Grabezz:
Good day NL I will go straight to the point please pardon my typos, poor construction and spelling errors.

There was this ex of mine Ethel (not real name) we are age mate and very good friends I can say bestie as popularly termed. We were very close with no feelings attached cos I was already in a relationship aimed at marriage.

We became so close that feelings got in and we started dating, it was possible cos my woman was very far from me I mean 12 to 14hrs journey.
The relationship blossomed owing to the fact that we are age mates and best of friends. I can say it's a relationship I find difficult forgetting though my other part wasn't much into it because I already took a step with the other lady and don't want to disappoint her. My friend here was aware of the other relationship as well but what can we do.

One thing led to the other, Ethel left cos she's seen that it won't be easy to divert my attention completely from the other lady. She travelled to her brother's place and met with another guy and they got married.

The marriage didn't last upto two years and they separated as a result of problems from husbands family. Myself left the same relationship that didn't allow me concentrate fully on her which eventually made her entered the said marriage. She never told me she's divorced it was when I called to check up on her and asked after hubby and son that she opened up.

Right now I am considering going back to her, I feel we weren't suppose to leave each other cos of the much understanding we have about each other and the love we've shared.

We've been talking and am thinking marriage with her but still thinking what my people will say and especially what the bible says "And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
Matthew 19:9 KJV[color=#000099][/color] please I need your sincere advise on this.

Very Good to know that you know what GOD'S word says on such Relationship.
If you enter , it is same as using your hands to Enter Fire.
Respect yourself and find your own wife..

And finally Righteousness is here..


Nice advice though

yanabasee1:
They say that relationship is different from marriage and the nice girl you date might be a devil when you marry her....


If the first man would divorce her and you only listen from her side of the story that she divorce him because of the troubles from his family.... You should listen from the other side to come to conclusion that what she said is actually true....


Don't rush into what you might regret and open another thread seeking for assistance....


Learn to operate without attaching too much emotions to it as a man.... Your emotions will mislead you.... Men think through without feelings...

I wish you good luck!!

Lol, so you should just marry anyone and hope it goes well just like that? I'm sure you're under 20 and don't know what life is all about, grow up first and understand

Kebbiprince:

Lol, so you should just marry anyone and hope it goes well just like that? I'm sure you're under 20 and don't know what life is all about, grow up first and understand

Which kind mumu be this?


Where did I advice the young lad to marry her and hope things goes well?



You just want to be unfortunate in life...


Abi na comprehension issues weh the worry you?

yanabasee1:



Which kind mumu be this?


Where did I advice the young lad to marry her and hope things goes well?



You just want to be unfortunate in life...


Abi na comprehension issues weh the worry you?

Easy bro, please let's be calming down

yanabasee1:



Which kind mumu be this?


Where did I advice the young lad to marry her and hope things goes well?



You just want to be unfortunate in life...


Abi na comprehension issues weh the worry you?

Grabezz:
Good day NL I will go straight to the point please pardon my typos, poor construction and spelling errors.

There was this ex of mine Ethel (not real name) we are age mate and very good friends I can say bestie as popularly termed. We were very close with no feelings attached cos I was already in a relationship aimed at marriage.

We became so close that feelings got in and we started dating, it was possible cos my woman was very far from me I mean 12 to 14hrs journey.
The relationship blossomed owing to the fact that we are age mates and best of friends. I can say it's a relationship I find difficult forgetting though my other part wasn't much into it because I already took a step with the other lady and don't want to disappoint her. My friend here was aware of the other relationship as well but what can we do.

One thing led to the other, Ethel left cos she's seen that it won't be easy to divert my attention completely from the other lady. She travelled to her brother's place and met with another guy and they got married.

The marriage didn't last upto two years and they separated as a result of problems from husbands family. Myself left the same relationship that didn't allow me concentrate fully on her which eventually made her entered the said marriage. She never told me she's divorced it was when I called to check up on her and asked after hubby and son that she opened up.

Right now I am considering going back to her, I feel we weren't suppose to leave each other cos of the much understanding we have about each other and the love we've shared.

We've been talking and am thinking marriage with her but still thinking what my people will say and especially what the bible says "And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
Matthew 19:9 KJV[color=#000099][/color] please I need your sincere advise on this.

Marry Her If U Want To,There Is Nothing Wrong.

Joetttimua1811:

The kebbiprince was supposed to read my comment very well and not tag me an underage.. What sort of idiotic display was that?

Grabezz:



Easy bro, please let's be calming down

Totally calmed... just don't get it easy with kids trying to belittle everyone to their level...