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| Why Are Some Men Not Faithful To Their Woman? by daylay7(m): 5:10am On May 18, 2021 |
This question come to mind because of my encounter with some men about their marriage. I still find it funny to think that some guys after marriage would still go for another woman for sex. Some would even go after married women. Some would go for girls as young as their daughter. A conversation ensued between my married friends and I about infidelity. When I told them since I have been married 10 years ago, I have never slept with another woman or touch another woman inappropriately. They were all surprised and called me a "pastor". Why is it difficult for some men not to adhere to their marital vows? 181 Likes 11 Shares |
| Re: Why Are Some Men Not Faithful To Their Woman? by Mikester: 6:03am On May 18, 2021 |
There are a lot of reasons for that but the most common one is low IQ and sexual perversion Cutehotnerd001: Kingcalls: Freestainworld: NamelessOGBENI: and why will a man of understanding be ravished with strange women? What exactly is to gain from such risk? Haven't you seen homes wreck and men reduced to nothing by means of mere sex with strange ladies? Only intelligent men see these dangers and prevent it but ignorant and simple men go on and regret afterwards. It's just that. 155 Likes 17 Shares
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| Re: Why Are Some Men Not Faithful To Their Woman? by DEMZEE(m): 6:22am On May 18, 2021 |
Because men don't cheat, they just have sex Women do cheat. Men and women love differently and show love differently Men love idealistically Women love opportunistically Men show love through sharing his resources and commitment and providing financial security to his woman Women show love through fidelity ie not being a hoe 262 Likes 18 Shares |
| Re: Why Are Some Men Not Faithful To Their Woman? by daylay7(m): 3:39pm On May 18, 2021 |
hhmmmmm Mikester: 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Are Some Men Not Faithful To Their Woman? by daylay7(m): 3:45pm On May 18, 2021 |
| Re: Why Are Some Men Not Faithful To Their Woman? by MontyNG(m): 4:31pm On May 18, 2021 |
HAHAHAHHAA I like this answer and somewhat agree!!! However, I'm a Man and I don't cheat DEMZEE: 17 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Why Are Some Men Not Faithful To Their Woman? by NamelessOGBENI(m): 4:50pm On May 18, 2021 |
Mikester:Technically, men with low IQ cheats and the ones with high IQ are faithful? Nairaland Sha... 50 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Why Are Some Men Not Faithful To Their Woman? by DEMZEE(m): 4:58pm On May 18, 2021 |
MontyNG: Men don't cheat though 5 Likes |
| Re: Why Are Some Men Not Faithful To Their Woman? by folabayo(f): 5:39pm On May 18, 2021 |
Variety is the spice of life  Some of them are following their forefathers legacy ( i mean those categories of men that use king Solomon and king David to cover up), While some can never b satisfied even if they hv 50 wives... As a man so far you hv money and you are influential even if you don't want to cheat,some set of ladies won't just let you be. 92 Likes 9 Shares |
| Re: Why Are Some Men Not Faithful To Their Woman? by Nobody: 5:59pm On May 18, 2021 |
DEMZEE:this one brain aff loss 45 Likes |
| Re: Why Are Some Men Not Faithful To Their Woman? by Nobody: 6:00pm On May 18, 2021 |
folabayo:Bobrisky  2 Likes |
| Re: Why Are Some Men Not Faithful To Their Woman? by folabayo(f): 6:04pm On May 18, 2021 |
Lollittaa:What's wrong with bobrisky 1 Like |
| Re: Why Are Some Men Not Faithful To Their Woman? by DEMZEE(m): 6:06pm On May 18, 2021 |
Lollittaa: Facts don't care about feelings 12 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Are Some Men Not Faithful To Their Woman? by Nobody: 6:06pm On May 18, 2021 |
folabayo:you're not a femail but I won't tell anyone 5 Likes |
| Re: Why Are Some Men Not Faithful To Their Woman? by Nobody: 6:07pm On May 18, 2021 |
DEMZEE:Don't talk to me  2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Are Some Men Not Faithful To Their Woman? by folabayo(f): 6:08pm On May 18, 2021 |
Lollittaa:Lol...,are you sure about that? 1 Like |
| Re: Why Are Some Men Not Faithful To Their Woman? by adonnaiii: 6:10pm On May 18, 2021 |
Men must create their value and women are born with value 4 Likes |
