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No Erection For My Wife by Ayo44real: 7:49am On Apr 20, 2021 |
Please am seriously here to seek for advise My marriage will turn 3years this April and I have a 1year 8month baby with my wife and now this is happening to me now I don't feel any erection for my wife again.at first I actually thought I can't make love again cos I don't feel any erection again and this has been happening for like 9months now that I hardly touch my wife or have sexual intercourse with her but I didn't count it cos I don't want to make another baby now so I use to give excuse for my wife but I really want to but no Erection so I try doing it outside to have it and I feel Erection unlike when am with my wife to know the status of my health because have been having this thinking that what has actually wrong with me that I can't man up again but after doing outside I see now now that there is absolutely nothing wrong with health just dat I no longer feel erection for my wife again .... So what am I going to do now because this has turned out to be an issue my wife demanding for sex and am unable to give it to because I no longer feel any erection for her and I love my wife so much and she is everything you want in a woman I don't want to loose her so should I tell her I no longer feel erection for again so we can look for what to do or I should discuss this with my parent because me am completely sure there is nothing wrong with me or could it be spiritual alot is actually going through my head now because I know she knows I like doing it with her alot and suddenly everything change so she is already suspecting me having an affairs outside without knowing whats behind it.... |
Re: No Erection For My Wife by PlayMaker14: 7:52am On Apr 20, 2021 |
Do you engage each other in Fooreplay before having sex? Fooreplay helps to boost your erection before the act, try and do some "dirty" things while at it and ask her to suck your nipples passionately and see if it helps. Stay away from having sex outside, you're only complicating things for yourself. I wish you a strong Erection. ![]() 53 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: No Erection For My Wife by ahnie: 7:58am On Apr 20, 2021 |
oh! ERECTION that word turns me on. op on the flip side all your posts reeks of erection and you mentioned it seven good times in your post. well since you are so passionate about your erection pls go and buy burantashi. I wished you a very happy and robust erection. 8 Likes |
Re: No Erection For My Wife by Beckysexy(f): 8:01am On Apr 20, 2021 |
Hmmmm Wahala be like bicycle................. Mr. Erection, it seems you don't have any sexual feelings for your wife again so, I'll advice you to try pre-intimacy or romance before sex or maybe you should give her some space or probably go for local herbs "Agbo" ( Not Advisable ). 2 Likes |
Re: No Erection For My Wife by Nobody: 8:01am On Apr 20, 2021 |
Which Kain wahala be this? 4 Likes |
Re: No Erection For My Wife by Bornsinner7: 8:06am On Apr 20, 2021 |
They say who buy car buy old model.. That's the problem with African women.. as soon as you marry them dey begin to lose sharp, tie wrapper and their hygiene becomes terrible because they have secured a slave for life.. Your problem is your wife.. if she can keep up with the way she was when you were chasing her.. you wouldn't be here crying.. Omotola, agbani darego even Genevieve all have kids but they still try hard to keep in shape.. now this is not all about celebrity status or wealth but a personal determination.. back in high school there's this teacher we admired cuz of her looks and shape she was married with kids too but she still maintained her beauty.. 13 Likes |
Re: No Erection For My Wife by lilvicky68(m): 8:09am On Apr 20, 2021 |
Just take those local herbs and see your miracle.. 2 Likes |
Re: No Erection For My Wife by MasonKendall(m): 8:25am On Apr 20, 2021 |
I wish this guy was my neighbor ![]() ![]() 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: No Erection For My Wife by Ekejoestar(m): 8:28am On Apr 20, 2021 |
Beckysexy: Why's agbo not advisable 1 Like |
Re: No Erection For My Wife by oweniwe(m): 8:32am On Apr 20, 2021 |
MasonKendall: So you can help him be doing his job abi? |
Re: No Erection For My Wife by MasonKendall(m): 8:39am On Apr 20, 2021 |
oweniwe:You have sense.
