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What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by officialwdhtv: 10:24am On May 28, 2021 |
What a man did to his wife of 20years! I think this type of cases have been happening for a long time. What do you think?
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Re: What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by mutter(f): 10:33am On May 28, 2021 |
This is awful. I can understand her pain but the children are not to blame. Accept them in. Let your mothers heart be stronger than the heart of a wife. |
Re: What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by DaddyRochie1642: 11:02am On May 28, 2021 |
This case is strong |
Re: What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by Mindlog: 11:03am On May 28, 2021 |
mutter: If the woman intends to separate from the husband, then the man has to be both the father and mother to his children and can get the in-laws from his late wife to assist in providing care. 2 Likes |
Re: What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by Richy4(m): 11:11am On May 28, 2021 |
The guy should pick a job in secret service agent... I mean... Lord have mercy...20yrs no clue from the wife? or she was probably not fishing.. 2 Likes |
Re: What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by gentlestdude(m): 11:27am On May 28, 2021 |
Lies from the pit of hell |
Re: What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by Klass99(f): 11:56am On May 28, 2021 |
6 Likes |
Re: What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by Biglittlelois(f): 12:09pm On May 28, 2021 |
Laws have mercy, evil men abound on this earth.... 2 Likes |
Re: What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by Biglittlelois(f): 12:14pm On May 28, 2021 |
mutter: Seems as if you've been in this situation before, or you are a living experience, and you want others to follow your path yes? No, she does not have to accept the kids if she doesnt want to, the husband should serve as the mother and father to the kids since he can comfortably keep their existence from her for 20 years. 6 Likes |
Re: What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by Richy4(m): 12:25pm On May 28, 2021 |
Klass99: But when you say fear men... E come be like say na all of us... I mean, I can't possibly hide something like this without giving away the body language... My facial expression tells anyone around me when I'm sad or happy or in my jovial and cheeky natural self.. I wish I was made just a little like all this guys... I mean not cheating parse but these guys can bury someone and nobody will know because their body language was bammm!!!... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by poshestmina(f): 12:32pm On May 28, 2021 |
My mum's friend husband had 3 kids (all girls ) without his wife's knowledge until he died . This was an elder in the church . Burial day ,the kids came with their mum . . He wanted Sons from the other woman as his wife gave him 5 daughters ,the hidden one gave him 3 daughters so he abandoned them till he died . True life story !!! 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by Klass99(f): 12:54pm On May 28, 2021 |
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Re: What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by Winneygirl(f): 1:12pm On May 28, 2021 |
The one who died is the real wife. You are just the "side wife", you just dont know it. 5 Likes |
Re: What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by Nobody: 1:13pm On May 28, 2021 |
Paul says it is good to marry but it is even better to remain single. The Men around these days are not worth cohabiting with. Now, the woman doesn't know if shes the main wife or the deceased is the main wife. 3 Likes |
Re: What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by RightToReject(m): 1:25pm On May 28, 2021 |
A perfidious spouse deserves no mercy, and meting out the worst form of revenge she has in her arsenal will help bring him to reality, assuming it's the kind of revenge he can survive, provided that she has been fair to him from the inception. 2 Likes |
Re: What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by GboyegaD(m): 1:35pm On May 28, 2021 |
That level of double dealing is high. What has he gained from this? 1 Like |
Re: What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by ibechris(m): 1:37pm On May 28, 2021 |
Just the way APC is helping to run Niger republic with our money...same way ur husband used his manhood to help another woman without u knowing. Abomination! What a terrible man. 1 Like |
Re: What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by GboyegaD(m): 1:37pm On May 28, 2021 |
poshestmina: No vex, why would the other woman marry him because she think she can give him sons? I have heard such stories and they still amuse me. 2 Likes |
Re: What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by socialmediaman: 1:38pm On May 28, 2021 |
Not to excuse the man’s behavior but it takes a lot of negligence and lack of commitment for a woman not to know her husband has another family elsewhere. They’re probably disconnected from each other, don’t care about each other that much and too busy for each other. 1 Like |
