MAY THUNDER FIRE THIS UR QUESTION. U MUST BE A FUTURE MUMU

Inukwa

Doradorwa:
@Op....Personally I think you are still immature for a relationship... Because your mindset is not healthy. I hate people that bring their relationship problem here... I believe it's just a way to defame women and most of this topics are fake.

Fake kee u dere!!!... scammer association.

Problem no dey finish

vinehedge:
Hello Nlanders, so I have been in a relationship with this young lady for about 20 months now. We started dating when she was in her final year 2019 and will be going for NYSC service year this coming May, 2021.

Now the question is after paying my dues, I mean gave gifts(both monetary and material) and do surprises. The problem now is she is asking me how much monthly compulsory stipends I will be paying her during NYSC.

NLanders, Please I need advice...This is my first relationship and I don't know if this is right.

Foolish SIMP!!!

You will learn the hard way

Everybody is ranting because the innocent girl ask a simple question. From my point of view is better to place her on that stipends if not, you will definitely be spending more before each month ends. Because u will definitely send her Money maybe 2 to 3 times monthly.

Jashub:
It could mean a joke, but ask if she is serious. But I will advise that you both start planning for something more permanent instead of just dating and wasting each other's biological clock

What's this one saying?

A woman is behaving like an unreasonable idiot and you want the guy to go ahead with her.

Can you wish for your son to have such a woman as a wife?

Next is pay me before Bleep

content208:


What's this one saying?

A woman is behaving like an unreasonable idiot and you want the guy to go ahead with her.

Can you wish for your son to have such a woman as a wife?

You talk like one who is devoid of understanding. Since when did confronting a woman with such become something that is wrong? Or did you not read the OP's post. Please be guided

Jashub:
You talk like one who is devoid of understanding. Since when did confronting a woman with such become something that is wrong? Or did you not read the OP's post. Please be guided

Op said she is asking for salary and you are advising op to consider settling down with her. So, who is really having understanding problem here?

content208:


Op said she is asking for salary and you are advising op to consider settling down with her. So, who is really having understanding problem here?

Please read my post carefully and stop adding your own fantasies to the interpretation of my message

richmond500:
LalasticlaIa, i deh beg u with two snake heads, no move this nonsense go FP

With two snake heads?

OP,pay her the monthly allowee with immediate alacrity! That will be her compensation for dating her for two years n still hoping to date her for only God-knows-how-long without even proposing to marry her.This compensatory allowee is necessary to the babe in case she comes back from service to meet original owner of the house with wedding ring in her finger,she will then take all the monthly stipends as her consolation prize.
Abeg sleep dey worry me make I go sleep abeg n leave OP with him stipends matter

vinehedge:
Hello Nlanders, so I have been in a relationship with this young lady for about 20 months now. We started dating when she was in her final year 2019 and will be going for NYSC service year this coming May, 2021.

Now the question is after paying my dues, I mean gave gifts(both monetary and material) and do surprises. The problem now is she is asking me how much monthly compulsory stipends I will be paying her during NYSC.

NLanders, Please I need advice...This is my first relationship and I don't know if this is right.

She's a liability. Free her.
You are not her employer biko.

Pacesetter123:
OP,pay her the monthly allowee with immediate alacrity! That will be her compensation for dating her for two years n still hoping to date her for only God-knows-how-long without even proposing to marry her.This compensatory allowee is necessary to the babe in case she comes back from service to meet original owner of the house with wedding ring in her finger,she will then take all the monthly stipends as her consolation prize.
Abeg sleep dey worry me make I go sleep abeg n leave OP with him stipends matter

Small time she will ask for pension and gratuity.

deavicky:
Everybody is ranting because the innocent girl ask a simple question. From my point of view is better to place her on that stipends if not, you will definitely be spending more before each month ends. Because u will definitely send her Money maybe 2 to 3 times monthly.

