Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

Dont let anyone pressure you into having sex. If he no do, let him go

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

My dear, you would greatly regret if you give up now because he might just dump you thereafter. You will be more heartbroken. If he can't wait, he doesn't love you enough. Love waits.

He promised to marry you why not hasten the process already? See your family, get to the registry and finalise. No too much stories or large gatherings.

I hope your decision to wait is because you want to please God and obey His commandments? If so, pls hold on to that decision. God will reward you richly.

Please do not give in to pressures. May the Lord help you.

Hassanmaye:
Are you serious

do u doubt technological advancement

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

Must you date? If you don't want sex just remain single till you are ready for marriage...if don't what sex go for friendship and leave intimate relationship alone.

[quote author=Rosement post=101208094]I am getting depressed that why I asked this question. I need advice on how to make my relationship work without sex, that's all.[/quote




There is nothing to do sister, you keep breaking up till you meet someone that’ll agree with you. You can’t use love to change a leopard’s skin, a man that wants sex wants sex finish.

Why can't girls date without cheating

Rocktation,

hi, permit me interview you on Nairaland. Been running some interviews with Nairaland members.

You can check my topics.

It's disheartening to see the majority of guys using collecting money to justify premarital sex. What happened to dating when you are ready for marriage?

Rosement , if he can't wait, let him go.

You deserve better..
Don't let anyone talk you into engaging in premarital sex.

Rosement , if he can't wait, let him go.

You deserve better..
Don't let anyone talk you into engaging in premarital sex.

Vivien458:
so she will start a relationship, and be the one to propose to the guy in that 6months Abi?

yes i think so. you know most guys are not ready to marry yet due to financial challanges(guys who are of age to marry),maybe if she give the suppose boyfriend like 10m and tell the guy whether hes ready or not to settle down. beleieve if any girlfriend give me such money and ask me to marry her and i know she is not all those spoil brat pikin,i will take my chances and marry her in 3months of dating not even 6month.

op should just stay away from relationship because am sure all she is saying thqt she is financial independent is a lie. she will still need boyfriend money in the relationship , even linda ikeji go still collect money from her boyfriend(if she get one), so who is op?

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

Don't ask him for money too or any help and you'll be alright

waphany07c:


Are U aware that U r a relationship expert?? Nice advice.

thanks man, i never consider been a relationship expert as a career though....God bless you too

Rosement:
I am getting depressed that why I asked this question. I need advice on how to make my relationship work without sex, that's all.

if you date and unbeliever...you will tear that rubber soon...
there are serious God-Lovers out there, with swag sef that are praying to God for a clean hearted Lady that won't tempt them into fornication...Pray and position yourself for such....but u go the fyn Drake with a touch of Benny Hinn...
Okay naa....u better keep that place tight oo...you must not drop ur integrity because u want to keep a man...cos if em chop u...em go still japa...
na tode?

oluwaahmed:


Thats naija girls scam for you, Virginity & Belle. U will think she's a virgin not knowing she friends with Tom's dick and Harry's
DNA don cast the belle scam many of our fathers fell prey to.

Exactly!

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

Hello, my friend.Don't mind people telling you to grant his(your bf) request.keep yourself.If he truly loves has he said,why is it that he is not matured enough to have control over his urges for sex before marriage,why is it that he lacks the very ability to endure,why is he thinking like a cock(only to think about sex,and wanting to have it at a boiling temperature),why has he failed to think like an organized and responsible being nowing fully well that humans are not animals.There are certain process we are meant to go through and time to wait for before sex, I mean the one ordained by God, comes to play.This is how he convinced other virgins like you, and after having his way through them, dropped them.Ask him, and if he is really sincere, you will get to find out that you are not even the fifth person he has damaged their lives all in the name of broken relationship (we broke up,as the say at the end of the story).see, you better run for your life.He just wants to have a taste of you,that's all.After that, you fade before his eyes.Then you eyes would be opened that you were not truly loves by him.Don't mind people telling you to open up to him.Those telling you to do don't even remember the word virginity,they don't even know whether it still exists because the lost their long ago even before they came to true maturity.There nothing in this world you can use to convince them about the evils of premarital sex because they like it,want it and always die to have it.The is the only reason why they are into many relationships.My friend, see your councilor, your mum or even your pastor for better advice.They in the best position to offer such, and not so many under 20s and 25s with corrupt mentality here.God bless for remaining a virgin until now.Your reward is with God, and even with the husband that would see and take you the way you are.

