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Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by soundmind4ree: 10:15pm On May 25, 2021 |
Get yourself a female bestie... Then watch her complain. |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by PHIPEX(m): 10:16pm On May 25, 2021 |
The friendship will wane with time, if there was anything suspicious between them she wouldn't make the call in your presence. Your wife is young and still enjoy attention the guy gives her, at her age critical reasoning is not common for ladies. Ignore her and she will not be able to hid much about him from you, if you use force she will revolt and might land in the arm of the guy in secret. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Princedapace(m): 10:16pm On May 25, 2021 |
Bro, leave the marriage. It wont end well. She is very young and still want to flex. She loves that guy so much and let me tell, they will still f uck, that is if they arent doing that already. No be women again? She will Bleep the guy. I know ladies too well. Make i no talk. Bro, just divorce and quit the marriage. That guy go give ur woman belle and she will give it to u. 1 Like |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Vinnie2000(m): 10:17pm On May 25, 2021 |
@the OP! Accept d current situation!! You married a 22 yr old Girl n Expect her not to have Male friends??!! Girls below 25 re still Hot, sexy, young n have High sexual hormones, even if dey re married!!! Dey re Girlish in nature. Even in Marriage, Many would still want d Attention, friendships n Fringe benefits from Guys around Dem... One young Married lady in my Office always drag me in d mornings for selfies n sumtyms put hands round my neck n pout Lips!! ![]() ![]() But all hope is NOT LOST!! Sit her down and lecture her on d Essence of Marriage!! Tell her to be wise n b calling her Male bestie, once in a month, or so!! Tell her to be wise n responsible like d Guy who is trying to distance himself.. Then you, Do Quite Alot to Be Closer to Her!! Watch Films with her, take her on outings, etc.. 3 Likes |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by oluwaahmed: 10:17pm On May 25, 2021 |
Bestie!!! ![]() |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Hamzaaaaaaaa(m): 10:17pm On May 25, 2021 |
BadBradley: |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Pzpropertylimit(m): 10:18pm On May 25, 2021 |
Hmmm the wife is meant to obey u . U may just develop heart attack and the end u know yet she will be alive to enjoy her life . Oh if na me , I will continue telling her that I am not comfortable with her continue that relationship with the guy . If she insists , she will just see my divorce letter . Before she kills u , do the needful pls . Women are evil ! 1 Like |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by ArcFresky(m): 10:18pm On May 25, 2021 |
sonofthunder: ![]() ![]() See ehen, this marriage requires the effort of both and requires a lot of sacrifice. Even the Bible says a woman shaa leave his father and mother and Cling to her husband. You should marry your bestie Your husband should be your bestie If your husband is not your bestie, divorce and marry your bestie. 2 Likes |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Calicoe: 10:19pm On May 25, 2021 |
U see this word called "bestie" I no wan use ear hear am at all especially if u b my wife. Because I know wetin me and my so called bestie dey do dat year. Bro no let her deceive u o. There is more to that friendship than just beasties. Besides that, why married woman go get male bestie? Bros u must force her to end that rubbish friendship. If na dating stage una dey I go suggest make u use small small tell her to end it but guy na ur wife o. If na shout, shout on top d mata until she hear word 4 Likes |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by NkanAkpanika: 10:20pm On May 25, 2021 |
It is written in the book below that Women and satanism na like 5&6.. 3 Likes
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Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by SangoOlukosoOba(m): 10:20pm On May 25, 2021 |
Yiu need find a lasting solution. Contract the besties life to people who can terminate his existence. You wont spend over 200k and he will be forever missing. 1 Like |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Vinnie2000(m): 10:20pm On May 25, 2021 |
indodon: |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by jubrilELsudan: 10:21pm On May 25, 2021 |
YOUR WIFE IS A CONFAM ASHAWO. 5 Likes
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Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by 9ja4live: 10:21pm On May 25, 2021 |
Honestly OP you need a hear this from a man's voice "This I complete stupidity" The problem is men these days are not taught to be men. What nonsense.......... ![]() Ok if you want to diplomatic Mr. Romantic, you too get female bestie. Make una dey lock una self for room and be reading bible together, you go see her reaction. Guy you don make the Big decision to marry. Be the man in charge before you regret and stand by your decisions. Bleep her very well and very hard. Bestie go fade. 8 Likes |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by chiefdiye(m): 10:21pm On May 25, 2021 |
zeuss:exactly what am thinking about, but make sure it's either your sister, cousin or close relative to avoid story that touch in future, no say I no talk am o, save that your sister number with anything sweet. If she knows all your sisters, relatives and cousins, get them a new sim, let the parol start.. Pretend as if U don't care about her and her bestie. You can tell her it's one of your friends back in college. Believe me, she will be the one begging,and asking you to quit that relationship..... |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by DonBenny77(m): 10:21pm On May 25, 2021 |
BadBradley:22 year old girl never ready to marry, I wonder why e pain you like that. You are the bitter and lousy fellow 8 Likes |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Edwin046(m): 10:21pm On May 25, 2021 |
Sundrus:thats not a good advise 3 Likes |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by madridsta007(m): 10:21pm On May 25, 2021 |
Nacoss25: She's 22. That is very young. While she is physically right for marriage, mentally, she isnt. You have to grow her. And get people she listens & submits to, to speak to her. They know her language. Right now, you dont. God bless your marriage. 5 Likes |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by MansoryMX(m): 10:21pm On May 25, 2021 |
Sundrus: The smartest man alive! I doff my hat for you!