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Re: No Erection For My Wife by Nobody: 9:33am On Apr 20, 2021 |
Ayo44real:It's very common in Marriage. That doesn't mean you dislike her. MEN are naturally wired that way. The Amplitude with which you ride on a lady decreases with increasing familiarity and proximity. That's why couples embark on vacation too, to stimulate affection & attachment. Again, this is where POLYGAMY helps too. Many may frown at it because of what's obtainable now. Polygamy solves it straight away. You are not ALONE in it. Many Married men are suffering from it. In Fact, many men I have managed in the past have confided such in me. One told me, the sight of his Wife kills his Libido kpatakpata...that there's nothing left of his Wife that stimulates him. That's why I pity Young Men who marry ladies just because of her sexual expedition & exploitations, which will surely become obsolete in few years of marriage. In Marriage, many New Wives overtime become exponentially unkempt and Indolent with saggy breasts and corrugated body parts which can also account for this overwhelming loss of libido. Some develop Halitosis too, which can turn off any Radio station. The shocking part is the speed with which young Ladies of nowadays come down with SAGGY Breasts like that of our GrandMoMs.. It's not easy on their part too. So, In a NUTSHELL, there's nothing wrong with you MEN love Adventures. 32 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: No Erection For My Wife by poshestmina(f): 9:37am On Apr 20, 2021 |
ahnie: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() This woman!!! |
Re: No Erection For My Wife by Sazeals(m): 9:51am On Apr 20, 2021 |
permit me to first be foolish. go outside again with another woman, when you have erection quicky run to your wife and knack being sensible now you can engage in pre-intimacy and all that nasty stuff 8 Likes |
Re: No Erection For My Wife by Beckysexy(f): 10:20am On Apr 20, 2021 |
Ekejoestar:I heard it has some adverse effect. |
Re: No Erection For My Wife by gidob(m): 10:24am On Apr 20, 2021 |
ahnie: With the numerous usage of the word you must be dripping... ![]() 1 Like |
Re: No Erection For My Wife by Nobody: 10:32am On Apr 20, 2021 |
MasonKendall:Shea u wan help am Nack him wife ![]() meanwhile, happy 420 to all responsible stoners worldwide #Green 2 Likes
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Re: No Erection For My Wife by Nobody: 10:33am On Apr 20, 2021 |
Lol. You guys can watch porn together. Also, you can buy her lingeries, let her make her hair regularly and wear sexy outfits more often. Encourage her by complimenting the little things you still find attractive about her and help her achieve the good looks that attracts you to other girls. Also, realize that you chose this path called marriage so man up to the responsibilities that comes with it. You have a duty to service that coochie regularly whether sexy or not sexy, so do it and be cheerful about it. 2 Likes |
Re: No Erection For My Wife by Kobicove(m): 10:36am On Apr 20, 2021 |
The issue is that you no longer feel sexually attracted to your wife ![]() |
Re: No Erection For My Wife by infogenius(m): 10:40am On Apr 20, 2021 |
Op, I am sorry about ur experience. Honestly, it's nothing new. Two things are involved. 1. For now ur cock doesn't crave for her... 2. U're not psychologically inclined to give to her. In moving forward, u need to start doing some of recollection of exciting moments u have had with her under the sheets. This you will do when she's not with you and most preferably hours before you see her again. What are those things that turns u on about her especially the salient turn ons like smell, facial gestures etc. If she's changed negatively physically, then u will need to help her get back to her near best. Do you more of pre-intimacy, smooch or touch her boobs anytime u have the opportunity, it may just be a split of a second. Better if she's not wearing bra. Look at her bare tighs especially the inner tighs whenever they are bare. The more u do these things, the more u're able to your acts back and before u know it, u'll be banging her again. I won't advice you take pills, just reverse ur psychology 8 Likes |
Re: No Erection For My Wife by Elmaaq: 10:45am On Apr 20, 2021 |
Beckysexy: Agbo is not advisable why? |
Re: No Erection For My Wife by Elmaaq: 10:48am On Apr 20, 2021 |
PlayMaker14: Your honesty is refreshing 1 Like |
Re: No Erection For My Wife by Amaechi2023(m): 11:09am On Apr 20, 2021 |
if erection is the only problem, try taking Viagra.
or visit abokis for magani buran tashi.. |
Re: No Erection For My Wife by GeneralPula: 11:15am On Apr 20, 2021 |
Dia must be something about her that’s making you feel disgusted 1 Like |
Re: No Erection For My Wife by indodon(m): 11:16am On Apr 20, 2021 |
The pain of living with one woman is becoming glaring.. 4 Likes
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Re: No Erection For My Wife by Cutehector(m): 11:30am On Apr 20, 2021 |
Is she fat? |
Re: No Erection For My Wife by Angrygoat: 11:43am On Apr 20, 2021 |
Smelly pussy or to many discharges that are sticky and yucky 1 Like |
Re: No Erection For My Wife by abbatoir(m): 12:06pm On Apr 20, 2021 |
MALIGNANTGuest: You are right... 3 Likes |
Re: No Erection For My Wife by rex444(m): 12:11pm On Apr 20, 2021 |
I wish all girls will be as open minded as this individual.....your first line ...hahhaha really caught me ahnie: |
Re: No Erection For My Wife by BuddhaPalm(m): 12:31pm On Apr 20, 2021 |
Erections are not automatically. You have to find the person sexually desirable. Perhaps she had added weight, etc. And your brain no longer responds to her. |
Re: No Erection For My Wife by GreatChizzy: 12:54pm On Apr 20, 2021 |
In just three (3) years!!! This is shocking to me. Five (5) years on and I still rush my wife like kilode!!! You and your wife, needs a vacation. It doesn't have to be some expensive Resort, it could be in your village. A place away from your usual daily routines. 1 Like |
Re: No Erection For My Wife by Jerryherd: 1:06pm On Apr 20, 2021 |
![]() First buy sexual enhancement drugs(there are many NAFDAC and FDA approved ones) then take a glass of wine or two , then lastly watch some kinky porn together before sex.... Try give her MouthAction non stop for 10-15 mins, if you can't use you hands to stimulate her clitoris while playing with her nipples One of your main obligation is to satisfy your wife, so you have to do what you have to do And remember, problem starts from the bedroom before degenerating into nagging, bitterness and divorce . 4 Likes |
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