouldn't be judged by our mistakes but we should also remember that there are repercussions for every unhealthy lifestyle we live.
That bloke did the right thing, he only did it for the wrong friend who couldn't keep a secret.
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by obinna4Jesus(m): 4:02am On Apr 20, 2021
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Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by sparko1(m): 4:04am On Apr 20, 2021
BeautyO:
Wow . you are really heartless and you deserve those curses .. what if the guy that told he slept with her was lying?... and who are you to judge her .. so sad

He shouldn't have said anything? Yeah right! As far as they are friends, he did the right thing.

He didn't judge her, just don't want his friend to marry the town public toilet. You don't live such a reckless life and expect to marry a decent person, pick one agbero and enjoy.
Re: The Big Curses She Laid On My Head. Did I Do Anything Wrong? by samwillyco1(m): 4:28am On Apr 20, 2021
Lovethaa:
There's this neighbor of mine , He used to be an Abuja based but work made him relocate to Lagos

To cut the Long story short we became friends after a while and we do chilli and Go out together . Although he is 5 years older than me .

He told me of his intentions to settle down as soon as possible which is right considering the fact that he is financially stable plus not getting younger ,

He recently met this babe around where we both stay and they started going out , I didn't think it was something serious until he revealed to me that he wants to marry her .


Now the issue here is that I used to know a guy that once dated the babe and after they broke up the guy revealed to me the crazy things they did and he also mentioned some of his friends that have tasted the babe in the same area too , I almost toasted her myself back then just to get a piece of the cookie but I later ignored the thought ,

So when my friend told me he wants to marry her ,It broke my heart because I felt he deserved more than a lady who had been used many times especially where he lives , Although at first I didn't want to tell him but I later opened up to him and the guy felt bad because he loves the babe but he thanked me , (Unknown to me that he had gone far as meeting the babe parents).


Long story short My friend broke up with her and the babe called me up ,laying curses on my head, Strong curses saying I won't know peace for destroying her relationship..

How she got to know I was the one who told her boyfriend I didn't know.

I blocked her numbers and warned her not to call me again because the curses were too much and she was actually crying why cursing me

Those curses and tears got me feeling uncomfortable and I have been wondering if I did anything wrong.

Was I wrong for interfering ?..Truth is I would have felt betrayed if my friend knows some secrets about my fiancee and he didn't tell,I was only putting myself in his shoes

P.s I need you honest opinion ....

I hope you returned the courses to her and rejected them as well.
Finally you did nothing wrong but your friend should have been more matured enough to ask her about her past/ protected your identity from the girl knowing where he got the information from

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