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Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by habitkiller: 12:00am On May 03, 2021
Now this is my personality,I'm calm,but not gentle (got a rugged version of me) people say I'm handsome, height is good,speak fluent English... and they also say I have a good dress sense,but the issue is all the ladies I date are below standard,I'm the ass type and fair lover,neat as well... but I don't date beautiful girls that are up to my standard, if I date a girl I hear things like where did you get her from....
And the type I truly feel I can be kool with,I don't even talk to them. I feel maybe because I'm not driving currently.

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Re: Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by ford101: 12:06am On May 03, 2021
low self-esteem

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Re: Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by habitkiller: 4:16am On May 03, 2021
ford101:
low self-esteem

Honestly?

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Re: Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by JaneYave(f): 6:01am On May 03, 2021
Most fine guys don't go for looks,they go for character.It is characteristic of them,they can date beauties and settle down for a well behaved lady.

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Re: Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by JeffSiberstein: 6:06am On May 03, 2021
Bros na low self esteem they do you.... Like why the f**k do you need people to approve your partner and who told you, you need to driving I don't know what to date beautiful girls.

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Re: Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by femi4: 7:47am On May 03, 2021
habitkiller:
Now this is my personality,I'm calm,but not gentle (got a rugged version of me) people say I'm handsome, height is good,speak fluent English... and they also say I have a good dress sense,but the issue is all the ladies I date are below standard,I'm the ass type and fair lover,neat as well... but I don't date beautiful girls that are up to my standard, if I date a girl I hear things like where did you get her from....
And the type I truly feel I can be kool with,I don't even talk to them. I feel maybe because I'm not driving currently.
It's low self esteem. You're afraid you won't be able to control them or they look superior to you

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Re: Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by habitkiller: 8:09am On May 03, 2021
femi4:
It's low self esteem. You're afraid you won't be able to control them or they look superior to you

Well I'm just not the type that likes anything the hard way,I don't have energy to woo for long. I feel once u are in for me,I'm in for you.

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Re: Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by femi4: 8:13am On May 03, 2021
habitkiller:


Well I'm just not the type that likes anything the hard way, I don't have energy to woo for long. I feel once u are in for me,I'm in for you.
I understand, but the problem with that style is that you get tired of such relationship with time
Re: Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by BigDawsNet: 8:29am On May 03, 2021
habitkiller:
Now this is my personality,I'm calm,but not gentle (got a rugged version of me) people say I'm handsome, height is good,speak fluent English... and they also say I have a good dress sense,but the issue is all the ladies I date are below standard,I'm the ass type and fair lover,neat as well... but I don't date beautiful girls that are up to my standard, if I date a girl I hear things like where did you get her from....
And the type I truly feel I can be kool with,I don't even talk to them. I feel maybe because I'm not driving currently.


How's your financial status?
Re: Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by judetov2(m): 8:34am On May 03, 2021
Hahaha I go for gals I can easily bang, I don't really care abt looks.
Re: Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by IlufoyeOlamife(m): 8:41am On May 03, 2021
JaneYave:
Most fine guys don't go for looks,they go for character.It is characteristic of them,they can date beauties and settle down for a well behaved lady.


you are right, my guy were be fine bobo marry one babe were no fine......na so shall, and him love the girl pass miss Nigeria......

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Re: Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by YoungLionken(m): 8:46am On May 03, 2021
I would rather stay with my monkey, who's submissive and respectful, with a laudable character. Than waste my time with a so-called angel face with no manners, hot tempered and disrespectfully intolerant!

Beautiful girls always think they're doing you a favor when in a relationship with you. Little or no wonder you see men going for the average or ugly ones for marriage.

I noticed that majority of the runz gals in our society today,are extremely beautiful, yet no man to pay their bride price...

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Re: Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by habitkiller: 10:57am On May 03, 2021
femi4:
I understand, but the problem with that style is that you get tired of such relationship with time
You think so? I do not take any one forgranted even if I get a girl without stress

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Re: Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by habitkiller: 10:58am On May 03, 2021
BigDawsNet:



How's your financial status?


At least I can dash out 100k

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Re: Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by LagbajaTheBEREAN: 11:02am On May 03, 2021
habitkiller:

At least I can dash out 100k
Baami, I will be need just a fraction of that 100k wey you no wan use again.
If you don't mind, I go manage 50k make e for no lost...

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Re: Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by kingbee90: 11:42am On May 03, 2021
You gotta up your game bro. When I was still a bachelor, na fine babes with rides dey always come visit me for my one room self-contained apartment sotey my landlady come dey accuse me of using jazz on them because that year I was broke as furck.

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Re: Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by HONESTFACT101(m): 11:42am On May 03, 2021
does your standard want to date you?cheesy......signing out

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Re: Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by Nobody: 12:05pm On May 03, 2021
Same thing here ... no strength to start chyking for long.. no be say the bah no Dey oo.. people even think say I get the finest of girls with the way I fresh but nothing at the end.. when I see girls way I suppose Dey with I go Dey say na motto Dey for now

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Re: Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by neyohh: 12:50pm On May 03, 2021
YoungLionken:
I would rather stay with my monkey, who's submissive and respectful, with a laudable character. Than waste my time with a so-called angel face with no manners, hot tempered and disrespectfully intolerant!

