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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by TemmyDayo50(m): 7:21pm On May 20, 2021
Ibadanpikin:
I am a 31 year old man i have never been in a relationship with any lady talkless of sex. I stammered a litttle bit so i find it very hard to toast a lady. Any time i try talking to a girl i begin to stammer and my heart beats fast, its so embarrassing, some of my friends think i am impotent or gay.
How will i marry, guys how do u do it?

So like this now, you no sabi as e dey sweet when level wan burst out from your gbola...? shocked mo fo ooo...

Abi you dey do soapy ni..?? undecided

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by BePrepared: 7:21pm On May 20, 2021
AmancalledGod:
I swear bro na the fastest way to bang no time for long talk, and heart break

Sleeping with a prostitute is the quickest way to drain away your destiny. Stop it today and turn to Jesus he will deliver u

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by SaintVirus(m): 7:21pm On May 20, 2021
Bro sell that virginity, u can make millions with it instead of just dashing one of those funiture is female

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Lilpen3758: 7:22pm On May 20, 2021
darichlife:


So says a proud man who ruins his body and accomodate spiritual filthiness.

Stop being proud of spreading what can never be celebrated by men of worth.

Peace
No vex bros abeg this post don enter fp?? Dis one way all Dis holy people dey quote me?

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Oloristarr(f): 7:22pm On May 20, 2021
Lilpen3758:
sure 2 odds

This is life men
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by RPG2020(m): 7:23pm On May 20, 2021
What a precious missed you are missing this girl


Where is are parents
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by visiondee(m): 7:23pm On May 20, 2021
Ibadanpikin:
I am a 31 year old man i have never been in a relationship with any lady talkless of sex. I stammered a litttle bit so i find it very hard to toast a lady. Any time i try talking to a girl i begin to stammer and my heart beats fast, its so embarrassing, some of my friends think i am impotent or gay.
How will i marry, guys how do u do it?
Sir, being a stutterer isn't a big deal, I also stammer but hardly ask a lady out, they flock around me, infact I'm picky. All you need is build your personality, confidence, and don't speak fast (don't intend to say every word at once as its formed inside you, learn to have a break in between words). If you can work on your personality and confidence, you won't just have someone but the best and very beautiful lady of your choice. It will now be left for you to pick the one that suites you
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by TemmyDayo50(m): 7:23pm On May 20, 2021
TheUndercover:
I find it funny when people attach every problem to money.

Because money can solve almost all problems including this problem of his...

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Revolva(m): 7:23pm On May 20, 2021
Bros leme tell u..u r missing a lot o

Bang plenty of gals o...do it don't regret it...they are there's for you to enjoy

31 and never bang ...bro sometin is wrong wit u ok somehow ...seems u de find virgin like u...Bros e no de naija again
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by womenareapess: 7:24pm On May 20, 2021
Ibadanpikin:
I am a 31 year old man i have never been in a relationship with any lady talkless of sex. I stammered a litttle bit so i find it very hard to toast a lady. Any time i try talking to a girl i begin to stammer and my heart beats fast, its so embarrassing, some of my friends think i am impotent or gay.
How will i marry, guys how do u do it?
don't bothered having sex with those baboons called naija women undecided

It ain't worth it!

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Lilpen3758: 7:24pm On May 20, 2021
selfemployed:


I'm just sorry for you.

You don't even know the kind of risk you're taking. And you're proud of it.

SMH

Don't mislead others.

Live your life the way you want
Oga be sorry for yourself, make i even go olosho house go Bleep rain fall for my side
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by paafin(m): 7:24pm On May 20, 2021
Ibadanpikin:
I am a 31 year old man i have never been in a relationship with any lady talkless of sex. I stammered a litttle bit so i find it very hard to toast a lady. Any time i try talking to a girl i begin to stammer and my heart beats fast, its so embarrassing, some of my friends think i am impotent or gay.
How will i marry, guys how do u do it?
I stammer for life, infact ladies love stammerers judging from my experience o..
Just drop your low self esteem and go for your kill..

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Funjosh(m): 7:24pm On May 20, 2021
You are very normal, okay and you will fine brother.
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Masterito(m): 7:25pm On May 20, 2021
Then you must expert at masturbating.
Ibadanpikin:
I am a 31 year old man i have never been in a relationship with any lady talkless of sex. I stammered a litttle bit so i find it very hard to toast a lady. Any time i try talking to a girl i begin to stammer and my heart beats fast, its so embarrassing, some of my friends think i am impotent or gay.
How will i marry, guys how do u do it?
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by bigpicture001: 7:25pm On May 20, 2021
@op, go get money... For sure money can buy women... All of them
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Lawalemi(m): 7:25pm On May 20, 2021
Ibadanpikin:
I am a 31 year old man i have never been in a relationship with any lady talkless of sex. I stammered a litttle bit so i find it very hard to toast a lady. Any time i try talking to a girl i begin to stammer and my heart beats fast, its so embarrassing, some of my friends think i am impotent or gay.
How will i marry, guys how do u do it?
I imagine how you go koboko a girl when you start. grin
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Segzy19: 7:25pm On May 20, 2021
Bro, nothing is wrong with you...