Re: What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by Richy4(m): 1:47pm On May 28, 2021 |
Klass99: I don't think post offices were lucrative in my Country.. I would have asked if you were a permanent staff in Post Office.... The way you were posting this perfect gentlemen .... Some were climbing the mountain top just to be with you even when the road was unmotorable to put a smile on your face.. that counts for something abi? I was told once by a female colleague that it was really hard to be a woman... that statement really got me thinking...Funny enough, it was a white lady that said it... She said she get hits upon by married men a lot more than the single guys as if there was a placard that says Married men I'm available ... in that discussion, One said that any week she wasn't hit upon, she will double check if something was wrong with her or may be she was loosing it... So on behalf of the good guys Out there, who feel that u shouldn't be harassed too much without "cause", we apologize... 1 Like |
Re: What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by crackhaus: 2:03pm On May 28, 2021 |
At least he didn't (and can't) trick the woman into raising/emotionally investing on kids she didn't birth. He ran both families separately and probably provided for them adequately. If na woman, she will carry another man's children and give to her husband to be spending his money and affections on for years. If there was a meter for measuring levels of evil, I believe we can all agree that the latter case is on level 10. Las las, everyone gotta be smart... 5 Likes |
Re: What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by Klass99(f): 2:12pm On May 28, 2021 |
Re: What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by cococandy(f): 2:28pm On May 28, 2021 |
Winneygirl:yup |
Re: What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by cococandy(f): 2:30pm On May 28, 2021 |
He’s a widower from losing his real wife, she’s gotta consider herself a widow now because she never had a husband. Kick him out. 4 Likes |
Re: What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by Nobody: 2:34pm On May 28, 2021 |
Hmmm |
Re: What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by mariahAngel(f): 2:54pm On May 28, 2021 |
poshestmina: The most unfortunate thing in life is to be fortunate and never know/realize how fortunate you are. I bet he was never happy while alive. |
Re: What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by Biglittlelois(f): 3:05pm On May 28, 2021 |
socialmediaman: The negligence and lack of commitment must have started from the man, and a typical African man may have shut her down or dismissed her complaints, do you expect her to keep complaining for 20years? She probably did what was right for her sanity-she removed face too and probably suspected he has a side chick thinking the phase will end one day, don't you think along the line the husband must have mended fences and try to live peacefully with her and maliciously, deceptively pretending all is fine when he has another family outside? Why do you think he tried to beg her after everything was in the open? Because he is an evil human who has multiple personality disorder, he is a saint at home and a cunning snake outside. Remind me again how the wife is at fault here 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by socialmediaman: 3:46pm On May 28, 2021 |
Biglittlelois: For now the story is one sided. Like I said, the man did very wrong by cheating on her and I am not excusing his actions, but that’s not the whole story. She hasn’t told us the whole truth about how she didn’t know her husband was seeing someone else for those number of years. How can a man successfully hide his tracks for that long? Was she too busy to notice? Did they lose their love for each other and just decided to stay together for the kids? |
Re: What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by qtguru(m): 5:26pm On May 28, 2021 |
Some men get mind o, 1 woman is enough headache already |
Re: What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by cococandy(f): 5:43pm On May 28, 2021 |
I’m not surprised he tried to blame her. They are the same ones that advice wives to focus on themselves and their children. Don’t check his phone. Don’t nag him if he goes out too often and stays late. When the wife listens and the result of listening to such advice comes to fruition, she still gets the blame. Sigh Biglittlelois: 2 Likes |
Re: What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by cococandy(f): 5:44pm On May 28, 2021 |
socialmediaman: Yea because the issue is not what the man did but how come the wife didn’t know 4 Likes |
Re: What A Man Did To His Wife Of 20years! by poshestmina(f): 6:30pm On May 28, 2021 |
GboyegaD: They were not legally married. He just settled her in another state and he goes to see them . The other woman came to drag properties with the wife after the burial but she couldn't provide any legal wedding documents or pictures so she was thoroughly disgrace by family members but I think they are taking care of the kids. The wife's kids are all grown ,some are married but the other woman's kids are still below 10. She just put herself in suffer for nothing. Some women ehn! |
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