Hello Nlanders, so I have been in a relationship with this young lady for about 20 months now. We started dating when she was in her final year 2019 and will be going for NYSC service year this coming May, 2021.

Now the question is after paying my dues, I mean gave gifts(both monetary and material) and do surprises. The problem now is she is asking me how much monthly compulsory stipends I will be paying her during NYSC.

NLanders, Please I need advice...This is my first relationship and I don't know if this is right.

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Once your woman is telling you stuffs to do for her in a relationship, move on, she's not the right one

It could mean a joke, but ask if she is serious. But I will advise that you both start planning for something more permanent instead of just dating and wasting each other's biological clock

Are u her employer or what cos I don't get... The last time I checked NYSC hasn't stopped paying Corp members nao.. She must be greedy if she says she serious

For you to contemplate the idea for a nano second shows that you two deserves each other. Shikenan! Whilst a service member in my days, I saw that mostly all of the female members from the south were sleeping with any one that cared, except 3 that were pregnant during the camp.

Oh Dear Lord!!!


A full grown Efulefu has decided to open a thread to display his Simping Disorder....

Giving to a lady that is not your mother, sister or wife is not generosity but gross stupidity.



E nor go better for person wen turn you to Mumu.

LalasticlaIa, i deh beg u with two snake heads, no move this nonsense go FP

that's if this story is not fiction or a joke
men atimes we are the cause of our problem.. yes it's very ok to gift our lovers and assist them financially but right now what you are saying is your girlfriend is asking you to pay her monthly salary.. wait is her father dead? has nysc stopped paying corp members? is she hadicaped? any lady that can not finance her self is not worth to be making demands... trust me is u start like this remember that u must continue like this even is you get married to her... be real To your self man this geh nor like u

maybe na u be her PPA, I'll advice u to pay her minimum wage.

Dechief:



that's if this story is not fiction or a joke
men atimes we are the cause of our problem.. yes it's very ok to gift our lovers and assist them financially but right now what you are saying is your girlfriend is asking you to pay her monthly salary.. wait is her father dead? has nysc stopped paying corp members? is she hadicaped? any lady that can not finance her self is not worth to be making demands... trust me is u start like this remember that u must continue like this even is you get married to her... be real To your self man this geh nor like u

Thank you

I didn't know being a "girlfriend" is a job description....


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By the way, please check my signature and patronize us for your data. Na beg I dey beg. Thanks.

It is a BIG sin to have a girlfriend. You and that girl are both candidates of HELL except you repent.

call her parents in the village and report her to them

call her parents on the village and report her to them

Kayoderebel:
call her parents on in the village and report her to them

For what? if her parent had trained her well, she won't spew this thrash

And you even have the effrontery to bring the nonsensical nonsense thread andnl thought to nairaland for us to advice you on what to do?


Honestly, if you happen to be my brother I will use you for money ritual so as to feed people with sense.

If you were my younger brother, I would have laid you down and give you 50 lashes.. What nonsense!!

Waitn do her papa is he dead??

How much will she give you in return too from her own monthly stipend.
No let anybody manipulate you.
She get mind sha

I don't get

Monthly compulsory stipend as per Federal Government of Nigeria that you are??

vinehedge:
Hello Nlanders, so I have been in a relationship with this young lady for about 20 months now. We started dating when she was in her final year 2019 and will be going for NYSC service year this coming May, 2021.

Now the question is after paying my dues, I mean gave gifts(both monetary and material) and do surprises. The problem now is she is asking me how much monthly compulsory stipends I will be paying her during NYSC.

NLanders, Please I need advice...This is my first relationship and I don't know if this is right.

May God save us from entitled and selfish girls, if you still have a good girl as girlfriend, please stick to her, treat her right and show her love in the best way u can

Imagine this one asking for monthly stipends, after collecting 30k allowed from Federal govt and maybe another sum from her PPA

@vinehedge, how is your financial stability? I'm sure this wouldn't be a problem for someone who is financially stable. Perhaps you have been giving her something much more than allawee monthly. And if you can't afford it, talk it out with her. Then act wisely on her response or attitude towards that. While I was serving, I had two female colleagues who got stipends from their bfs monthly so they can live so well. All shouldn't be trolls always.

If there's any trust issue, I would advise you think well so you would be able to count your loss.

na wah oo

Is she a Nigerian policewoman?

They're the ones who tax you at every given opportunity

BanjiRaymond:
Once your woman is telling you stuffs to do for her in a relationship, move on, she's not the right one

Just like that? Nawa.

Your gf is a very self-centered lady, after collecting Federal and state alawee, she still dey expect boyfriend alawee. When corpers were collecting N9800 self gf no dey ask for compupsory monthly stipends, beside the way dem dey bang corper girls during service year some of them go just tell their bf say dem no do again. If u like waste ur money, make another person just dey hammer ur babe for u, at the end of the day make she con say she no do again.
Oboy use your head o, make u wise up.
"Abo oro lan so fomo luabi o..."(if u know u know)

They only make this kind of demands when the know they are dating a simp....

Them no born any girlfriend to ask me for money for hair talk more of monthly salary sorry stipend.

SimplyFacts:
@vinehedge, how is your financial stability? I'm sure this wouldn't be a problem for someone who is financially stable. Perhaps you have been giving her something much more than allawee monthly. And if you can't afford it, talk it out with her. Then act wisely on her response or attitude towards that. While I was serving, I had two female colleagues who got stipends from their bfs monthly so they can live so well. All shouldn't be trolls always.

If there's any trust issue, I would advise you think well so you would be able to count your loss.

Thank you for this

vinehedge:
Hello Nlanders, so I have been in a relationship with this young lady for about 20 months now. We started dating when she was in her final year 2019 and will be going for NYSC service year this coming May, 2021.

Now the question is after paying my dues, I mean gave gifts(both monetary and material) and do surprises. The problem now is she is asking me how much monthly compulsory stipends I will be paying her during NYSC.

NLanders, Please I need advice...This is my first relationship and I don't know if this is right.

No try am ooo. Girl wey never sure say she go marry you