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Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by Thegoodone13(m): 7:16pm On May 28, 2021 |
Most of women are like that ooo. My wife money is her money. She didn't work for good 7years and I took all responsibility but since she started working, she never declare her salary and no contribution to the house. I never ask her up till now. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by Trust50: 7:16pm On May 28, 2021 |
My guy forget about your wife's money for your own good. If a man is fortunate to have a wife that's financially supportive, good but majority of them won't help. Arrange your life the way you'll live long. Otherwise, you'll die and she'll marry her former boyfriend. Your wife is selfish. And her family contributed in a way by paying for that shop which on the other hand, flares her ego. So pathetic. |
Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by queenfav(f): 7:18pm On May 28, 2021 |
WHOYOUUU:wow! |
Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by Nobody: 7:18pm On May 28, 2021 |
bethyz: |
Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by Omoluabiii(m): 7:20pm On May 28, 2021 |
Im sure your head must be bared, you need a knock. If you leave a crack in your wall, lizards will come in, its a matter of time, snake too will take his space. Seal up the crack, tell her how much you earn! Thats why she is hiding things from you too, she knows you earn more than you re telling her. Her parents re behind the whole drama, they re collectiing back the money they use to get her the shop, they feel like they own the shop tho, and thus they demand the proceeds, afterall they sent her to learn the trade, they ve never let her go, they re successful at that because you as the man is sleeping, if you sleep you get played. First, Tell her your salary, then Set a checker on her, how do you set a checker? Sit her down, tell her that you re going to pay that shop rent only for the last time, that the proceeds from the business will pay for its rent. Give her a year rent for the shop, give her 30k for pre material buying, in any work that she gets, Which is meant to be replaced when the job is completed. Then tell her that the job should pay for light, and minor rapairs, make her accountable for the business, for this first year dont collect anything from her, and make sure that you re the one buying whetever stuff needed at home, pay the house rent, food, light, and school fees yourself, buy her and the childrens cloth. Keep these things done for one year first. Just to test where her money is going to ni. stop the 1k, tell her that at the end of the year, you will like to see how much she made from the business, and how much she spent. Thats how you will know weather you married a human being or a beast.... If you apply these things, she will give you your respect back, she will keep shut, she will know its a checker, then at the end of the year, if she doesnt pull up something reasonable or nothing at all, you just married a beast who sucks blood. You have work to do. Buh i believe she will wise up financially, and support you more if you apply these, i did it worked |
Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by Thegoodone13(m): 7:20pm On May 28, 2021 |
igwebest23:let her go before children come in. I'm passing through the same things but we have three children already. She has more than five of what your wife have in account but I borrowed ordinary 20k last week to settle bill |
Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by Nobody: 7:21pm On May 28, 2021 |
emmnprince: Be positive 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by EndRape2(f): 7:22pm On May 28, 2021 |
What if the man is the first to always Insult the woman, like calling her useless stupid, will the woman warn the man also, or what will a woman with such a man do? Secondly, there is nothing wrong, if a woman ask for the pay of a man, infact it is a must a lady knows what the person she wants to marry earn, same way a man can ask, nothing is wrong in asking how much your partner earn or what job your partner does. uote author=Godada post=102134138] This matter has not gotten to the point of sending her away. Do you have a marriage sponsor? It's time to get them involved. Also you need to call a meeting among the elders to iron out house keeping and management. It is usually a male ego thing as well as a societal responsibility forced on men but at this age, it's not out of place for a woman to contribute to the needs of the family. It's imperative that she contributes to the family welfare or at least she takes care of herself alone this should include her clothing, needs and paying for her shop. If she cant afford to pay for herself it spells she doesn't know what she doing and the shop should be closed. About her insulting you, she should be warned in the strictest manner possible that a repeat cannot be tolerated. On a final note, It's obvious you didn't know what you were getting into. Her asking about your salary and demanding for a shop should have raised red flags. But I can guess you got carried away. It's not wise to spend so lavishly on a wedding when you could have had her choose between wedding and a shop. Your wife is a selfish woman. I hope the elders from both family can resolve this matter. Your marriage is too young for such misunderstanding[/quote] 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by emmnprince(m): 7:23pm On May 28, 2021 |
okine4real: Good one. Shows you & your wife understand una self well! But the bolded in your comment may be misunderstood by those advocate of women must worship their husbands with submission borne out of fear and timidity. One understand your submission well when the whole is read because your statements made the bolded more explanatory. |
Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by sharone21(f): 7:24pm On May 28, 2021 |
Very soon, na ONLY REDPILLERS go dey come Nairaland to open front page with marriage palava and divorces. How many times will I say that redpilling makes many men divorcees. E be like say nature go dey join redpillers with feminists in mind for marriage unknown to the 2. Oversabi jam oversabi in marriage and they are now regretting the union. Again, I repeat, ' it takes 2 FOOLS to make marriage work NOT oversabis'....Only the discerning will understand what I have said. |
Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by emmnprince(m): 7:27pm On May 28, 2021 |
Norphiee: Alright ma. Positivity activated! But it is also good to have idea of the other side of the coin should in case "of incasity." Remember say this life no dey balance no matter how we expect it to balance! |
Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by queenfav(f): 7:28pm On May 28, 2021 |
