Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by hafsatadebisi: 8:01pm On May 08, 2021 |
Op, I'm exactly the way you described your friend. I'm a female, in my mid twenties, but if you see me you'll think I'm fifty something. Even people old enough to be my father/ mother do refer me as ma/madam. I don't know why it's like that, maybe because due to naivety during my much younger days which made me present my body as a lab-rat or guinea, or something else caused it, I don't really know. I've learnt to live with it, pending when I'm able to get a solution. So, the condition is not unheard of, at least, or so I think. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by Champneys: 8:02pm On May 08, 2021 |
22brains: A friend of mine is seriously facing depression as a result of how old he's grown.
He disclosed his intentions to me that he wants to commit suicide because of the stigma of not able to do what his mates does that include age limit in the society.
With the love he has for the Nigeria military, he has applied to become a soldier severally but got disqualified on the basis of age. He applied for so many others with the same result.
His age mates who doesn't know much about his situation call him daddy, papa, old man which further worsen his state of mind.
He got fed up when his bank management denied him access to his account with the BVN he presented to make some accounting correction. They said his age on the BVN difer from his looks. They accused him of age falsification.
He was born on 1st of September 1996 but he actually look 30yrs older than his real age.
The question is, what could be the cause of him growing old everyday and how do I make him see positive reasons not to kill himself? Ok. |
Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by Ten06(m): 8:02pm On May 08, 2021 |
Every body has one problem or the other, he should just continue to live like that. Some body who has been praying to lead has won his seat but has not been able to put on his thinking cap. That one is also a problem to worry about 1 Like |
Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by kingbee90: 8:06pm On May 08, 2021 |
lecturer50: Let him not kill himself. Let me tell you something about myself:
When I was 14 years old, people use to think I was above 40 years.
Everywhere I went, they use to call me sir,oga, daddy, etc.
When I got to SS1, people in SS3 were so surprised that a papa could come to school and one of them was asking me why I chose not to go to school when my mates were going to school in those days.
But I was only 15 years.
But surprisingly,by the time I entered University at the age of 22, all those things reversed itself.
I suddenly started looking like a 10 year old boy at the age of 22.
I don't know how to explain it or make people to believe me.
But I am speaking the truth.
In University, some JSS3 boys that use to sell something inside the school, would be saying that I was their age mate. That how come I am in the University.
In my department, everyone said I was the youngest.
I think I was being compensated for those days when I looked way older than my age.
At the age of 24, while still in the University,I applied for a security guard job at Hamilton.
They were looking for security guard to protect globacom mask that was in my compound.
I thought it would be best for me to do the job, since I was living inside the compound where the mask was.
But I was denied the job because they said I was too young to be a security man.
They said I was lying when I said I was 24.
During my NYSC, some girls were teasing me that how come my mom allowed me to go for NYSC, since I was very small.
Now, I have returned to normal.
I no longer look like a small boy, neither do I look old.
I now look my age.
So the person should not kill himself.
God will make it up to him one day.
Wait oh! You mean you sat down to type all this? |
Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by Opak001(m): 8:06pm On May 08, 2021 |
If his sure of his age he can sue the bank and cashout. |
Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:07pm On May 08, 2021 |
possibilita: Lol � This is kinda funny I will be 30 in June but most ppl thinks I reduced my age . some feels I should be BTW 50 to 60. Used to be ashamed,but not anymore.
Post your picture or I don't believe it. |
Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by Freedom00050005: 8:07pm On May 08, 2021 |
Hmm |
Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by EmperorTolson: 8:10pm On May 08, 2021 |
22brains: no I know his family very well. His father even look younger than him. As in.... He old pass him papa Kai, u dis mudafucker, why are you lying? He looks old pass him papa. How old was his father when he gave birth to him for you to say he old pass his papa. |
Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by vivalavida(m): 8:11pm On May 08, 2021 |
22brains: this life no balance gan. I will also relate this to him. I pray he changes his evil thoughts Are u sure you are not this friend you sre talking about? |
Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:13pm On May 08, 2021 |
madone: follow this advice. exercise like crazy he will look younger by far. tell him to stop over thinking. he is virgo. born Sept. they tend to look older than their age. but as he grows older he will start looking young. show him this thread Your opinion is unfounded. Too general. I'm Virgo but I look younger than my age. |
Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by EmperorTolson: 8:15pm On May 08, 2021 |
lecturer50: Let him not kill himself. Let me tell you something about myself:
When I was 14 years old, people use to think I was above 40 years.
Everywhere I went, they use to call me sir,oga, daddy, etc.
When I got to SS1, people in SS3 were so surprised that a papa could come to school and one of them was asking me why I chose not to go to school when my mates were going to school in those days.
But I was only 15 years.
But surprisingly,by the time I entered University at the age of 22, all those things reversed itself.
I suddenly started looking like a 10 year old boy at the age of 22.
I don't know how to explain it or make people to believe me.
But I am speaking the truth.