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

I hope he can stop giving u money till after marriage too?
If u can abide with that, I'll tell ur boo to forget sex till after marriage

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

Go and join workers in a church. The spirit of God will lead you to your dream man who will not demand...

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

Better you go with someone that shares like values, from your faith group or suchlike

keep your virginity, a guy would disvirgin and still walk away. Keep it and let the worthy one have it.It would all worth the wait

My question to the people bringing religion into this is:

* Where in the bible did God endorse Dating?



The valid answers are those which entail marrying as soon as you are set. Nothing like dating or the likes, you can take time to learn the person by being his friend( which means no unnecessary demands, no entitlement, no jealousy or possessiveness... nothing of the sort), no dating! In Nigeria we have seen several cases where ladies lie about the virginity and when the time comes, it's a hoax. Allow people dating to have their sex in peace even solo bucci dated more than 200 women and they were called concubines.

if you know you are principled, religious and want to follow the tenets of the law to the letter, don't provoke love until it is pleasing in God's sight which is marriage.

ladypearlygold:
keep your virginity, a guy would disvirgin and still walk away. Keep it and let the worthy one have it.It would all worth the wait

nothing like worthiness, Na Road? who issues the certificate? If you talk about religion, I can understand, but not worthiness!

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

Babe, don`t allow anyone pressure you into doing something you`re not ready for. There are lots of young people out there who have decided to do away with premarital sex, trust me. All you need is someone who holds same value as you. If he doesn`t value sexual purity let him go. Giving him sex doesn`t guarantee that he will stay, he can still leave you. At God`s time, the right one will show up and I promise you he will be all you ever dreamed of and more. May God grant you the grace to wait patiently, amen.

Hello, I will like to give my opinion about the question you asked. Guys ask for sex because a guy is a male and male needs sex. Male is given the power of procreation by God, so man/guys are almost always ready for sex just like lower animals.
A guy needs to have lots of morals and Godly inclination for him not to ask for sex. Guys have sexual curiosities and complexities, peer pressure and influences. Guys wanna know if they are sexual active or not and a whole lot.
It's left for you to decide what exactly you want, but hope you know how risky it is to wait till your honeymoon night, for you to now discover that he has sexual(erectile) dysfunction. That's not to say you should compromise on your virginity.
There are guys who also wanna stay celibate till they are married, you sure know where to find those kind of guys.
I wish you best of luck.

[quote author=danietohbadt post=101208529]Stay out of a relationship young woman.

If you know you don't want sex till your wedding day, then keep yourself and your love till you're ready to settle down.

Body no be firewood.

No man go see babe wey get nice ass and succulent boobs wey he no go one chop am. Hahahaha na food?!

aktolly54:
its possible as long as you know throw any stupid billing, if you want to confirm whether the guy is generous or stingy ,ask him to send money to orphange but you dare bill him for any reason till wedding day. Even if your phone spoil or anything, ask your brother or father to get you another one

May your Blessings never pass you by

bigpicture001:
@op, if he dates you without sex, u will dump him... Trust me, I have done no relationship for about 4times now.

You will surely dump him.. So my advice, desist from men like you did till 25, and wait till marriage

I'm a witness to that bro! Not that no-sex before marriage is bad but it's just annoying when as a guy you sacrifice everything ( financial and material etc) only to get dumped eventually. I've been there before and it still hurts

tosik:

then there are guys that doesn't ask for sex....it seems you wanna twist your answer

Smart answer bro! I hail �

Unitedabby:
I'm a witness to that bro! Not that no-sex before marriage is bad but it's just annoying when as a guy you sacrifice everything ( financial and material etc) only to get dumped eventually. I've been there before and it still hurts

A lady can only be committed to a man if she is Fvcked... That's the only thing that opens her heart...

Without it, the guy MUST be dumped by the lady nomata how nice or good the guy is...

Sh will always evaluate, and see sh got nothing lost at any slight quarrel and leave.... A lot of guys are ready to go down that lane with ladies... But the psychological effect on ladies will never make them stay... U must surely be dumped by such ladies

Tell him to marry you before his next erection.

senatepresido:

May your Blessings never pass you by

amen and you too