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Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by MansoryMX(m): 10:26pm On May 25, 2021 |
Nacoss25: Like someone said. The best you need to do is turn the guy to ur bestie too! Take him outing regularly and make him and ur wife uncomfortable about your recent closeness with this guy. Make una two dey ball. In fact make una 3 dey ball. You married a little girl bro who hasn’t seen life yet. I married my wife at 22yrs. Man! It wasn’t easy because her mind isn’t that matured yet and I had to apply wisdom. Apply wisdom bro and never shout or quarrel with her! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Prince001(m): 10:27pm On May 25, 2021 |
BadBradley: Are u guys serious? Really? Is there any moderator on this forum at all? How can someone utterly insulted someone for voicing her opinion about something just like that? U guys need to grow up on this platform cos u can make ur point without insulting anyone pls! 13 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Nobody: 10:28pm On May 25, 2021 |
soundmind4ree:That will make me look week 1 Like |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by criuze(m): 10:28pm On May 25, 2021 |
Pregnant your wife and get her busy with children I mean put her in family way and she'll succumb Don't start getting people involved because your marriage in very young 5 Likes |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by HISWAYS(m): 10:28pm On May 25, 2021 |
What is best on my mind is GET HER PREGNANT NOW..So she can change her attention to the baby. Get her busy with work or business 6 Likes |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Armanipounds: 10:29pm On May 25, 2021 |
She ought to know there are som certain habits or behaviorals u don't exhibit after marriage! As the saying goes "there are things you aren't taught at Havard Business School" your wife should know that! As for the age, i feel she is too young and maybe still naive, hence these behaviorals! Sit her down and talk to her amicably that she is now married and som certain level of intimacy has to stop with dat guy! I believe if it were you who had a female bestie, she would have brought the roof of your house down! 1 Like |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Joromi1: 10:29pm On May 25, 2021 |
AntiWailer:Put yourself in the young man's shoe. How was would you feel if someone advises you to "leave her and watch"? Sometimes you omniscient counsellors should try seeing things from the angle of the 'victim' you're advising. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Awoo88: 10:29pm On May 25, 2021 |
Who send you go marry 22 years old pikin ![]() |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Obason22(m): 10:30pm On May 25, 2021 |
Still give her time to adjust, once she conceives the rest will be history. 1 Like |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by AdeniyiA(m): 10:30pm On May 25, 2021 |
Just impregnate her quickly, by the time she's preoccupied with parental duty, nobody will tell her to mind her business nd face front ![]() Many half baked, marital responsibilities ignorants and babes are going into marriage these days, and the result?... Breakups and baby mamaism&babaism ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Joromi1: 10:32pm On May 25, 2021 |
soundmind4ree: Best advice so far albeit short. Reminds me of the saying, "What is good for the goose is good for the gander." |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Lexusgs430: 10:32pm On May 25, 2021 |
Nacoss25: Get a female bestie..... 1 Like |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by jamace(m): 10:32pm On May 25, 2021 |
Oh God, Technology is about destroying another marriage... ![]() |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by openmine(m): 10:33pm On May 25, 2021 |
OP...My own is that why did she not marry the bestie? And why did you ignore all these signs when both of you were dating? Sorry ohh your Wifey is still not ready mentally for marriage! 3 Likes |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Casalindal(f): 10:33pm On May 25, 2021 |
criuze: You think that would help?? My male bestie even came over to live with us when I put to birth and it was one of The best days of our friendship. You do not be rational but apply logic. They both share a bond trust me male (gay) bestie are the best 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by timocruzcmbb(m): 10:35pm On May 25, 2021 |
Why would you go and marry a woman that has a male bestie,tell her she has to choose between you and that man,and report her to all her parent and yours.if you accept all about male bestie,she will be comparing you to him and he will be brainwashing her,oga.see my wife will never keep male friends,hat de Bleep. 1 Like |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by anochuko01(m): 10:36pm On May 25, 2021 |
BadBradley:You didn't talk like a wise person at all boss. You don't need the insults I'm very sure the op and his girl are easterners. I'm currently serving in the east, and I find it interesting to see very young beautiful corpers who are already married. My interactions with them tells how much they still want to mingle and gist with guys of their age. 8 Likes |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Yankee101: 10:36pm On May 25, 2021 |
Married women shouldn't have single male best friends 1 Like |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by neighbourhud: 10:36pm On May 25, 2021 |
You want to live long? Don't fall in love! Do not fall in love!! Never ever fall in love!!! 4 Likes |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by HMarshal(m): 10:37pm On May 25, 2021 |
