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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Cypapa: 10:32pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
My dear, being a virgin at that age is the best thing you will do to yourself. I know marriage is no a one-size-fits-all kind of venture. I married my wife as a virgin at 28. We have learned to trust each other and walk together without distractions for 12years now. Because I find her a virgin at the time of our wedding, I have learned to respect myself and respect her. I naturally cannot cheat on her. We are like hand and mouth. Sex is a life commitment. If you do it before you get married to your spouse, it will make you suspect yourselves at every move in the course of your marriage. I know this topic can be very controversial, but marrying a virgin will build trust and reduce the rate of divorce in our society. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by fmone: 10:32pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Rosement: Stand your ground and don't compromise. God has a way of settling His own. When a good door closes, God opens a better door and He closes a better door to open the best. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Otuchi: 10:33pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Fictitious Story** |
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Nobody: 10:33pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Rosement:A man can Change His Mind At Any Point...Weather Before Or After Marriage. There Are Other Expectations Of You In Marriage Besides Your Virginity.Geddit!! 1 Like |
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Matanmi168(m): 10:34pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Why are you girls like asking for money |
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Telstar: 10:35pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
DemonInvoker:Whether, not weather. Always write right. |
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Emmanueladvocate(m): 10:35pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Most girls don't reason at all, you say you don't want to have sex till after marriage. Person like me I will agree after marriage when I eat you finish like 6 good month I will devoice you immediately so you know that it's not all about vergins.. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Juanmike(m): 10:36pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
DICKstractor:your reputation precedes you DICKstractor. |
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by NoToPile: 10:36pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
There are guys who don't want to have sex till they get married My colleague a working class guy opened up to me ,actually broke up with a lady because she was trying to seduce him. Babe was like 'you better stop suffering yourself' ![]() Now he's in another relationship with a lady who truly understands the NSBM agreement and we thank God. Scenario 2, babe was a virgin been dating this guy abroad, guys mother wants babe to get pregnant before wedding, babe said she doesn't even intend having sex before she weds not to talk of belle, the issue dragged and dragged, laslas they broke up. Almost 6years later babe got married few weeks back as a virgin to one cool guy like that . These things are not hard every opolo get hin kind. So OP break up with him, you will see the one that will wait with you. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by RedChiefPriest: 10:36pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Rosement:Have discovered one thing about this life and it is that different people with different orientations and choices. There are girls out there that don't want sex till marriage, There are girls out there that can't do without sex, There are guys out there that are practicing celibacy And There are guys out there that can't do without sex. So just find someone with the same choice as you and when you do don't use billing to confuse him. Walk and stumble not 6 Likes |
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Nobody: 10:37pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Telstar:Alright...Noted But Na My Intuition...I will Write it like That Again Next Time 1 Like |
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Telstar: 10:37pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
favour32:Hahaha. I don't really like virgins. 1 Like |
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by melodyogonna(m): 10:37pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Is there any reason in particular why you're waiting till marriage? Marriage like many things requires you to be quite experienced in a lot of things. |
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Benzemma(m): 10:38pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Rosement: Stick on your word. Don't go against your wish, which is not bad, you will hate yourself and even the person after. I made same promise to myself that I will not sleep with any girl except the person I will marry and have sex with the girl until I marry her. Don't feel bad that you have been breaking up with people because of that. Those guys that is asking you for sex before marriage, are not your type. They might leave you for another girl as well, after you have given them the sex they want. Any guy that loves you will not leave you because you did not offer him sex before marriage. Stand still on that decision and you will see that God will provide for you who will respect your feeling. Do not look at your other female friends, they might come and tell you story on how they have been having sex with the person that want to marry them, don't listen to them that is their own decision not yours. 9 Likes |
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Rosement(f): 10:38pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Yes, sis. Having the same experience over and over can be so frustrating, I think I'm going to follow your footstep on this matter. The both of us are not broke, we exchange gifts on special occasions. I use to prepare food and take it down to his office to surprise him. I am in a healthy relationship, we treat each other with respect but the problem is we agreed to wait till our wedding night but now he is suggesting that we start having MouthAction. Perhaps, he does not understand that I'm not trying to keep my hymen intact, I take fornication as a sin Afolashade00: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Jefferic(m): 10:39pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Rosement: This one is easy nah. If he cannot wait then you move . For me I can date without sex even for 10 years. Get someone who can respect your belief and values. |
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by RedChiefPriest: 10:40pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Rosement:Have discovered one thing about this life and it is that different people with different orientations and choices. There are girls out there that don't want sex till marriage, There are girls out there that can't do without sex, There are guys out there that are practicing celibacy And There are guys out there that can't do without sex. So just find someone with the same choice as you and when you do don't use billing to confuse him. Walk and stumble not 4 Likes |
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by aktolly54(m): 10:40pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
MoneyTrees:na so my brother, those bit.Ches always think they are smart |
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by sinola(m): 10:41pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
As long as babes date for material gains... It has to be reciprocal |
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by IamRunk(m): 10:42pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
If you are worth it, you will find it |
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Telstar: 10:42pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Jefferic:You can date without sex? Shut up! Don't be a wussy. What if you discover at last that the woman you're dating aren't a virgin, what are you gonna do? |
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Nobody: 10:42pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Bullshit talk honestly |
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by NoToPile: 10:42pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Rosement: Break up with him your type will come. ![]() Don't go against what you believe in 1 Like |
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Nobody: 10:42pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Rosement: It's pathetic that you had to create a new account in order to post this pointless thread Stop asking guys for money, if you did that they'd stop pressuring you for sex too. It's even for your own good because there are too many ritualists on the prowl out there, looking for gullible girls like you to be used as sacrifice to the dark gods in exchange for wealth 1 Like |
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by gram: 10:43pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Cypapa: Totally agree |
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by SweetDipBenny(m): 10:43pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Rosement:Dont bill him till d wedding ![]() |
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Goldiness: 10:44pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Rosement: Don't ever try having sex with the guy, remain a virgin till you marry, not all men ask for sex before marriage, pray to God to send you your real man who will value you without sleeping with you, and marry you. Just stay strong and don't fall for temptation. Don't be decieved. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by ORLAHOLUWA(m): 10:44pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Just imagine white guy inspite the whole naija guy na because u like beta thing u go gree for white guy which u think say him mumu or u think say na those one wey u dey watch for that dstv wey u go dey love without no sex c'mon virgin gbogi dia open ur puna mak i see wetin I wan pay for 3 Likes |
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Nobody: 10:44pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Rosement: Give him permission to flog other girls and come back to u when u are ready to marry. Guys are created to release d liquid by nature. Your bf chose to use s6x as his own and he wants it with u. As a virgin, I don’t advice u to give in to his demand cos if he eventually not marry u( which is very possible even if d excuse is not due to d s6x he had with u) u will feel bad. It’s also dangerous to just fall for any guy who is ready to wait for marriage before d act cos he might be hiding an impotency condition. In conclusion, follow your instinct and don’t regret your decision. |
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by YoungAncient1: 10:45pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Who says guys can't date without sex? I am a guy, I am 33 and I am a virgin and I know a lot of guys that are better than me. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by sinola(m): 10:45pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Quality20: You want boko Haram/fulani killer bandits to kill her on the road when she will be coming to you visit abi |
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Nobody: 10:45pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
If u truly don't wanna have sex till your wedding night.... Then the best option is to quit the relationship..... Don't tell me you're dating a guy, and you expect him to stay for years without having sex... What if he decides to marry u in the next 15yearssssss. 2 Likes |
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