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Re: Family Of Four And Above In One Room, How Do You Cope? (photo) by Bahrain: 5:09pm On May 13, 2021 |
Self justification |
Re: Family Of Four And Above In One Room, How Do You Cope? (photo) by Nobody: 5:10pm On May 13, 2021 |
You have one room with low income, why will you now fvck a woman? O wrong naw! 5 Likes |
Re: Family Of Four And Above In One Room, How Do You Cope? (photo) by iscom(m): 5:10pm On May 13, 2021 |
Abeg leave us alone Don’t forget to check my signature |
Re: Family Of Four And Above In One Room, How Do You Cope? (photo) by MrHighSea: 5:11pm On May 13, 2021 |
I keep saying it, Marriage is just children breeding opportunity to some people. Because of the relatively large space I'm living, I don answer questions tire. Shelter (location, floor area, floor material, air, moisture, crowd, distance to public buildings, distance to work, safety) affects one's overall well-being. Except you're a wanderer, you can easily change your food and clothings. 2 Likes |
Re: Family Of Four And Above In One Room, How Do You Cope? (photo) by BruncleZuma: 5:11pm On May 13, 2021 |
If you can't raise them don't make them... ~ Mode-9 6 Likes |
Re: Family Of Four And Above In One Room, How Do You Cope? (photo) by Sedonxavi: 5:12pm On May 13, 2021 |
Very common in Lagos. I don't understand whether is by force to live in Lagos 4 Likes |
Re: Family Of Four And Above In One Room, How Do You Cope? (photo) by victorVIC1(m): 5:14pm On May 13, 2021 |
This thread reminds me of my childhood days when we were 6 living in a room. Las las, God no shame us as popman later acquired his own property. Thank God say God no be man. Back to OP's question, it's called survival instinct. That one no mean say make you born 6 children o cos Nigeria of these days different from Nigeria of those days. 3 is enough. 4 Likes |
Re: Family Of Four And Above In One Room, How Do You Cope? (photo) by Nobody: 5:14pm On May 13, 2021 |
SportsHD: Governemt has made birth control freely available at least since the early 1990s Infact if you live in the cities birth control is freely available at any government hospital The problem is people don't use it. 2 Likes |
Re: Family Of Four And Above In One Room, How Do You Cope? (photo) by Cutehector(m): 5:14pm On May 13, 2021 |
Black man go still fvck 1 Like |
Re: Family Of Four And Above In One Room, How Do You Cope? (photo) by InvertedHammer: 5:15pm On May 13, 2021 |
/ For some people, a room is where they keep their belongings and go home to sleep at the end of the day...not where they lounge to watch TV and play music. Conversely, one can debate a man, wife and two kids living in a 7-bedroom mansion en suite. / 4 Likes |
Re: Family Of Four And Above In One Room, How Do You Cope? (photo) by dake40(m): 5:15pm On May 13, 2021 |
Oracleforce: Not every "kid" is smart or hardworking like you sir Out of 100, we may not see 10 individuals with stories like you. If you flip the coin around, its not the case Environment and Parenting havr huge impacts on one's life. Be glad you made it out. Most people of similar stories are still wallowing around 31 Likes |
Re: Family Of Four And Above In One Room, How Do You Cope? (photo) by Angrygoat: 5:16pm On May 13, 2021 |
My guy insulted me yesterday just cos I joked abt someone. He go call me later apologise. Sheybi na marriage dey hungry u.no wohala enjoy the smallie.na divorce go end am. 2 Likes |
Re: Family Of Four And Above In One Room, How Do You Cope? (photo) by AgentGoat: 5:16pm On May 13, 2021 |
Oracleforce: Not everyone will turn out to be better like you. Playing it safe is what we are saying here. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Family Of Four And Above In One Room, How Do You Cope? (photo) by Greystone: 5:18pm On May 13, 2021 |
CharisEleos: My former landlord's security man had 2 wives and 9 children. His salary then was 10k/ mnth. They wer all living in one room. Imagine the idio.t. approaching my neighbour to beg for contribution that he wanted to get a 3rd wife. ![]() 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Family Of Four And Above In One Room, How Do You Cope? (photo) by jaszplus12(m): 5:18pm On May 13, 2021 |
CharisEleos:An uncle to a friend had 11 children plus himself and wife in one room in Lagos... guess what? One night robbers came to the compound, and when they saw his crowded room, the head of robbers was shocked! He asked if the man came to Lagos only to breed! Well long story short, they gave my friend's uncle #150,000 and gave him one week to quit Lagos and return to his village or else they will return and kill him... He packed back to benue state and flourished before passing away about 8 years ago... The man had a saying: NOT ALL THIEVES ARE BAD! ![]() 50 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Family Of Four And Above In One Room, How Do You Cope? (photo) by BigYash: 5:19pm On May 13, 2021 |
CharisEleos:Which women cause wetin? 1 Like |
Re: Family Of Four And Above In One Room, How Do You Cope? (photo) by OlawaleBammie: 5:23pm On May 13, 2021 |
Op, u mean house or getto ![]() |
Re: Family Of Four And Above In One Room, How Do You Cope? (photo) by Nobody: 5:24pm On May 13, 2021 |