| Re: Why Are Some Men Not Faithful To Their Woman? by slawormiir: 6:10pm On May 18, 2021 |
Damnnn niggarrrr Isoright Only a pussy ass man don't cheat 21 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Why Are Some Men Not Faithful To Their Woman? by FOREX4free(m): 6:10pm On May 18, 2021 |
Wow 1 Like |
| Re: Why Are Some Men Not Faithful To Their Woman? by Emmy3(m): 6:10pm On May 18, 2021 |
So many men out there don't cheat on their wives, this not because they want to keep to theirs marital vows or exhibit morality; but these reasons include: * they don't have the financial pilot to fly the cheaters jet * they don't have the time/opportunity (always busy) * they hold a special office in Simps Association of Nigeria * they have low self esteem or doesn't know how to woe a lady * they haven't seen their specs that they can trust. 39 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Are Some Men Not Faithful To Their Woman? by MissSweet(f): 6:10pm On May 18, 2021 |
I haven't seen such men. Three common men; those that are promiscuous, the drunkered and the smokers. I guess, you have limited ladies or you don't have boldness/confidence and resources that's why you haven't cheated. Men are human that cannot be trusted; even bf he shouldn't just rub it off on my face. 13 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Are Some Men Not Faithful To Their Woman? by Nobody: 6:11pm On May 18, 2021 |
DEMZEE:Bros, are you okay? 21 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Are Some Men Not Faithful To Their Woman? by Kingcalls: 6:11pm On May 18, 2021 |
U will still cheat...unless say u no get money 4 Likes |
| Re: Why Are Some Men Not Faithful To Their Woman? by Enudapan: 6:11pm On May 18, 2021 |
Nah eh! No qualms Ogbeni Men especially odogwus like me are polygamous in nature, We can Bleep without emotional attachment While Ladies can't, So it's kinda normal to bang the leaving hell Out of any f gender That comes your way asking for the ice cream and high scream 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Are Some Men Not Faithful To Their Woman? by MANNABBQGRILLS: 6:11pm On May 18, 2021 |
@OP, most Naija men don’t have that type of good attitude you've got.. So when they are confronted with cheating, they minimize, rationalize, and justify their behavior with statements like: Every guy wants to have sex with other women. And when the opportunity arises, he takes it. It’s a man’s biological imperative to have sex with as many women as he can. Why should I be any different? If I got enough (or better) sex at home, I wouldn’t need to cheat. I’m not doing anything that most of my friends don’t do. If you don’t believe me, ask them. If my wife hadn’t gained so much weight—or if she was nicer to me, or more attentive—I wouldn’t have even thought about going elsewhere. Who would call getting a lap dance in a strip club cheating? It’s just what guys do for fun. And as we see on this forum on a daily basis, If the police had been out chasing some bad guys, I wouldn’t have gotten caught in that brothel, Why don’t they go after some real criminals? I’m only sexting and flirting. Where’s the harm in that? I don’t meet up with any of these women in person. It’s just a game. When some of us @MANNA were in the therapy business, we have a name for this type of reasoning, it is called : Denial. From a psychotherapy perspective, denial is a series of internal lies and deceits people tell themselves to make their questionable behaviors seem OKAY (at least in their own minds). Typically, each self-deception is supported by one or more rationalizations, with each one bolstered by still more falsehoods. Keep it up OP. It will always fall flat on their faces. SAY NO TO CHEATING. daylay7:You are always welcome. We will always stand on the side of the truth as long as we are here. Truth is not bitter, just that people are bitter to the truth. God bless your marriage. Great things loading for you and wifey. 30 Likes 6 Shares
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| Re: Why Are Some Men Not Faithful To Their Woman? by Fadeleke1038: 6:11pm On May 18, 2021 |
U will still cheat...unless say u no get money 1 Like |
| Re: Why Are Some Men Not Faithful To Their Woman? by NwaNimo1(m): 6:11pm On May 18, 2021 |
| Re: Why Are Some Men Not Faithful To Their Woman? by revived: 6:11pm On May 18, 2021 |
E go be 2 Likes |
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