Saao:
So many reasons why men cheat, one of the main reason sex starvation.

Dear poster, remain faithful to your marriage vows. Whoremongers and adultery will receive destruction from God. Also keep a distance to those your friends.

DaSailor:
Na who get money dey cheat? Told my friends same and they looked at me like I was a alien.
Cheating in my opinion is an individual choice.

Thank you my brother

For all we know you could be lying to us as well

daylay7:


What has that got to do with you? Does it reduced your self esteem or something? Guy, relax!

I want to know why you tell lies everyday. Take it that my interested is based on personal amusement. Of course you can always ignore but I would be very happy to know what you gain from this.

daylay7:
This question come to mind because of my encounter with some men about their marriage. I still find it funny to think that some guys after marriage would still go for another woman for sex. Some would even go after married women. Some would go for girls as young as their daughter.

A conversation ensued between my married friends and I about infidelity. When I told them since I have been married 10 years ago, I have never slept with another woman or touch another woman inappropriately. They were all surprised and called me a "pastor".

Why is it difficult for some men not to adhere to their marital vows?

Many nigerian men are highly indisciplined. But d problem is that they expect that u should be as indisciplined as they are. Instead of them to ask how u are able to stay disciplined, they start calling u names because of d sense of guilt that floods their hearts. Most times, they can't contain their self gulit but instead of admitting they have a problem, they use their arrogance to try to make it look like it's u who has d problem

Paxxcarl:
For all we no you could be lying to us as well

He is. This poster has a habit of creating fictional threads. Just the other day he created a thread in how he is still in love with his ex and almost made out with her.

You mean sticking with a woman sexually for 10 years is not enough for the man to know himself?
See, a man that will cheat will cheat. It is in the blood. It is in their eyes. It is not a function of number of years

Godfullsam:
Once you don't cheat on your wife, people (especially those who cheat) will see you as a week man.

Besides, 10 yrs in marriage is still short for you to conclude that you don't cheat on your wife.

Saao:
So many reasons why men cheat, one of the main reason sex starvation.

Story... number 1 reason is indiscipline not sex starvation

SmartyPants:


I want to know why you tell lies everyday. Take it that my interested is based on personal amusement. Of course you can always ignore but I would be very happy to know what you gain from this.

Is this you? https://www.nairaland.com/4162308/what-nigerian-girls-really-want I will only tell u one thing. It is a thief that can recognize another in the same biz.
Now i know where you are coming from.
Rest bro.

SBanky:
Unfortunately, our society looks away when a married man cheats, however it becomes taboo when a woman does.

That is the society we found ourselves

SimpleGuy001:


Regarding your signature, how does someone learn oil production/fish farming. Any thread regarding that?

I don't know if there is.
Just giving few guidelines to those that wants to venture into it for the first time.
You learn from people's mistake,to improve urself

daylay7:

Is this you? https://www.nairaland.com/4162308/what-nigerian-girls-really-want I will only tell u one thing. It is a thief that can recognize another in the same biz.
Now i know where you are coming from.
Rest bro.

What about that thread appears to be fictional? What a senseless attempt to deflect.

Why do you create fictional stories on a daily basis??

sonofthunder:



It is not difficult for men to adhere to marital law. You either have a wrong circle of friends or framed up this story for whatsoever reason is best known to you

The story is true as you can see from people's comment that it doesnot happen to just one person.

MrCuteking:
I love my wife to be and I believe I will do same thing as well.

Good

SBanky:
Unfortunately, our society looks away when a married man cheats, however it becomes taboo when a woman does.

nobody told the society to react this way. That's nature at play!

hhhmmmm That means you cheat too

HRMK:
there culd be only two reasons for this ie if true:1.ur not sexually attractive to women.2.ur not a money bag.NOT BCS UR HOLY OR RELIGIOUS OR A SAINT!

folabayo:

I don't know if there is.
Just giving few guidelines to those that wants to venture into it for the first time.
You learn from people's mistake,to improve urself

Oh ok, thanks

cosse:
only irresposible men do that

My thought exactly

Emmy3:
So many men out there don't cheat on their wives, this not because they want to keep to theirs marital vows or exhibit morality; but these reasons include:
* they don't have the financial pilot to fly the cheaters jet
* they don't have the time/opportunity (always busy)
* they hold a special office in [b]Simps Association of Nigeria [/b]
* they have low self esteem or doesn't know how to woe a lady
* they haven't seen their specs that they can trust.

