Akuruoulo:


Even at 60 .

Y
Did u see in the post where he said he is looking for a wife??

MONEY247:
You are normal...!!!
Me self I am not going to marry

ah! people will talk

Solsix:

There absolutely nothing wrong in a 31 years old not having sex, I have seen people older yet still keeping themselves.

The age here is nt the issue...

I dont give a flying fvck if hes getting laid or not.

The problem here is his lack of confidence and the fact that he stammers- which he thinks has affected his sex life.

Pple that stammer get laid, so he's issue is to work on his confidence, and he cant do that without putting himself out there and facing his fears.

There is nothing wrong with that. There r men out there like u... but dont make the mistake of marrying a lady you dont have feelings for... or she not loving you due to your experience... because that has been the case due to inexperience and later in the marriage.. one will now see the person he or she love...

So take your time..!!

Ibadanpikin:
I am a 31 year old man i have never been in a relationship with any lady talkless of sex. I stammered a litttle bit so i find it very hard to toast a lady. Any time i try talking to a girl i begin to stammer and my heart beats fast, its so embarrassing, some of my friends think i am impotent or gay.
How will i marry, guys how do u do it?

Your telling lies and i dont think your a virgin @ the age of 31.but if you still want to learn how to Bleep in different styles that you dont know,is easy.either you watch blue films or alternatively meet prostitutes(ashawo) and practicalize it,you will learn how to do it.since that's what your thinking to post on nairaland today.

Ibadanpikin:
I am a 31 year old man i have never been in a relationship with any lady talkless of sex. I stammered a litttle bit so i find it very hard to toast a lady. Any time i try talking to a girl i begin to stammer and my heart beats fast, its so embarrassing, some of my friends think i am impotent or gay.
How will i marry, guys how do u do it?

Go Bleep ashawo...lier

lilvicky68:

Lol..I wonder how many soap, oil and Vaseline go don suffer for your hand..

i don't know the world where you live in. However, I am from the kingdom where Jesus Christ is Lord; I don't have that problem. I can show you a better way to live if you so desire?

Yes, you are OK

Ibadanpikin:
I am a 31 year old man i have never been in a relationship with any lady talkless of sex. I stammered a litttle bit so i find it very hard to toast a lady. Any time i try talking to a girl i begin to stammer and my heart beats fast, its so embarrassing, some of my friends think i am impotent or gay.
How will i marry, guys how do u do it?

Where in Ibadan are you?

Indispensable85:



I'm male..... For religious reasons of course.

It's truly a strange thing to see. Many people don't take that part of scripture serious. They've usually had premarital sex, then begin a new form of celibacy/virginity as born agains.

Atlantean:

I am 36 and in the same boat with you. Look forward to better days.

Is it a health challenge that has prevented you? Or lack of opportunity? What do you do to cope with this? I'm astonished. And you are a man? Could it be that men like to exaggerate their sexual urges and releases?

biyams:
same here bro.... am 30 on April 29th, have never dated and never have sex....I don't even get that feeling of porn or something... buh am beginning to also get worried cos I need a relationship that would end in marriage now or sooner.

What? Another one!

Is it due to medical reasons or religion or choice?

So who is posting all over the place about sex if men are actually celibate?

CALCULUS16:
There is nothing wrong with u bro, i am ur age mate too and in ur shoe and not that i dont want to have it, but doing it with the wrong person or with a lady who is "animasaun', i knw a lady who is like that and shes ever ready, how would i eat a 'left over'? I dont have issue to talking to a lady, i am just a cerebral person, i think with my brain nt with my heart, i believe this manhood is meant for a person not to be shared with any, until i get married b4 i can do the stuff [its a personal decision] Life is not about sex bro, there are so many issues to focus ur life upon than this, nature does nt give extra sx organs to one who has sx early [unless u r bro komeji] nor give extra orgasm or extra 5min, i believe there is much more 2 sx than we know, since its a path through wish all animals including human being came in2 dis world, who u av such thing with, might av connection with ur soul/spirit, Bro, be proud u keep your pure to this age, we r rare, when u see ur flesh, the boldness u need ll come

This forum is full of truly amazing things. This thread has been surprising.

edoairways:

There are many male Virgins in Nigeria in case you aren't aware

One would expect them to be around early twenties. Not thirties. It's a good thing there are deep thinkers with self control still.

