sirjamesjnr:
Our society makes it so. Ther are faithful ladies working in hotels. Anyone can mess up anywhere. Know who you are is the key.

Sammy07:



Guy, God bless you for this song.
Just made me to,remember school life.

nelson7777:


Knowing who you are does not mean, you will be in the midst of "CONSTANT TEMPTATION"
if you always have to tell yourself everyday, who you are, you have to realise that there is something inside of you
1. Asking you, who you are
2. Where is this thought coming from
3. I don't think I know you anymore..

Trust me you can keep answering this question everyday for the next 12months
Because TEMPTATION does not have an expiring date..
Don't forget there was a Nigerian female Gospel musician, that's now currently a porn star

NwaAmaikpe:




Your boyfriend is not just an insecure scumbag who is unappreciative of the lenghts you're willing to displease yourself and go to so as not to put a financial strain on him, he is also emotionally colour blind not to see all the red flags that show that you are an undercover whoore whose kpekus is being shared.

The first red flag here is that you are doing a job you don't like just because of the money.
This means you have the propensity to compromise on your standards.

Experience has also taught us that ladies who get their validation from the number of toasters they get spread their legs faster than a baby vulture learning to fly because for them, it is an honour to be even considered desirable.

So as a very beautiful lady who is sure to get a new toaster every single day, it is almost impossible for you to convince me that your boss, the man who is your source of income; the same one who upgraded you from waitress to personal secretary is yet to see the "assets" those other toasters see in you.
(This is me not even wanting to take into cognizance the things male club owners do to their female staff.)

So except you have a Master's degree in Hospitality Management or you are a consultant in Project Management, I am yet to see what other qualification asides an available kpekus that will bring about a female secretary's late night meetings with her boss over the smooth operations of a club; a meeting that will necessitate brainstorming till very late in the night and ends up making them sleep over at work.

Anyone who has been to a club knows that only two things happen in a club; debauchery and more debauchery. Just being in that environment is enough to damage your moral compass.
So a lady who knows she is beautiful and has broken her standard for money will do it again and again. If not for the money, maybe just to sustain her boss's financial favours or appreciate him for promoting her from waiter to his secretary.

And for the information of the naive, there is no human in the world who is incapable of cheating. The only ones who are yet to cheat are the ones that do not have either or both of the following;
i). A reason to.
ii) An opportunity to?

And you have both.

You are not cheating on your boyfriend, the fool is the one cheating himself by being over-protective of the integrity of your kpekus, I only wish he knew that at the extent you've gotten to now, even a big sized padlock and two soldering machines won't keep it shut.

Over to Lalasticlala and the other elders.

nelson7777:

About 10 of my course mates got married to each other,
Most of them are currently outside the country...

bukatyne:
This OP reminds me of when I just finished NYSC and the hotel besides our house released vacancy for a cook and waiter/ another role.

I gathered courage to tell my mum I wanted to apply after reading aspire to perspire ndi start from somewhere

After giving me a withering look for a few minutes and wondering where she got it wrong in my upbringing, the thought disappeared from my head forever and my brain went to default settings

Summary of my story: some jobs are not benefitting for a decent person.

angelfallz:
Lol. Your mum doesn't want you to be a cook?
Cooks make serious money oh. Especially during Christmas seasons. And if you're good, weddings every Saturdays and a host of other events year round.

Cooks don't beg for work rather work begs them.

NwaAmaikpe:




Your boyfriend is not just an insecure scumbag who is unappreciative of the lenghts you're willing to displease yourself and go to so as not to put a financial strain on him, he is also emotionally colour blind not to see all the red flags that show that you are an undercover whoore whose kpekus is being shared.

The first red flag here is that you are doing a job you don't like just because of the money.
This means you have the propensity to compromise on your standards.

Experience has also taught us that ladies who get their validation from the number of toasters they get spread their legs faster than a baby vulture learning to fly because for them, it is an honour to be even considered desirable.

So as a very beautiful lady who is sure to get a new toaster every single day, it is almost impossible for you to convince me that your boss, the man who is your source of income; the same one who upgraded you from waitress to personal secretary is yet to see the "assets" those other toasters see in you.
(This is me not even wanting to take into cognizance the things male club owners do to their female staff.)

So except you have a Master's degree in Hospitality Management or you are a consultant in Project Management, I am yet to see what other qualification asides an available kpekus that will bring about a female secretary's late night meetings with her boss over the smooth operations of a club; a meeting that will necessitate brainstorming till very late in the night and ends up making them sleep over at work.

Anyone who has been to a club knows that only two things happen in a club; debauchery and more debauchery. Just being in that environment is enough to damage your moral compass.
So a lady who knows she is beautiful and has broken her standard for money will do it again and again. If not for the money, maybe just to sustain her boss's financial favours or appreciate him for promoting her from waiter to his secretary.

And for the information of the naive, there is no human in the world who is incapable of cheating. The only ones who are yet to cheat are the ones that do not have either or both of the following;
i). A reason to.
ii) An opportunity to?

And you have both.

You are not cheating on your boyfriend, the fool is the one cheating himself by being over-protective of the integrity of your kpekus, I only wish he knew that at the extent you've gotten to now, even a big sized padlock and two soldering machines won't keep it shut.

Over to Lalasticlala and the other elders.

bukatyne:


In an hotel.

Anyways, I am her daughter so naturally, I am aligned with her in most things.

heniford2:
Super story if u never cheat already

INCREDIBLE007:


Oxymoron

An oxymoron is a self-contradicting word or group of words (as in Shakespeare's line from Romeo and Juliet, "Why, then, O brawling love! O loving hate!".
A paradox is a statement or argument that seems to be contradictory or to go against common sense, but that is yet perhaps still true—for example, "less is more."

Ishilove:

If you call that crap he wrote up there wisdom, then you need to pray to God for wisdom

maraellaa:
May I never jam a broke boyfriend. Waitress me.My sister there are many fishes in the sea. Rich one for that matter. I reject suffering for you