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Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Curious345: 11:11am On May 26, 2021
oyinda1599:
Be decieving yourself.
babe how am I deceiving myself ..

Are you saying virgins are hard to find?


So who's dicking all our born and unborn daughters?
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Jeon(f): 11:13am On May 26, 2021
AishaYesufu:

90% of Feminists are active and retired old cargoes and wh0res. She is terribly regretting not being able to married at that age while her mates who married at 20-26 are already with their 18 - 25 year old children. So she now seeks to ensure that matured women in their 20s are deceived into seeing themselves as little girls so as to end up like her. I am sure her niece is already married with grown up kids.

PAINMENT...


Keep on yelling about someone you know nothing about.

Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by AishaYesufu: 11:13am On May 26, 2021
GhostWisperer:
*16% of women in their early 30s hits ovarian failure; menopause!

* At 35 women fertility drops radically

* The more men women sleep with, the more damaged and emotionally useless they are.

It is far better for a girl to marry at 22 than to be dicksploiting like you suggested.

Look at your life:

# you're already at your menopause
# no life other than digital addiction, fighting with men

# no marriage

# no partner

# no life.

Now you're spreading the same ideology that relegated you to become a feminine disaster.

At the end of the day, you wished you married and didn't fool around. Now you're seeking relief by leading other women into the same path that has plagued your life.

Amazontopaz, change.
What a wasted life

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Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Jeon(f): 11:15am On May 26, 2021
Curious345:
babe how am I deceiving myself ..

Are you saying virgins are hard to find?


So who's dicking all our born and unborn daughters?

Ask him again
Drake please pass the mic to him....

Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by GhostWisperer: 11:21am On May 26, 2021
AishaYesufu:

90% of Feminists are active and retired old cargoes and wh0res. She is terribly regretting not being able to married at that age while her mates who married at 20-26 are already with their 18 - 25 year old children. So she now seeks to ensure that matured women in their 20s are deceived into seeing themselves as little girls so as to end up like her. I am sure her niece is already married with grown up kids.
sadly, this ihas been a marked feature in many of her posts.

She berates girls marrying on time and encourage them to seek sexual fun with different men.

This is a woman who couldn't even take hold of a single man all her life.
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by GhostWisperer: 11:24am On May 26, 2021
AmazonTopaz:
A 22 year old has no business getting married

If you like insult yourself thinking you are insulting me e nor concern me mention me from now till tomorrow I nor go reply una


Cry more. grin
your opinion isn't all that disgusting. When we know that you're a total disaster and danger to little girls is when you suggest a 22 year old girl should be enjoying the best of her life dicking around.

Not even Satan would be that bold.

Woe unto you and all the idiots digitally connected to you as friends.

You're not even worth a roadside piece of polythene debris.
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by advanceDNA: 11:25am On May 26, 2021
Casalindal:



You this thing... don’t associate me with yourself

Madam are you sick or something...what gave u the right to insult me for no reason...

How dare u refer to a human being as a thing.. did I even come near ur post... who the hell do U think you are....
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by ABANGWABOI(m): 11:26am On May 26, 2021
AmazonTopaz:


LMAO comedy on top person wey you nor know

You nor get sense at all and I don't even take trolls like you serious because offline many of you are Street urchins.

Anyway I won't waste my time replying trolls again you and that abangwaboi the both of you are nothing but trolls whose silly useless opinion means nothing to me.

Keep crying I said what I said a 22 year old has no business getting married.

Cry and wail I won't read your mentions again nor waste my time replying to clowns


Why mention me ??
Otu Gbawa Nne gi..
Onye nzuzu
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by ABANGWABOI(m): 11:27am On May 26, 2021
GhostWisperer:
your opinion isn't all that disgusting. When we know that you're a total disaster and danger to little girls is when you suggest a 22 year old girl should be enjoying the best of her life dicking around.

Not even Satan would be that bold.

Woe unto you and all the idiots digitally connected to you as friends.

You're not even worth a roadside piece of polythene debris.

You wn damage this old hag oo grin grin
Me dn use Igbo reset her idiotic brain..

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Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by ABANGWABOI(m): 11:29am On May 26, 2021
blahc007:

Jesus nakpo go nwam...