BRATISLAVA:

It's truly a strange thing to see. Many people don't take that part of scripture serious. They've usually had premarital sex, then begin a new form of celibacy/virginity as born agains.

It's just Grace

Indispensable85:



It's just Grace

Many can't resist the urge of sex. When you get married, remember to tag this moniker on your wedding thread.

BRATISLAVA:


One would expect them to be around early twenties. Not thirties. It's a good thing there are deep thinkers with self control still.

Even within this range they still exist. Some persons have dedicated their time to other things.

edoairways:

Even within this range they still exist. Some persons have dedicated their time to other things.

And never feel like having sex in all that time?

BRATISLAVA:

And never feel like having sex in all that time?

Of course they have the urge however they control it

BRATISLAVA:


Is it a health challenge that has prevented you? Or lack of opportunity? What do you do to cope with this? I'm astonished. And you are a man? Could it be that men like to exaggerate their sexual urges and releases?

Don't mind all these people claiming virgins here.. most of them are chronic masturbators..

BRATISLAVA:


Many can't resist the urge of sex. When you get married, remember to tag this moniker on your wedding thread.

I'm married now.

You're not alone, Bro.
I'm 42 yet I've not eaten the forbidden fruit.
Let's continue to pray for grace to hold the fort till we get married.

We're just three in Nigeria; you, me and a guy in Okene, Kogi State.

Our virginity, our pride �

God help you

BRATISLAVA:


What? Another one!

Is it due to medical reasons or religion or choice?

So who is posting all over the place about sex if men are actually celibate?

choice ...a hard one in fact. cos it hasn't been really easy actually but have to stick to it till married

Goalnaldo:
wrong idea. I had my first sex at 26 with a runs girl and the rest is history

tell us the history na ehh brother

Congratulation. There's nothing special about fornication. Just some 5 second enjoyment and 5 week suffering. It takes more from you than it gives you. You should never think you missing out. Ask yourself those who engages in fornication or adultry what has it contributed positively to there life ? In fact it's when you no longer have financial or medical/strength opportunity you begin to see the real effect. Try marrying and enjoy it with your wife. Simple.

thatsleepboy1:
Liar from the pit of hell.

MODIFIED: For those of you quoting me that he's saying the truth, check his profile very well and y'all will agree with me that this guy is 21 and not 31.

Thanks for saving my precious time.

Doja2000:
What is wrong with this generation....?
So,if you keep your virginity, you are a gay?
I don't see anything wrong there.
Pray that God should give you a good woman to marry.
You need a wife material, not a girlfriend material.

I swear it’s so annoying

Propheticdavid:
dont jump into conclusion...he is practically a virgin,but no adult can claim to be a perfect virgin.
virgins watching porn,masturbating,smooching,using eyes to UnCloth a girl,and having sex in their mind.,
any virgin engaging in all these stuff are practically a virgin not perfectly a virgin.

True

biyams:
choice ...a hard one in fact. cos it hasn't been really easy actually but have to stick to it till married

Keep it up. When you get married, let us know if you were able to keep up with it. wonder how it's possible at an older age. And hope you're not a chronic masturbator?(sorry for asking)

Reex12:
your abnormal

modified

you sound alot like my cousin back in 2019,I came to spend a week with him in lagos later I found out baba never press breast before talkless of doing the do , I vex change am for am dat day, how can a 26yrold man deny himself the pleasures of a woman in the name of introvert...I carry am go ocabique that night lodge for hotel, lavish ontop woman, I tear e eye that day no be small

Till today baba can never forget how he popped his cherry

Indispensable85:



I'm married now.

Oh. Nice. Was it worth it? You should be preaching to the young men of today. They're wild with sex and the world around then is falling apart.