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I Can't Get This Statement Off My Head by Millytipzy: 5:53pm On May 05, 2021 |
Everyday I wake up think about how to improve my life, take care of my mom and my little family. The thoughts of debts I have incurred. Been long I slept for good 4hrs. Whenever I sleep, the thoughts or let me say dream of the debt I owe will suddenly wake me up. No skill, no permanent job, only once in a while jobs like serving food in parties and light laboring jobs, half education(ssce).. Trust me, I fear for my future. My little bro isn't in Lagos with us, but he wants to come home to visit us but he doesn't have transport fare. When I chatted to ask him when he's coming. Then I heard the bitter truth. He told me, I'm a useless brother, that why would he have a brother like me and still be broke. He told me to go and make money even if it's ritual, that my mates are doing better than me. The words are stucked into my head right now and I can't get it off anytime. Am trying to let those words motivate me do better but am not sure I can help myself alone. No family to meet to raise me, I'm working but it's like I'm doing nothing. What I need right now, is a way forward. I need a mentor to help me through this difficult times. I can do better than this, I believe in myself, but I don't have what it takes to be independent. I need connections, new life or a permanent paid job or mentorship.
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Re: I Can't Get This Statement Off My Head by SUPERPACK: 6:03pm On May 05, 2021 |
Why not use him for money ritual, then use the money to help the remaining family members. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Can't Get This Statement Off My Head by yomi007k(m): 6:08pm On May 05, 2021 |
SUPERPACK: Great Idea. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Can't Get This Statement Off My Head by Romanoff(f): 6:19pm On May 05, 2021 |
SUPERPACK: I support this. Na small pikin dey worry am. Have you considered learning a trade? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Can't Get This Statement Off My Head by Pweetyccee(f): 6:22pm On May 05, 2021 |
SUPERPACK:Lol bro u wicked oo 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Can't Get This Statement Off My Head by Nobody: 6:37pm On May 05, 2021 |
SUPERPACK:Walahi, very good idea 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Can't Get This Statement Off My Head by crackhaus: 6:38pm On May 05, 2021 |
What a silly little boy he is... I would expect entitled behaviour like this from a lady, but coming from a guy, this is irritating behaviour. I wish I could slap senses into your bro, make him sef go try hustle. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Can't Get This Statement Off My Head by GboyegaD(m): 6:41pm On May 05, 2021 |
Oga, you do not owe him and don't make someone's entitled mentality put you in trouble. He should live his life and make his money. No go do bad thing ooo because he go deny you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Can't Get This Statement Off My Head by bukatyne(f): 6:49pm On May 05, 2021 |
SUPERPACK: Fantastic idea. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Can't Get This Statement Off My Head by Nobody: 6:58pm On May 05, 2021 |
Noh make ham giv u headache o, nah small-boy still dey worry ham but u self fu*k up small o, u for 'balance' small b4 u marry naw, 4get d 'half education'. I once wrkd at a Nigerite distributor firm walahi d chairman noh finish secondary school & all his employee nah graduates even d security guy den gt ND. Learn a skill, Start a trade or find a beta' paying job bt dnt 4get to fast & pray o, nah Africa we dey 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Can't Get This Statement Off My Head by Millytipzy: 7:02pm On May 05, 2021 |
SUPERPACK:lol.. I know he's just a kid, but his words got me good |
Re: I Can't Get This Statement Off My Head by Millytipzy: 7:05pm On May 05, 2021 |
Romanoff:yeah, I really wish to. But I have two things stopping me. 1. I have a kid and his mother to take care of. 2. I intend to learn fashion design, but what I was charged is more than what I make in a month. |
Re: I Can't Get This Statement Off My Head by Millytipzy: 7:06pm On May 05, 2021 |
crackhaus:he's a soldier bro. He just feels I should sometimes cover some of his bills |
Re: I Can't Get This Statement Off My Head by Millytipzy: 7:08pm On May 05, 2021 |
GboyegaD:he's making money. Far better than me, cus he's a military personnel. But he feels as a brother I must also provide for him not mind my financial status |
Re: I Can't Get This Statement Off My Head by Millytipzy: 7:11pm On May 05, 2021 |
AfricanGiant91:I am not married yet, though I had a kid with my girlfriend. And about the skill or starting a trade I would need finance to make them happen. And am trying to get a job also. I pray a lot also, I hope I find breakthrough soon |
Re: I Can't Get This Statement Off My Head by Romanoff(f): 7:15pm On May 05, 2021 |
Millytipzy: How much were you charged? |
Re: I Can't Get This Statement Off My Head by Millytipzy: 7:32pm On May 05, 2021 |
Romanoff:40k for one year training, though I was told I can pay it twice. Truly, I have passion for the fashion designing but trust me I cannot afford the quarter talk less of half |
Re: I Can't Get This Statement Off My Head by crackhaus: 7:40pm On May 05, 2021 |
Millytipzy:What the hell kind of soldier is he? Don't they pay soldiers anymore? You ought to stop making excuses for his bad behaviour |
Re: I Can't Get This Statement Off My Head by Millytipzy: 7:49pm On May 05, 2021 |
crackhaus:he's handsomely paid and am not making excuses for him. He has sent me into brooding mood despite d fact he's financially okay than me. For now I'm even thinking of cutting the contact between us till I make it |
Re: I Can't Get This Statement Off My Head by GboyegaD(m): 7:49pm On May 05, 2021 |
Millytipzy: What a selfish entitled individual he is. Cut him off for now as you need your sanity. |
Re: I Can't Get This Statement Off My Head by Millytipzy: 7:50pm On May 05, 2021 |
GboyegaD:exactly what I have in mind.. I am cutting him off for some time |
Re: I Can't Get This Statement Off My Head by hakeemhakeem(m): 7:59pm On May 05, 2021 |
Tell your lil bro omo Toni baba ola,Toni baba lowo EMA baja enu e lowa.don't stress yourself 3+7=10,6+4=10,5+5=10 look at various numbers that makes 10.you time would come but try to add yourself with skills |
Re: I Can't Get This Statement Off My Head by Millytipzy: 8:07pm On May 05, 2021 |
hakeemhakeem:I understand this clearly and I will work towards acquiring a skill |
Re: I Can't Get This Statement Off My Head by Romanoff(f): 8:57pm On May 05, 2021 |
Millytipzy: You can get for less now o. Like 20-30k per year. Or you start with six months. |
Re: I Can't Get This Statement Off My Head by Millytipzy: 9:25pm On May 05, 2021 |
Romanoff:yeah, I understand ur concern ma. But nonetheless it's all about d payment |
Re: I Can't Get This Statement Off My Head by WorldRichest: 9:59pm On May 05, 2021 |
Your brother offered himself for money rituals, so what are you waiting for? Your brother is right, you are useless if by the end of June you have not used this brother of your for money rituals and you the money made to buy half of your village |
Re: I Can't Get This Statement Off My Head by Romanoff(f): 10:45pm On May 05, 2021 |
Millytipzy: Work towards it. Else, you'd just keep procastinating. |
Re: I Can't Get This Statement Off My Head by Millytipzy: 10:49pm On May 05, 2021 |
Romanoff:OK thanks |
Re: I Can't Get This Statement Off My Head by pman06(m): 12:10am On May 06, 2021 |
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