Ishilove:
So last last she married her ancestor.

Good luck to her.

Nonexisting:
You should be happy that you dodged a bullet. Welcome to the club of "fucck'n'go aka fucklationship" and I hope you don't go back to simpism by entering into another relation. Go carry olosho and celebrate your freedom brother, you deserve it. If you don't have money to carry one, come to our olosho thread and we will gladly contribute money for you. Cheers brother man.

chelseaboi:
U want her to lose America passport..dollars etc bcus of love..
How far,u didn't gain any dollars from them...
We advised you on what to do..
Now,u lost the girl..
U didn't gain dollars...
U lost a communication line,that would have helped you maybe in future..
U lost money and time bcuz,it is obvious that you have been her backbone for the past 2 and half yrs..

U know deep down,that u lost this game.
Dnt let ur guards down..bro
Another guy's ex or even current girlfriend is readily available for u..
U can marry now.avoid delays to avoid losing ur bae to a richer guy..
Everybae ambition is to marry a rich guy..
Nig is hard..

Mowaconfused:

Thanks I appreciate

Ishilove:

You appreciate someone advising you to sleep with public toilets and carry?

Opoor

Michelle55:
E shock me sha! There's nothing wrong in getting married to an older guy but the problem I have with her is the lying part.
Why lie when she knows she doesn't see a future with you? She could have spared you the heart break a long time ago when she discovered she preferred the abroad based man.
Well, you dodged a bullet. Trust me, you will be fine okay.

Mowaconfused:

Yes ,she married her ancestor

ExpertEDITOR:

See lemme tell you the basic truth, assuming ishilove was ur ex girl mentor.... Trust me, she would have advise she left you herself. Ignore her trying to pretend to feel what you feel. Inside of her, she is happy the girl made a right choice.

Ishilove:

Noticed and ignored

ExpertEDITOR:

She did what 99.9999% women would have done in her shoes. Stop trying to look like u re better than her kind.

Guess you read my message through your anus before, now try reading it correctly. FYI, I never said I was better than anybody, heck I'm worse than your exes put together and I'm unapologetic about it oya go kee yasef now! Dem no dey tell deaf man say war don start, perhaps next time you should try avoiding the likes of me for your peace of mind

ayomikuolatunji:
How old is she?

ExpertEDITOR:
This is the problem when we preach redpill. Most simple men think redguys are angry guys (I won't say some ain't tho). But the basis of redpill is to expose you to game and make you a better man while relating with women without hating them.

Op, to be real with you, you lost this game. It might not seem like a game to you but to every girl, relationship is a game especially when the honeymoon period in relationship is over.

Subconsciously, she will continue to test and measure you against her potential sexmates... It is natural. That doesn't meant she is worst than other females. As a matter of fact, most ladies you quoted on ur former thread will do worst if given a chance like that. Women are very pragmatic and selfish than men. They take decisions as it comes notwithstanding how u feel about it. They don't really care as long as it serves their objectives and that of their immediate family.

Now, don't wish that girl bad. She did what she did in her best interests. You only lost cos you are not game. I understand you may like to be straight with women, but I assure you, being straight is the best way to always lose with women cos they are always playing games.

You said you were not doing bad for yourself, but still, I think you should have p1mped that girl and get whatever you want (connections, money or travel deals). She won't feel used as long as she thinks you allow her. It would have been a win win on both sides.

Lastly, women are not the angels you wish they are..... They are smart and dangerous and you have to be just like them or even better to win while with them.

Count your loss. Wish her well (you can even send her a best wishes message to open that communication line back).

Then going forward always play your game right, that is the only way to win!

Nonexisting:
You should be happy that you dodged a bullet. Welcome to the club of "fucck'n'go aka fucklationship" and I hope you don't go back to simpism by entering into another relation. Go carry olosho and celebrate your freedom brother, you deserve it. If you don't have money to carry one, come to our olosho thread and we will gladly contribute money for you. Cheers brother man.

1F30M4:
It must've been tough.. May take some more time to heal but you will be fine

What if you hadn't found out everything & you had continued with the relationship, she would've probably fed you more & more lies(so as not to hurt you lol), strung you along the whole time & one day drop the bombshell on you.. She was "playing" him til he started pulling some strings, they both knew what they wanted.. Her family was very much aware, it was indeed very pleasing to them.. Nothing new, he only just came back for his beloved after expressing his love for her as well as her family when he was in the abroad.

Mowaconfused:

Well, you're right though I didn't feel like I lose anything maybe because I'm so straight and I don't really like depending on anyone . I cut her off myself and she still try to reach me by proxy . Even the day the man enter Naija she let me know . I can still do all these things you listed up there if i really want to . She once said we can still be seeing when the man left but I'm not really into that .

ExpertEDITOR:

Good. Since you said u lose nothing. Just be cool with the babe. Shit happens, this na jungle and every body deh try lookout for him head... She did what was best for her.

Mowaconfused:

Everybody was trying to lookout for him head ,really?
I had nothing when i met this girl and she stay with me through those hard times . Things change for good , you know I can also left her then and go for ladies that match my new standard since everybody dey try lookout for him head but i didn't do that . I did all what we prayed when were struggling ,I kept all my promises. I even told her mom that I'm ready to do introduction but she said her daughter is still young for that ,this was like 6 months ago .

ExpertEDITOR:

The bolded is why men without game will always lose with women. Men by default know what loyalty means... Women don't.

And for her mummy that said her daughter is too young for introduction. She knows what she is doing... Less than a year, same daughter did wedding.

Brother move on... Life happens