In University, some JSS3 boys that use to sell something inside the school, would be saying that I was their age mate. That how come I am in the University.
In my department, everyone said I was the youngest.
I think I was being compensated for those days when I looked way older than my age.
At the age of 24, while still in the University,I applied for a security guard job at Hamilton.
They were looking for security guard to protect globacom mask that was in my compound.
I thought it would be best for me to do the job, since I was living inside the compound where the mask was.
But I was denied the job because they said I was too young to be a security man.
They said I was lying when I said I was 24.
During my NYSC, some girls were teasing me that how come my mom allowed me to go for NYSC, since I was very small.
Now, I have returned to normal.
I no longer look like a small boy, neither do I look old.
I now look my age.
So the person should not kill himself.
God will make it up to him one day.
This is super storyyyyyyyyyyy At first you looks older than your mate. then, At last you looks younger than your mate. Kai Even for Indian movie this is impossicant |
Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by Elidrisy20: 8:16pm On May 08, 2021 |
Let us see his pix |
Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by Ytea(f): 8:17pm On May 08, 2021 |
Me now I look like 10 years younger than my age. These things no just balance. Sorry OP's friend. |
Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by benzzyno(m): 8:19pm On May 08, 2021 |
Is he suffering from late progeria? ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by adedehinbo(m): 8:21pm On May 08, 2021 |
Bola146: I laughed because I read it here that one guy said he is smaller than his age, what of oversized men getting married to women everyday?. My dear, tell him you can't please the world, just love yourself. God knows what is best for you, maybe you will be killed if you are admitted into force. Ignore haters, nobody can make you happy expect yourself, love your body, spirit and soul, work harder to make money and be free. You will realize people will be closer to you. God bless you all of you are just giving the guy false hope without really stating the solution to it. See op,what I would advise ur friend is to study his body first,like me now,sometimes when I do so much hard labor under sun, within those period I look very much older than my age to the extent that my mates would greet me with respect thinking am older,my age mates would call me egbon(bros) which I don't usually like. When I noticed this thing is becoming too much,I do reduce the stress,get enough rest and eat good food,after like 2weeks the same face gets younger to the extent that people I senior with not less than 6yrs will call me by my name. So the truth is that I use both moment for my own good,but they both have their advantages and disadvantages |
Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by Krismas(m): 8:24pm On May 08, 2021 |
U mrsage: He should sue his bank. At 24 I'm sure he has enough evidence to prove his age.
Hospital records,birth certificate, parents are still alive, siblings, pictures, school records the list is endless.
He should get a lawyer to sue his bank for false accusation then request for financial settlement, if he wins the case he will have enough money to flex and enjoy life.
Tell him to request for N100M
Case closed. ![cool](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cool.png) U get sense wells ma guy. Sure he shud seriously sue for depression leading to suicide |
Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by AutoRedux: 8:26pm On May 08, 2021 |
Ninejaywon: Hmm, could it be PROGERIA??
How is his lifestyle like??
Does he drink and smoke excessively? Does he Bleep well??
Is he greying? Is he balding? is he overweight? is his face very wrinkled or squeezed?? is his skin very rough??
He should work on his diet. He should start to avoid the sun now. He should start to exercise. Avoid the sun? Like for real? Don't you know the sun actually makes you younger. I don't mean staying out all day. I mean just having a brisk walk every now and then. Do this and the sun will fill you with alot energy. Use that energy gained from the sun to exercise. Eat balanced diet to keep your system up. Avoid sedentary life style like sitting put at one position for long hours. Gamers, programmers, etc, I am talking to you guys. Try as much as you can to reduce the rate by which you self-service. Quit smoking and alcoholism. Do these and your life will not be the same again. |
Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by Freemasonry: 8:27pm On May 08, 2021 |
I’m in my mid thirties but I look like a teenager. People mistake me for a small boy until they interact with me, but I haven’t killed myself. I even laugh about it. Just go with the flow and act with maturity. 1 Like |
Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by AutoRedux: 8:27pm On May 08, 2021 |
Ninejaywon: Hmm, could it be PROGERIA??
How is his lifestyle like??
Does he drink and smoke excessively? Does he Bleep well??
Is he greying? Is he balding? is he overweight? is his face very wrinkled or squeezed?? is his skin very rough??
He should work on his diet. He should start to avoid the sun now. He should start to exercise. |
Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by BadEnglish(m): 8:28pm On May 08, 2021 |
Go do plastic surgery |
Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by letitrainnow(m): 8:29pm On May 08, 2021 |
Have faith in God |
Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by Dre183(m): 8:31pm On May 08, 2021 |
22brains: A friend of mine is seriously facing depression as a result of how old he's grown.
He disclosed his intentions to me that he wants to commit suicide because of the stigma of not able to do what his mates does that include age limit in the society.
With the love he has for the Nigeria military, he has applied to become a soldier severally but got disqualified on the basis of age. He applied for so many others with the same result.
His age mates who doesn't know much about his situation call him daddy, papa, old man which further worsen his state of mind.