This one got me cracking.

Ikea81:


papa Ijeomaaaaa, you can lie o

Cheaters association of Nigeria. I sabi u you be. Papa Ify

You don't know your friends. You shouldn't have told them, they'll find a way to lure you into their wayward life. I pray you don't fall OP because only you will bear the consequence.

Freestainworld:
if men with low IQ cheats, how do they then convince their preys even when those ladies know the guy is married, I am not a fan of cheating, and have never cheated since I married, but the real answer would have been men who have sexual perversion in them, it's inbuilt, sometimes some wives gives room to this due to their unecessary nagging, and making the home uncomfortable to the man which results to the man looking for succour somewhere.

The woman's nagging behavior is not an excuse for cheating. Do you think for those 10 years, my wife never nagged? It has not been alway rosy for us and yet I didn't do it.

daylay7:
This question come to mind because of my encounter with some men about their marriage. I still find it funny to think that some guys after marriage would still go for another woman for sex. Some would even go after married women. Some would go for girls as young as their daughter.

A conversation ensued between my married friends and I about infidelity. When I told them since I have been married 10 years ago, I have never slept with another woman or touch another woman inappropriately. They were all surprised and called me a "pastor".

Why is it difficult for some men not to adhere to their marital vows?

Show me your friends and I would show you who you are. Birds of the same colors flock together. Those people can't be your friend unless you approve of their conduct, then you are not way different than they are even though you have not done what they did.

mapet:
17yrs straight and I proudly state that I have been faithful to my wife, never slept outside marriage or any relationship whatsoever....

I remember sometimes ago when a similar discussion happened in my office. On the whole floor only two of us raised up our hands. One egbon come spoil show and said out of the two of us if any can swear that we have never looked at a woman "inappropriately".....well our hands slowly came down...

Is looking inappropriately cheating too?

Broke men hardly cheat. Become very rich and start attracting women let's see if you won't cheat in the 11th year.

Exactly. Thanks

femi4:
They lack self control. They are always amazed when they see men that have such attributes

So, what point are you making now?

Cos' nah grammer full here o.....

DEMZEE:
Because men don't cheat, they just have sex

Women do cheat.

Men and women love differently and show love differently

Men love idealistically
Women love opportunistically

Men show love through sharing his resources and commitment and providing financial security to his woman
Women show love through fidelity ie not being a hoe

I quarelled heavily with my friend because of this. We are both not married but he is fighting me already for saying I wont cheat on my wife.


Life NA scam

NA dem dem I like the confidence though. Not some pretenders like one @ smartypant

xtervaganza:
a wise man once said; if you say you won't fvck the wife of a man with big dick, what if a man with big dick fvck your wife?



That you choose not to have sex with other women does not make you better than us proudly community penis



Las las na we be legends

Emmy3:
So many men out there don't cheat on their wives, this not because they want to keep to theirs marital vows or exhibit morality; but these reasons include:
* they don't have the financial pilot to fly the cheaters jet
* they don't have the time/opportunity (always busy)
* they hold a special office in Simps Association of Nigeria
* they have low self esteem or doesn't know how to woe a lady
* they haven't seen their specs that they can trust.

Pls be sincere, ain't you supposed to be in a zoo? � what are you doing among humans....�

daylay7:

Is this you? https://www.nairaland.com/4162308/what-nigerian-girls-really-want I will only tell u one thing. It is a thief that can recognize another in the same biz.
Now i know where you are coming from.
Rest bro.

Since you have decided to maintain the path of dishonesty, I will make you my pet project on nairaland. Wherever I catch you telling more lies, you will be exposed immediately.

Charlatan.