Otu nne gi na akpom.. grin grin
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by GhostWisperer: 11:32am On May 26, 2021
ABANGWABOI:


You wn damage this old hag oo grin grin
Me dn use Igbo reset her idiotic brain..
I mean to damage what is left of her already damaged life.

She was trying form tough in a dead isolated thread two days ago...ske never knew I was waiting for her on the open, full glare of the public.

The girl is as valueless as broken tomatoes.
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Kriss216: 11:37am On May 26, 2021
PlayMaker14:
Kriss216.... Abeg come and see our Comrade.
grin grin

That guy dey para. He called her a community object cheesy cheesy
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by cmecproblem(m): 11:56am On May 26, 2021
Women do this especially when the beastie is rich. They don't want to let go of the expensive treats the nice guy beastie offers.

I intentionally left it as beastie instead of bestie.
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Nobody: 12:08pm On May 26, 2021
AishaYesufu:

Silly talk!

He is saying he won't accept such nonsense. And if he catches her or suspects her cheating, he yanks her off.

My wife is not permitted to have any male friends, be it ex boyfriend, school mate, old colleague, cousin brother, street brother, church brother etc. She is only permitted to be close to her father and her sons(my sons).



Apparently you are both insecure, my point to you remains even with all that close marking if a woman wants to cheat she will cheat ... rite under ur nose she will cheat grin dey there dey for General abacha
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Druss(m): 12:08pm On May 26, 2021
Male bestie of wife? That male should be flogged. I have told my female friends that as soon as they get married - our relationship will reduce in priority.

Your wife needs to mature up and show respect for herself. She can have male friends but the only bestie male friend should be the husband.
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by iBubbler: 12:11pm On May 26, 2021
Oversense dey worry you.
You deserve on cow. ����
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by iBubbler: 12:13pm On May 26, 2021
zeuss:
Have a lady call you always......and let her complain also.

Oversense dey worry you.
You deserve one cow.
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Lovelyn451(f): 12:18pm On May 26, 2021
Weathered:
this is Amazontopaz, the becrowned 40 year old, port Harcourt street strutter.

She's on a mission to normalise prostitution on Nairaland amongst young innocent girls.

See as people dey swear for you like abomination.
i am who i am....LOVELYN!! Parents given name...cant change who i am for any ediot...

just like your mum have normalised among your sisters

The swears and curses of deranged fools like you is like maize chaff, it doesn't perch

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Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by MrGerald(m): 12:21pm On May 26, 2021
You married a little girl probably in her first love experience, may God help you.
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by hedonido: 12:28pm On May 26, 2021
What kind of foolish man marries a 22 year old? Someone who's obviously confused and firmly in the 'hoeing' phase at that age.

Besides what kind of man marries a girl knowing that she has a male 'bestie'? Or would you claim you didn't know before you married her?

All these onuku simps and their unending woes.
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by AfricanGiant(m): 12:28pm On May 26, 2021
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Jeon:


hi

don't marry you pple will not listen..
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Joe4real1988(m): 12:32pm On May 26, 2021
obembet:


That's the fact... Most of u guys have 2-6 girls from different purpose. And u will be looking for saint
Most of u guys not some abi! U see your mouth. Is that the reason u guys misbehave when someone take u guys serious?
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by galaxy2020(m): 1:21pm On May 26, 2021
Oga you are a weak man, and your wife has noticed and she's taking advantage. What is male bestie for a married lady?
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by summerflame(m): 1:28pm On May 26, 2021
Casalindal:


I would not share words with you. You this thing!!!!

Olosho hug transformer .. community borehole
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by MummyD2020(f): 1:32pm On May 26, 2021
Lalami3232:
Lol grin. Oga make I advise you as a fellow man. In this life eeh, na only two things na dey involve in most cases and this same "2 things" law still apply for this ur matter, make I give you the possibilities:

1. Maybe the guy and ur wife na just normal friends wey don share alot in common, though without sex sha. The friendship don too tight sotey ur wife dey find am difficult to leave the guy.
2. The guy na ur wife one time bedmate wey still dey bust ur wife head with he sex and friendship.
So wetin u go na to talk to ur wife maturedly without any shouting or false accusation because u no get proof say dem dey do anything evil. Tell her say u no dey comfortable with the friendship cus preeq and toto matter be like bread and butter for this generation, very easy to eat.
If she still no stop, then u go leave her alone cus if u use force, she go dey dodge dey go meet the guy for back. But my number 1 advise to u be say, OGA DO DNA FOR UR CHILDREN OOOO, E GET WHY.