Nacoss25: I no understand! Male bestie for a married woman?maybe u suld get a female besides too ,so she tastes how it feels. |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Nobody: 10:37pm On May 25, 2021 |
I go give her resounding slap that she will remember till death do us part. She is mentally deficient. You married a teenager. 3 Likes |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by havigold(f): 10:39pm On May 25, 2021 |
Even though you didn't specify your age bracket but I think getting married to a lady at 22 can be likened to" getting married to an underage girl" trust me , a lady at that age is matured physically but not well develop in understanding the course of marriage as an institution let alone life experiences . You didn't do a well thorough job regarding the "jovial and friendly " personality of your' wife ', I stand here to say that any lady of what any age that is friendly to a male bestie apart from her main guy is an Emotional Cheat which graduates into sexual tension between them ... The solution to this is either you get to know the Unknown bestiee in all ramification by imbibing the little secrecy that makes your woman runs to him emotionally through communication by building on this, then educate her more on the pros and cons of marriage as an institution .... 3 Likes |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by akejujoe(f): 10:40pm On May 25, 2021 |
Impregnate her and see the result 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by iampeterben(m): 10:40pm On May 25, 2021 |
Sincerely brother I don't know Nacoss25: |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by kokomilala(m): 10:41pm On May 25, 2021 |
Your wife is flirting with fire,mixed with rubbish that might consume her. There's nothing like bestie.Someday soon, he'll bed her. A married woman once told me in confidence that she almost cheated on her husband,one, because she felt his attention to her wasn't adequate.Two, because of her closeness with a male bestie. See, anyone that still keeps a bestie of the opposite sex after marriage has a hidden agenda,and one should begin to doubt their credentials as committed partners. 5 Likes |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by neighbourhud: 10:42pm On May 25, 2021 |
anochuko01: Talk for yourself bro. You interact with them on a neutral level without any string attached...but can you say that of other guys. You still have your decency but you can't say that of others. No be everybody get church mind like you o 4 Likes |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Supermajor(m): 10:43pm On May 25, 2021 |
Nacoss25: Just find the guy number and give him a coded phone call, on the phone just tell him say for una family, una always dy ready to do anything for any woman wey una marry o, even if na to pai any man wey want dy mess around with her u no mind o.... Then just sit down and watch magic of distance!! 2 Likes |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Obindigbo: 10:43pm On May 25, 2021 |
Nacoss25:Oga na danger be that oooo Since she's married, you should be her bestie, both male and female. Tell her to chose either letting the guy go or stand a chance of ruining her marriage by losing the trust you have for her..........how can a married woman be seeking for attention and closeness with another man in the name of bestie, can't she find those things in you?? 1 Like |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Uniquekriss(m): 10:44pm On May 25, 2021 |
Lalami3232:your #1 point is clueless so long as marriage is concerned. 1 Like |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Nobody: 10:44pm On May 25, 2021 |
CheerfulGiver: That is not his decision to make, if the bestie was that important she would have hold on or marry him moreover its more effective when people make decisions themselves. Someone like me i won't be bothered, however its normal for OP to be a bit jealous but in as much as you know ur spouse personality to be jovial & friendly, just save ursef some BP moreover the wife is not hiding things and the bestie is doing right keep distance ... what the husband needs is to do things that will make his wife miss her bestie less, do i need to mention give it time |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by obembet(f): 10:45pm On May 25, 2021 |
xpressionx: Wrong mentality... Is it only ur gfriend u are sleeping with? Na pple like u give ex-griend more attention than ur wife... If am ur wife en, I go do u that tin wey u dey do other ladies |
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by WoundedLamb: 10:46pm On May 25, 2021 |
AntiWailer: I love the idea of leaving them and allowing them keep it public. If they didn't do anything all this while before she got married, it's not likely the will now. Trying to force them apart might lead to the friendship becoming a secret affair. Besides, I don't think it's fair to cut your spouse off her longtime friend with whom she's had a lot of experiences. Friends bring out the sparks in us. If she loses such friends, she might go dull and even the OP wouldn't like that. If she's not giving OP enough attention or not doing whatever OP believes she's a supposed to do as a wife, his concerns would be more appreciated. Regarding your last statement, do you really think she'll outgrow a longtime friend who still lives in the same city as herself? I think things will change when the guys also get a lady of his own. That way, the OP and that lady will join forces wreck the friendship ![]() 1 Like |
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