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Between Marriage And Furthering Education To Obtain HND by Ayomide11111: 1:01pm On May 05, 2021 |
I will clock 30 this November. I finished my ND program in 2016 and after my program I could not get enough money to take care of myself very well let alone furthering my education. Because of this I decided to look for some petty jobs, however it was not an easy experience when I was going through this. After 2years of hardship in different factories and industries that I have work with, I got employed in 2018 in one of the department in Coca-Cola and the pay is 40,000, although I used my WASSCE to apply for the job because it is a kind of casual job. Now, days are counting and I don't want to get too old before getting married. And this is what is giving me some confusion. Should I try and plan myself with my salary and get married. Or Should I continue my education. I love education too I will clock 30 this November. I finished my ND program in 2016 and after my program I could not get enough money to take care of myself very well let alone furthering my education. Because of this I decided to look for some petty jobs, however it was not an easy experience when I was going through this. After 2years of hardship in different factories and industries that I have work with, I got employed in 2018 in one of the department in Coca-Cola and the pay is 40,000, although I used my WASSCE to apply for the job because it is a kind of casual job. Now, days are counting and I don't want to get too old before getting married. And this is what is giving me some confusion. Should I try and plan myself with my salary and get married. Or Should I continue my education. I love education too |
Re: Between Marriage And Furthering Education To Obtain HND by Bornsinner7: 1:02pm On May 05, 2021 |
Problem no dey finish.. I would have said complete your school so you can find a better job with your cert.. but then if you go school now, na only God know when you go graduate.. I think asup currently is on strike but we no dey even see am for news If you marry now you don enter be that.. your sufferness just double.. So I go advice you to still double the hustle.. look for per time degree program or open university dey go while you still dey work dey get small money to dey manage yourself 4 Likes |
Re: Between Marriage And Furthering Education To Obtain HND by bigpicture001: 1:30pm On May 05, 2021 |
Guy, your job is a casual job with two years life span..... Don't get carried away ND get married |
Re: Between Marriage And Furthering Education To Obtain HND by Nobody: 1:35pm On May 05, 2021 |
u wan use 40k stipend start family? 2yrs later on Nairaland: my wife is cheating on me,help then I'll be like... 2 Likes
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Re: Between Marriage And Furthering Education To Obtain HND by ibechris(m): 2:17pm On May 05, 2021 |
It's good to marry but not in this ur condition. And if u are a man why the rush,why? Marriage is not as easy as u think seriously,without money dont even attempt to say I do,except ur wife to be has an inheritance from her parent,if not just work towards completing ur HND and face life squarely. |
Re: Between Marriage And Furthering Education To Obtain HND by AyarmBoye(m): 2:53pm On May 05, 2021 |
Bro abort mission ASAP....... enroll for HND part time and continue ur hustle.. Most HND jobs won’t pay you 100k except u have professional degree..... save up and have side hustles .... you can marry at age 35...... No rush !!! |
Re: Between Marriage And Furthering Education To Obtain HND by Naijabad: 3:35pm On May 05, 2021 |
If I were you, I will go back to school and obtain an HND. I obtained my HND at the age of 28, got married at the age of 36. By that time I have balanced a little in life. Today, I have HND. Bsc. Msc, FCA, Acca-dip(IFR) and have just applied for Phd. At the time of my wedding in 2011, my salary was N95k net per month, and today, I earn over a million (gross) per month. I do not support late marriage but you cant maintain a home at that salary. Like I said, improve yourself by getting more certifications. if you marry now, it will take the grace of God for you to think of furthering your education. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Between Marriage And Furthering Education To Obtain HND by Ayomide11111: 3:42pm On May 05, 2021 |
Thank you sir... for this |
Re: Between Marriage And Furthering Education To Obtain HND by WorldRichest: 5:11pm On May 05, 2021 |
Do HND on Part-Time basis. After HND, you may then think of marriage. |
Re: Between Marriage And Furthering Education To Obtain HND by duduade: 5:21pm On May 05, 2021 |
Someone isnt balanced yet a bit and all he is bothered about is getting old and marriage... Kkpeekuusss knacking Tufiakwa |
Re: Between Marriage And Furthering Education To Obtain HND by WorldRichest: 6:04pm On May 05, 2021 |
duduade: Characteristic of lazy youth. Someone that earns 40,000 Naira is thinking about marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Between Marriage And Furthering Education To Obtain HND by bigjackass: 6:57am On May 06, 2021 |
I'm not surprised since your name is Ayomide. Yoruba folks always obsessed with marriage and pussy even without being gainfully employed. You want to go and start a family with 40k casual job salary. By the time the kids start coming you will be all over nairaland begging for alms to take care of them. Be careful op |
Re: Between Marriage And Furthering Education To Obtain HND by frozen70(f): 10:31am On May 06, 2021 |
Ayomide11111: If you have found the woman that you love, settle down with her and get married then plan within your budget If you haven't gotten anyone for now, keep yourself busy with education It's not how far but how well |
Re: Between Marriage And Furthering Education To Obtain HND by Foodqueen(f): 11:09am On May 06, 2021 |
Further you education first. |
Re: Between Marriage And Furthering Education To Obtain HND by faithfull18(f): 3:27pm On May 06, 2021 |
Naijabad:At second paragraph, what job do you do? Or better put, you work in the oil sector |
Re: Between Marriage And Furthering Education To Obtain HND by Naijabad: 5:29am On May 07, 2021 |
faithfull18: From my professional qualification, you should be able to know what I do. I m the financial controller of a manufacturing company. |
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