You are okay.
Please only let people depress you with their warped and sinful mentality of this end time.

At the right time, you will meet your woman at is right for you, and you will have and enjoy sex with her...

Don't create problem for yourself where there is none.

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Lilpen3758: 7:25pm On May 20, 2021
Oloristarr:

This is life men
And all this holy people wan crucify me, why?
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by emmnprince(m): 7:27pm On May 20, 2021
Saphiere and Slawormiir are in the best position to answer your questions and help you out!

To me, you're normal!

There's nothing special about talking to young ladies. Just start talking!
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by darichlife: 7:27pm On May 20, 2021
Am proud of you young man if what you claim is true, sex is designed for procreation and pleasure but not as a sport.

Guys look around your and see, men who loose their virginity late a more focused, determined, strong wiled and confident and achieve more than those who engaged in hendonic lifestyles earlier.

I have three friends who lost their virginity in their thirties they all got admission same time with our age groups but presently they have the best jobs and less drama lifestyle, only one drinks alcohol presently and it's occasionally.

What am driving here is that when we are growing up in our teens and building relationships with the opposite sex we loose focus and this affects our performance physically, mentally, psychologicaly and spiritually in some cases.

That's why sometimes I Envy some sincere deeperlife family too beautiful to emulate.

Guys please use the energy you use in chasing women when not physically and financially ready to pursue a career path.

Peace

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Didi2d(m): 7:27pm On May 20, 2021
Lol..

Wey some ladies don forget how many d*ck dem don collect, they can't even count. And you never start.
Chai and na person like you go still marry one girl wey don nack taya
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by MisterRuk(m): 7:27pm On May 20, 2021
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Oloristarr(f): 7:28pm On May 20, 2021
Jeon:


You wer dy fuvk oloshos up and down


Oga if u no get money to Bleep talk m
Ppl like de vex when they see their fellow men with beautiful women
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by BrainSanitizer: 7:28pm On May 20, 2021
Ibadanpikin:
I am a 31 year old man i have never been in a relationship with any lady talkless of sex. I stammered a litttle bit so i find it very hard to toast a lady. Any time i try talking to a girl i begin to stammer and my heart beats fast, its so embarrassing, some of my friends think i am impotent or gay.
How will i marry, guys how do u do it?
Forget about you being a stammerer.
In fact, some girls find stammering very sexy, so long your pocket isn't stammering as well.
Just make money, I mean plenty of it and when you speak to any lady, your voice will sound smoother than Kiss Daniel's.

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by inspector44(m): 7:28pm On May 20, 2021
Let's see how you look first, then we will comment
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Oloristarr(f): 7:29pm On May 20, 2021
Lilpen3758:
And all this holy people wan crucify me, why?
Avoid them deep down they be wishing they were in your shoes doing the do
Na just say money or one or two no de na y then de hate
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by Nobody: 7:30pm On May 20, 2021
I've had sex, I've masturbated and I can categorically say masturbating is more economical and less problematic but less pleasuring.

First time I had a thing with a runs girl was after my most recent heartbreak and it was just once and I know I can never try that thrash again. I don't enjoy sex if I'm not in love with who I'm having it with and in this case, I'm in love with myself so masturbation does the magic for me.

Something is wrong my brother, I won't advice you to go for runs girls cos I didn't enjoy the experience but if you're that desperate, just get one. It's easy, I got mine from tinder or Badoo dating app. My advice is to explore yourself and enjoy your sexual life till you eventually get a decent partner.

About getting a decent partner, no working formula for it, it just happens. I've had sex with who I didn't ask out and I've had sex with who proved too hard to get and some even asked for it so my brother, no working formula o. It can happen at any point or condition in time.

Best of luck. Stay and play safe.

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by godlessmind: 7:30pm On May 20, 2021
thatsleepboy1:
Liar from the pit of hell.
don't be stupid I think it's not a lie. He lacks confidence in himself. I had similar issues but i have overcome mine.

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Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by oluwasegun007(m): 7:30pm On May 20, 2021
All you need is build your self esteem and self confidence....but in the interim ask your guys to arrange babe for you....
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by drLammy(m): 7:31pm On May 20, 2021
I haven't read your story yet but you are totally not Okay bro
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by godlessmind: 7:31pm On May 20, 2021
illicit:
U have a big problem
the problem is he lacks confidence.
Re: I Am 31 But Never Had Sex Before, Am I Okay? by darichlife: 7:31pm On May 20, 2021
Lilpen3758:
No vex bros abeg this post don enter fp?? Dis one way all Dis holy people dey quote me?

Yes.

Just remain blessed.

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