I don talk am before and I go talk am again "The day my wife go born girl pikin, I go cry like who dem say na Lai Mohammed be he papa".

I know someone that has four. Another has 3. The girl child takes care of her parents more. So leave matter
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by MummyD2020(f): 1:35pm On May 26, 2021
Nacoss25:
Good morning everyone. I am a young man newly married to a 22 yr old lady. our marriage is just 2 months old.

Before I met my wife in 2019, she has this male best friend who they have been best friends even before I met her though my wife is a social and jovial person always cheerful, she easily makes friends wherever she finds herself that's her nature and kind of personality.

Right now her friendship with that her male friend is what am becoming uncomfortable with right now because of the so much attention she is lavishing on him. I have complained to her that I am not comfortable with her closeness with the guy but she is seeing it that am trying to cut her off from her friends.

One interesting part of the whole thing is, since we got married the guy has been trying to distance himself from her a bit knowing too well that she is now married but my wife is even the one doing all she could to keep the friendship going the way it has been going. 2 days ago I and my wife were together she called the guy complaining bitterly how he has been distancing himself from her.

My people what do you think I should do to cut down that connection or will the friendship grow week by the day on it's own? My wife is refusing to understand that in marriage there are things u will have to let go.

Maybe shes not ready for marriage yet. Some are mature at 22 while some are explorers. She doesn't hold the marriage in high esteem. Threaten her to chose between the two of you or you will leave. See her reaction. She should get her acts together na.
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by GhostWisperer: 1:40pm On May 26, 2021
Lovelyn451:
i am who i am....LOVELYN!! Parents given name...cant change who i am for any ediot...

just like your mum have normalised among your sisters

The swears and curses of deranged fools like you is like maize chaff, it doesn't perch

Before your mother spread her legs to start breeding little unhinged pigs like you, she never weighed the odds that she wasn't fit enough to run a poultry let alone a family. Cuss be onto her!
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Faifai: 1:47pm On May 26, 2021
My brother there is nothing going on between your wife and her male friend. They just feel comfortable telling each other about their personal issues. am speaking from personal experience. Please let them be.
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by geonell(m): 2:01pm On May 26, 2021
This issues are very common with ladies that age. So it's either you take a strong stance against it, she will not be happy with it for a while but will eventually get over it or you wait some years till she grows up that's if there is still a marriage
Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Nackzy: 2:08pm On May 26, 2021
Nacoss25:
Good morning everyone. I am a young man newly married to a 22 yr old lady. our marriage is just 2 months old.

Before I met my wife in 2019, she has this male best friend who they have been best friends even before I met her though my wife is a social and jovial person always cheerful, she easily makes friends wherever she finds herself that's her nature and kind of personality.

Right now her friendship with that her male friend is what am becoming uncomfortable with right now because of the so much attention she is lavishing on him. I have complained to her that I am not comfortable with her closeness with the guy but she is seeing it that am trying to cut her off from her friends.

One interesting part of the whole thing is, since we got married the guy has been trying to distance himself from her a bit knowing too well that she is now married but my wife is even the one doing all she could to keep the friendship going the way it has been going. 2 days ago I and my wife were together she called the guy complaining bitterly how he has been distancing himself from her.

My people what do you think I should do to cut down that connection or will the friendship grow week by the day on it's own? My wife is refusing to understand that in marriage there are things u will have to let go.
Am passing through exact same thing with Someone i want to get married to, i have talked to her she hasn't still given up on the guy, She's leaving in a two bedroom and most at times the boy comes around to Stay in the other room in the name that he's helping in do things in school and other errands, Recently when we had issues, she told me the boy deleted all my pictures from her phone and my Number

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