Greystone: Lol.. this one is serious o. BigYash:Yes it the woman. She should understand her body and better still do a family planning to avoid such. No be only to dey follow man up and down for night like chicken under heat. jaszplus12: Wow! Imagine... Some people just need to be flogged. 4 Likes |
Re: Family Of Four And Above In One Room, How Do You Cope? (photo) by Nobody: 5:28pm On May 13, 2021 |
PuZZyNegro:well said, kudos! 1 Like |
Re: Family Of Four And Above In One Room, How Do You Cope? (photo) by Sagay212: 5:28pm On May 13, 2021 |
Imagine how the population of Africans keep growing even with all the noise of HIV and all sorts. People don't practice safe sex or family planning. Just phuck,phuck,phuck and phuck. Imagine if there were no terminal sexually transmitted diseases. Population for Africa for don over explode. Maybe we would have been eating one another by now. 3 Likes |
Re: Family Of Four And Above In One Room, How Do You Cope? (photo) by BigYash: 5:29pm On May 13, 2021 |
CharisEleos:I talk from experience brother. In my school days. My caretaker was always beating his wife. I got to discover that the woman said the kids were enough, and was using birth control. When the mumu man discovered it,he was beating the wife. Mind you,their kids were already more than 8. Two were staying with some persons in cities as house help. So tell me,in this case na the woman cause am? Based on how as I take dey,one day I used indirect to ask the man the reason for the number of kids. He told me,his dad kids were more,so he is in competition with the dad. Worst be say ,money this man no get. Na to drink ogogoro ,dey misbehave. He go dey find women wen their husband die to date. He can't even take care of his wife and many kids.. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Family Of Four And Above In One Room, How Do You Cope? (photo) by MARKone(m): 5:31pm On May 13, 2021 |
SportsHD: Not when one Northern federal lawmaker brought his 4 wives to the hallowed chamber, to boast about how he manages his wives and 20 something children. Nigerian as it is currently constituted can't even enact a birth control law, what do you want to tell the Hausas and Igbos. 3 Likes |
Re: Family Of Four And Above In One Room, How Do You Cope? (photo) by Nobody: 5:32pm On May 13, 2021 |
3lovelyflowers:I saw my parents managed though not in a room and I swore I ain't gonna disappoint my wife and my children by satisfying my Dickson. People easily fall prey to societal pressure especially when they see their peers getting married. Later they will be blaming government for their misery. 8 Likes |
Re: Family Of Four And Above In One Room, How Do You Cope? (photo) by ThothHermes: 5:34pm On May 13, 2021 |
3lovelyflowers:Because time changes nothing. |
Re: Family Of Four And Above In One Room, How Do You Cope? (photo) by VTJN(m): 5:34pm On May 13, 2021 |
Oracleforce:You are serving a living God, i tap on your grace! Though still living in one room! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Family Of Four And Above In One Room, How Do You Cope? (photo) by Asianjollof007: 5:35pm On May 13, 2021 |
3lovelyflowers: Bro, i'm just 24 and freaking ashamed of myself. I can't even move freely in my hood, i feel bad for still staying in a face me i slap you house with my parents. This life is not really fair, tbh. 10 Likes |
Re: Family Of Four And Above In One Room, How Do You Cope? (photo) by Noblefreeman(m): 5:39pm On May 13, 2021 |
Another factor to consider is the difficulty in raising well meaning children. It is easier to raise well meaning children if you have just two than to raise well meaning children if you have six. If they are 6 girls, how many will stay chaste, how many will go wild. If they are six Boyz how many will be civil and how many will delve into crime and cultism. If you had two, wouldn't it be easier to nurture these kids. Parents must think deep before using their pubic tools carelessly. 20 Likes |
Re: Family Of Four And Above In One Room, How Do You Cope? (photo) by joey150(m): 5:39pm On May 13, 2021 |
CharisEleos: So, the women impregnated themselves? If you ask me, the man should be more conscious of having lesser kids because the bulk of the burden lies on him to feed, educate, shelter and clothe them. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Family Of Four And Above In One Room, How Do You Cope? (photo) by jaszplus12(m): 5:40pm On May 13, 2021 |
CharisEleos:Funny enough, the robbers flogged him 11 times before giving him the money! Cash o! 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Family Of Four And Above In One Room, How Do You Cope? (photo) by Pharaoh4rin(m): 5:41pm On May 13, 2021 |
I knew of a family that lives in a single room in our street back then in county b/stop ọgba Ikeja. They are 10 in a single room. Some of d grown-up sleeps on the passage especially during heat. Funny enough, such families usually give birth to beautiful and talented children. One thing that helped that particular family then was Saturday weddings and Sunday birthdays ![]() May God have mercy. 8 Likes |
Re: Family Of Four And Above In One Room, How Do You Cope? (photo) by ronaldbecky(m): 5:43pm On May 13, 2021 |
CharisEleos:..lolz as in ehh..wat about d man self...true true na poor people born pass..imagine 9 in one room.. 2 Likes |
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