He got fed up when his bank management denied him access to his account with the BVN he presented to make some accounting correction. They said his age on the BVN difer from his looks. They accused him of age falsification.
He was born on 1st of September 1996 but he actually look 30yrs older than his real age.
The question is, what could be the cause of him growing old everyday and how do I make him see positive reasons not to kill himself? Let the house see the pics for critical analysis ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by frozen70(f): 8:33pm On May 08, 2021 |
22brains: A friend of mine is seriously facing depression as a result of how old he's grown.
He disclosed his intentions to me that he wants to commit suicide because of the stigma of not able to do what his mates does that include age limit in the society.
With the love he has for the Nigeria military, he has applied to become a soldier severally but got disqualified on the basis of age. He applied for so many others with the same result.
His age mates who doesn't know much about his situation call him daddy, papa, old man which further worsen his state of mind.
He got fed up when his bank management denied him access to his account with the BVN he presented to make some accounting correction. They said his age on the BVN difer from his looks. They accused him of age falsification.
He was born on 1st of September 1996 but he actually look 30yrs older than his real age.
The question is, what could be the cause of him growing old everyday and how do I make him see positive reasons not to kill himself? How long has this been noticed Was he fathered hy a very old man Well he will be disturbed unless its a medical condition |
Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by meobizy(f): 8:33pm On May 08, 2021 |
They’re disturbing our peace with suicide threats again. Nairalanders never commit suicide. The only things which kill idiots here are slips, falls and brief illnesses. A car accident here and there — never suicides. The children here love their lives too much. |
Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by descarado: 8:41pm On May 08, 2021 |
Progeria.
At least he is a man. |
Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by clericuzzio(m): 8:44pm On May 08, 2021 |
22brains: A friend of mine is seriously facing depression as a result of how old he's grown.
He disclosed his intentions to me that he wants to commit suicide because of the stigma of not able to do what his mates does that include age limit in the society.
With the love he has for the Nigeria military, he has applied to become a soldier severally but got disqualified on the basis of age. He applied for so many others with the same result.
His age mates who doesn't know much about his situation call him daddy, papa, old man which further worsen his state of mind.
He got fed up when his bank management denied him access to his account with the BVN he presented to make some accounting correction. They said his age on the BVN difer from his looks. They accused him of age falsification.
He was born on 1st of September 1996 but he actually look 30yrs older than his real age.
The question is, what could be the cause of him growing old everyday and how do I make him see positive reasons not to kill himself? What is the banks business with his age, is it the MD that gave birth to him. |
Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by peacettw: 8:48pm On May 08, 2021 |
Progeria. Quite sad. Seems nairaland is releasing series of rare diseases these days. I smell a rat |
Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by gabrielokeke555(m): 8:54pm On May 08, 2021 |
This is him for those asking pictures
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Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by NewDawn2O21: 8:56pm On May 08, 2021 |
22brains: A friend of mine is seriously facing depression as a result of how old he's grown.
He disclosed his intentions to me that he wants to commit suicide because of the stigma of not able to do what his mates does that include age limit in the society.
With the love he has for the Nigeria military, he has applied to become a soldier severally but got disqualified on the basis of age. He applied for so many others with the same result.
His age mates who doesn't know much about his situation call him daddy, papa, old man which further worsen his state of mind.
He got fed up when his bank management denied him access to his account with the BVN he presented to make some accounting correction. They said his age on the BVN difer from his looks. They accused him of age falsification.
He was born on 1st of September 1996 but he actually look 30yrs older than his real age.
The question is, what could be the cause of him growing old everyday and how do I make him see positive reasons not to kill himself? he should stop masturbating 1 Like |
Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by NewDawn2O21: 8:57pm On May 08, 2021 |
kingbee90:
You nor well aswear! Lmao! as in ehn the guy funny ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) 1 Like |
Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by OmaasEmpire(f): 9:00pm On May 08, 2021 |
Freelane33: Wahala sha plenty for this part of the world .. naija which way ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) Nigerians are all sick |
Re: He's 24 But Look 54 And Wants To Commit Suicide by omoadeleye(m): 9:02pm On May 08, 2021 |
22brains: A friend of mine is seriously facing depression as a result of how old he's grown.
He disclosed his intentions to me that he wants to commit suicide because of the stigma of not able to do what his mates does that include age limit in the society.
With the love he has for the Nigeria military, he has applied to become a soldier severally but got disqualified on the basis of age. He applied for so many others with the same result.
His age mates who doesn't know much about his situation call him daddy, papa, old man which further worsen his state of mind.
He got fed up when his bank management denied him access to his account with the BVN he presented to make some accounting correction. They said his age on the BVN difer from his looks. They accused him of age falsification.
He was born on 1st of September 1996 but he actually look 30yrs older than his real age.
The question is, what could be the cause of him growing old everyday and how do I make him see positive reasons not to kill himself? Ask him if he has ever been masturbating throughout his entire life, cause masturbation or too much bleeps can speed someone's age in no time. |