Are her parents dead?
Is she an orphan, let's stop encouraging this madness biko.

justjify:


Small time she will ask for pension and gratuity.

abeniagbon:


being a boyfriend has automatically turn to him to her parent

Exactly. She's mentally poor.
relationship no be poverty alleviation program

vinehedge:
Hello Nlanders, so I have been in a relationship with this young lady for about 20 months now. We started dating when she was in her final year 2019 and will be going for NYSC service year this coming May, 2021.

Now the question is after paying my dues, I mean gave gifts(both monetary and material) and do surprises. The problem now is she is asking me how much monthly compulsory stipends I will be paying her during NYSC.

NLanders, Please I need advice...This is my first relationship and I don't know if this is right.

hello Mr simp

for doing what exactly?

Pay her allowance for the relationship because na part her employment

vinehedge:
Hello Nlanders, so I have been in a relationship with this young lady for about 20 months now. We started dating when she was in her final year 2019 and will be going for NYSC service year this coming May, 2021.

Now the question is after paying my dues, I mean gave gifts(both monetary and material) and do surprises. The problem now is she is asking me how much monthly compulsory stipends I will be paying her during NYSC.

NLanders, Please I need advice...This is my first relationship and I don't know if this is right.

I did that at once stage and I regretted it. You owe no one anything and once you start paying,that's what you will be indebted to, she won't leave you because of that and that wouldn't stop her from cheating with you and even if she found a new relationship, she will still find a way of collecting your money hiding it from you and once the payment stop, everything over

Michelle55:
Which kain yeye monthly stipends?

How much is her own father giving her monthly or did you tell her you are running a charity organization?

Don't be pussy whipped my friend and curtail her excess, besides what has she given you since you both started dating abi dem do you say na only you go dey spend as Bill Gates pikin wey you be na

So the alawee of 33k no go reach her manage her life or dem never increase am ni? I guess you started the relationship on monetary level if that's the case, abeg continue oh. No lemme use my reggae take spoil una fairytale blues.

Instead of always giving her, have you thought of helping her stand on her own feet by getting her a job or something to keep her busy and earn while at it? Or do you like giving without receiving as much as a little pamper from her ni?

Woos, today na Sunday and I no just dey in the mood to table ya matter, do what you deem fit and if giving her ya life savings will make the relationship sail smoothly please do biko.

The chances of your babe coming back to you from service the same and intact as you left her is 50/50 my brother, I say make I tell you so that you go prepare ya mind for anything.

one puff-puff for you jor

vinehedge:
Hello Nlanders, so I have been in a relationship with this young lady for about 20 months now. We started dating when she was in her final year 2019 and will be going for NYSC service year this coming May, 2021.

Now the question is after paying my dues, I mean gave gifts(both monetary and material) and do surprises. The problem now is she is asking me how much monthly compulsory stipends I will be paying her during NYSC.

NLanders, Please I need advice...This is my first relationship and I don't know if this is right.

Error, don't try it. She ll ruin you financially

Jashub:
It could mean a joke, but ask if she is serious. But I will advise that you both start planning for something more permanent instead of just dating and wasting each other's biological clock

She isn't a permanent material, this is a liability

Another mumu man gone
Man down

She's damn serious about it. I encountered a corper like that in the past who insisted I must pay her monthly salary/stipend if we must date. Many female copers do so and the idea is that they will be saving their allawee while using the stipend for their upkeep during the service year. I ran!

missyojo:
Alot of people didn't read the post well before commenting. She is going for service in May, not that she's already serving.

And so?

What difference does it make?

I hope you're not what I'm thinking...?

Guy, Run Away From That Girl oooooo

SimplyFacts:
@vinehedge, how is your financial stability? I'm sure this wouldn't be a problem for someone who is financially stable. Perhaps you have been giving her something much more than allawee monthly. And if you can't afford it, talk it out with her. Then act wisely on her response or attitude towards that. While I was serving, I had two female colleagues who got stipends from their bfs monthly so they can live so well. All shouldn't be trolls always.

If there's any trust issue, I would advise you think well so you would be able to count your loss.

So because someone is financially stable, the person should act like mumu? Abeg, I don't support that one.

Jashub:
Please read my post carefully and stop adding your own fantasies to the interpretation of my message

Your comment is obvious enough