Beautiful girls always think they're doing you a favor when in a relationship with you. Little or no wonder you see men going for the average or ugly ones for marriage.

I noticed that majority of the runz gals in our society today,are extremely beautiful, yet no man to pay their bride price...

That's like buying a lambo with no engine.

grin

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Re: Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by Igivebooks: 1:09pm On May 03, 2021
habitkiller:
Now this is my personality,I'm calm,but not gentle (got a rugged version of me) people say I'm handsome, height is good,speak fluent English... and they also say I have a good dress sense,but the issue is all the ladies I date are below standard,I'm the ass type and fair lover,neat as well... but I don't date beautiful girls that are up to my standard, if I date a girl I hear things like where did you get her from....
And the type I truly feel I can be kool with,I don't even talk to them. I feel maybe because I'm not driving currently.
work on your self-esteem

The kind of women you like, instead of approaching them, you feel like they are out of your league and so fall back on the ones you feel will be easy for you to get.

Your self-esteem is low. You might want to work on it. A good practice is to look yourself more frequently in the mirror while repeating positive affirmations like

'i am handsome'
I can attract and keep any woman
I'm fun to be with
I am free
Women love me.

Do this a few times every morning.

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Re: Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by pointblank247(m): 2:33pm On May 03, 2021
habitkiller:


Well I'm just not the type that likes anything the hard way,I don't have energy to woo for long. I feel once u are in for me,I'm in for you.
you are not alone

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Re: Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by Just123: 3:09pm On May 03, 2021
kingbee90:
You gotta up your game bro. When I was still a bachelor, na fine babes with rides dey always come visit me for my one room self-contained apartment sotey my landlady come dey accuse me of using jazz on them because that year I was broke as furck.
How did you up ur game?

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Re: Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by habitkiller: 4:18pm On May 03, 2021
HONESTFACT101:
does your standard want to date you?cheesy......signing out
That's it,but I don't even try cos I don't wanna be stressed or possibly rejected, I'm way too shy for that.

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Re: Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by habitkiller: 4:19pm On May 03, 2021
Ifeelnumb:
Same thing here ... no strength to start chyking for long.. no be say the bah no Dey oo.. people even think say I get the finest of girls with the way I fresh but nothing at the end.. when I see girls way I suppose Dey with I go Dey say na motto Dey for now

This is exactly what I'm facing
Re: Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by habitkiller: 4:21pm On May 03, 2021
kingbee90:
You gotta up your game bro. When I was still a bachelor, na fine babes with rides dey always come visit me for my one room self-contained apartment sotey my landlady come dey accuse me of using jazz on them because that year I was broke as furck.
Please your update is needed on how you up your game
Re: Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by Youngpo413: 4:49pm On May 03, 2021
BigDawsNet:


How's your financial status?
gbam!
Re: Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by Youngpo413: 4:49pm On May 03, 2021
BigDawsNet:


How's your financial status?
gbam!
Re: Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by Youngpo413: 4:49pm On May 03, 2021
BigDawsNet:


How's your financial status?
gbam!
Re: Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by kingbee90: 4:50pm On May 03, 2021
habitkiller:

Please your update is needed on how you up your game

Alright!!
The female folks respect & crave for men with the following attributes:
(1). Money
(2). Confidence
(3). Good looks
(4). Good sense of humor
(5). Good dress sense
(6). A very good fvcker in bed.
Now it is very very rare to find a man who possess all the qualities mentioned above because God created man not to be perfect. But if a man can master at least 3 of them, he can lay any woman of his choice.
In this Ashewo game, we all know money is very important but I have seen some rich dudes who tremble when they see a gorgeous lady they like. So asides money, the key item here is CONFIDENCE.

To be continued........

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Re: Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by iRepNaija1: 4:51pm On May 03, 2021
So OP, I'm just trying to understand what exactly is your standard? Beautiful, fair, and with ass? Or something else? Even though each of us has our preferences, we are attracted to who we are attracted to. You shouldn't let others making comments about "where did she get her from?" dissuade you from dating whoever you want, whatever she looks like. And you shouldn't let your "standards" get in the way of meeting good women with good character. Heard of the 80/20 rule? We're only going to get 80% of what we need or want from a partner at any given time, hence the reason why we learn to compromise. Don't try an 80% for a 20%.

Also, there's a bit of arrogance, almost an entitlement, in your post. When it comes to dating, please remain humble. We all have our shortcomings.

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Re: Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by Shedrack12: 4:55pm On May 03, 2021
Bro I tell u most fine girl that do runs in a very popular and big hotel in my area are so beautiful that if u see them normally on road u won't have the courage to talk to them

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Re: Why Do I Keep Dating Women Below My Standard by duduade: 5:18pm On May 03, 2021
JeffSiberstein:
Bros na low self esteem they do you.... Like why the f**k do you need people to approve your partner and who told you, you need to driving I don't know what to date beautiful girls.

You mind am

All these small small IQed boys roaming the streets of Nairaland nowadays

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