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Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Yusfunoble(m): 10:22pm On May 25, 2021 |
Lalami3232: If lai be your papa you go cry? Na lie you go happy talk true ![]() 2 Likes
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Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by PlayMaker14: 10:22pm On May 25, 2021 |
BadBradley:Kriss216.... Abeg come and see our Comrade. 2 Likes
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Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Joromi1: 10:23pm On May 25, 2021 |
It's Stockholm syndrome, my brother. If you didn't deflower the girl you're dating/marrying right now, never expect her to be 100% loyal to you. I still believe marriage is a trap, especially when you view it from the Christian angle. 5 Likes |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by oluwaahmed: 10:23pm On May 25, 2021 |
Vinnie2000:this is what probably happened. She has been dating bestie but had to marry hubby due to financial & family pressure. The only solution to this is to be totally out if bestie reach. Otherwise bestie go just dey refresh browser history. I know someone this happened to. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Omotaday(m): 10:24pm On May 25, 2021 |
Nacoss25:Your wife does not respect you. 4 Likes |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Victoria938(f): 10:24pm On May 25, 2021 |
She is not respecting you as a partner and she does not even respect the relationship so you need to take harsh steps if she wants to be with you otherwise allow her to be with him as you cannot go on like this forever. Talk to her firmly and let her know that if she wants to be with you then she has to stop meeting him and she has to cut him off from her life otherwise you are no more interested in the relationship. If she does not improve her behavior then leave her. 8 Likes |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by phorget(m): 10:25pm On May 25, 2021 |
Hmmmmm! Why u self go marry a 22year old girl? All what they have upstairs is not always something to write home about. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Curious345: 10:25pm On May 25, 2021 |
Bigdik70inch2:only a virgin is eligible to become my wife 1 Like |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by BareFacedLies(m): 10:25pm On May 25, 2021 |
Jnn |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by iamDrRhymes(m): 10:25pm On May 25, 2021 |
Nacoss25: You married a kid |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by saajus: 10:25pm On May 25, 2021 |
Don't force it. Some women don't like that. Will you like her to be calling him behind you? Since she keeps it open, I don't think anything secret is going on. After a while, she will naturally outgrow many things. Don't create unnecessary friction at home. |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Casalindal(f): 10:26pm On May 25, 2021 |
Reading through comments I can’t help it but laugh at some people poor stage of mind.... hello Op you don’t have to worry about your wife and her bestie, most girls keep gays guys mostly as bestie and trust they feel more safe having them around. I have a male bestie and he is one of the best thing that have ever happen to me. Your wife bestie probably have shared deepest things and darkest moments together, don’t take that away from her please it will hurt her badly. I am married and my best friend is a guy and I love him so much you don’t want to even imagine. The difference with me is I have learnt to balance both. I feel you should help your wife learn how to balance both relationships and trust me gay bestie are the best ever..... Don’t allow people here who are so backward and who live in carve pollute your mind.. Kim has a male bestie and you never see him come in between her marriage?? Please enjoy your marriage and take away this worries there are not needed at all. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by iswallker(m): 10:26pm On May 25, 2021 |
Whi takes these useless things to front page - does a woman with baby in her hands - and another in her belly have time to be having bestie Answer the question by yourself @op ![]() 1 Like |
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