Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,207,362 members, 7,998,707 topics. Date: Sunday, 10 November 2024 at 03:01 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! (1534 Views)
See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids / Una Wey Una Mama No Born Plenty Pikin No Know Wetin God Do For Una. / My mother and her plenty pastors. (2) (3) (4)
Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by Micholawoye: 2:51pm On May 22, 2021 |
Good afternoon everyone. So recently, a friend of mine has been posting a lot of stories of married and single ladies cheating. I used to have that mindset until recently after I got married. This post is to correct a few ingrained errors about ladies and marriages. 1. Guys, a good number of women are promiscuous just like men are too. A lot of guys like to experiment sexually and ladies do too. Promiscuity is not a gender based thing, rather it is a thing of choice...just as there are promiscuous women, they are also women who are not promiscuous. Don't let what you hear everyday influence you...pray to God to give you your own woman. Note: The woman who God gives you may have a past sexual history but that doesn't stop her from being faithful and loyal to you. 2. Most of us guys were whores in school, chasing and sleeping with everything in skirt, but a time came and we reduced it and eventually stopped it. It's the same for women. People make mistakes and change, don't castigate anyone based on their past as long as they are ready to change for good. Your own woman is out there who would not cheat on you even if she's offered a million dollars. Your job: Find her and find peace!! 3. Note : While dating a lady and you find out she's cheating on you, please note that that's a red flag. My advice: Please Break up that relationship and move on to avoid premium tears in the future. 4. What do you do next? Dust yourself up and continue digging for your gold and have this in mind: Gold most times is found buried deep in the earth. Your own gold is there, you just need a little more digging (searching and praying) to find her. Remember, he who finds a wife findeth a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord!! Guys, there are still good, faithful ladies out there!! Don't give up and don't write all ladies off!! If you need more counselling, leave a message and I will get back at you. ( Pardon any grammatical errors pls, no be English I read for school) 3 Likes |
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by DICKstractor: 3:02pm On May 22, 2021 |
Our chief of Army Staff is dead and you telling us about plenty fish in the river... Just tell us how to breakup this contraption we all are in 3 Likes |
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by anthonyuncle(m): 3:03pm On May 22, 2021 |
compared to the number of unfaithful ones, the number of faithful ladies are insignificantly few 1 Like |
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by javaguru: 3:09pm On May 22, 2021 |
when the time is right, everything go fall in place money first |
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by DDDEnterprises: 3:11pm On May 22, 2021 |
anthonyuncle: Insignificantly few?? It's either I don't understand you or you're exaggerating. 2 Likes |
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by Micholawoye: 3:12pm On May 22, 2021 |
anthonyuncle: They are not insignificantly few sir. They are all around you 1 Like |
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by esthel(f): 3:13pm On May 22, 2021 |
So are the men anthonyuncle: 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by anthonyuncle(m): 3:13pm On May 22, 2021 |
DDDEnterprises: comprehend it or not at your own peril |
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by anthonyuncle(m): 3:15pm On May 22, 2021 |
Micholawoye: lol. you make me laugh. if only you knew |
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by anthonyuncle(m): 3:16pm On May 22, 2021 |
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by Micholawoye: 3:46pm On May 22, 2021 |
anthonyuncle: I do KNOW sir. I am surrounded by people who are happily married. I am happily married myself and enjoying my marriage by God's grace. 2 Likes |
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by Michelle55: 4:01pm On May 22, 2021 |
