After I posted a thread about au my mother in law buried the placenta of my new born child some couple of months ago, I had to give the baby name at my parent place in other to the new boy fresh breathe of life... Since then I decided to separate from my wife and she went back to her mama house just for me to have peace of mind... I started sending monthly upkeep for both of my children and ready to take any other responsibilities that arises and I made sure I ghosted my wife ever since... Couple of weeks back she called me without reasonable thing to say nd I made sure I made the discussion brief and even told her to extend my greetings to her mother... On Tuesday I unblock her on WhatsApp nd fast forward to yesterday she is now asking me for clinic fees for my child nd even reminding me about my daughter school fees.. Why am surprise is that this is a woman that was telling me she can take care of her children alone even if I don't send monthly upkeep and it's just two months wey she don dey get tired.... After all I did to make her convenient then with me not even having any reasonable plan for my future... In just months I send her commot av secured part time admission for degree and my business is moving on fine with reasonable savings to back up... I even got an averagely furnished apartment to my taste which I will only dream of if I have a wife... For my children to have a good future am already seeing positivity in ghosting their mama wey never dey supportive and always nagging.... Atleast people can say whatever they like but AM FREE from this daughter of Jezebel.... Ever since I send her commot I made sure I raised my value based on some redpilled nuggets nd things have been going on fine for me.. Say whatever u like marriage na still scam and when u tie knot with unappreciative lady then one will just die gasping for breathe...

we know oga. stop complaining na ..

thought we all agreed on the baby mama thingy

SmellySperm:
we know oga. stop complaining na ..


thought we all agreed on the baby mama thingy

sure

Any man that says marraige is a scam is a pure failure and coming to nairaland to justify urself makes you a fool. Separation is good to put you both in perspective but get your family back.

The pained sister above me should be neglected, please.




OP, make sure you take care of your children, regardless.

Don't use ur own case to generalize dat marriage is a scam, some pple who are very Happy in there marriage are ever grateful to GOD for bringing both of them together.

Of course, you will have negative impressions about marriage if you were in an unfavourable one. So your comment doesn't surprise me.

If marriage in and of itself is scam, why did God encourage and sanction it?

SanctifiedSista:
Any man that says marraige is a scam is a pure failure and coming to nairaland to justify urself makes you a fool. Separation is good to put you both in perspective but get your family back.

na scam if man marry unappreciative woman like u.... Maybe na understanding dey worry u or na u dey worry understanding..

When the foundation is faulty, it's rubbish! That is don't start what you can't continue. There are many bad signs but you ignored. Just be forced and live to take good care of your kids. Don't give birth if you can't take good care of yourself! Poverty is bastard

My own marriage will not be a scam in Jesus name, Amen
I will appreciate my man, he will appreciate me in return.
I will respect and take care of him and his parents
He will love me till death in return
So I have decreed and so it shall be , Amen

adadike:
My own marriage will not be a scam in Jesus name, Amen
I will appreciate my man, he will appreciate me in return.
I will respect and take care of him and his parents
He will love me till death in return
So I have decreed and so it shall be , Amen

will you marry me?

adadike:
My own marriage will not be a scam in Jesus name, Amen
I will appreciate my man, he will appreciate me in return.
I will respect and take care of him and his parents
He will love me till death in return
So I have decreed and so it shall be , Amen

Amen oooo
our marriage will not be scam

ngadaAwo:
Amen oooo
our marriage will not be scam

you eh?

UEDIBO:

will you marry me?

that's a million dollar question dear

Why am surprise is that this is a woman that was telling me she can take care of her children alone even if I don't send monthly upkeep and it's just two months wey she don dey get tired.

Next time don’t fall for this..

Don't use ur own case to generalize dat marriage is a scam, some pple who are very Happy in there marriage are ever grateful to GOD for bringing both of them together.

adadike:
My own marriage will not be a scam in Jesus name, Amen
I will appreciate my man, he will appreciate me in return.
I will respect and take care of him and his parents
He will love me till death in return
So I have decreed and so it shall be , Amen

Ada God bless you. I love you for this

Crunchyg3:

Ada God bless you. I love you for this

thanks dear

adadike:
thanks dear

are you from Abriba?

most women are unappreciative,if you give a woman your last 10k in your acct and you go to bed hungry and a rich person gives her 100k from his acct of millions a woman will value that person who gave her 100k more than you with the 10k.thats just how they are wired.I speak from experience and all this things have shaped me to live my life ot to please a woman or anybody.i hustle for money to live a better life and not to impress a woman.i bought my car to ease my movement and not for a woman.i never ever try to impress a woman.if you like me,good.if you dont like me Bleep off.

adenike21273:
Don't use ur own case to generalize dat marriage is a scam, some pple who are very Happy in there marriage are ever grateful to GOD for bringing both of them together.

The guy is just very pained and still hasn’t learned.

He has refused to do some soul searching, discover his mistakes and actively correct them.
See the mumbo jumbo he typed there.

Awon redpiller.

Women Dey marry sha

Crunchyg3:

are you from Abriba?

Hey boss happy new month pls that your story still try update na abeg e too sweet u Jo's leave us for suspense

Richadv:

Hey boss happy new month pls that your story still try update na abeg e too sweet u Jo's leave us for suspense

hahahaha, my brother work has really been hectic for sometime now, I really find it tasking typing long sentences after coming back from work tired. but one of these days I will revisit it

Crunchyg3:

hahahaha, my brother work has really been hectic for sometime now, I really find it tasking typing long sentences after coming back from work tired. but one of these days I will revisit it

Ok boss take your time I dey ur back

Enhance your skill today to achieve financial freedom

TainyLite:
After I posted a thread about au my mother in law buried the placenta of my new born child some couple of months ago, I had to give the baby name at my parent place in other to the new boy fresh breathe of life... Since then I decided to separate from my wife and she went back to her mama house just for me to have peace of mind... I started sending monthly upkeep for both of my children and ready to take any other responsibilities that arises and I made sure I ghosted my wife ever since... Couple of weeks back she called me without reasonable thing to say nd I made sure I made the discussion brief and even told her to extend my greetings to her mother... On Tuesday I unblock her on WhatsApp nd fast forward to yesterday she is now asking me for clinic fees for my child nd even reminding me about my daughter school fees.. Why am surprise is that this is a woman that was telling me she can take care of her children alone even if I don't send monthly upkeep and it's just two months wey she don dey get tired.... After all I did to make her convenient then with me not even having any reasonable plan for my future... In just months I send her commot av secured part time admission for degree and my business is moving on fine with reasonable savings to back up... I even got an averagely furnished apartment to my taste which I will only dream of if I have a wife... For my children to have a good future am already seeing positivity in ghosting their mama wey never dey supportive and always nagging.... Atleast people can say whatever they like but AM FREE from this daughter of Jezebel.... Ever since I send her commot I made sure I raised my value based on some redpilled nuggets nd things have been going on fine for me.. Say whatever u like marriage na still scam and when u tie knot with unappreciative lady then one will just die gasping for breathe...

congrats for this revelation, as it dint come too late you. Enjoy your life....marry another reasonable woman...and if she act unreasonable, ghost her...Life is too short to spend under misery

please, say yes.

adadike:
that's a million dollar question dear

UEDIBO:
please, say yes.

ngada awo, someone is about to beat you in this game of love

adadike:
ngada awo, someone is about to beat you in this game of love

it's like someone does not want his kidney again

ngadaAwo:
it's like someone does not want his kidney again

na so