princewarri1985:You are very wise.This is just the entire truth. |
Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by Tribalism123(m): 7:28pm On May 28, 2021 |
Ogbeni! SLAP HER |
Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by Ghast12: 7:28pm On May 28, 2021 |
Women and girls of nowadays want everything without giving nothing Do not stress yourself because of a women . Send her packing and live in peace. When you go broke they won’t stay with you in the first place 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by EndRape2(f): 7:30pm On May 28, 2021 |
YOU ARE A DISGRACE YOU JUST OPEN YOUR MOUTH WIDE AND ADVICE LIKE MUMU, He should lock shop the woman is using to take care of her self, can you provide or take care of a woman need, s man that said he drops 1k for food, can one k , coook, he should keep an adult at home, an adult with needs, because you marry her, you are a mumu, please do not ever talk on marriage matter, I am sure you do not have a wife, no woman can stay with you. His the man going to take care of her parents,if he stop her from working . uote author=queenfav post=102148469] wow![/quote] |
Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by Jman06(m): 7:31pm On May 28, 2021 |
igwebest23:Oga, please don't pay that shop rent for her. It is simple business sense that a business should pay rents as part of expenditure. This is why I'll rather marry a jobless girl who is submissive to me and can take care of the home front than a working girl whose income will be useless to me. It is annoying knowing that your wife earns income but cannot relieve you of some financial burdens. |
Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by jantman(m): 7:32pm On May 28, 2021 |
emmnprince: A very good slap will can correct her sense |
Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by Jman06(m): 7:33pm On May 28, 2021 |
EndRape2:This one cannot even read. The 1k is not for food but transport to her workshop! |
Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by EndRape2(f): 7:35pm On May 28, 2021 |
Must women are doing what you men did to them, a man that did not show her his salary , is busy doing I want to know all about the woman, when in the first place you started it. author=Thegoodone13 post=102148522] let her go before children come in. I'm passing through the same things but we have three children already. She has more than five of what your wife have in account but I borrowed ordinary 20k last week to settle bill[/quote] |
Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by SAD007(m): 7:35pm On May 28, 2021 |
Send her away, they will never listen, okay okay is all they will be saying, a dry wood can never change.. as long has she has not given birth for you, better make way now becus a woman can do 2thinhg to a man, 1make him wealthy by been productive to the Union or 2 make a church rat by been unproductive to the Union.. imagine u had no job, she will leave u and go away.. igwebest23: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by emmnprince(m): 7:37pm On May 28, 2021 |
jantman: And what if she faints again? |
Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by EndRape2(f): 7:40pm On May 28, 2021 |
ask him how much he drop for food, ,maybe is the woman that cook all food with her money sef, yen yen yen yen, alpha male oshi. with quote author=Jman06 post=102148784] This one cannot even read. The 1k is not for food but transport to her workshop![/quote] |
Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by jantman(m): 7:40pm On May 28, 2021 |
emmnprince: Pour water for her face, she will wake up and come back to her senses |
Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by Jman06(m): 7:43pm On May 28, 2021 |
EndRape2:The man clearly stated that he takes care of food and house rent. |
Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by EndRape2(f): 7:43pm On May 28, 2021 |
After you have beaten.her, you are here lying you shouted at her only, bring your wife here let us ask get questions. Oga, go and meet your church pastor to advice you, most men here are frustrated and damaged they will give you wrong advice. uote author=SAD007 post=102148826]Send her away, they will never listen, okay okay is all they will be saying, a dry wood can never change.. as long has she has not given birth for you, better make way now becus a woman can do 2thinhg to a man, 1make him wealthy by been productive to the Union or 2 make a church rat by been unproductive to the Union.. imagine u had no job, she will leave u and go away.. [/quote] |
Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by Nobody: 7:44pm On May 28, 2021 |
EndRape2: End rape or what ever is ur name. Ur really jumping to conclusions. I never told u I give my wife 1k for food. D 1k is for her transport. Which is more than enough. Infact because my wife is so busy in her shop, she do beg me to go to market for her many times once am back from work. I normally give her money monthly to buy foodstuffs. Infact any time she spent her money on cooking, I pay her back 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by Ten06(m): 7:44pm On May 28, 2021 |
If I hear from her and she confirmed that what you said is true, then she is not your wife but a parasite |
Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by alexola20(m): 7:44pm On May 28, 2021 |
Hard to believe,but I must tell you,she will never change. I can boldly tell you that she doesn't love you as well. |
Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by Nobody: 7:47pm On May 28, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA: Lol.. I'm telling you. The way he first mentioned the swallowing of the red pill cracked me up. I pray he doesn't realize too late. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by EndRape2(f): 7:47pm On May 28, 2021 |
You are an illetrate ooo, according to the law the house belongs to the woman and the kids, you are the one to leave the house for her, Let her go to office of public defender, or take the mumu man to court, illetrates are very many here. if you send her away the court will tell you to provide accomodation for her. Las las you will lose. uote author=Ghast12 post=102148687]Women and girls of nowadays want everything without giving nothing Do not stress yourself because of a women . Send her packing and live in peace. When you go broke they won’t stay with you in the first place[/quote] |
Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by KoshCAD: 7:51pm On May 28, 2021 |
igwebest23:Yet will be Shouting equal right. |
Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by EndRape2(f): 7:51pm On May 28, 2021 |
They need talk sense into the head of the man and the woman also, the two of them need help not only the woman. |
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