Aptly said! Being faithful to one partner isn't gender based, both parties involved are expected to stay faithful to each other. Besides, faithfulness isn't something you do for others to praise you, it's something you do for yourself. It shows you know your worth as a man/woman and its not everyone that can have access to your body, you are not a community restroom where anyone can just come in and deposit their spunks. Let's take a look at why one needs to be faithful to their partners, here are few reasons but you can add yours too: -Being faithful gives you peace of mind, you don’t have to watch your tracks, you are not paranoid, trying to remember every lie you say. -Being faithful has a positive effect on your character. That way, you are able to live out your greatness with confidence. Integrity is important, and it starts by how you live your private life, it gives moral authority. Mess up your private life and everything else will fall apart. -Faithful people are happier, more relaxed, more fulfilled, they smile more; their conscience is clear, living a life that is not stressful, empty or complicated. -Being faithful makes your lover trust you, and with trust, he/she surrenders and gives all to you, you get to know your lover deeply as access is fully granted to you. Without trust, you will never fully receive all the blessings your lover brings. Finally, unfaithfulness brings diseases; not just sexual diseases but the rotting of your heart, it darkens and poisons the amazing person you actually are, condoms cannot protect you from the decay of your soul. So, before you decide to cheat, remember that you are also destroying yourself and not just your partner's happiness. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by Joel3(m): 4:05pm On May 22, 2021 |
Micholawoye:that what you think. Every broken marriage once thought they are enjoying it until to tell on their eyes. 1 Like |
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by Lostchild(m): 4:23pm On May 22, 2021 |
Micholawoye In my state (Delta) a man set himself- burnt himself to death because of his faithful wife. Yes he killed himself because his wife was faithful and true with another man dick. Why dont you wait for 20 years latet, then come and tell us how faithful your wife is. Then we will believe you (all) as you say 1 Like |
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by Lostchild(m): 4:24pm On May 22, 2021 |
DICKstractor: |
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by Jeon(f): 5:30pm On May 22, 2021 |
Micholawoye: Lollittaa come and read |
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by GboyegaD(m): 5:56pm On May 22, 2021 |
People have a choice to believe what they want the very reason I have learned not to comment on threads as this. Good side is there are many decent females out there. Generally, I feel many grew up in dysfunctional homes and they try to force the impressions of their upbringing on the innocent ones. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by anthonyuncle(m): 5:56pm On May 22, 2021 |
Micholawoye: ...by God's grace not by the goodness of your spouse |
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by ImaIma1(f): 5:56pm On May 22, 2021 |
Lostchild: In that same Delta state where a man killed himself over an unfaithful wife, there are faithful wives living with their husbands. Let's not generalize unfaithfulness. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by Lostchild(m): 1:38am On May 25, 2021 |
ImaIma1: When a woman is rape does it mean all men are rapist? |
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by ImaIma1(f): 6:23am On May 25, 2021 |
1 Like |
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by Lostchild(m): 6:43am On May 25, 2021 |
ImaIma1: A woman can be rape by a man but that doesn't mean every men out there are rapist. A woman can cheat on her husband that doesn't mean every women out there are unfaithful to their husband. I hope you get my point? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by ImaIma1(f): 6:58am On May 25, 2021 |
Lostchild: The topic wasn't about rapists but about unfaithfulness but I get you. 1 Like |
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by apatheticme(f): 1:17pm On May 25, 2021 |
GboyegaD: Good point. People will believe whatever they want. There are lots of faithful spouses/partners regardless of gender all around. However, this generation will tag them prude, boring and then turn around to wail after the interesting and loud ones disappoint them! It is what it is, to every rule or norm, there'll always be exceptions! I hope this generation understands this. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by eazzzy1(m): 2:51pm On May 25, 2021 |
In my opinion, a person sexual history should not be overlooked. Someone who has enjoyed a lot of casual sex do not just outgrow it or discontinue it, it may reduce due to lack of opportunities/chance/space but it never really goes away. 3 Likes |
Re: Guys, They Are Plenty Faithful Ladies Out There!! by pansophist(m): 11:02pm On May 25, 2021 |
Show me a person that is recklessly promiscuous (man or woman), and I will show you a person with a very low IQ. 5 Likes 3 Shares |
(1) (Reply)
Threats From Father Inlaw And Wife / I'm Considering Sniper For Fumigation / When Boys Become Men:10 Mistakes They Make
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 42 |